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For the past 2 years I have been using a fake fb account pretending to be a girl, using well placed pictures, sometimes even using my gf items to support evidence of it.
I use it to mess around in pages and groups, never making any actual friends. But not long ago I gave nice advice to some people and we been cool friends. I always say I am engage, and I am in a serious relationship, which I am in.
I met this one gamer dude and for some reason I decided to stick chatting to him, and motivated him to get a job . For the past 4 months he has had a healthier life style and even showing amazing progress.
He doesn't love me, I respect him too.
Is it time to stop this charade? I told him a life time of my stories. Most are true but with twisted parts in them.
I am bi but I wouldnt want him. I like my woman a lot. This just turn in to a sick hobby.
Maybe I am just unbottling my story here for some reason...
It's a bit scary that if I tell him the truth he would just loose it.
Is it better to disconnect slowly?
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>>16969775
You fucking what? The worst part is when you implied you'd do it again.
Let the one guy down gently, without telling if possible, and don't do that again. If you don't hurt this guy, you'll hurt someone eventually.
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If you cared about your gf you'd close the account and cut all ties to this guy
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>>16969812
He's catfishing him, he doesn't like him.
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What went wrong here.. 2016-03-28 20:48:07 Post No.16969756
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I tried to make it work, I wanted to, but something wouldn't let me.
M/21, her 21. I met her at a rave. She was cool and we hit it off really well at first. We dated for 2 months. Been through a lot at the time. We had sex a lot. We hung out ALL the time. I always felt like she would cheat on me though for some reason. Honestly, I could see her bending over for some guy just to get high or going to a club without me and not telling me. At first, she had so many limits: "No sex until she trusted me, No blowjobs, No cumming here etc" All until I basically had to force her to do it. I had to force everything on her, initiate everything. She never made me feel special. Never loved me in bed like I loved her. I did most of the work. And she was a freak. She started letting me do everything to her. I was kind of disappointed because I knew she probably was doing this with tons of guys before me. Fuck that. She told me one day, just out of the blue, she sucked off a black coworker once when she was high. I don't know why I didn't just walk the fuck out and tell her nice knowing you,
Whenever I'd get mad about not trusting her, she'd say "are you jealous?" We had dinner together, watched movies, went to events and even hard times together. But one thing that never changed was I always felt as if something was missing. Something was off, not right about our relationship. And I could never be 100% comfortable because of this. It only added to my depression and anxiety.
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>I had to force everything on her
>What went wrong here
Gee, I wonder
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She seemed innocent at the time, but of course, the opposite was true. She was always a pain in the ass about things. Say whatever came to her mind, even it would hurt my feelings or belittle me.. She even made fun of my dick once telling me it was small and that it's not really impressive at all. This was supposed to be in jest, but it hurt me. Like I said, no care, just blurts out whatever the fuck she wants. Anyways, I always had this feeling that even those we had sex and spent a lot of time together, she never really liked me, or at least, liked me in the way I hoped she would -- being the only man she needed in her life, both physically and emotionally fulfilling. She made me feel I was neither. Just like a fun little buddy she liked to have sex with or something. I didn't even enjoy the sex that much. Seriously. I would get pleasure when she left for work and I turned on the computer to fap. Sometimes I couldn't even look at her or maintain erection fucking her. I had to pretend a lot. It hurts me because she was really great, but what is great anyway? Plenty of people can be just as special, interesting and fun. I'm too hung up on her being one of my first actual serious relationships.
Probably worst thing that's ever happened to me, and that's a big list of shit. She didn't do anything but waste my time, money and hurt my feelings. I found this girl who I really liked, and of course, she seemed to be really "into" me. I made the mistake of being her boyfriend. Because relationships are cute and shit, right?
I hate myself and my life even more now which I didn't think was even possible. Now I am 99% certain I am never going to find love or any companion. I'm hardly human anymore. I have no room for feelings or any semblance of hope that I can one day feel like my life ever meant anything.
I feel like being single is the only way for me.
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>>16969756
How is it so hard for many to understand that women are people too
..and most people are dicks one way or another, some more than others.
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My brother and I did 23andme and got our results back. He's about 40% French/German, 50% British, 10% Iberian. This makes sense - my mum is French and my dad is English, and his family has been here for hundreds of years.
I got completely different results though: 98% Scandinavian, 2% other northern European. The only possible explanation I can think of is that I'm adopted.
My parents have never said anything to that effect, and my earliest memories are with them. What else could it be, though?
I guess it makes a kind of sense, I'm taller then either of them, whereas my brother is slightly shorter than my dad. My hair is curly, while theirs is straight. It's always been put down to natural variation, though. My face also looks kinda like my mum's.
I'm... not sure how to handle this. Should I say anything to them? Would it just upset them?
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Or those genetic tests are unreliable scams
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Your mom cheated and cucked your dad with the baby
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What's 23me?
Is there any way to deal with them?
Even when caught in the lie, they still deny deny deny, and pretend they're right, you're wrong, and can't possibly see it any other way.
This guy I made a bet with, swears to god, and his first born child that I was unable to collect my twenty dollars from the bet he lost, so he confirmed with me to put it in my house screen door, and that I got it.
That never happened, never contacted about my money, never recieved my money, never would've directed the man to leave it in my screen door that doesn't shut, when it's a further distance for him to travel there, when he could easily stop by my work to hand deliver the money if it so had to be during my working hours.
Basically, I'm out 20 bucks, and a friend.
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you're gone deal with people like that your whole life
If anybody ever asks you to loan them money just say you're broke.
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>>16969563
It wasn't a loan, it was a bet. A yearly bet we regularly make on the super bowl that I'd lost the last few years in a row, and this was the one time I'd won and he was supposed to pay up.
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>>16969553
>I'm out 20 bucks, and a friend.
$20 is fuck all to learn who your friends are, I'd spend £100 to get rid of each fake friend that I have ever had.
Your issue isn't one with compulsive liars, as you haven't said he has a record of doing what he did, he is a debtor.
THINGS YOU CAN LEARN FROM YOUR EXPERIENCE
Don't make bets/loan money to cheap people (those who don't buy their round of drinks, those who can't keep on top of their own finances)
Don't make bets with people who don't pay out when they lose
Don't make bets with people who make bets but can't afford to pay out
And most importantly:
Don't forgive debts, in 6 months or a year he will be back, he will maintain that his version of events happened and you will think "well it was only $20", then it will happen again.
The only reason you should ever talk to him again is because he is paying you back, even after that I wouldn't ever get into ANY financial involvement with him.
Sources: I learned the hard way.
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I need some advice.
Am not doing very well in college. Am pretty much on academic probation and next semester i'll be on it too since I dropped 3 of my 4 classes and i'll probably get no grants next semester because of that.
Am thinking about getting an internship and possibly holding off college, what should I do?
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Good luck getting an internship with your transcripts lol
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>>16969560
This. They don't just take anyone.
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Oh god am fucked. I only have a 1.5 GPA.
I really want to graduate with a skill-set, I've just been taking random classes and the minute I figure it out I don't know if I can afford it.
I can't even go back to my community college because transfers need a 2.0 GPA.
There's an open book midterm -exam tomorrow and I still haven't studied
AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!
Is there any pills in reality that will increase penis size? I don't mean to get an erection though. I'm not satisfied with what God created me with. I want to have a massive destroyer penis. What can I do to get a fatter longer penis?
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>>16969492
>Is there any pills in reality that will increase penis size?
No.
>I want to have a massive destroyer penis.
I have an 8" cock and it's too big. It's nice to be too big in some ways, but the bigger you get the less and less practical and useful it actually is.
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>>16969492
nig whats you dientions as is?
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>>16969492
>What can I do to get a fatter longer penis?
Exercises. There's a couple forums dedicated to exercise methods. Careful you don't break your dick.
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How do I deal with my girlfriend being Bi 2016-03-28 18:47:40 Post No.16969309
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So i have a girlfriend who i met at a christian camp back in july and shes bisexual and lives across the state from me, sometimes im worried shes cheating on me but i feel the concerns come from finding out that my father has been cheating on my mother for the last 6 years, anyways, i want to assert myself and express my concern to her but also not sound like a paranoid asshole given the fact that she knows that im not a relatively confident person and ive been trying go be more sure of myself and more assertive
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What does her being bi have to do with cheating
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The only way to do it is to make it clear what you are to eachother, set your expectations, after that you have to trust eachother.
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>>16969313In the beginning of our relationship she told me that she was almost in a relationship with one of her female friends prior to meeting me, in addition she had her phone taken away from her parents since january and shes only allowed to call me twice a week through her mothers phone
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Im pretty hopeless rn, i think i fucked up any chance of me having a good college experience,
> slacked off freshmen and sophmore year
>if i keep going at the rate im going at now in 11th grade (As and Bs) the max gpa i can get is a 2.8
>ACT score 25, taking it again next week
>parents strict af always wanted to leave for college so i could actually have a social life
>at this rate ill probably end up in community college or commuting to rutgers or NJIT
Is there any chance of me getting accepted to a school like Penn State or OSU,
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Could always go to a CC, get yourself a great GPA and then transfer.
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>>16969294
I had a 2.6 by the end of high school.
I got accepted into every state university I applied to.
You're too young to lose sleep over this bullshit.
And you can graduate college with a 3.0 and get into pretty much any grad program on a state school level.
You're fine.
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>>16969314
I wanna go out of state tho, if i go in state i would have to commute
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Is it normal for me to feel disgusted/alienated by the fact that my gf has had over 20 dicks in her, most of them hook ups, even strangers and fuckbuddies? Or am I being a pussy? It bothers the fuck out of me.
For reference, I've had one woman before her.
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No, we're not doing another variation of this thread.
Either you can deal with it, or you can't. If you can't, then break up.
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>>16969222
Agreed. /thread
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>>16969213
That's fucking gross m8. Why would you even go there? Find a different gf that doesn't have a gaping hole of a vagina.
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>Be oldfag engineer
>Have a niece
>Carefully try to inspire her to like technology
>Buy her some simple Lego Technic stuff
>She has no patience to build the models, I end up doing it for her
>"Oh uncle Anon, that was so much fun how WE built the model TOGETHER!"
>She's 19 now, in college, very gorgeous and cute
>Shows me a CNC engineered game she has made
>Wow, I'm impressed
>Then she tells me that she had a boy doing all the work for her because she's so gorgeous and cute
>Of course he didn't get a shit for doing it
>What a fucking little bitch! Manipulating boys to do the work for her without even giving them a thank you.
Why do I still feel proud of her?
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My niece is 18 (i'm 30) and she's a stupid slut, too.
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>it's a /r9k/ fantasy thread
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>>16969218
Maybe you guys are just joking.
Either way I've been losing hope in young women for a while now.
Are most older women more mature, straight forward ?
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Are glasses a death sentence when it comes to being attractive? I've noticed no one wears glasses when they're trying to look good.
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>>16969171
No if anything they are a fetish.
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>>16969171
nope. some people look great with glasses. some people dont. for most people, assuming they are reasonably attractive and can work it, the glasses slow down their 'game' but anyone you're truly 'meant' to be with wont really care.
that being said, contact lenses.
i have glasses but only really need them when watching tv or on the computer.
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>>16969171
Arcade wouldn't be so hot without glasses.
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Hey people, I have a question: I am from Europe, I currently work in Asia for at least one year and I am an alcoholic. I usually stop drinking when I know I've had enough and when I know I should already stop in order to prevent a hangover, but my problem is that I really drink every fucking evening and there are few days on which I don't have at least 4 drinks, whether it is just beer or hard liquor (vodka, rum, anything) +something with a lot of sugar and no alcohol like coke.
So what would you do if you were me? There is really nowhere I can go... I am not rich enough to afford to go to a therapy in Asia, I don't want to go back to my country, and there are not even self-help groups at which I can speak English. However, I know that my health goes downhill, but what shall I do? Alcohol is fucking cheap and I ahve not become an addict here, but I already was one when I arrived here, but now it got even worse...
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>>16969168
id quit. if i needed help, id use the buddy system. i have an obsessive personality, but not an addictive one. so its pretty easy for me to drop alcohol (which i had to recently).
the issue here is that you boxed yourself in on purpose
>cant afford
>dont feel like
>meh english
nothing comes without sacrifice. if you dont have the will power, then you gotta sacrifice something.
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boomp
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>bumping instead of responding to existing posts
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> be trans girl
> pass as female really well, people call me "ma'am" and shit
> be going to college later this year
> all my documents are still listed as "male"
> I'm going to have to live with a male roommate
can you guys give me some advice here?
I have absolutely no idea how this is gonna work out.
Is there any way to prevent it from being awkward as all fuck?
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What state do you live in? (if in the US)
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>>16969123
>> be trans girl
It's awkward as fuck because you've surrounded yourself with people who encourage this delusion. You are not a girl, and never will be.
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>>16969123
do you still have your penis though ?
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I feel unsatisfied with life
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For years now I've felt extremely empty and unsatisfied. My life definitely is kinda rutish, i do go out and do cool things every once and a while but it's mostly just the same things every day. I know there's something missing, I know there's some aspect of myself that I'm either neglecting or don't even know exists yet that's just dying to get out and feel fulfilled, but I honestly have no idea what it is.
How do I go about feeling complete and satisfied with life when I don't even know whats missing?
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Your life isn't over, it shouldn't feel complete and satisfying yet. How old are you?
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>My life definitely is kinda rutish, i do go out and do cool things every once and a while but it's mostly just the same things every day.
You already know you just need to get out more. You just gotta embrace that scary change.
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>>16969049
there comes a point where you have to stop consuming, and need to start creating.
V.C. Andrews (author of Flowers in the Attic) used to say that she spent so much time reaidng books that she could never read another book ever again, and instead ascended into writing them.
take the casual hobbies you do or used to do (video games, movies, tv, reading, comics) and reverse engineer it. make a game. draw a limited series comic. make a movie. write a script, write a book, build a house, build furniture, etc.
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How do you keep yourself happy? No matter what hobbies I try to get into I'm just generally tired of everything and I feel like I'm waiting for something to happen to me to change things up, but I know it won't happen.
I don't have a girlfriend so I spend most days by myself just going to work or class, doing whatever, and all the holidays and birthdays that pass by just shine more light on how lonely / bored I am. I wouldn't say I'm depressed but I just feel stagnant and I don't know what to do with myself.
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Find a hobby
Meditate
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>>16968845
I've even noticed that my sex drive is kind of decreasing, despite being young (I'm 21). I don't even really want to masturbate anymore and I don't get super horny very often.
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>>16968845
Do more stuff and get out more.
Being happy is directly related to your comparison of yourself and everything else in the world.