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I'm so mad rn.
My boyfriend was talking with his best friend about my mannerisms. I'm a very polite and cordial person - and that was how I was raised to be. Respect comes first.
Well, he brings this conversation up to me last night and he made me feel like crap for being who I am.
"You're just too nice."
I really do not understand this. I didn't even bother replying because I just really had nothing good to say to him. I typically clam up when someone I genuinely care about picks at me.
What should I do? I'm not changing. Screw that. Should I talk to him about it? Even tho over probably missed my chance to talk it out?
I also don't say anything about him to my friends unless it is good because I was raised to guard and protect those closest to me.
Am I in the wrong here? Or is he being a jerk?
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Why does he thing being nice is bad? Are you being taken advantage of? Are you submissive to the point of abuse because you are nice?
Explore why he's bringing this up. If he just wants some nasty trailer park girl then he isn't for you. Move on.
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>>16976826
I definitely am not that submissive. I call him out all the time.
I asked him permission to talk to his best friend because it is kind of weird to do that? So, I wanted him to know and I wanted to respect his friendships and comfort levels.
Apparently, that made me look like I was scared if him being mad at me? When I blatantly told him I was asking out of respect to build trust.
Apparently, he just wants me to do these things, without any consideration or thought and I do not feel comfortable with that.
By doing these things, I'm protecting myself as well in case he goes crazy and starts saying shit.
Know what I'm saying?
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>>16976821
Tell him you won't change for him. If he loves you he loves you for what you are. He ois being a jerk.
I understand you... my girlfriend told me I'm too different from other people and that she wants me normal. Some people just cannot appreciate our positive traits.
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Is teaching really such a terrible job as people on this board say?
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Nah son
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>>16976481
Almost everyone in this thread talks about how teachers are treated like shit though: http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/16963962/#q16963962
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>>16976486
Well, if you don't stand up for yourself and are able to stand your ground you are going to get threated like shit no matter your career choice
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-03-30 08:18:24 Post No.16976137
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something we cannot explain to you. In video game terms, you are lvl 1 social skills and the "Interpret signs" ability requires level 10 to unlock. Get more experience.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking.
>Brandon
Fuck off
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what Elliot Rodger needed was a girl to take some initiative and talk to him/keep him company until he developed some confidence and social skills.
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> A girl is super nice and friendly to me for like 2 months
> I don't really react to it, but don't disrespect her
> 3 months later, nothing happened in between:
> Text her "hey what's up? How's the holidays going?"
> seen 20 hours ago
Why does that happen to me all the time? How can girls be hyped about me at one point and then 3 months later completely hate me and ignore me with nothing happening in between?
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I've ask a girl out recently, she said yes then flaked me, saying that she forgot our date... She doesn't reschedule or anything and we stop texting each other for 5 days. I finally end up seeing her, I'm polite but do not flirt with her. That very same night she texts me and tell me that she really would like to do something soon, and that we are very alike. So what do you think guys?
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>get suicidal thoughts
>talk to mom about it she doesn't know what to say and wants to leave
>talk to girl I'm crushing on and says I'm asking for attention
Feel pressured into killing myself to prove that I'm sincerely feeling like shit
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>>16975818
This is why i will probably shoot myself in the woods. Too many attention whores have made it difficult to get help.
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Don't. Life is precious. Things always get better
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I'm in the same situation. Had suicidal thoughts since august last year and they are only getting worse. I told my mom and she didn't seem to care much. she says its ''normal''..
How old are you? I think ''many'' young people get this. and did you smoke weed??
I hope you won't do something bad. Like >>16976510 said things will get better some time
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Why is is hard to find a woman that doesn't have casual sex?
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>>16975705
is it*
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Because the girls that don't have casual sex don't want you.
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>>16975710
Doesn't that make me Chad
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Addicted to child porn 2016-03-30 04:33:28 Post No.16975668
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What should you do if you want to stop watching child porn cause you don't want to support hurting kids, but you are addicted and afraid of getting in trouble ?
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>>16975668
you go to a psychiatrist
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>>16975674
Not OP but I think that's like trying to cure someone of the gay.
As it is illegal op you are fucked pretty badly legally if caught.
I doubt you can stop being attracted to children just try to not fuck one or maybe tone it down to fappin to kids in magazines.
Or celibacy may help but its unlikely.
I honestly could give a shit what you fap to and I highly doubt you will stop falling to CP.
Just don't fuck any kids m8 and you should be golden.
Oh yeah and depending on what country you live in just fap to lolicon I doubt most people give a shit about that. May be a great way to get off as opposed to real CP
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>>16975668
I don't know man get away from all computers and shit
If that doesn't work just run away and start off with nothing on the streets and your new life will distract you
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Ok... i had sex with a prostitute. Used condom but made little cunningulus. What are the chances for me to get HIV? I waiting for test results on thursday...
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Not likely, unless it was a REALLY dirty/druggy hooker and you have a bunch of open cuts in your lips and mouth
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>>16975520
Not really the case... got her contact on a website. I can tell it was a sex house (sorry for bad english). And my mouth was good... but I'm scared by the fact of the chances...
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>>16975544
I would be more worried about HPV or herpes.
Enjoy your mouth cancer
Did you have to pay extra?
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I need some technologically literate anons. I would ask /g/ but they probably don't want to be bothered by a retard like me.
I'm new to computers in general and I'd like to learn to code. html, CSS, JavaScript, etc. (clearly I don't know much about this), and I'm looking for good free online resources to learn with.
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>>16975345
w3schools is probably the best place for beginners to start imho
very straightfoward and simple to understand
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>>16975358
w3schools is shit
use codeacademy
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>>16975396
nice argument bro
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>he rather plays vidya than talk to me, i offer to play vidya with him but he just says " your bad at the game"
>he gets annoyed when i try too talk too him
>that being said i do call and text alot and thats maybe the reason why but i have tried too improve but he doesn't seem too put in that effort too
wat do
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what game tho? if its a team game theres no reason to play with you
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play minecraft
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>>16975235
its csgo... but i mean he's trying to rank up so
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I'm not super attracted to my girlfriend. 2016-03-30 01:48:46 Post No.16975109
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I'm not super attracted to my girlfriend.
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Some back story. I have only been in 2 relationships, the one I am in now, and my first. My first was with an abusive crazy girl that treated me like shit. Regardless of this, I was still in love with her, and I was very attracted towards her.
I then had gotten into a small fling with another mentally unstable girl. Extremely hurtful, but I would get super turned on by just imagining fucking her.
Now the girl I am with now has been more healthy of a relationship. I am treated much better, and I love spending almost all of my time with her. Unlike the other girl I can put my full trust in her, and expect her to not stab me in the back. This girl isn't really my type, my type is usually small skinny white girls, but she is chubby and part black. The feelings I get with her are more from a place of comfort, rather than me getting super turned on.
For some reason I don't feel that way with her. I don't know if it is her looks, or if I only am attracted to crazy people. I don't want to throw away a great relationship, but at the same time I feel like I am missing something. Other than my not getting that same feeling I am super happy.
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It isnt love, dump her.
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>>16975115
I care about her way more than those other girls.
I feel like I love her more than the other girls.
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>>16975121
well then don't dump her
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Girlfriend just told me she was raped by my friend two years ago. She was still a minor at the time. What the fuck do i do. Pic not fucking related.
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>>16974227
You express sympathy and ask how you can support her. Also, stop inviting both of them to the same parties.
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>>16974227
Girlfriend told me she was raped by some dude I know and a stranger at the time
Shes a bit of a retard so I'm just leaving her it's not worth the stress. If she's worth it id just work through it and try catching the guy off guard with a baseball bat
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>>16974227
Find how long is it acceptable for rape to go unreported in your country. If two years is too long the police will prolly not help you, you should report it either way though.
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I think I have a fetish and I need to know if there's anything morally wrong about this/if it's cheating
I'm a girl in college with a male roommate and a boyfriend. My bf has voiced concerns in the past and is visibly jealous about me living with a male roommate, but I always assured him it was normal and nothing major. About a month ago however I caught my roommate with strange behaviour.
Our rooms are separated by the living room, we have ONE fan that stays in the living room and so hot days can get incredibly hot in here. I was laying in bed trying to get to sleep with the door open so some air would hopefully come in (I do this sometimes) and after like half an hour of insomnia I noticed my roommate came tip toeing into my room. I still pretended to be asleep. I didn't see anything, but from sound alone and his breath he was undoubtedly "helping himself" to the image of me sleeping. I didnt know what to do so I just waited. When he left my heart was pounding and I didnt know what to think. So I waited the next night with my door open again and the same thing happened. He mustve been doing this for a while.
I did this for a week and I hate to admit it but it's probably the most excited I've ever gotten in my life, I usually sleep in top and shorts, but after a while a started sleeping in top and panties like pic related, covering myself less, then just bra and panties, and yesterday I took a huge step and slept naked with no sheets. It's getting to the point where nighttime is the time I wait for the most the entire day just so I can pretend to fall asleep. I'd never do anything with him but I can't stop. When he leaves the room it's like Im going to explode
Is this too fucked up or am I redeemable stopping now?
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Congratulations, you have unlocked a new fetish!
For sure, everyone's going to have a different idea of the morality of this little setup you have going on. If I were your boyfriend, though, I'd be pretty pissed off if I ever found out.
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So this is what boyfriend hell looks like. Glad I ain't in a relationship with a hoe.
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That sounds pretty hot.
You should try fucking your boyfriend with the door open and be really loud.
Or get a kind of see-through sleeping mask so you can look at him while he does it.
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Moving to New York and trying standup comedy 2016-03-30 04:37:35 Post No.16975678
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Moving to New York and trying standup comedy
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Hello I'm 20 and I want to try to move to New York and try stand up comedy. Is there anyway I can get housing and find a job to have while I try it out?
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Be really funny and you'll get paid
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>>16975678
Yeah if you can afford $1000 a month while you actively perform comedy and work 60 hours a week
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>>16975681
$1000 in New York will get you a fucking cardboard box.
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I fucked up hard /adv/.
My girlfriend walked in on me to surprise me at my apartment because she got home from work early. I was wearing a dress and applying nail polish on my nails not to mention I was wearing makeup.
She was in shocked and after a while she ran out crying. I tried chasing her but it was tough since I was wearing heels and I can't be seen like this outside.
I already tried calling her multiple times to messaging her saying everything from sorry to let me explain to I deserve whatever your decision from now on.
What can I do now /adv/? I mean I know I'm a freak for being a crossdresser. But I still love her and would be willing to stop doing this if that would mean losing her.
We've been together for five years now and I was on my way to proposing. I'm really sorry I never opened this up to her but who can accept this?
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>five years
> who can accept this?
definitely a girl you plan to marry, OP...
it's not THAT big of a deal. i mean, i would love to dress my bf up atleast once.
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Are you at least a qt trap like ciel?
Or are you a hairy muscled man?
This all matters in what you should do or what you can do.
Also OP this is hilarious.
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>>16973235
Well thanks for that.
But my gf is traditional and religious. Well I kind of like her being like that but she won't accept what I did.
Also she probably told her parents already and her dad, even though he likes me very much, he doesn't want her daughter marrying some kind of a freak like me.
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Dealing with Promiscuous Women 2016-03-29 06:29:04 Post No.16971859
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Can someone tell me whats wrong with not liking people with a promiscuous sexual history. I wont go into detail about how me and my gf are fighting over it since I already made a thread about it, but why am I not allowed to find a girl repulsive for such actions. Furthermore why am I expected to stay with my gf even though she has such a history. Like Im insecure because I dont value a girl who acts like other peoples fleshlights.
>Cant handle the fact that she slept with other people
I hate hearing this so much. I dont give a shit if I can handle it or not. I dont want to. I want sex to be kinda our thing. Something special. Not some shitty hedonistic act as everyone treats it as.
>tldr on why Im here
Got in huge fight with gf after learning her sexual history. She said I should get over it and I went autism mode and told her having sex with her is like being given a used tissue and theres no reason why I would value sex with her. Shes trying to use that as leverage that Im not thinking straight and shouldnt break up what we have together.
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>>16971859
Were you a virgin when you met her?
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I would feel disgusted if a guy had a lot of sexual partners too. But when i say a lot I mean like, over 5. Anons on here think a lot is any number higher than 0 makes a girl slut-tier
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>>16971865
No ive had sex with 1 person and the events that caused us to break up were unfortunate.
>>16971890
Im kinda the same. Id like for a girl to have like 3 or 4 at most. But its ridiculous how much people sleep around now.