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So my girlfriend started going to the gym about a month ago, which I didn't really care about in the beginning. Recently though she's been talking about how she wants to get "buff" or something to that effect, which worries me a little. She sent me examples of what she's talking about, and it's girls that essentially have the torso, arms and legs of a man. I really don't find that attractive, and I don't think it's healthy to obsess that much over your body image. Working out and staying healthy is one thing, but wanting to look "gym fit" requires a certain lifestyle that I'm not interested in. Not sure if I should actually be worrying about this or not
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>>16922916
you probably should be worried, after a girl undergoes that transformation its super likely that she leaves you for somebody better and fitter
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>>16922924
>better
>fitter
Not sure they're the same thing. Essentially, I don't know whether I should tell her straight up that I don't find it attractive at all, or subtly imply it over time.
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>>16922916
The likelihood that she will get to that point is slim to none. You have to cut so much body fat as a woman to have visible abs, many women don't bother when they notice how long of a road it actually is and get more realistic with their goals.
Honestly just be supportive and give your honest opinion when she asks you if the women in the pics look hot or more attractive than her.
Everyone has an "unhealthy body image", at least hers is fitness related and not anorexia related. Hopefully anyway.
My gf told me she was sexually assaulted and it's all I can think about. What do I do? Why is it so easy for women to be raped?
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Because men are stronger and can use more force. Also women get shocked and don't know what to do while men usually have it all planned.
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The least you could do is give her mental support and get over it together
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>>16922770
Is it even possible to get over something so traumatic
I'm almost at a point where I don't know if I can perform sexually. I don't know if I'll ever be the same
I don't know who to talk to /adv/
My dog is not feeling well, he's been having seizures recently, and the most recent one he had just an hour or so ago has left him slightly paralyzed.
He's been with me for 11 years.
We got him because i'm a clumsy shit who keeps forgetting his house house keys, until one night in winter I waited outside for 5 hours in a thunderstorm until my parents arrived.
They decided that a pup should keep me company.
In truth, I was a bit of a shut-in during highschool, I really had no one to talk to during my time, so my dog would keep me company, at least he was someone to talk to, I finished school in 09, then went to uni, flunked out, fucked up here and there, but at least I had my dog, we went on great adventures together when I finally got my 4wd.
I just left him at the vet and he's currently under surveillance overnight.
I don't know what to do /adv/ what can I do? I just want my dog back
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>>16922737
My dog passed away fairly recently to some sort of hearth disease, but it didn't shake me all that badly because I was somewhat prepared for it.
All you can really do is make the most of it and spend whatever time you can playing, petting and taking care of him. That way you'll regret less about not being able to spend enough time with him and have some sweet memories of him for the rest of your life. Dogs really love their owners don't let him suffer these times alone.
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>>16922765
I can get a week off work, Im thinking just to take him places, along the east coast, have bbq's on the beach, swim with him a bit, like when he was a pup..
I was thinking on where to bury him, but I can't bring myself to organizing it.
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Prepare yourself. You have to be the adult. You want what's best for him and sometimes that means we put pets down (when resources are exhausted and they are in excruciating pain). Great idea to go have fun and make some excellent memories.
You don't have to bury him. Can do cremation then scatter or keep ashes.
Good luck, OP. Rainbow bridge and all that.
theres a girl I thought was really into me but for a handful of weird reasons I'm now worried she might be a lesbian. I'm concerned that maybe I misread the signals that made me think she liked me because I've fallen so hard for her and saw what I wanted to see.
we're going on what I thought was a date soon, but it might just be her thinking that its 2 friends hanging out.
what's something I can do to tell if shes a lesbian or actually romantically interested in me other than something like going in for a kiss which would be really inappropriate if she actually is lesbian and thought we were friends hanging out the whole time
right now I'm thinking about steering the conversation towards LGBT and seeing how she responds, after that maybe trying to bring up boyfriends in some way
any tips guys
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>>16922605
Meh, she might even be bi - more chance for a threesome mate :D
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>>16922616
I like her in a long term relationship way, I want to be her boyfriend not just have sex
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>>16922605
True lesbians don't exist. If you dick her well enough she'll go back to normal.
Do girls like it when a guy sucks and plays with their tits? I've been avoiding spending much time with my girlfriends tits because I feel like it would be weird for me to just suck on them. I don't know how to do it like I get really anxious and I feel weird doing what a baby does basically but ever since I was a kid Ive always had an obsession with tits and now I'm too self conscious and retarded to know how to do the job properly. Whats a suitable amount of time to spend playing with a girls tits? how should the job be done?
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You're right, its exactly what a baby does which is why girls don't like it because they find it weird unless theyre into kids and shit in which case find a new girl
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>>16922539
All girls are different, but.
I like making my boyfriend happy. Even if I'm not super into something (and having my tits sucked on is something that doesn't turn me on because my boobs aren't sensitive), I let him do it if I know he likes it.
Just be sure it's not your main focus. You can suck on her tits and finger her, or do it briefly enough (around 30-45 seconds?) that it doesn't become annoying.
Also, playing with boobs is relaxing. I like when me and my boyfriend are on the couch and he plays with my boobs even if nothing sexual happens.
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I love kissing and touching them (including sucking on the nipples). I guess its dependent on the person. Why be insecure? Just do what you feel like doing, you'll notice if she does not like it.
Also:
I genuinly dislike it when my gf grabs my dick. Hell I don't even like grabbing it myself.
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How do i stop hating women and having an automatic disdain and a guard against them?
Things like is she a slut, i bet shes had more than 4 sex partners, shes manipulative and selfish and so on just pop up in my head when i think about getting close to a girl.
Am i wrong in thinking this, i dont feel wrong. What can i do to change this
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spend time with real women instead of reading about how terrible they are on 4chan
like seriously, most women arent the raving psycho cunts 4chan, /b/ and /r9k/ make them out to be
some certainly are, but those are fairly easily identifiable
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You don't because in today's entitled feministic society you are right in most cases. Just keep a business like relationship with them and keep your distance. If you are attracted to a girls personality and see that she's a genuinely good person, only then should you trust them somewhat.
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>>16922440
>spend time with real women instead
what are real women?
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so i started fucking whores and it takes me about an hour and a half to get off, which usually requires her to jack me off fanatically
BUT, since i watched porn for so long i'm used to certain type of stimulation, and when i stick it in i start losing erection due to head stimulation. i mean i can still fuck but i dont get fully erect
So the question is, am i too sensitive or not sensitive enough ? If i make my head more numb will i be able to cum at all ? given that if i jack off to porn normally i cum pretty fast, but if i get some lube and try to jack it off in the shower with head stimulation it's just too sensitive and i can never get off if i rub it
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>>16922090
You clearly need to fap less
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>>16922097
This.
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For a lot of guys, they jerk off in the same position for years and years. You have your own rhythm and style, and you're used to it; your body is used to it.
So, when you're fucking, and you're not in the "right" position, it can make it hard to cum. For instance, if you're always jerking off in a chair, you might have some trouble with missionary. You'll probably have any easier time trying to find a position that is the most similar to how you masturbate.
Also, fair warning, if you're using too much pressure on your dick then you can lose some sensitivity. You can't use a "death grip" when you're jerking off otherwise a real vagina might not feel tight enough.
Best thing to do is stop masturbating and looking at porn for 2-3 weeks; give yourself a reset.
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Need quick advice, my girlfriend is fucking obsessed with undertale, she also draws a lot, so these two things have been making my life hell for the past couple of months.
She even has an OC that she ships with one of the characters and man, the whole thing is embarrassing but I just love her so much.
I'm not sure what to do or how to tell her I think undertale is dumb and her drawing an OC that looks like her is creepy.
Besides this everything has been straight cash money for the past 3 years. I'm just really at a loss on how to approach this.
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>>16922054
You should obsess over it with her, but take it to an extreme. It's how fan bases have ruined things for years. Eventually after watching you ruin her enjoyment of the game, she'll realize exactly what she put you through and how autistic she was being.
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>>16922068
I'm not sure if that will work, her friends are equally autistic over this shit and it's cringe-worthy to be around them.
If she didn't make me so happy I would refuse to even sit at the same table with them because they're aspie level already.
But if your plan does work how would I do it without coming off as a fake douchebag to her.
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Just ignore it? Or when she starts fanbitching over Undertale (over under haha), just go do something else or be like "wow you talk about that a lot, I just cant get into it"
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I'm not transsexual... 2016-03-16 05:17:09 Post No.16921970
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I think? I'm 20 years old now, I always thought that I am attracted to women, but lately it's become very apparent that I don't want to have a female partner but rather I want to be that part in a relationship and in society.
The thing is, the internet and especially 4chan has planted paranoia into my head that this is all a fad, a mental illness, or just bullshit in general. That transsexuality doesn't actually exist and that I just want to be a special snowflake.
I'm very confused, and if it turns out that I actually am transsexual then this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me, I'm 6'3'' with really wide shoulders, a thick beard, lots of body hair, etc. There is absolutely no way that I could possibly live my life as a woman, I'd just turn into a freak.
Help, I don't know what to do.
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>>16921970
> I don't want to have a female partner but rather I want to be that part in a relationship and in society.
What do you mean by this?
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>>16921975
I've adored and admired women all my life, I always thought that this was normal attraction for the opposite gender. But I'm pretty sure that it is more of a longing after those qualities, a bit of jealousy because I can't be that way. I don't think "man I wish I could fuck that girl", I think "man, I wish I could BE that girl".
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>>16921970
You have a bad case of gender dysphoria. Just go get some hormones. They have a special medication for that, search out some counseling with a transgender specialists. They will be more able to guide you through the process of transformation. Please don't commit suicide like many idiots.
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>be with gf for 2 years
>very manipulative, likes to get a reaction out of me and get her way
>both started college
>she says she met some guy
>been instigating arguments and trying to piss me off over trivial things
>makes belittling comments
>tries to get in the way of my studying as much as she can (even though she knows I NEED to study)
>have argument because she rocked up to the library where I was studying and says she waiting in her car for half an hour even though I told her I was studying
>tries to bring me down and lately its been getting heated because I over her shit
>the other day after an argument she deletes me off fb and blocks me
>ring me a few hours later making up
>its been a week and she still hasnt added me back on fb, I ask her why and she changes the subject every single time
feels like something is wrong, what am I not getting here?
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So why don't you dump her ass?
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Dude, just dump her. No pussy is worth the mind games.
PROTIP: she hasn't added you back because she is cheating on you. That's why she starts so many fights to give herself space. Block her right back. Next time she texts you be all like
> Who is this?
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>>16921927
>be with gf for 2 years
>very manipulative
Not even going to read past this. Just why.
Hello /adv/
In about a months time I'll be 23 graduating with an engineering degree in Canada. I have spent 6-24 hours each day of the past 15 years playing video games. The few times I've worked on things by myself I've done them wrong over and over without realizing what I'm doing wrong. I have a poor gpa, no work experience, no internship, and poor relations with my profs. Killing myself is an option but I want to give my parents some money or some happiness that their only off spring didn't become a failure because they have done so much for me. I've heard that I may be suffering from ADHD and should consult a doctor to be tested. Most days I can't get out of bed because I'm filled with regret from all of the mistakes I've made and end up just playing more video games. The majority of people that i know that jobs lined up or are searching for jobs while I'm putting off re-writing my resume to play more games. I applied for 4 jobs while most have applied for over 20 at this point and was rejected after my only interview. I had delusions of grandeur before but I'm just a loser.
Is there anything I can do or should I just accept I can do nothing for myself or my parents and put a 12 gauge slug through my worthless brain?
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>>16921863
>Canada
>12 gauge slug
You wish you were free enough to do that
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bro I'm 23 and getting a poli sci degree. you think you have problems? you're going to be fine. keep applying
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>>16921866
gun license since I was 20
you got anything real to say outside memes?
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I've an IQ of around 135-150, yet I continue to do stupid shit. I'm also a lazy fucker. I smoke weed. I have no gf even though I'm easily a 6/10 looks wise. I'm funny-ish, and friendly, but still find myself alone at the PC most nights.
Wtf is wrong with me? Why do people (I) let their shit go to shit when the potential for improvement is infinite?
Have I been brought up badly?
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IQ means fuck all. I have an IQ of 130, and I'm working an entry level sales position. A girl who supervises our managinf branch didn't know what "nautical" was until my co-worker explained to her and she makes like $65k a year.
Another disadvantage you have with an above average IQ is that virtually no one will feel relatable to you. So you probably can't get a girlfriend because no one understands you, and you don't understand anyone either.
Being lazy, i can't help you either. I'm lazy. I dropped out of community college because I don't know what I want to do with my life.
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> I'm smart but lazy
If you were truly smart you would know doing nothing is a waste of time and stop doing it.
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Self help people have been analyzing and deconstructing this issue for years (and trying to monetize it as well).
your struggle is not abnormal.
however very few people are motivated to self improve just by the act itself.
Self improvement happens on a path TO something for the vast majority of us.
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how hard is it to get fit at home?
i'm 20, f, 170cm, 52kg. I have never worked out a day in my life. i'm too scared to go to a gym to work out too, but i really want to change my lifestyle to get out of this funk i'm in. i have no idea how to start, been reading fitness subreddit and /fit/ but it's pretty overwhelming...
i only own a single pair of 5lbs weights that i can barely lift. i'm so weak and skinny, i want to just get up and start today, but it's so easy to say i'll do it tomorrow. i can buy some dumbbells sure, but i'm not ready to go to a gym and work out regularly. I'm just too scared of people. i need motivation. i seriously have no idea how to even start working out. i tried lifting weights earlier and it felt like i was doing it wrong, even after watching vids/reading on proper form.
i know this has been asked to death but...how do i get started???
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it helps a ton if you can get a workout partner, someone you're somewhat friendly to. It helps if you're a bit competitive too, you'll push yourself.
if no partner you'll just have to find the motivation in yourself. If you really want it, you'll do it
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>>16921754
You can go to work on my dick girl
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>>16921769
Well i want to work out with my mom. she is very overweight and has a ton of health issues because of it so i want to help her get fit but i also really want to get fit myself. i just have no idea where to start or how to build a plan for myself.
>>16921771
wats ur #
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>dating someone with debt.
Hey. I'm 27, shes 25. She has 50grand in debt + credit card. I have a full time job I can support myself no prob. On the other hand my gf of 2 years is going to be paying off university debt for a long time.
Here is my thing. At some point if we are still dating. She will want to have kids and won't be able to work. So who is stuck with the cheque at the end?
Anyone in this situation ?
I fucking never thought that this was an actual thing. They never told me this shit in school. -oh yeah btw whatever you do in the future you will be paying the debt of your other half.
im not even trying to sound like a dick. but fuck.
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>>16921593
If you get married then the debt becomes yours in effect. If you have kids you're going to be on the hook for child support, possibly even alimony if she was a stay at home mother.
A real man wouldn't care about this, do you also have problems with your penis size?
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>>16921607
>A real man wouldn't care about this, do you also have problems with your penis size?
wow a real man wouldn't care? I didn't plan for this shit. I was told men and women are equal. Someone going to university knows they have to pay their shit off from the job they get.
no. my dick is big
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Could she fake her own death and get out of the debt that way?
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I've always heard people tell me that females make bad friends, and this year I've figured out how fucking wrong that is.
I go to college, and transferred here with no friends. Because the best parties always try to maintain an evenish boy/girl ratio (something I noticed in NYC clubs), I figured I'd make a group of female friends asap.
I did just that. The biggest benefit by far was that these female friends, who I have kept EVERYTHING very platonic with, have helped me get so many girls this year that it's absurd. They wing man for me, they introduce me to new hot girls all the time, and they are just awesome in general. I just treat them like my guy friends; I make jokes, be open and talk about things that are important to us... you know, I treat them like PEOPLE!
So yeah, if you are desperate to get girls, start by making some female friends or some gay male friends.
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give it time.
either you fall for one of them or they fall for you or one of the bf's think you're suspicious and that's where shit starts.
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>>16921517
Good advice here.
If you are able to treat someone like they actually matter, and understand they're human just like you, that will bleed over into successful relationships. You'll have the perspective not to get super thirsty over every girl and just think they're a hole to pound away at.
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>>16921523
One of them tried to kiss me during week 3 of the first term. She just pulled me aside, kissed me, and I told her I wanted to be platonic and she was very sad I wouldnt dance with her.
She's over that now. Why? Because I we sat down and had a direct conversation about the issue instead of beating around the bush. Good communication can solve just about EVERY issue when it comes to things like that.
>>16921526
Excellent; you get it.