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-How to become a better person?
What tips you give to be more atractive, inteligent, smart thinking, wise, peacefull. Best ways to improve yourself? recently i am studying hard, and doing nofap [already 2 weeks].
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i also will like books and stuff.
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>>16968835
>How to become a better person?
Self satisfaction.
yes its that easy.
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>>16968846
haha, thanks for the reply
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Need help /adv/.
I'm in a relationship for about 7 months with a great girl. She's very innocent and treats me great. This has been my best relationship by far.
My problem is that me and her have recently came to an understanding that we shouldn't talk/sext with random people. This is something that we were previously okay with, as we were both doing it when we couldn't be with each other.
I had a girl that was smoking 10/10 (for my tastes) that would pretty much send me anything I asked for. She was obviously fucking insane, but that just made it hotter. And now I'm kind of missing that.
I am afraid I am going to get tempted and talk to her again. Basically I don't think I have the self control.
Aside from that, I have been getting shit tons of female attention since I started dating my GF (I became more confident and started working out) and I once again am afraid I will not be able to be loyal.
I don't know how to handle the situation, and I don't want to do anything stupid.
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>>16968713
Don't cut them off, and don't be flirtatious. I'd still be friendly, but tell them that you're in a relationship but you still like talking to them. If they don't seem to give a shit if you're in a relationship then cut them off.
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Delete the hot chicks number and remove her from all social media. And learn some self control.
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"When you are single all you see are couples. When you're part of a couple all you see are hookers"
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Black guy here
About to get a high fade haircut. Wondering how I can get a more v shaped fade like in pic 2, instead of straight up like in pic 1.
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nigger
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>>16968660
This is something you'll probably want to ask your stylist once you go to get your hair cut.
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Depends on your face shape. My guess is if you have a wide face, go for vertical, if you have a narrow face, go for V. But it's really hard to tell without seeing a pic, I'm just guessing.
If you can't decide and don't want to share a pic, ask the hairdresser which they recommend. They'll probably have a good idea.
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Approaching poet girl 2016-03-28 15:57:40 Post No.16968656
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After lurking on other faculty photo album (being engineering student), I found this qt who apparently is a book girl. She has personal blog filled with her writing, mostly poems and occasional short stories or journal.
I plan to start my own writing blog and approach her with "looking for friend of same interest". I'm kind of confident with my writing skill as I once won a novel writing contest and have it published, also won few short story contest. The problem is I've never really into poetry before.
In her situation, what kind of stuff do you expect to find in a guy's writing blog? Aside from diabetic inducing romance poem, what kind of poem I should write? Any reference? Judging by what she write, she's not in e/lit/ism tier, nor in barrel bottom chicklit tier, pretty average. Also, she seems into "inspirational life stories" kind of literary works.
Me in the pic.
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I know this is one of the slow boards, but
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You're going about this weirdly. Can't you just meet her normally and see what happens when it happens?
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>>16969342
Different faculty, in relatively big campus, no mutual friend, etc.
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My first job was in a supermarket, I worked in several departments in my time there and it sucked but that's normal.
Then I got what I thought was my dream job in an office doing web development but I hate it just as much as the supermarket (partly because of the people I guess).
I'm scared that regardless of what job I take I will hate it.
It scares me more than anything else in the world because the thought of spending 8+ hours a day dealing with shit I just don't care about seems like the most miserable existence you can have.
It scares me that when I talk with other people about this they just shrug and say something along the lines of "everyone hates work, just focus on the paycheck".
I don't care about the pay and I'm not a lazy NEET who opposes the idea of working completely, I just want a job that's satisfying.
Unfortunately the only things I find satisfying are writing stories and jacking off which aren't exactly high demand fields at the moment.
I'm trying to get good at art so I can convey my stories/support myself with commissions but art careers aren't very stable so my hopes aren't high.
Any advice?
tl;dr: Hated past jobs, hate current job, scared that I'll hate every job I take. Hoping to support myself with art but that will take years, is there something I can do to find a suitable career?
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>>16968630
Greatest life advice i ever received:
Make a living to keep yourself afloat, Then do what satisfies you on the side.
Countless people have thought they could make a living doing artistic pursuits. And people are going to fly in here saying TONS OF PEOPLE MAKE A LIVING DOING ART AND PURSING THEIR PASSIONS! But the truth is most people work for a living and master their craft on the side THEN maybe they can pursue their art as a living.
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>>16968645
Thanks for the advice, I agree entirely.
Too many people fall for the "follow ur dreams man" mentality and forget that their bank account doesn't give a fuck about their dreams.
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If you pursue what you are passionate about as work, it loses the joy. I've experienced it and seen it.
Like the previous poster said, you work to live. Find something bearable, but realise that there are always negatives to work. I focus on the positives to make each job bearable. Shit job had some decent co-workers. Shit job now means I work online--I can wear pajamas if I want and I get to live anywhere. See-positives among the garbage.
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Should I (male) join this feminist club
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>>16968624
only if you enjoy the social stigma from both sides you will receive over it.
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>>16968624
Jesus fucking Christ man. No the answer is no.
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>>16968624
Provided this isn't bait, sure.
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Best way to handle crying crush 2016-03-28 14:47:19 Post No.16968466
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Best way to handle crying crush
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Lets say you have a crush on a girl, go out to a bar and brings up her ex and start sobbing, what would be the best course of action? Hug her? Scold her? Call her on her bullshit?
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Express sympathy be it through facial expression (concerned look) or words and then crack a joke to make her smile.
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>>16968466
>have a crush on a girl,
>go out to a bar
>brings up her ex and start sobbing
lmao dude did she laugh
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>>16968493
What's wrong with that? Why would she laugh?
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Should I switch to another language? 2016-03-28 14:45:32 Post No.16968459
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Should I switch to another language?
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I've been learning Spanish for half a year now. I've been learning at a much faster pace that I expected, but now I am thinking about switching to another language.
The story is this. I've always wanted to learn a new language but I didn't have the opportunity to do so during secondary school. Back then, I would have probably picked French, German, or Japanese. During high school, I met an online friend who happens to be Spanish and we ended up talking every day. At uni, I had the opportunity to pick whatever I want as a new language for fun and the beginner courses here have a reputation for being easy to get good grades. I picked Spanish as I simply have someone to practice with and I think having a language buddy will definitely help me to become fluent in a language.
I ended up enjoying studying the Spanish language very much and I made surprisingly fast progress by myself. I love the way Spanish sounds. However, I do realise that I did initially pick a language because "I have some online friend who speaks that language". I don't have a crush on him (I am a girl btw), yet I think this is kind of a ridiculous reason to pick a language to learn and will lead to assumptions from other people and I do not want that. The truth is I wasn't particularly interested in Latin American culture and I dont have any plans to travel there (I am from Asia - Latin America is so far away and ky parents will not be willkng to pay for the flight tickets anyway).
I self-learned a bit of French, yet I didn't like French as much as I do not like the way it sounds. I think switching to another language may be a good idea as I dont want my online friend to think that I have feelings for him while I don't. However, I do realise that if I learn French, German, or Japanese, I will not have a language buddy and finding a language buddy who you can talk to all the time is not that easy.
Whatever language I pick is unlikely to affect my career prospects.
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Get really good at Spanish rather that so-so at a bunch of languages.
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Here's your german language buddy
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>>16968654
I'd say this. I switched languages a lot. I learned Portuguese as a kid, learned Latin in my tweens or so, and then picked up Japanese at the end of high school.
I never had anyone to talk to in those languages, and now I've forgotten almost everything. I can barely translate anything, let alone converse. All my linguistics teaching has pretty much been for naught.
If you don't use it, you'll forget it. Stick with a language you have an opportunity to use. If you're in the US, there's plenty of spanish speaking population that will make it the most useful of the languages you have picked.
Don't be like me. You have a good basis, use it. If you want to pick another language, I say do it after you become fluent, and make yourself trilingual. That's a valuable, useful, and sought-after skill, and if you pick languages that are desired, you can put it on your resume to great effect.
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I have a habit of using a knife (surgery knives) to peel my fingers
How do I quit this?
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Cut off your fingers
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>>16968385
>peel my fingers
Whoa, what? I'm gonna need more details, and pictures if possible.
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Sibling-like love between friends 2016-03-28 14:11:55 Post No.16968384
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Is it possible for two friends of the opposite sex to like each other in a sibling-like way? Like the relationship is fully platonic without crushes or whatsoever?
>inb4 no
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>>16968384
>Is it possible for two friends of the opposite sex to like each other in a sibling-like way? Like the relationship is fully platonic without crushes or whatsoever?
What if they're of the same sex? What if they don't identify as male or female? Huh? Didn't think of that did you? Check your fucking privilege male scum!!!
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>>16968384
Only if the man is gay. Wait, then the woman will want to fuck him... No, it's not possible, anon.
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>>16968550
Please go back to Tumblr
Same sex is usually not a problem as most people are heterosexual. I'm talking about opposite sex here.
Need your help, anons. Due to phymosis I was circumcised a week ago. Now, it's been a week since I've masturbated and I can't hold it anymore. Can't even watch animal planet without getting a boner. My question is; how to fap and reach orgasm without getting a boner which would result in stitches going kaboom. I'm desperate and it's only been a week, I can't wait 3 more.
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>>16968329
I lack a penis but maybe try a prostate orgasm? I've heard those a pretty fun.
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>>16968335
OP here. Had to take prostate check prior to operation and no way I'll ever push something in my ass in the opposite direction. I almost passed out.
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>>16968329
Why are you doing nofap
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Is it just me, or are sports dumb as fuck?? I might be preaching to the choir, here. I mean, I played sports as a kid and it was a fine way to meet/hang out with kids and use my time positively when I was in school. After school, though, I really see no fucking point in sports. Yes, the typical take-away is supposed to be "teamwork is key", but we all know that the majority of people playing sports are there to win and/or look cool. I'm also thoroughly convinced that the older someone participating in sports is, the more likely it is that they're just trying to avoid doing anything "real" with their life and love living like a grown up 17 year old. You might disagree, but I think having intense interests in any of the most basic, instinctual areas (athletics, sex, food) makes someone as dumb as a rock. Being good at kicking balls and running puts you like two notches above a fucking chimpanzee.
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>>16968259
I'm 21, I never played sports as a kid because I was fat. I'm going to start this year though because there's not a lot you can really do in life that adequately simulate the shit humans would do in the wild e.g. fight, hunt animals with weapons and shit. It's like an outlet for natural shit humans are supposed to do. I think it would be good for me physically and mentally, so I'll do it as a hobby in addition to my other interests.
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>>16968259
There's a whole bunch of different options when it comes to this, so the argument is weird. Don't like kicking balls and running? Do something else. Don't like team sports? There are individual sports too. Obviously in that variety there is something for almost everyone. Other than that they give you skills you wouldn't gain otherwise, keep you in good physical shape and challenge you both physically and mentally. As for the age argument, if you think there's anything else more badass than a 75-year-old acing a sport of his choice, then you're full of shit.
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>>16968295
I don't disagree that some level of physical activity is good for you. I just think it's fucking ridiculous when people go to the gym or play a sport in order to look a certain way - to be the "fit person". It ends up being a really narcissistic obsession. Being fit beyond what is necessary just makes you a meathead, not to mention being gym-fit rarely actually means you're in shape.
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Can boss fire you for depression? 2016-03-28 13:10:10 Post No.16968209
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Can boss fire you for depression?
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Is it wrong of your employer to fire you for depression? I work fast food and my manager says I always look upset, even when I just have an idle face. I've had depression since I was 15, and am now 21.
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>>16968209
If it affects their business then yes, of course they can. If however you're managing it and your performance is average or better then they probably won't.
My experience with employing people with depression is at some point their productivity will decline because they are usually very unreliable. I get rid of them ASAP after finding out.... and I always find out because of their high absentee rate and inability to meet performance targets on time and within budget.
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>>16968230
Well, it's a little different with my manager. She goes around telling people and making fun of me for it. She gets a cloud of bubbles from the back sink and holds her over her head, telling everyone that she's me. She has made my depression worse.
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>>16968247
I would find a new job and quit if she's doing that then, that's abusive and unprofessional
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How do you keep yourself from doing it?
I look around and everybody's happy.
What's wrong with me?
I'm not living, I'm just waiting for death.
I feel like I'm drowning in sleeping pills.
I just want to fall asleep and not wake up.
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>>16968190
Play video games with your husbando and realize you're just deluding yourself and you will never feel your husbando's touch.
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>>16968190
Bump, life seems like a scam for me
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I feel you, I'm so sick of my city, I just wanna gather some money and go away...
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Femanon here. From my experience it makes me SUPER HORNY but I'm never dumb enough to eerr, get rapped? Trigger muh PTSD. I only do it with people I trust. That is the key.
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Lol nope. It lowers your inhibitions and makes a lot of things seem great so a girl might be more likely to give consent under the influence to someone that they might not pass the same judgement on sober. But in that regard it isn't much different than alcohol - the girl in question was not high when she decided to smoke weed in the first place, you can't blame the drug. It's a matter of choice. Or if an 18 year old white girl smokes in the company of 15 nigs you gotta be able to smell this shit coming.
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>>16968135
This.
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>>16968125
Really weed makes girls horny as fuck?