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Research anxiety control and calming techniques.

>>16968074
Thanks, will do! Any idea what could be the reason for my overreacting?

>>16968076
something probably happened to you as a kid.

You might be retarded.

> traits of concern, manipulative, lying, cheating, worrisome, depressed
Diagnosis : You're a jew

>>16968035

see a psychologist

>>16967979
>threatens me that I won't find any girl as pretty as her if I leave he
Prover her wrong tbhfam.

I have a friend like you. He's close to 30 and still acting the same than when he was 15.

He tried almost everything, but he's never made any progress and can't love a girl that doesn't make him crazy. When he gets a nice gf he dumps her after a month.

He also did the cutting and shit so she felt better.

You're fucked I think.

>>16967979
>What do

Why would you ask such a stupid fucking obvious question as that?

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>>16967895
>I rarely talk with people about what I did, what I feel and things like that.
Do that more

>>16968181
You see that's my problem because I can't actually do that, I feel really uncomfortable doing that

>>16967801
I kinda relate the thing I do is if something is a couple days away I'm like yeah let's do it and I'll do this and this also but when the day comes I don't do anything, the way I see it is I get hyped because I know I don't have to do anything and the problem isn't gonna get resolved yet. Like example I'll ask out a girl let's say Wednesday and it'll be Sunday, I'll get hyped, I'll rehearse and wait for the day, Monday comes Tuesday comes and I'm still all for it but then Wednesday I make excuses and i flake out.

>>16967801
I am the same.

Night owls i guess.

>>16967801
This is going to sound harsh, buy here's what I heard and agree with. At night, it's easier to get motivated because you know deep down inside you're not in a position to actually do the stuff, so you can be content imagining it. When morning comes and you physically could, your brain "shuts off" motivation because it doesn't want you to work (laziness).

It's nothing to be ashamed of, but you will need willpower to follow through with your ideas.

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Just ignore it. There's always going to be super rude people who stir shit up just for the fun of it. Theses are terrible people and don't deserve your attention

>>16967506
lol women
is this supposed to be upsetting

Ignore it. In a couple days the comment will be buried under tons of other comments everyone will forget about. If you respond it will make you look petty. Then you would actually be an idiot like they said.

>>16967488
Flip the breakers, lock the box

>>16967494
Thank you. BTW he's playing ICP so this morning is even worse

I asked him to stop. But he won't listen

>>16967480
I would say that police would frown upon someone crapping where they're not supposed to.

how long is your shift? and where does your employer expect you to go to the bathroom during work? do they expect you to hold it or are they just like "well if you gotta piss, just do it outside"? I think there are laws about what kind of bathroom facilities/breaks employers are required to provide, but they probably vary by state. what state do you live in?

>>16967480
poo in loo pajeet

>>16967509
>how long is your shift?
More than 8 hours.

> and where does your employer expect you to go to the bathroom during work?
There's a port-a-potty but I'm above using that.

>do they expect you to hold it or are they just like "well if you gotta piss, just do it outside"?
I piss outside anyways because there's literally no way to get caught. For a while I was basically what you said then they put the port-a-potty up a few months ago but see above.

>I think there are laws about what kind of bathroom facilities/breaks employers are required to provide, but they probably vary by state. what state do you live in?
No thanks, I don't want to get reported to the FBI and NSA and such.

I work in a shitty area of time btw so the cops have a lot of actual crimes to deal with

I don't get it. Is she an idiot for dating you and breaking up would improve her life?

Uhm, if she's an idiot, how will breaking up with her improve her life and how would dating an idiot make YOU happy?

>>16967419
Give some details, based off of the OP you sound very fitting.

>>16967163

be there for him to rant to, do things he enjoys to help distract him, and encourage him to cut contact with his ex.

i always hated that image. its the kind of thing 'depressed' people tell themselves to make them feel superior.

Try to get the guy in rehab, don't give him money for drugs. It won't help him, and as drug habits go he'll just need more and more money, and will probably sell his body for the extra anyway. Not going to prevent that by supplying him money for his habit.

>>16967178
what does it have to do with depression?

Weird, but relevant question:

Are you a guy or girl?

>>16967064

this happens. me and my friend were best fucking buds, then one day boom, we werent. now im jsut that annoying little brother he invites because he has to. my charm tends to have an expiration date. but he also seems to have had some change within him,.

>>16967082
Guy

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So my issue with this is i have been dating him for almost 3 years now, i love him very much and i don't know a more caring and funny person in the world. Since it happened though all my girlfriends want me to leave him. I don't want to but i have noticed he doesn't feel much regret for near paralysing the boy (who i have gone to visit twice and bought flowers for the mother and father) and that in the past he has manipulated me before, for example he convinced me the jews made up the holocaust. Like he had an answer for everything i googled, really convincing. Then later he laghed at me for believing him. I thought it was funny at the time but looking back it's quite dark. Essentially i'm asking should i leave him? I've come to the conclusion that he might actually be a bit crazy but i still dont see him ever hurting anybody, he is fit and fairly average in height so he could probably hurt someone but he never gets into fights or even conflicts, he usually just agrees with people even when i know he has different views.

>>16966873
Hm 3 years and hes only manipulated you for his own personal amusement? Nah fuck everyone else, keep him close. He loves you as much as you love him and i believe he wont hurt you because you dont look like a target like that skateboarder was. He just has a different sense of humor, but no i think you shouldnt leave him. You already love him, you wont be able to unlove him if you leave him now. Sorry to say it like that but its the truth.

Buutttt hey you should come over to this thread and answer my question. I have a question about my friend and how shes talking to me.

>>16966781

P.S. talk to him, try to see what goes though his mind, but dont give up on him. You guys have already been through alot it seems, years wise. :)

Huh. Well I would give him the benefit of doubt. During an accident you dont think, just act what is the best you can do. In the end, the accident was not fatal, neither the skateboarders or you died. About him not regretting about the accident, he probably thinks it was one of the best outcome that could have happened during the accident. So IMO you dont have enough proof to leave him. If possible, go to another psycologist to see what thinks of him (as you may know, what one psycologist says may not be always true)

TLDR: Stay with him, until another psychologist or stronger proof says he is nuts. If so, evaluate the pro and cons of having him as a bf

>>16966686
>I love math and love the idea of research in math
>Real Analysis Part II) that's fucking my shit up
nah man dont bother with this route or math grad school, just get your BA and get a job.

>>16966720
What makes you say that anon? If you don't mind me asking

There's nothing wrong with a double major. And quite frankly, college is more about learning to network and gaining those skills you need. The degree itself isn't as important. Most companies (unless you're in a very specific field) just look for an honest 4 year degree. But there is nothing wrong with a double major and would probably take you a year max to finish. Just a thought

>>16966663
How does she feel about you?

I don't know. She send me message with emojis that are annoying. She ask me where I work and if I want she can go for me.

Im in your virgin situation, i could have lose it with a 13yr slut 7/10 face 9/10 body when i was 16 but i reject it because i was worried about what people would think specially the girl i liked, huge mistake, i also could have lost it 2 years ago with my ldr 9/10 face 10/10 body virgin gf but i even reject her nudes because i didn't wanted to ruin the special moment when we really do it, i was so confident that she will never dump me.... anyway stupids mistakes, dont lost your chance, that "special" moment with the one you love ir will be special anyway even if you fuck 100 times before, just do it and gain experience you will not regret it