If I'm going to be an adult in matter of a few months and I want to have sex with a girl who's 12 how should I go about doing it?
Get her drunk.
>>16984306
take her on a picnic :)
Just approach her parents and explain to them what you want to do
/adv/ help
I'm fuckin' stumped mang.
Does anyone with a gf actually have any meaningful conversations with their girl?
I am fucking bored of mine so much, I literally just feel frustrated and angry when she tries to talk to me, nothing is ever fun, it always comes off as if she's pretending to care about the topic just to please me or try get attention out of me, but it never feels genuine.
When I talk to my friends it could be about the dumbest shit but it's still hilarious or stupidly serious.
My girl recently tried talking to me about UFC fighters, a topic I mentioned I talk about with my guy friends and she literally started the conversation with "Would you fuck Ronda Rousey?" and as a dude; alarm bells just ring out like
>if i answer this as 'Yes' will she get mad? if I answer as 'No' I'll have to justify why I said 'No'
So I ended up just getting annoyed and disregarding the question.
But this is just one lame as example, it seems every fucking time there is some attempt at conversation, it feels forced and arbitrary..
my question to you /adv/ is have anyone with a GF consistently have meaningful, interesting or even fun conversations with their girl that aren't about dumb day-to-day shit or feelings?
>update: we're literally fighting over this right now, she's going off about how little attention I give her and I'm trying to explain I feel bored.
the worst part is, i don't even know if I'm right, I am totally lost atm.
I've never had a girl that could talk particularly intelligently about most subjects, and it's the #1 complaint I hear from my friends about their women.
Granted, some of these girls are pretty smart, its just their scope of knowledge is very, very, very narrow. Try talking to her about something she's passionate about and ask her questions about it. She's trying to talk to you about UFC shit because she likes you and wants to try and relate and talk about stuff you like.
Flip it around, try talking about stuff she likes.
This is by no means a guarantee. I fucked a girl for awhile where we basically never really spoke about anything other than how short a skirt she was wearing at work that day. I tried to get her to talk about something and she just made references to LOTR for two hours.
well, recently broke up, may get back together, but still counts?
to answer your question, yes. i even have meaningful conversations with girls that im just casually seeing. I wont engage with people who can't. They don't stimulate me, and not worth my time when there are 7billion other people on this planet.
stop going for the girl that you find cute, date because you find her cute, and tolerate all that "flirty shit" just because she gets your dick hard.
girl i was together with was able to talk with me about a wide variety of things. i genuinely enjoy her company. she's funny and college educated. set your standards a bit higher than "yeah id fuck her" only date girls that have what you're looking for, dont accept less than what you think you deserve (i am NOT talking about looks at all here folks)
>>16984145
This.
I'm a girl who feels about guys the way OP feels about his girl. Turns out most people don't spend 4+ hours a day researching everything under the sun or coming up with ethically consistent worldviews. So I date the ones who can keep up.
>Girlfriend posted a picture of her sucking on a lollipop on Tumblr captioned "This could be you" like 2 years ago before we got together.
It still bothers me very to this very day, not much the fact that she's posted it on the internet. It's more like actual disappointment that she's done such a thing. It's slutty and I hate shit like that.
Wat do, should I adress this or just let it go like a man?
Just let it go.
>>16983924
>should I adress this or just let it go like a man?
You just acknowledged that letting it go was the manly thing to do, so why are you asking?
>>16983924
it's an inanimate object op.
it's all good.
For some reason Mexican girls fucking love me. I've had a Mexican girl try to fuck me randomly just meeting me, all the girls I talk to online that like me are Latina, and the only girls to really compliment me or stare are Mexican.
I live in a white as fuck small farm town. How can I meet Latinas? Help
>>16983674
move to southern california?
>>16983674
Move anywhere there aren't Tractor Supply Co stores.
>>16983674
Go to a major city
So, I was nearly jumped today while walking a block from my car to work during business hours on a wide open busy street with other people around. Unfortunately I can't really talk about this since, you know, supposedly this 'doesn't happen to white people' and most of my long-term friends are turning very PC. Its kinda lonely.
I travel a lot for a living and work has taken me to the St Louis convention center (downtown) this week. l parked my car a block from the downtown convention center. Lots of people around, its business hours and business people are out walking so I feel fine. I'm walking on the right side of the street and there are these two black girls walking behind me on the left (I'm a very small blond girl). I didn't know they were there until I heard them screaming really loudly (thought something was wrong) so I looked over. Immediately they scream 'the fuck you looking at you white bitch' so I just kept walking and went back to my business/phone.
I didn't even realize they had crossed the street until I hear them behind me saying 'look at that fucking white bitch looking all important' 'we're gonna fucking murder you white whore see how important you are when you're dead'. I'm the only person on that side of the street so it's pretty obvious who they're talking about, especially when they laugh when I try to go into the convention center but the door was locked ('bitch trying to run'). They try to go in some other doors but those are locked too so I get some distance.
I walk in to the convention center and hover by the security guard and sure enough those girls walk in. I stand next to the guard and they walk past, after a moment the guard asks me what's wrong and I tell her. The girls make about three loops inside until a security officer comes to them and asks them what they were doing; they reply they just wanted to see if the convention was open and left. When they passed me one girl muttered 'you're fucking dead'. That was that.
cont.
>>16983596
ghetto and crazy is a dangerous combination, sorry you had to go through that anon, but don't stress thinking as if it's gonna be a common occurrence or those random crazies are gonna ever see you again
sounds like you did everything right
cont.
Makes me wonder if I hadn't looked at them would they have still tried? Did they purposely call attention to themselves for that reason? If I hadn't been on that street would they have kept walking until they found someone? Like what was their intention? To hurt someone just because or did they really think I might actually have money? Once they left did they go out and hurt someone else or did I alone offend them?
Anyway. Don't really need advice just... like I said my friends are all turning very PC and I am starting to think maybe I am a bad person because I just don't 100% buy into the PC bullshit, but I can't tell them what happened because they'll spout off about how I now know how it feels to be a minority or something.
>>16983602
Nah I'm not worried I'll see them or have that sort of experience again. Whats mostly stressing me is my second post ( >>16983603
) and the fact I just don't have anyone to talk to.
Also sorry for the slow response; the internet at the hotel sucks.
How should I feel about my girlfriend posting this on social media? I talked to her about how it seems to me like she's essentially telling the world I'm less attractive than her ex, but she dismissed it saying it wasn't about me. To anyone who knows we're dating, I feel like that's the obvious implication though. Should I be concerned?
>>16983569
aww look
anon's first bait
My ex used to do this shit.
OP, if a girl does this shit, get the fuck out. She's obviously not over her ex.
>>16983569
Post pic
So the wage here in California just got approved for an increase.
Any point in going to college anymore? Since I'll be making the same as a dishwasher with no college education
there already was no point in going to college unless you're getting a degree where you gain extremely specialized information that allows you to get a career which pays a lot
>>16983501
if you have no savings like most people who -stay- at minimum wage, then probably no point to college.
all you'll do is incur massive debt to compound your poor money choices.
also only big companies will probably be able to deal with their entry level positions with this wage hike. expect smaller companies that are local to stop hiring.
Minimum wage will go up, but rent will also climb to scale. It will still be somewhat unliveable.
Go to school or learn a trade or you're going to be fucked.
Why is it that when i look at girls they look back it me blankly, almost angrily. Why do they never approach me and initiate conversation
I'm 18 year old
>>16983332
Hard to say man are all like that towards you?
>>16983332
Are you physically attractive?
Sounds like you're creeping. Girls rarely ever approach. Get a hobby and work from there
Odd question for here but,
I have a five year old at home, who's started to dislike me because 'daddy's never home'. And to be fair, I hated my pop until I was old enough to understand why he worked so much.
I work two jobs for my family to provide and to pay the bills, and my daughter is usually asleep when I get off work. Is there anything I can do with the fleeing moments I have with her? Or is it just hope she realizes how much I really do care for her down the line?
I work 11 hour shifts Monday thru Friday, then at my second job I work 8 hour days on the weekends. I'm in a permanent stage of exhaustion. And I can't afford to miss a single hour of work.
I just feel like I'm failing as a father.
She'll understand one day, anon. You're a good dad.
>>16983324
I really hope so anon. I really do hope I'm doing the right thing.
I feel for you, and I'm so sorry. I don't know what to tell you. I don't think there's really anything you can do. I think a lot of kids come to hate their parent's until they're older and it's too little too late. Awful, but it seems to be how it is. My Dad was always busy when I was younger, for awhile he was actually out of state 5 days of the week and only home on sunday.
I was a Daddy's girl for sure, so when he was home we always would go fishing or out hunting with his bird dog. What does she like to do? Don't know how to enjoy quality time more than doing something you both like, but compromising and doing what she likes to do is more likely. Still, it's great to have something special that just the two of you do: for me and my dad it was fishing and long walks in the woods when I was little. Now that I'm older we meet up to dive and play civ together online. She's young...so, is it possible you could introduce her to something you're good at/know a lot about that she would also enjoy?
I found my sister's phone and found out she is dating her science teacher. She's 14 and he's 35.
I confronted her about this and she says she loves him and she's not being taken advantage of. She wants me to stay quiet and is bribing me with half her allowance.
Do I keep quiet or tell our mom?
Don't tell anybody. Let it go.
It's a stupid thing for her to do, and probably not 100% ethical for him, but if you tell anybody, he will be ruined. I doubt he deserves that.
>>16983309
She's fourteen. She's barely hit puberty. Of course he should tell someone.
He will be ruined and you know what? That's a good thing. She is underage and this is both immoral and illegal.
Would you not tell someone about physical assault because it would "ruin their lives"?
OP, I suggest you try to get her to confess of her own accord, to salvage your relationship with her. But she is behaving illegally and she can also get in serious trouble for this. It has to stop.
This isn't even a question. Child molesters can't be tolerated, tell your mother.
> be me
> 5'2 and 110 lbs
> big fucking pot belly that i have to suck in all the time to not look pregnant
what the wieners
Eat better and exercise...
>>16983071
is there a way to specifically target the stomach because literally everything else looks fine
>>16983074
Nope
Go to \fit\ and read the sticky for more advice
What should a highschool student do if he has a problem ( mentally) that he should've gotten squared away months ago, but he focused on schoolwork and his problem progressed to the point where he could end up ruining his future because of it? ( He also loses a ton of sleep thinking about it)
Well can you still solve the problem? If yes, then do it.
Nice kitty btw
A high school student is still a baby. Your future is most certainly not ruined, so quit being a melodramatic whiner.
>>16982871
>>16982874
Thanks! Also I'm not sure if I can solve it, it's an addiction . let's say my problem is...cheesy?...
what would you do if it were your last day alive?
>>16982689
Fuck as many back pages girls as I could before I keeled over. Get drunk, fight people, kill people, essentially become as hedonistic as I possibly could. I only have a precious few more moments of existence so I'm sure as shit going to do all the things I've always wanted
i would probably just sit and wait for the inevitable..
>>16982689
go on a massive raping spree desu
My long distance girlfriend lives in a ghetto zone. Before meeting I remember sometimes she told me that perverts said things to her while walking on the street and one time ir almost turned physical. When I went there I almost went hands with 5 dudes that said things to her while she was with me. One time a 'gang' of like 20 guys started saying things to her in front of me and she begged me not to go because we could both end up at th hospital or her raped. I am really sick of this shit. I get a big rage inside every time she tells me something like this, and the effect is double if it's in person. I argued with my girlfriend because of this, she asked me not to go insulting this people and just ignore them (unless it turns physical). And I didn't went to visit her since we agreed that. I still get a really big rage when she tells me that niggers follow her for like 3 blocks saying pervert things at her back. I don't know really what to do. I want them to stop, you can't be that asshole. I want to defend her too so that anyone messes with her while she is with me, but are the risks too high with these people? I want to walk with her on the street in peace and not having to fight with guys that are being assholes and perverts just because or just because they are a group of guys against me. Someone faced any similar problems? Is this related to my inscurity that i turn so aggressive or it's normal?
Anyone guys? I'm going to visit her tomorrow and I really don't want these things to happen.
Any female there that has this same problem?
nah, this problem doesn't exist. women just like to pretend they get harassed on the street
>oh wah wah people pay attention to me and compliment me
fuck off shill
>>16982554
Are you serious?
She event sent me audio files some times and she isn't an attention whore
I used a "makeup app" (and app where you apply makeup to a pic of yourself) to put the brown lips and slight eyeliner onto this pic. Can you tell its not genuine makeup?
this is the original actual photo
the fuck is wrong with you
the eyeliner looks like shit.
You're hot af