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How do you approach a chick you not really have a connection with?
So okay, there is a chick that i like, but we don't really have any connection really. Usually, if i liked a girl we had some sort of a connection, such as mutual friends/class together/whatever and i never really approached a girl by myself in that way before, all chicks that liked me have approached and asked me out by themselves. I have rejected many, because i am too picky i guess and now im 18 and virgin, but whatever, thats not the point.
The point is:How do i approach a chick i don't know? Just come over and start talking to her? Won't that scare her/push her away? Also i think that she is friends with the chick that liked me like 2 years ago, should i ask that girl for help?
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Stride over
Stick out hand
Say, "Hi, my name is ________, what's yours?"
as you shake her hand
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>>16918049
>now im 18 and virgin
Lord sweet Jesus. No one cares. Stop telling women this. No one cares. Literally. NO ONE.
There is too much pressure on a guy for being a n00b.... but jesus man... just fuck her. she won't care. seriously. for real. stop kidding yourself. you're not in a ROMCOM.... just.... fuck her, enjoy it, she'll enjoy it, and get out. get it over with.
you are putting too much value on it. just fuck her and get it done.
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I talk to myself. An unhealthy amount. I try to keep it to times when I'm 100% sure I'm alone, but there have been a few instances where I've slipped up and unintentionally spoken to myself around other people.
I'd like to stop because I know it's seen as a sign of insanity. I don't think I'm insane, although I might be who knows. Either way I'd like to stop.
advice?
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Just take note of it when you do. Keep noticing it. You'll stop.
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Meditation
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My brother (used to) do that even when not alone.
I do that too but not yet when I'm not alone.
I know that the reason behind these actions is that we ask ourselves too many questions, like whether this was a good or not decision.
I'd advice to not turn to the past or future but rather the present. And if you can, shut your brain or let it do the reasoning without words.
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So I have a fear of guns and a distrust of cops. I've always been scared of guns and in my experience, cops have always done more harm than good. However, my boyfriend is very pro-gun and he's about to begin training at the police academy. I guess my thing is that I'd like to get over both my fear and my distrust because I care about him and I don't want to be scared anymore, plus my fear of guns makes me feel like a huge wimp. Are there any ways to do this or just overcoming fear in general?
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First, you need to figure out where the fear comes from.
Why are you scared of guns?
Do you have any specific situations that make you distrust the police?
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>>16917979
Why are you afraid of cops? They're literally there to protect you.
The best way to overcome fear is to confront it. Go shoot a gun at a range, get training... maybe start with something simple, like a BB Gun or .22 that couldn't really hurt you or anyone else if you tried. Just get comfortable.
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>>16917985
>Why are you afraid of cops? They're literally there to protect you.
I'm black
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Neuropsychology eval. 2016-03-15 05:07:04 Post No.16917971
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Any psychologists or neuropsychs here?
I recently completed a battery of neuropsychological tests and the examiner found several learning disabilities in addition to depression. They said I needed disability accommodations in college and I should get career counseling though my state's vocational rehab. Dept.
Here are the diagnoses:
Axis 1: depression, delayed sleep phase, adhd, dyscalculia (sequencing), residual language disability
Axis 2: deferred
Axis 3: n/a
Axis 4: emancipation, career planning
Axis 5: GAF 70
In spite of all this, I have an IQ in the superior-very superior range.
How fucked am I?
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>I recently did these online surveys! Somebody validate them!
No you fucknose, if you were actually evaluated you'd be listening to the doctors right the fuck in front of you, not random shithead #8 from the internet.
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>>16917975
No I'm posting here just to see what people think. I've already heard my doctor's opinion.
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It entirely depends on what you want to do with your life, and if you actually do it. If you want something badly enough you can have it.
Two years ago I was diagnosed with PTSD, temporary psychosis, and depression, scored a 42 on GAF. I'm doing much better now and am starting the path towards becoming an MD.
It really depends on whether you're willing to seriously examine yourself and start making changes. I have an IQ S/B scale of 132, and that didn't stop me from dropping out of school the first time round. Stop telling yourself you're smart. It's not useful and will give you a false sense of accomplishment. You're only as smart as you act.
w-what rule did my thread violate ;___;
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all, probably
stupid kike mods
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the cuck thread?
it was 300 posts of pure flamebait
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>>16917966
no the selling-self-as-a-housewife-over-the-internet one lel
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I have a bipolar gf. she is maniac, she got medication now. but i still feel its not her. how much time i have to wait to get her back? she says she love me and wants to be beside me. but it sound like lies, like she is mocking me. i need help. i dont know what to do.
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My mom is bi polar. I tell her I love her and sometimes it makes her angry. I have met a couple bi polar people they are like regular people only their emotions sometimes do not fit the situation and it is not really how they feel. After a while of being with her when she acts out you will be able to tell what she really feels when she acts out its like her mind gets trapped behind as unrelated emotions take over. If you show you love her and do things because you want her to be comfortable it will help you be able to get to the point I am with my mom where I can tell how she really feels and try to get rid of whatever set her off.
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How long have you been together? And do you have any of your own issues? If you're paranoid about how she really feels, you can't be the stable one in the relationship. Two unstable people can't work together well to solve things.
Medication can vary. Sometimes people need to switch meds because they aren't working.. Bipolar will still be a problem and still cause issues, even when treated. It doesn't cure it or make it go away.
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>>16917945
Run away. Run very far away.
Mentally ill people like this are not worth the time or tears, and you'll need plenty of both.
Leave unless you're a completely unattractive neckbearded social retard who will never get laid by anyone else.
She's really not worth it.
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I overreact and overthink everything. How can I be more decisive? It's ruining my life.
Even things as minute as posting a Facebook status or making a Reddit account are too stressful so all I do is post anon here, I can't stand the thought of people knowing too much about me and thinking I'm a retard
Please help /adv/
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Sorry for the stupid picture, I thought maybe someone would enjoy it
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Why do you hate yourself so much?
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My parents always told me how much I sucked at everything, and it's still true as an adult. I don't have any real hobbies or talents. So I try not to express myself IRL and just listen to other people and learn as much as I can. It's just so much comfier than putting myself out there, but it sucks because sometimes I really have some information other people don't but I'm afraid to say anything
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So recently i had my birthday (25) and a neet who does freelancing to make a living. I´ve been feeling down lately thinking i have never gotten a girlfriend before or someone i could really call a close friend. Wanted to hear your advices on how to open myself more, i was thinking on maybe going to some bar or something, but i am scared i would look like a loser going by myself. Any help?
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>>16917859
Bars can be difficult if you aren't really confident to begin with.
Have you tried a site like meetup? It's essentially clubs for adults. Then you can meet people who like the same things you do in order to start conversations.
If you live in a big town, there might be meetups for the type of work you freelance which could be both networking and meeting new people.
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>>16917868
Im from Argentina so i dont think we got a variation of that site over here.
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>>16917868
Well i´ll be damned there is people from around me there. I will try that, thanks.
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Newfag here. Can someone show me the 4chan way? 2016-03-15 04:24:52 Post No.16917850
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Newfag here. Can someone show me the 4chan way?
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I want to know the ins and outs and how to use this site.
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Lurk more
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read the faq
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>>16917864
>Lurk more
this.
browse the boards until you find one (or more) you like and then simply read the threads for fun and post when you want. it's all anon so you can post whatever the fuck and then reply to your post and call youself a faggot and no one will know. it's beautiful
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She wants to come over .-. 2016-03-15 04:16:21 Post No.16917825
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She wants to come over .-.
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So, there is this girl that i assume likes me, and i like her.
We normally would go bowling or watch a movie or some shit like that
But we kinda never hang out at each others house because it always gets awkward with both of us not knowing what to do, Im really bad at holding conversations and i think she already knows that...
Anyway, she told me she just wants to "come over and we'll figure out what to do then"
So unless some miracle happens where i get social skills then sexual ANYTHING is probably out of the question...
Any advise on what to do? We're both 18 and both really nerdy people
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>>16917825
get some condoms.
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>>16917825
...she just wants to be around you.
This is the best case scenario. Put on a shitty movie, sit close to her on the couch, and find a stupid reason to touch her.
I swear to God, anon, if she say's that she's cold and you go get her a sweater I will find you and end you.
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>>16917846
But thats the problem! I've always done that with other girls but this one is kinda, just, blank...
whenever we watch movies she kinda just sits there, silently and not saying anything or moving....
How do i move in on that?
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Receding hairline vs Mature hairline 2016-03-15 04:11:49 Post No.16917804
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Receding hairline vs Mature hairline
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So up until recently I thought I had a mature hairline, but after further prospecting I've noticed "baby hairs" near the edges of my hairline which is a major symptom of balding. Now I'm in full disarray and panic mode.... I have a legit fear of hair loss and I don't have thousands for replacement surgery.
Can anyone who's experienced with this sort of thing identify which one it is? I'm only 21 and not very wealthy, so if it is the worse of the two what are my options? Is there any cheap means of controlling future hair loss if it is balding? Send help
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More info:
I use axe putty styler and fructis shampoo used to "strengthen" hair... not sure how those affect anything.
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Just shave it all off, nobody gives a shit.
I'm sad that I'm balding not because I care what others think, but because I like my hair.
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>>16917836
I literally don't give a shit what others think... I just really enjoy my hair, same as you. I'll do what I can to keep it as long as I can.
Second, I have no idea if it's actual balding.
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I want to get back into going to church 2016-03-15 04:04:12 Post No.16917768
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I want to get back into going to church
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Like what i've said above, I'd like to start going back to church because I used to as a kid and for some reason stopped. I'm not a religous radical I really just like a nice place to go for a couple of minutes and enjoy the company of other nice people because I feel there's too few of them around these days.
So now my real asking starts here, which churches are safe to attend? I don't know anything about the different kind other than the differences between catholic and protestant (catholics are bad pls no catholic).
Any other church goers out there willing to help me out?
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I forgot to add
The church I went to as a kid was Moravian and then when we moved we attended a UCC.
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>>16917768
That depends. What do you like about church?
Do you like the ritual? The communal feeling? Singing? Private prayer?
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>>16917768
?which churches are safe to attend?
in what fucking sense?
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Surgery and Weight loss. 2016-03-15 03:05:47 Post No.16917625
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So, I'm, 20, 6'3 and 288 pounds, I've been exercising since last September but I recently had a conversation with my friend and he said I'll need surgery for my skin if I ever hit the weight goal I want (201)
It's pretty much killed my motivation for working out, it feels like I've ruined my body for the rest of my life and that even if I lose weight I won't have the body that I want.
I just feel like killing myself, and could use some advice.
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Lose the weight slow and steady. Work out. You're only 20 years old your skin can come back.
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>>16917625
If you have the money for surgery then just go on jenny craig for six to eight months.
If you follow the system you'll get to your goal and you won't have skin like a flying squirrel.
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I lost over 100 lbs in less than a year when I was 23. The skin-sagging was not that bad for me, but everyone is different.
What you ought to do, if it's possible, is go to your doctor and ask them about it.
GF has been liking the pics on Instagram of 3 guys she's had sex with before. She's been doing this before we got into a relationship. What I don't get is she talks about how much she hates one of those guys who were her ex's. Like absolutely hates. She always tells me how much she hates how he treated her and who he was. Another guy was a ONS who ditched her and another was just a casual sex guy.
Am I just insecure and jealous or what?
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And I doubt they talk. She put my fingerprint on her phone and doesn't care when I snoop around
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please help.
Also she's had plenty of opportunities to get back with these guys but she hasn't. Including her ex that she hates.
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It sounds like she still likes the attention of these guys, even if she doesn't need it right now.
She wants to make sure they're still around if you aren't.
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I don't have any dreams or illusions.
Nothing excites me
I don't have any important goal in life. I want to extend my lifespan as much as possible (Ray Kurzweil, etc.) and to live a comfortable life with minimum stress. I don't have any bigger professional goals (of course I will always try to improve and I have a couple ideas for a startup, but I'm fine already).
I want to live in my actual city (Madrid) forever.
Nothing really excites me. I'm not interested into displaying wealth or even trying to become rich because I want to avoid crime happening to me. Rich women bore me. Women bore me. They attract me, I fuck them and they bore me. I don't want kids. I don't want pressures in my life. I'm the unwanted product of unprotected sex. If a wealthy woman appears, a woman that can't ruin me financially and it's good, and let's me fuck other women if so I please (while she doesn't fuck anybody else) maybe I'd have kids.
But I have no illusions.
Playing VR games maybe.
Becoming a cyborg and exploring the Universe (if we get to that point).
I even think that the end of the human species is near. Not because of war or anything. We'll just trascend what it's now considered human. We will enhance our senses, enjoy the nanoworld, the picoworld, maybe other dimensions. It will be fun for a while. After that, emotions won't be needed (outdated mechanism of survival), and everything will be moot. We may be comprised into nanoscopic particles able to travel instantly from any part of the universe to the other.
My instincts dominate me (hunger, sexual desire...) but after I satisfy them, there's nothing. Reading about anti-aging and science, playing some games... but that's for a while. I'm self realized, but I don't want to impress. It seems that the approval of other people is what drives us. If you don't need it, you are psychologically dead.
Anybody feels like this?
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Please fall down the stairs.
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But why would any of that make you want to extend your lifespan?
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>>16917508
Go outside and take a walk, everyone has ambitions, trust me and the only thing that makes you not think so is staying in your house overthinking things.
Go to a place full of people and socialoze, if taking a walk doesn't cut it, get lost in the world of people, drama and life. Whether you like it or not, humans are social creatures and as long as you're human, my plans will work.