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>>16975954
Shit you're retarded

>>16975954
I forgot to add that I didn't observe this from myself but also from other people whom I know lost their virginity. They looked like they lost weight and looked more mature.

It doesn't have any physical effects, just think about all the time you've jacked off, however it probably has some psychological ones that in turn might change into physical effects.

Maybe your subconscious doesn't have to worry about losing that V-card anymore and therefor you can sort of relax knowing that there's nothing wrong with you as you might have been telling yourself, idk man.

You probably can't. I'm 20, and chill with older guys at the gym. They tell me i should be slaying 18 year olds, but i feel like 18 is code for 16.. because you can't really tell the difference between a 16 and 18 year old.

Mid 20s guys dated teens all throughout history. It really only stopped in the west about 60 years ago.

>>16975676
>It really only stopped in the west about 60 years ago.

And due to people calling it predatory or pedophilia and feminists wanting to restrict teen females from sex because apparently they don't get to have body agency.

>>16975647
>Like only 20% of them look pretty to me.

As a guy, I notice this same thing.

I mean, come on, aging IS a disease. It does degrade a person's appearance and faculties. I grant that possibly 80% of teen females are attractive. Even the overweight ones can usually pull off looking attractive. An overweight female in her early 20's can still look attractive, but the number of total attractive ones drops to around 40% in my experience. By late 20's to early 30's, that number seems to drop to 20%, and then 10% for mid 30 to 50.

I find similar to be true of guys as well, and Im staunchly hetero, so take that for what its worth. its not me being sexist, just ageist. Younger people are inherently more attractive. This is why we need pills that slow or undo skin/body damage from aging yesterday, not 10 years from now.

It sucks because as a guy, the older you get, the less attractive you are to girls in their 20-22 phase, which is perfect for me now. 10 years ago in my early 20's, 16-18 looked fine. Now its 20-22, but Ive advanced far enough that I can't pull any relationships or random sex from them like I used to, because im the creepy old dude, even though I'm no different in terms of desire or intent than the guys around them at college.

>>16974804

>how do i come out if its way too late to come out cuz everyone knows

dont? i mean if you wanna clarify, then clarify.

>>16974804
why do you need to

>>16974877
>>16974878
It would just be nice to finally talk about this stuff and be open and clear about everything.

>>16967041
And thus the OP and everybody read your response.

>>16967040
OP is a faggot and this isn't advice

INITIALS?!?!??!!?!?

WHY AM I A LITERAL RETARD!!!! -M

INITIALSS!!!

>>16967040
I just wrote my letter in the "get it off your chest" thread. You're too late, OP. You're too late...

>>16978059
>I'm 6'0 and slim, for reference.
This tells us nothing about how attractive you are. I'm inclined to think that you're unattractive too, but you're trying to make it sound like you're not, not unlike when fatties call themselves 'curvy'.

You don't have to fuck people you aren't interested in. I'm hoping you did it in an honest and nice way.

>>16978068
>fellow fat chick detected

You're probably right though, unless she's a complete retard she had some reason to think OP was in her ballpark.

you're just attentionwhoring and you know it.
however, an anal fissure isn't the end of the world. let him fill your rektum with his cum

im gonna need more pics to judge if you can really take it

>>16978043
Im actually not attentionwhoring. This is a serious concern.
I just wanna know if lube will be enough to not make it worse.

I used to give guys like you general "go get em" advice but I've come to realize that if you really have all the good qualities you say, you probably have autism/douchery in proportion to repel women.

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>>16977927
> so I can continue my bloodline
> HR rep
I see nothing in your bloodline that warrants continuation.

>>16977949
There's a women for every man on the planet, this is a statistical fact

You're allowed to be sad for max two weeks. After that you need to man up and move on. Get shit done.

Simply put, everybody feels 2, but you should be actively working towards 1.

Imo there's no better time to make valuable changes then after a breakup, all the emotions make for a potent mix.

>>16977918

you aact like those are literally the only two options. protip: they are not.

she DUMPED you. regardless of why she doesnt need to see you moping around to let her know how much she meant. would she even notice? i mean really what kind of logic is this?

you dont be sad to show someone something. thats called acting.

you are sad. you deal with it in the way thats best for you, and you focus on whatever you want to focus on that isnt her

>>16977748
>tumblr SJW who is mentally stable
pick one

>>16977750
also, what do you think the fat girl is hiding?

>>16977750
Top kek

Not otherkin n shit just "BLACKLIVESMADDUH" "FEMINISM PATRIARCHY" kinda nutso. not unstable, just an idiot.

you shouldsn't snoop. but other than that your bf is behaving fishy. tell him to be honest and end things if he feels bored with your relationship instead of cheating on you behind your back and hurting you

>>16977543
I've been in your situation. It sounds like he's interested in this girl, and trying to act on his crush. You're not doing the wrong thing by not allowing him to talk to this girl, you're clearly uncomfortable with his behavior and feel it could lead to cheating.
For the time being, you should stay and see if he keeps contacting this girl. If he continues to do so, it might be best to leave him, since that proves he values this girl above you. Best of luck, OP!

>>16977543
You're in the right. If he can't change his ways you deserve better. My first college gf couldn't stop talking to this one guy no matter how many times I asked, lied to me, kept it secret and such. I broke it off, they began dating within 6 months and when I last checked a year and a half ago, they still were.

Point is, that there could be something there between them, and I'm really sorry you're going through this OP. Tread with caution and best of luck.

so, this is an anonymous image board, let's me comletely honest. you don't say stuff like that by accident. why did you say friend instead of gf?

My boyfriend referred to me as his friend once when talking to someone. I literally did not care.
She shouldn't have gotten so worked up about it. Jumping right into the "he's cheating" boat was a pretty shitty thing to do.
Have you already discussed that it was an accident? You'll have to sit her down and tell her you're not cheating and she's making a big deal out of nothing.

>>16977548
>I literally did not care.
well, i would care a lot.

>>16977470
Bring it up in bed as a fantasy. See how he reacts.

>>16977470
These thigs are always a leap of faith if you tell him and he's completely closed to the idea there'll be a seed of distrust between you two.

I think you know if he'll be willing to or not. If you think you have to put it delicately, he's not going to like it. And if you have to pretend that you're a good girl, then it won't last. Just break up and visit a sex club or something.

Bumpin', i know it's alot to read but i may need advice

>>16977243
Dude were all just meat sacks that will be decomposed and forgotten in 150~ years, why waste your precious time on earth poisoning your self over another stupid meat sack? There's more to life than her man

I already know that, i just feel the need to get over get and...drink

>>16976865
You don't you rail that pussy then get convicted and jerk to it for years.

>>16976866

Would she be mad if she found out?

Or will she forgive me because I'm the one who took her virginity?

>>16976865

>someone said I dun no good

>higher power said I didn't

>does it matter if anyone know dis

Are you retarded?

>>16976836
Do Go All Out For Money Or Take It Easy With My People And Enjoy The Decline? I

>>16976842
Either works, depends on your long term goals.
I try to strike a balance of
Making enough an emergency isn't the end
and
Enjoying life with my family and friends

Neat, you're back!

Can you tell me what's the secret to a happy marriage? What would be the ideal scenario of a relationship unfolding, starting with dating and ending with being married with kids?