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By the way, I meant I don't tell her I'm dissatisfied and demand she eats better and works out. I only meant I'm trying to ease into it with suggestions and we can do it together so I'm not calling her out.

>>16918416
I think you're doing well being subtle - it's never a good idea to tell a girl she needs to lose weight.

Maybe next time you two sleep together, let her do most the work? Sex does burn a lot of calories after all.

Do exercise at home. Jog, do aerobics, buy a few weights or even something like a treadmill. Finish off workouts with sex and a shower.

>>16918412
You're a fucking idiot if you don't know what to do.

If you can't do college 3 times just get a job at KFC and be a wage slave.

You will never leave your home country.

Get your shit together and get the fuck off of 4Chan.

or kill yourself

If I knew where you were i'd cut you, bitch

>>16918450
>I got at least that far myself
>it's not like I dropped out, long story short the government cucked me once and my parents each lost their home (divorced) while I was staying for the first semester
>k
>that's the first sensible thing you've shit out
>been down that road too many times, bored of it
>you'd try

>>16918466
>cucked

Yeah, you're destined for failure.

>>16918387
Why'd you introduce them if you were going to be this paranoid? And do you not trust either of them?

>>16918391
I didn't think anything until I mentioned it another friend . That friend then called me an idiot, saying I shouldn't have done that since he might like my best friend more.
I trust them both, but what that other friend said made me a little paranoid.

>>16918387
I'm afraid the only solution is for you to have a threesome..

You and your mom needs therapy, you need to get a job. Fix your sleeping schedule and start doing more activities like going for a run or a simple walk. Suicide ain't the answer. Also if you were to an hero, your mom would fall into deeper depression. So dude, get yourself together and fix your life.

>>16918350
that's probably one of the things keeping me alive
if i kill myself, it will bring only more suffering to my family
it's hard being 18 years old, no experience and trying to find a job
but i do try, god knows i do

>>16918365
That's good, keep it up. You're still young, you have your whole life before your eyes. There's lots of people who have been at the edge of life and still brought themselves up at the very top. If they can do that, so can you.

>>16918241

Google EXIF data. It's data pulled from whatever device you took the photo with, which you've often probably registered with a name or something. It can even include location data, if taken with a phone or something. It's easy to clear though.

Did you grab the pic off your facebook?

Well the filename is always right above the image. See? The one you have here is "fuggme.png"

So, was the filename of the image you posted on the other board your real name? If so, you fucked up.

>>16918238
You aren't trans. You just don't fit in. A lot of people don't.

Don't mutilate your body; just look for people that you feel understand you better.

>>16918238

this is probably one of the worst places to explore this, anon.

especially with people hyper sensitive against those so called 'trans' who have decided it for themselves and not done anything reassigning, or had the first word with a doctor about things, but still want to talk like they know something and can shame everyone else.

time to talk to the mental doctors that put you on this path again about your current mental state. They are best equipped and know the most about what you've done.

>>16918265
This.

I am a female and do not relate to other girls I just realised that my hobbies did not fit a label so people were not prone to understand. Over time I found people who also had hobbies they enjoyed without falling under sterotypes and labels. Find people who are passionate about their hobbies or live and breathe for them then you will find your people and will learn a lot more about yourself. Enjoy yourself OP you are you do need not labels.

Drawing here, when I make a project I set a goal for something I want to improve. Say I really want to improve my rendering skills so I pick a subject I know I have issues with sometimes. An example being skin and armor once I write down what I want to generally accomplish I will brainstorm quick 5 min drawings for the composition of the piece usually I will do 10 of these. Onice I have that I make a pallet mix colours on a layer and then start adding to it. I only find I will scrap a peice if I am not accomplishing my goal of slowly improving.

Do Anon is your goal to get good to show others your work or to get good for yourself? To be happy you need to get good for yourself first and create a base then you can get good to share with others.
If you get good for others first you will never be happy with your work.

>>16918243
>Do Anon is your goal to get good to show others your work or to get good for yourself? To be happy you need to get good for yourself first and create a base then you can get good to share with others.
>If you get good for others first you will never be happy with your work.


well that's the problem. I've worked on things for years and never been happy with them. I have pretty low self esteem and i constantly compare myself to professionals / etc, even if someone tells me it's good i still don't usually believe them. But i'm tired of doing it, i've been doing it forever. I mean ffs, in 9th grade i spent hours upon hours making a minecraft texture pack, and when i was nearly finished i thought it looked bad and basically scrapped the whole thing. Same with every other creative endeavor i've ever done. this one i really want to finish and release but it's really ambitious. It's gonna require more than just me, and i don't know if i want to show off my work to friends who will need to be a part of it.

Analysis paralysis.
That's what keeps me going. It's hard to do something while analyzing it.

>how / when do you feel satisfied with something you've made?
when I finished it and review it. You set your own standard and if you can accomplish that (within the time limit, deadlines) you'll be a happy man. I usually left one day open before deadline for rework or some feedback.

>How do you get out of the comfort zone of imagination and make it a reality?
you just do it. Your comfort zone is the initial state when you do nothing at all and let your mind delude you. As if you had done a perfect version of it inside your head. And you won't work on it because it is perfect in your head. There's this big gaping void between your head and your hand. Even the act of making is a lesson itself.
>idea
>test it out (make it)
>analyze
>if it's bad go back to ideation
>rinse and repeat until you're satisfied or deadlines, whichever comes first

>How can I tell myself my art is good enough to show to the public?
when you're happy with what you do. You can't satisfy people. Even if you get a good crit, if you're not happy with it then it means nothing you.

>Should i tell some close friends for motivation, or keep it all a secret until i'm eventually satisfied??
never, ever show something unfinished to your friend. Like I said, analysis paralysis. Sure it's good to get some feedback, but most of the time they probably don't know what to "suggest" and say things within their own perspective. Only a handful of person give great advice or even get what's inside your head.
Find a person that you can rely on to get good feedback (mentor, senior, artist that you like, etc).

>>16918185

>petite

doesn't matter.

even a flat girl can highly sexualise herself through body contact and body language, and especially relative positioning.

>What is wrong with me?

Nothing. You were lucky enough to end up with an extremely mild and common fetish. Even with this you still might not even be far enough down the homosexual spectrum to qualify as bi.

Many, many people have much more unusual things turn them on for no discernible reason, and while I'm sure your issue is annoying and maybe a little confusing, it's nothing to be ashamed about. You could have ended up with a vore or piss fetish or something. I'd just suggest avoiding weird porn if you can help it and otherwise embracing your attraction to animated breasts.

Female here I am not even gay and I like anime titties. Enjoy yourself and use protection when touching genitals. Enjoy your exploration friend.

>>16918151
jesus i fucked up that second sentence bad, it's meant to read like this
>The money is good when I'm getting work, but when the industry is slow (this will happen every summer) all i can do is live off savings.

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>>16918151
>Summers are slow
I don't know how it is there, but HVAC techs get a stupid amount of work during summer here. Maybe you can look into that.

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Night classes

>>16918135
I don't make enough to buy a car, and I don't have my GED yet. That is another thing I am horrified about. I have always sucked ass at math.

Today I worked on front counter and barely made it through without having an anxiety attack.

18 years old and I can't fucking subtract decimals on the fly in my head.

Have you considered skilled trade? Amerifag here; welders, machinists and certified workers make great money for minimal investment/training.

>>16918121
lol

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Unfollowed? Jeez, do you want a notarized letter?

>>16918130
How about a restraining order?

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Date other girls and see if she gets jealous

Ask her out and you'll have an answer. If you don't, you'll keep wondering if you should have just asked

>>16918139
How do I do it? Do I just start off a conversation and talk about something for a little while then bring it up or what?

>>16918114
funfact: future employers wont even care what your undergrad degree even is, much less that you had to retake some classes

>>16918123
Is this true if I'm a Psychology major?

>oh the irony

Also, my psychiatrist recommended temporary hospitalization if that's relevant

>>16918085

If she is really that big of a threat to where you suspect her of murder, you need to report her to the police or whoever the authority is in your town. Make an anonymous report, say you fear for your life. You can still tell them about what you saw with the others. Get this girl on a radar.

>femanon here

Why does it fucking matter

Jesus

>>16918087
I have no evidence and she is extremely manupliative she is very attractive and uses that. Knowing her she start crying and saying I was an ex or something. She is very sneaky and clever. She easily be able to hide her trail. She has no clue where I went because my family moved. I have not been bothered in 3 years now which is good but I feel really guilty that I know what she is capable of and she is out there hurting people.

Who knows, but it sounds like it's time to hit the gym.

>>16918080
I'm pretty big already, and much much larger than her so, maybe your right I need to get even bigger

Neither, it's natures way of trying to get her killed off because she's crazy.