I need help and i dont know what to do. My 14 year old cousin is being cyberbullied. This has been going on for months. The cops and the school arnt doing anything. Need help please!!!!
Is it possible to be in a good relationship if you are mentally ill (depression, Bipolar...).
Only if it's under consistent and effective treatment.
>>16985604
No. Now quit fucking around on this website and solve those problems before you worry about muh gf
>>16985610
I am using treatment through a psychologist.
>>16985611
Nice if you could give some suggestions. Fucking around 4chan is not fun at all.
Hey /adv/. Any advice for a man getting married tommorow?
>>16985397
Spend time to reflect on the past and look forwards towards your future with this woman. Also don't do anything retarded like a bachelor party in a strip club. Also, congratulations anon.
>>16985397
its not too late
you can still escape
>>16985410
Oh! Some sincere advice! Thanks, anon
>>16985423
Ha, about what I expected. I know I can but I don't want to.
Also, you're free to ask me stuff if you have anything in mind that's related to me or the wedding
I'll keep it short as I can. I'm mid 20s. Great job, everything else going for me. Thankful for that.
Been in a relationship with a gorgeous girl for 4 years now. We've been long-distance ish (100 miles) nearly the whole time. For the first 6 mo, I discovered that she had been cheating on me off and on w/ her ex. When I found out, I was devastated, and broke it off. Got back together about a month afterwards - I was lonely, school was difficult, and she seemed remorseful. Since then, things have been mostly good, save for a guy getting somewhat close to her a few months afterwards. I did what I said I wouldn't do and got back with her and now have fallen for her.
I keep having recurring thoughts lately of her infidelity. How blatant it was, how badly she lied to me. I know I'll get blasted for admitting this but I have nowhere else to go, and yes I'm being serious. I just want some strong words of advice.
Should I let the past be the past, and move forward? I'll always be hypervigilant about her cheating. About her talking with guys, about what could happen in the future. Wondering if she's cheated with me since and I would have no way of knowing. My family is not a fan of her, but I'm prepared to stand up to them if I were to ever take it further and propose/move in.
What should I do? I could easily cheat on her this weekend (some girls are a phone call away), she wouldn't know. Part of me feels like taht would "make things even" and I could move on in peace, but another part of me feels like I'd feel shitty for it, and I've never done anything like that. Should I break it off? Stay with her and forget about it because it all seems good now? Please help.
Hi, Cuck.
Not sure what to tell you, you'll never forget it. I'm not even sure if forgivesness is possible due to that. Forgive but not forget doesn't seem to work for serious discretions. For me I feel like making it even would work for me but I don't know for sure. You can't go on and keep wondering about this friend or that coworker, that's no way to live. Why doesn't your family like her? They know?
Should I cheat on her? I legitimately would have never thought I would do this. Would it make me feel better and be able to move on and forgive her? I barely ever see her and have a really high sex drive. She's madly in love with me right now so breaking up would NOT be easy or quick.
>>16985401
No, it's not because of this (at least to my knowledge).
My sister is a woman-child, but how can I help her before she crashes and burns?
>she's 24
>she has a decent job (gets paid like 1600 per month)
>spends all her money on boy band stuff
>grandparents gave her an extra car
>she destroyed it by never checking the oil and maintaining it so it broke down
>she used to live with my mom, but she'd never clean the house, literal roaches, mold, etc.
>my mom lost her job, can't afford rent anymore
>tells sister that she can pay for the apartment (sister actually can make the payment but will be fairly broke after)
>or she can find roommate or her own place
>sister literally tantrums and resents mother for this
>i offered sister help on maintaining the car but she said that "if it costs money, she won't do it"
>this is why her car broke down
Basically, she never wants to spend her money on necessities because she thinks my mom or grandparents are supposed to pay for them. Any time she is confronted about this, she cries and ignores us.
I want to help her, but is there any other way to let her let us help? Do I just have to watch her crash and burn?
Your mom's gonna have to put her out, and you all have to let her hit hardships. She's 24, she can be a grownup.
>>16985340
Yea, my mom already broke this news to her. But my sister seems to be deluding herself from the issue and ignoring the fact that anything is wrong.
My dad is attempting to offer help as well. But my sister hasn't talked to him in 9 years, also from another stubborn tantrum she had with him as a teen. Like, she's digging the hole further and it's just annoying and also saddening to see.
>>16985325
There's no way for you to make her see unless she wants to see. Only solution is for your mom to be adamant, and if she doesn't pay then she gets kicked out. Same with the car, only solution is for her to not be given another car. you can offer to buy the car off her for a fair price and fix it for yourself though, giving her a little extra cash to buy a shitter car for herself.
Would it be autistic to text a girl asking if she has raisins, and when she says no ask if she has a date? It's not autistic if it works amiright? She already knows me for shitty jokes.
>>16985235
honestly?
post a pic of yourself. thats the only way we will ever know if you can pull it off.
>>16985243
I'm a 6-7 on soc, and I'm fairly certain she already likes me. I wouldn't do it otherwise.
I say do it, I'd just laugh and certainly agree to go out with someone who sent me that message. My kinda sense of humor. It has a pretty good chance of working unless the girl is a bitch
long story short.
Im 20, and still a virgin, and the way things are going ill probably be virgin for at least a while more.
So am I too old for being a virgin or is 20 a fine age? :/ it concerns me already
Maybe it will make you feel better to know that I'm worse than you : a virgin at 28. Last time I touched a girl was more than ten years ago.
Or maybe it proves that it might indeed be too late and everyone who like me was a virgin at 20 will be one forever.
>>16984805
The median age for losing virginity is 17.5. That means that for every boy or girl who loses it at 14 there's one who doesn't make it until 20. Or 2 kids losing it at 16 equals one at 20.
The point is that 20 is not especially far from the average.
No, being a 20 y.o. virgin isn't that much of a big deal, well, at least where I live. But once you cross 24/25, then you can consider yourself a failure.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Most likely
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Don't count on it
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask again later
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
It is decidedly so
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Very doubtful
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Reply hazy, try again
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Outlook good
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Concentrate and ask again
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
My reply is no
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Outlook good
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic My sources say no
>Brandon
Fuck off
Girls, we (men) are just penises, why do you cry for penises? Doesn't this seem silly?
guys, how do i approach a shy guy
>>16984704
I don't get it. Just approach him. Do you think he will run away? You girls have it easy.
>Tfw in ten year relationship from 18-28.
>Tfw he cheats on me with some 18 y.o. bimbo.
>Tfw feel dead inside and like I can never trust men again.
>Tfw even if I date again some guy will leave me for someone ten years younger.
>>16982586
For every woman that has been cheated on there is a guy that has been cheated on. You either find the strength to move on or let it destroy you. The choice is yours. As long as you are alive you can find a way to make things better.
>10 years.
That was your problem.
If you want to be with a guy for longer than 5 years you make him sign legal paper work otherwise he is still fair game.
You've even had two leap years where you could have ask him.
>>16982586
Well yeah. You have to upgrade your woman model every ten years.
If I'm 25 and have never had interest from women, either at school of university, then how can I possibly ever have an "authentic" relationship if any female attraction towards me will solely be based on how much money I have? I'll never have experienced an authentic relationship ever.
I'm no longer a student but seeing them these days makes me feel bad.
>inb4 Y not X?
I'm not fat and I lift weights and I've had part time jobs before etc.
>>16981551
Post your picture
>>16981551
No, it's far simpler.
We're alike in many ways, you and I. Age, habits, fears.
But I suspect we share another characteristic.
My brain is broken; women routinely express interest in me and I ignore it every time, only to realise after going away and giving it some introspection.
Women have actually said hi to me in the street before and I've totally ignored it. They must be talking to someone else or on the phone, I'll think. Saying hi back would be foolish.
You've had female attention in the past, and like me you've bungled it every time, without fail.
You're only 25. You shouldn't be so quick to dismiss your own attractiveness. I know it's an annoying cliche, but you just haven't met the right person yet. I'm sure you can work on meeting more women, so don't give up yet.
What do you guys make of this?
You're talking to an idiot, leave them alone.
I really want her back in my life, but I don't know what to make of this. She messaged me this about a month after our break up
So this question is mainly for girls around 18-23 years old, what type of features do you want in a boyfriend? I'm not asking for your dream guy but like if you were to want a relationship with a guy what would you generally want?
Asking a question to the 0.001%
>>16984824
They don't know. Just be somewhat socially valuable and maintain good hygeine. Be working toward your future but have some creativity.
In other words be a functional human.
hey i like guys that don't take themselves too serious and can make jokes about themselves.. nothing turns me off more that ppl who can only make jokes about others, he shouldn't act like he's superior or smarter, he should be loving and affectionate. I want to feel loved that's the most important. Shouldn't be cold towards me since i like to show how much i care about my bf and always tell him what i like about him
Why do you cheat on someone? Asking to you cheater
>>16984663
I only fuck hookers, so it isn't cheating, is it?
>>16984701
It is if you are in relationship with a person who doesnt know about it
Because he's in the navy, while I'm here alone, and 6 months is too long for me without some kind of intimate human contact.
is it ever acceptable to go after a single mother of 2 kids?
>pretend i'm low 30s and have a good income
>pretend i'm more alpha than both dead beat dads.
>pretend i like the girl as more than a fucktoy
>>16984587
How old is she and how old are the kids?
>>16984590
she's 22, the kids are 3 and 1. Different fathers.
>>16984587
Raising others' kids also is a cuck thing to do.
My gf won't have sex with me if I object to the pill.
She refuses to accept only a condom for protection. She says she doesn't trust it and wants to use her own protection instead because it's better.
What do?
>object to the pill
Why is it any of your business if she's taking the pill?
Break up because your ideals are different.
She's being the more responsible one, preferring a method with lower failure rates.
Pay for her implant. Best fucking thing ever.