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A lot of people here are dealing with social anxiety/shyness/introversion/loneliness/etc.
I'm thinking about starting some kind of business where my friends and I help people get over their social disadvantages.
It would either be through something like online coaching, where you email your in depth situation, and we reply back with advice and specific exercises you can do etc, OR through actual classes where you meet up with an instructor and you go about doing said exercises.
Question for you guys : Would you be willing to pay for "classes" on getting over your anxiety? How would you like something like that to be structured? Any advice for someone who is thinking about starting something like this?
>pfft I'm not paying for some shmuk to teach me social skills
What if it made the difference between sitting at home jacking to porn and dating pic related?
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>>17087947

No. Also you come across like an arrogant prick 2bh. Some random person 'coaching' others without any actual training or knowledge...and asking for MONEY is bullshit.
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>>17087947
I'd be willing to pay, yes. But, just curious, how Jew are you?
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>>17087956
Fag.

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>meet a couple through a friend
>after a while i fall in love with the girl
>they've been together forever
>i have no chance
>i can't get over her
>have been in this situation for 2 years

So obviously I don't tell her right, because I'm good friends with her bf as well. I can't fucking move on. Do I just need to avoid them?
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kys?
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>>17087922
kys himself.
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>>17087913
yeah best you can do is just avoid them dude. If they ask you could tell them. If they are cool, they guy would probably respect that you did that rather than being an orbiter faggot.

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Why does being an alcoholic sound like such a good idea at night time?
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>>17087899
Why does the 3d anime chick have anaphylactic shock?
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>>17087899
Are you a grill OP?
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>>17087903
That's a boy character I made in Artificial Academy 2.

>>17087904
I am a boy

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Is it wrong to fuck with a girl by looking at her and making it look like i'm interested but then give her a total cold shoulder whenever we are close or just completely ignoring her?
And If not
Any tips? wanna have some fun desu senpai
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>>17087891
>is it wrong to act like a woman?

ftfy.

Do it op. Do it for guys everywhere.
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Is it wrong to confuse and hurt people for my own amusement?

What do you think?
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>>17087960
>Do it op. Do it for guys everywhere.

I remember reading about ugly fuckers whose lives where fucked because they trusted girls like this, I never want to experience even being around them ever again to fucking depressing.

I will do it for the sad fuckers who lurk /soc/


>>17087980

She deserves it desu

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Is there a list of useless college majors? What are some useless majors?
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Philosophy, history, anthropology, sociology, liberal arts, and anything incredibly specific and useless to anyone like transgender studies.
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>>17087887
So anything with "studies" in it.
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>>17087887
I love marine biology, t-b-h.
Please let that be useful and fruitful.

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So I quit my job about a month ago because I was under the heavy impression I had another job lined up, I interviewed 3 times, had great rapport with the managers, they kept assuring me I had the job but never gave me an offer.
First they said they would get back to me on the 17th, then the 23rd, which they never did. Called them yesterday and they said the manager said he would call me back that night, never did.

Can I apply for unemployment in the state of California for quitting my other job on the premise that I had another opportunity but it didn't pan out?
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I also left my other job on good terms, and only put in my two weeks when the guys that wanted to hire me reassured me non-stop.

inb4 "never quit a job until you have an offer in writing, go back to your other job, etc.
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>>17087848
>inb4

Well, in practice it's the obvious truth. I get being excited but it's just general common sense. Go beg for your old job back
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>>17087855
don't think I have a chance with unemployment?

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How do you break up with someone youve lived with for 4 years?
They still really love me, but our relationship is dead. We do nothing.
They have few local friends and their family is on the other side of the country.
What do?
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Be honest. What's worse than dragging an emotionally dead relationship along after 4 years? 5 years. It has to end, so just get it over with. Yes, it will suck, but isn't it better for everyone involved?
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>>17087831
Thats my thinking.
We have a vacation planned this month. I think after that. Maybe things will magically turn around.
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>>17087823
Your coworker must be so hot. She ruined your relationship.

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We're both 24, met ar work, develop an infatuation. She tells me she really likes me but she wants to stay with her boyfriend shes only been with for two months. What do i do in this situation is she just using me as an emotional pillow? Is this a huge red flag and i should abort? I mean shes all over me all the time touching me and bitting me and playing around but wtf.
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>>17087790
She would do the same thing to as she is doing to him. Move on.
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Uhh, yeah that's a red flag. If the position were reversed, and you were going out with her, wouldn't you feel a bit worried about your current situation? She doesn't seem trustworthy in the slightest. She actually seems like a horrible person
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The thing is we agreed to not follow it further so that we dont hurt the other guy or anybody else, i dont want to fuck around and be all sneaky and shit either. I get that happyness shkukdnt come at thr expense of other but its not like they are super serious, it seems she jumped into something then i come a long and now shes scared

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Hey guys. I was chatting with a chick on anti-chat. It says you have to be 18 years old to use it and her profile said she was 18. Anyways after we were chatting for a while she says she was 17, turning 18 in three days. I immediately told her to stop talking to me. Does this sound like a sting or am I just being paranoid. I feel like they would have to be more clear about the age from the beginning.
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>>17087772
17 is legal in most place 2bh
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>>17087772
>turning 18 in three days
Your desperation is showing.
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>>17087776
Not in North 'Murica

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Which job would you take if you were in my situation?

Finishing college in a week and have two offers. I didn't think I was going to get any and now I have two. One of which seems ridiculous.

Job A:
Basically 70k, big city in south, company seems off, glassdoor reviews say managers are fucktarded. People are very nice.

Job B:
60k, same city in the south, company is well known and established, reviews say the place is excellent. People are meh.
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>better pay and nice people

Hmmm
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>>17087769
They seem dysfunctional
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>>17087791
Don't trust reviews that much. A well-known and established company is more likely to see you as being replaceable and won't have much interest in training you.

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Saw a thread where a fellow oldfag was giving advice and I thought I'd throw in my hat.

40 years old
Professional audio engineer
Two kids
Married for 16 years

Fucked up more things in my life than I got right but I'm a better man for it. Ask away.
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How do you keep a woman happy?

For say, 16 years?
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>>17087750

The most important part of any relationship is listening.

No matter what we go through my wife and I can always find a solution when we sit down and talk about it, face to face, no bullshit. Maybe we've been lucky, but its sustained us for almost two decades. If you would of told me that was going to be the case when I was 18 I wouldn't of believed it.

When we were younger we moved around a lot, went to concerts, had crazy nights on the town; keeping things interesting was easy. Now we have to put time aside just for us but regardless, making her happy makes me happy.

If making your woman happy doesn't make you happy you're probably with the wrong one.
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what is your height and weight. also,

what other boards do you frequent

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>At Macy's
>Some guy in business casual attire comes up to me and asks if I've seen the new Superman movie
>Thought it was kind of weird but engage him
>Keep talking some more
>Later on he says I seem like a sharp guy and would like some sort of business partner and that he's a business owner
>Ask him for a card
>He asks for my number
>Says he'd like to get together at a Starbucks and discuss his business opportunities

Is this some kind of scam or is he just gay?
It was odd that someone would come up to me like that.
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>give your opinion on a superman movie
>become a business partner

Seems legit
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>>17087727
I told him I haven't seen it lel
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I agree with you, it sounds very odd. Most likely a scammer or con man. I strongly suspect that his next move will be to describe an "amazing investment opportunity" that will pay off "big" and all you have to do is let him borrow 10k money and he'll "get back at you"

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How do I learn to cook for myself? I'm fucking my budget and my belly up with fast food
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>>17087714
Youtube videos. Cook what makes you horny. Might as well start here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUP7U5vTMM0

I also like jacques pepin and munchies on vice.

Cooking cheap is another matter entirely. Cooking in bulk is the start, but there's a balance with the versatility of ingredients in multiple dishes so you don't go insane that becomes an art. Also means you only have to cook lunch or dinner like twice a week.
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>>17087714

There's magical things called cookbooks. There are also other tools, like looking up basic cooking techniques and videos with a computer to learn how. It's like magic, learning about different subjects like that.
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Like the guys above said, youtube videos and cookbooks. There are lots of Internet sources at your disposal. Don't forget about the cooking shows on TV. Do you have a relative or friend who's good at cooking? Or maybe take a trip with someone to a grocery store if you can and ask questions, and for suggestions.

I don't think there's an easy way to describe "how" to cook. It's a skill; you practice it. You won't be good at first. You'll make a lot of mistakes, but won't get better by avoiding it and not trying. Pick a dish you want to learn how to cook, and practice it. Start off with easy dishes, and then move up to harder ones at your pace. Cooking is a very valuable and useful skill, so I wish you luck.

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How do I tell my friend that I just don't fuck with him anymore? No real reason in particular, I just find him annoying now. We've grown apart and have different interests and shit. I can tell the conversations are force when we talk to each other.

Only reason I'm having a hard time is because he's been my buddy for quite a long while.
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Just stop talking to him. Years from now you might regret it but fuck you, this is what you want
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>>17087696
Don't leave old friends behind.

That's what women do.
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>>17087699
>>17087700
Well yeah, I feel kind of bad, but he's not really the type of person I can just talk it out with. If that were the case, we'd probably be on decent standing right now.

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>gf of 3 years
>she has debt

We both met while she was coming out of college. I was already 1 year out of college in her town doing contract work. I was working / doing food service in between contracts. When she graduated she had a job lined up and worked for 6 months and got let go. After that she took a year off from working while she was still looking for a job. She was living on Employee insurance.

Fast forward today. 3 years into our relationship. She does part time work and volunteer work in her field. I have a job. We haven't gone on vacation / I don't feel comfortable with moving in with her cause she doesn't have a job.

The problem is shes in debt and doesn't really have any plan/strategy/motivation to get a job . I'll constantly offer help, suggest jobs that I've seen online and be patient.

Well now the relationship is at a point of sink or swim. Feels like anything I suggest she just gives me a fucking excuse or just starts crying. Honestly it feels like she just wants to have kids / have someone deal with her debt.

I don't see any REAL effort to get a job.
e.x I woke up every morning applied to jobs for months on end. or her she thinks that's insane.

she claims she applies to jobs. but I think its just fucking bullshit just to get me off her back.

feels like I'm some sort of father figure and shes a dumb teenager that won't get off her butt to take responsibility for her life. or relationship is great. but when it comes to serious shit. money / future etc. She's all feels and no real fucking plan/idea of action.
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>>17087663
I feel like I've done everything I can on my end. Most of our relationship is just me being patient on her. As the relationship goes on I feel a pressure to commit more. But she doesn't have what I need to commit more.

I feel the second we move in she'll become more lazy.
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Give her an ultimatum: Get a job or your relationship with her ends.
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>>17087678
This is basically what I said.

IT honestly feels like her plan on life is as follows
>I have debt
>maybe if I don't talk about it , it will go away
>someone else will deal with it

seriously I don't understand it at all

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