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No because the orgasm may be involuntary. It is out of the realm of consent.

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>>16987704
All women want to be raped

by someone attractive

>>16987709
>orgasm
>involuntary

lol @ liberals and feminists

Depends what you did. It's entirely possible you deserved it.

>>16987708
I just can say I never comitted infidelity nor made her jealous. I never treated her like shit too. What most could I do?

>>16987714
Really OP, tell us why she slapped you. If you didn't deserve it you have nothing to hide.

>>16987366
Seems like a lot of work for a trip you can only enjoy at most every two weeks.

>>16987370
What work
Did you read the post?

> ecstacy which he claimed was mixed with acid

Are you fucking 14? Sounds like a great way to fry your brain the first try.

Do not try modern club drugs. Firstly because they make you act like an asshole, and you're the only one that doesn't notice or care (other than the other idiots tripping face). Secondly, a lot of people are selling research chemicals as "ecstasy" or "acid" which are really 2-c derivatives. Those will almost certainly damage your mind, it's happened to more than one of my friends.

>>16987290
> i tried to talk to him about my past and then he talks over me about his and I never get to finish.

my boyfriend is the same way wtf lol. he's also very emotional and says the same shit about how he doesn't know much about me. (meanwhile, he's more than happy to talk everything about him...) also, we don't have sex very often, but that's mostly a medical issue on his part. still makes me feel like shit sometimes but it's not something he can help.

honestly op, i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and i feel like bailing everyday. but the only reason why i haven't yet, is because i'm very busy building my career, so getting in and out of relationships is kind of the last thing i need right now. my boyfriend is something i'm just "dealing with" until everything settles down.

it's nice how he tells me he loves me every day though. we've also shared a lot of wonderful memories together, so it's harder to let go. but it's a pretty unsatisfying relationship. it's a relationship mostly about his feelings and his needs... i don't even get sex out of this.

i'm not really happy. but i'm not super miserable either. but maybe i can be an insight for what your future with your boyfriend might be like. 3 months isn't very long. so if i were you, i'd bail before you develop any further feelings.

>>16987321
You are an evil women. I hope you burn in gem for using your bf like that

>>16987341
*burn in hell

>>16987283
>inb4 daddy issues

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>So in a way I feel like I'm actually taking care of them and loving them in a way their wives aren't.

These are men betraying the person they swore would love until the day they died, unconditionally. They're basically scum of the earth.

You put them on a pedestal because you didn't have a father and want them to be yours and to have a connection with them, but they're just using your body and that's it. They will throw you away eventually because their family is still a bigger priority than a random teenager. Perhaps one of these dysfunctional bastards might even divorce to be with you, but if he did that you wouldn't like him anymore.

I guess if you ever want to be taken seriously and viewed as a respectful woman you'd understand how trashy what you're doing is and the feelings will stop naturally or you'll force them to.

>>16987298
You don't understand how shittily these wives treat their men though.

>Are people saying ‘it’s wrong to like be attracted to someone under 17’ just to sound like a good person?

No they say it because it fucking wrong , there are plenty of beautiful girls above the age of 18 why would you want to go to children for that sort of thing , attraction to 16 and 17 year olds is somewhat understandable these days because of how the dress and present themselves they don't look that young but either way it's just a no go zone

>>16987165
>Are people saying ‘it’s wrong to like be attracted to someone under 17’ just to sound like a good person?
Depends on who's saying it. Most people agree with it because it's simply society's standard of behavior. Note the variation by country in whether the age is 17 or 18 (or something very different).

I personally think it's wrong because high-schoolers generally are not emotionally mature enough to participate in sex or relationships, and can easily be seriously hurt. Those of us that are older have the responsibility to try to protect them from trauma until they're ready to engage romantically in safe and mutually beneficial ways. I'd say my absolute limit would be around 20 or so.

Of course, not everyone thinks this way. After all, in many places the average age at which people lose their virginity is around 17, which implies that for every person that loses it at 19, one person first had sex at 15. On top of that, in many places boys under the legal age are expected and pressured to be sexually active, hence the constant posts on here by people saying "i'm 19 and haven't lost my virginity yet, i'm a worthless neckbeard and going to die alone aren't i".

>>16987165
there's no denying that there are some really beautiful looking kids and teens. a lot of supermodels are around 16 years old. it's natural to feel attracted to them, but it would be wrong to act on it.

they aren't mentally stable or mature enough to handle a relationship with someone who has more life experience.

hell, at this age, they'll fall for the "nigerian prince scheme" under the right circumstances. this puts them in a vulnerable position to be manipulated. and when they are this young and impressionable, how you will treat them will shape and affect their mentality for life. you can easily make them a sex slave at that age and fuck them up for life. this is why people think pedophiles are disgusting, because they literally fetishize kids and get off on the fact that they're so naive and easy to manipulate.

if someone is an adult and don't understand this yet, and still chooses to act on their sexual desires on kids, they're probably weak in character, morals, and empathy and should therefore be treated as the subhuman that they are.

>>16986917
This guy sounds like he got instructions from /adv/

>>16986921
Really? I hope he doesn't browse here lol that would be awkward.
I wonder if he would be able to tell who I am from this post and the back of my head

>All these mind games cause you dont want to swallow your pride and have a one to one conversation with someone.

What are you? Still in high school?

You're afraid that if you tell him that there's a possibility that he'd just brush it off and pretend there were no feelings in the first place, or that he wouldn't be pretending at all.

Stop being an immature little brat.

move the fuck on

move the fuck on

fuck the move on

>Oral sex isn't sex
You're adorable.

>>16986566
"Stay moral; go oral!"
Enjoy Hell, btw.

No but anal sex is permitted

I raw dog my girl, and I know I'm being stupid, so I switched to condoms. Most of these people think "I'm careful, I pull out so it won't happen to me" but that first pregnancy scare usually sets people straight

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Oh yeah! You bet there's a chance!

Most of the girls in my hometown are all single moms cause they were too dumb to believe the pull out game existed.

At least you and your gf are smart and talk about that shit.

There's always a risk even with condoms but really, plan b or the pill will do the trick. Keep on keeping on OP

My girl is on birth control so hard she doesn't have periods

>>16986218
Shes mentally ill. I wouldn't touch it with your dick.

But seriously, abort. Gently.

>but I'm in a committed relationship with my partner.

Under the pretense that she's a mentally stable girlfriend. Not a mentally unstable half sheman thing.

>>16986230
this desu senpai

>>16986180
Have you been to therapy op?

>>16986180
>trans girl

Mentally Ill man*

FTFY

>>16986180

being clinically depressed means you are not stable enough to be in a relationship. by saying 'i am clinically depressed' you are admitting that your life and emotions are outside of your control, so how could you possibly help someone deal with theirs if you cant even deal with your own?

relationships do not fix people.

>>16985911
It wouldn't hurt to try and the chances of you EVER seeing her again are super slim. Unless you guys have like company parties and branches get together or something. Do it OP, you have nothing to lose. Don't worry about rejection, it's the only way to progress in life. You have to fail to move forward. Fuck her coworkers.

btw email or text, personally I don't think it matters which, but texting seems to be a more personal form of contact. I'd go with texting.

>>16985929
>Unless you guys have like company parties and branches get together or something
in december there are two big parties where people from every branch is invited, but nothing else.

i think i'll email. i've never texted her before, don't want to surprise her with a text. would rather continue the email chain

we're not that close either, i've never contacted her on skype for example.. but i never contact anyone on skype, i'm a friendless loser

is there a good way to word the email?

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bump
was thinking of emailing the following on monday
>i've been good. do you want to grab a coffee sometime in (cityname) [we live in the suburbs and commute to work]

what exactly does 'please keep in touch' mean?
we have going away emails at work, and everyone writes it. she wrote it in her email.
is it just a nice thing to say? asking for a coffee is a way to keep in touch right?

"You like that don't you, you dirty fucking slut? Yeah I bet you do after your daddy left you alone and miserable. Fucking slut, I bet you were sad and were left wondering if he left because of you."

> i wanna take a fat shit on your chest and then make you eat it.

I almost called her a cumdumpster but didn't want to reveal my powerl level

>ask me anything

literally troll or literally attention seeking

go fuck yourself

Who did it?

>>16985764
Babysitter. Mom paid some asshole high school guy to watch me when she was at work.