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>>16919719

>regret not going to film school

LEAD WITH FILM, regret it now, regret it forever femanon.

Especially since you are only going to "test" whether or not you like CS, avoid the debt.

>>16919719
>film school

Unless you have Jewish friends who have hollywood connections just study CS,

geezus christ!

>>16919822
Isn't that just a meme? Can't you get into Hollywood with only skill and creativity?

Did she bring this up on her own volition?

You know, usually I'm all for leaving a cheater, but honestly I'd let that slide. It's stupid as fuck, but at least it was just something through a computer screen.

>>16919701
Kinda. She got a little drunk and started saying she was a bad girlfriend and I deserved better because she's "never cheated but did some bad things that would hurt me" and when I asked her what she told me that.

>>16919673
what makes you a pedo?

>>16919673
Why do you need to tell him? Are you concerned you might harm a child?

>>16919679
I fantasize about having sex with girls 7 and under. Whenver I am at a park with my sister and her kid I get a rager seing all these little kids running around

Are you working or studying?

>>16919670
ah yeah i forgot to mention, i am working full time. i also go to the gym three days a week after work

>>16919676
How is your relationship with your colleagues?

Does your work organize non work activities? And do you make an effort to take part in that?

How girls have you actually asked out?
>I want to die because I can't get a gf
Your problem is that you think in memes.

>>16919473
I would say well over 5-10 so far in a span of 4 years.. idk, not necessarily want to kill myself because I don't have a girlfriend.. I feel like dying because I feel unwanted, even by my own family.

>>16919488
Also forgot to mention I'm talking to my ex again, and even she at first seem interested in getting back together, but now she seems like she doesn't which is partly why I'm giving up and saying fuck it.

Read /fit/ sticky

Count the amount of calories you take in.

Go for a jog every morning.

EAT LESS CALORIES THAN YOU BURN A DAY

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>>16919380
Run, faggot. Gtfo out of your little cave and go see that big, yellow ball that most of us call the sun.

Also, 70% of weight loss is nutrition.
Exercisizing won't mean shit if you keep cramming potato chips into your fat face.
Learn2salad. Vinegar dressing, not blue cheese

One more thing - 10 kg = 10 weeks. Any faster and you won't keep the weight off. You're just crash dieting.

> Inb4 buh buh I like my junk food
Then stay fat, weakling.

Knock her up senpai

How attractive is she? Show the link so I can judge.
How good of a girlfriend is she in other areas?
Sometimes the past is the past and she could be devoted to you now if you give her a hard time on it but let it go

>>16919273
Don't be surprised if your friends are urging you to break up so they can attempt to grab a piece of that delicious pie.

>I dont want to be with a slut but then I dont want to hurt her.
What is your definition of a slut? Are you unhappy that she was with others before you or is it that she was paid to do it?

If she's no longer in porn, and you both care for each other, I don't see how it's cucking you. A lot of people throw that term around on here without actually understanding what it means.

What's your purpose again?

>>16919233
go away
lizard people got here first

>>>/x/

>>16919219
You have two options.

1) Tell her, point blank, that you are really through and you would like her to stop talking to you. Unless you do want her to be your friend long term (I advise against this, since she's already going batshit), don't tell her you want to be friends. Tell her you really, truly are over; that it could never work; and that you're moving on and will not communicate further with her. You wish her a good life, and a happy future, but you won't be in it.

Then, cut contact. Completely. Save the chatlogs she sends you onto an external harddrive, including where you told her you no longer want contact with her. Never, ever talk to her again.

2) Ignore her right now. Still save all the messages, but never contact her again, ever, period. If you do, do it only after you know you've both got your shit straight, and do it knowing you may be opening up a can of worms. Eventually, even if she does go through your social media or contact your friends, she'll get bored and move on.

That said, things can go badly in these situations, especially since she has already contacted your friends in the past.

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>>16919244
While she may grow bored and leave you alone, it's unlikely she'll do such without a final lashing out. Consider her, at this point, to be a stranger regardless of your history; she gave up any chance of you two even being friends when she began behaving this way.

She will likely contact your friends. Do not tell her to stop, do not get involved. When THEY talk to you, explain the situation. If you don't think they'll take your side on ignoring her, tell them you had to end it because you didn't want children or to get married, but she did, and that you are having a hard time getting over it but focusing on other parts of your life. They'll at worst think you aren't over her, relay that to her, and likely stop being involved. Don't give anyone any drama to work with.

When that doesn't work out, she may try self-harming. It's unlikely she'll kill herself, or even seriously hurt herself. If this comes up and she tells you, do not contact her. Contact someone who can immediately help her out, like a roommate or relative, or even the authorities. Do not say you'll be there for her, do not try and comfort her, just handle it in a way where she can't be harmed without your intervention.

If she tries to do anything to you, like bad mouth you, destroy your belongings or interfere with your relationships/work, handle it like a stranger did it. Do damage control with people who matter to you, call the police if she does anything illegal, and stay calm.

She's looking for a reaction - either to drag you back in, or make you miserable.

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>>16919244
Both options are great, but I think the first option wouldn't work in the situation I am in. I told her something along those lines the same day we broke up, yet she continues to text me. Honestly, I just want to avoid talking to her until she gets her head out of her ass and acts like a damn woman instead of a child.

The second option is what I'm gonna be doing. I'd be willing to talk to her about this whole thing, but I know that if I talk to her, I'm going to be baited back in being with her. I know I'm going to be guilt tripped like before, which I dealt with for five years in this relationship.

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>>16918834
You're going to have to learn how to take care of yourself with or without your girlfriend.
If she breaks up with you, you'll probably be cooking meals alone and wishing you had just bucked up sooner. It's only an hour out of your day, or less if you make something like stir fry.
If you get good at cooking she will probably get jealous and pick up the slack, most women would prefer to be the best cook in the house.

>>16918857
Yeah, it's not I rely on her. I make 'dinner' at like 4:30 pm for myself. But she won't eat it when she gets home because I put tomatoes in it or it has gluten (She allergic)


She won't eat mushrooms onion ect.

Made me go across the street to get her macdonalds but I talked her into coming.


She wants me to sleep with her every night. We had to talk about a bed time for me, I have to be asleep by 1 am or she gets pissed. Because I have more 'energy'.

It's just really taxing.

>>16918870
I understand :/ relationships can be vexing, but if she's worth it then the effort is well invested.
Doesn't really seem like you'd do everything and anything for her, which isn't an end all for all relationships but is impacting yours.
When I met my boyfriend he was 19, I went through so many WOW and Diablo expansions that it was hell trying to get his attention. For years I put up with the constant gaming until we found a system that works.
He can play late but has to play quietly, no bursting out laughing at 1am with friends on Vent. He plays for 4-5hrs on the weekend but the rest of the time is hanging out or cooking together, more time is spent online as soon as I go to bed on the weekend or weekdays. I take melatonin so he doesn't wake me up when he crawls in. Discuss gaming schedules with her for while she's home, you're not the only one who should have to compromise, but listen to her and act within reason. If you get too uppity she'll feel like you care more about the games than her.
My mum is gluten free and its annoying to cook for her because she's picky on top of it, but I use rice flour, gluten free bisquick, gluten free rice packets and gluten free pasta and make everything from scratch when she's eating with us. You get used to it after a while, it's just a matter of figuring out what she likes.
Cater to her gluten intolerance but any other pickiness and she can have Mcshittys or go without. No need for you to stress yourself out any further than catering to an allergy.

Stop being a whiny retard and keep dating

>>16918829
What is there to see? Like people in that thread said, dating a guy with kids just leads to extreme unhappiness in almost every single case. And you know, the dating pool is pretty much mostly divorced men and most of these men have kids as most people choose to have kids.

>>16918824
Shotgun to the head, get hit by a train...

Lostallhope <---- This site has good coverage of methods.

Unless you're looking for the 'holy grail' (no pain pls) the answer to which is probably not pills, since you're more likely to end up in the hospital with a fucked up liver and kidneys and more pain than you would like.

The shotgun is reported to be the best, since you blow your head off, the pain has no time to register.

>>16918790
my gf has the same problem, shes gotten better since we started living together because she practices all the time with me

>>16918790
That "asianness" is hard to change, it has more to do with facial structure affecting tone. Over time I guess it may help to try and imitate speech and mouth movement of native speakers.

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>>16918822
But a lot of Asians who grew up in America sound fully American.
>>16918820
See? It is a "problem". I absolutely loathe my voice because there is nothing I can do about it. It is something that I am plagued with for my entire life.

My grandmother is borderline. They don't change.

>>16918778

You shuld leave.

4 years lost here.
2 was pure pain. I hoped that love would have helped,and in the end, win.
She went worst till 23 y/o. She had an aout with the same issue gettin in and out hospital.

I did my best, but it dosn't matter.
For once it's not really "about you"

did she get an official diagnosis?

>>16918798

she had an AUNT

>>16918626
It is prostitution but if you're okay with that, then do what you please. Morally, it is shameful.

>>16918626
go to sugardaddy sites
lots of sugarbabies there

>>16918626
Depends if she has to pay and no profit is made then no. Profit is life.

>>16918609
Girls use their phones 24/7, if she didn't reply within 2 hours you should delete her number.

you are friend zoned kill yourself

holy shit guys she just texted me back how long do I wait before replying I dont want to even look at what she said in case it notifies her that I read it