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I keep falling asleep at work. Today my manager saw it too. I used to have severe sleep problems in high school and college that made me fall asleep even while driving. even though I get about 7 hours of sleep every day I still fall asleep at work. my boss doesn't seem happy at all. what do i do?
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Do you eat well? Take vitamins?
Lack of B vitamins, iron, vitamin d, etc can cause constant sleepiness. In the meantime, drink green tea.
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>>17091436
I eat very well but I do not take vitamins. I guess I'll take vitamins and see if that helps at all.
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>>17091417
7 hours is nowhere near enough sleep for most people. Try 9 or 10.
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Would it be a dick move to expose a molesting cousin after 20 years? He's now married with a kid in the military as a consideration.
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>>17091404
depends on the 'molesting' he did and why you want to expose it now.
tell us the story. no need to gratuitous sexual detail but the circumstances are required for us to know.
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>>17091408
>no need to gratuitous sexual detail
Speak for yourself. OP got pictures?
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I was 10 and he was 16 and he used ice to shove down my pants to retrieve it with his mouth, and happened more than few times.
Why now? No particular reason. I've just always wondered if should have brought it up.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for years. We aren't planning on breaking up anytime soon, and we both want to get married a few years down the road, maybe sooner, but right now, at this point in my life, I want my own fucking place.
I love him to death, but I hate that I get resentful with him smoking in the house and generally not picking up as much as I like to keep the house clean. We have tried to communicate about this, tried to come up with ways to keep things clean, each having our own chores, and he has tried quitting (did for about two years), and tried those vapes, and now he's back to two packs a day.
On top of this I just feel fucking crowded even though I have other space in the house to be. I love him to death, but oh my fucking god I want my freedom back. I want to clean the house and not have it get messy again within three days, I want to only worry about cooking for myself, I want to get my own pets and hobbies without first having to come to some kind of compromise with my partner.
We're reaching a point where in the next year we will both be finally stable enough to support ourselves without leaning on each other.
My question is, should I pursue my own place? And yes I have brought this up to him before and he asked me to at least wait till we we're both in a more financially stable spot, which I was already planning on doing.
Have any other couples done this? Did it help, or harm your relationship?
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>>17091378
honestly if he doesnt care where he smokes and doesnt clean up after him self then he doesnt sound like a very good husband i would get separate bed room but not a separate place. just broke up with a guy with similar issue but doesnt mean you should do the same
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Just make him smoke outside. Do more outside the house.
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I'm in the same position, except instead of moving out, I want to fuck other girls
I feel your pain OP
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Sup /adv/ people. I'd really like to help a few friends of mine find good men. The friends in question are very much in-line with what /adv/ likes in women. I on the other hand have like 90% of the red-flags that /adv/ considers bad in women. Because of this, I have trouble helping out.
How can I help my girls out? They're sweet and all, and deserve good things.
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>>17091372
>The friends in question are very much in-line with what /adv/ likes in women. I on the other hand have like 90% of the red-flags that /adv/ considers bad in women.
You're going to have to qualify those statements.
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>>17091377
How do I help my traditional, conservative, shy, sweet friends get some dick.
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>>17091393
Male prostitutes.
Stop meddling in your friend's lives you nosey cunt mind your damn business.
I don't smoke but my friend got me a couple of cigars. How do I smoke these things?
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>>17091334
Do you know how to smoke a cigarette? You leave the smoke in your mouth instead of into your lungs, otherwise have fun coughing. also, you probably want a cigar cutter so you can chop off the end and light it.
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Pull a Freud and assume it's a cock.
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why ask these idiots go to youtube and watch someone do it
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Im doing a bridging course because I got kicked out before graduating highschool, was homeless for a bit so there is a gap and I can't get into uni.
Problem is it's easy except by their standards I didn't use enough referencing so I'm failing. Teacher keeps complimentig me on my 'big brain' cept I might not get a place.
From what I can tell it's one of those courses where girls get A's and guys get real grades.
How can I go over the course markers head and prove I'm fit for university? I'd need solid A's on participation and 2 reports otherwise.
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what are you talking about your post is unreadable
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>>17091316
i dont mean to sound rude but if you were homeless then where did you go?
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>>17091316
w2c that sweet Zach Hadel action figure?
What do you do when the love of your life doesn't love herself?
I made a thread about this before a long time ago. It was in regards to the same girl im in love with and now married. She never let me help with any of her problems. She would always tell me no when it came to me offering her gifts, or my efforts. She has gotten better at it, but there are still extreme moments.
My wife has chronic depression and anxiety attacks. You would think by now I could handle them, but each time they happen I am deeply hurt. I give my everything while I watch her cry and dry heave until she goes unconscious. The next morning she will wake up deeply depressed. This all stems from a shitty childhood she had where everyone told her she was ugly/disgusting/useless/not worth it. An anon gave me advice that she would eventually open up to me and let me help her. But it's still not happening and I'm becoming emotionally dead from how traumatic her panic attacks are on me. She makes a lot of decisions to force me away from her, this all stems from her feeling she's not worth my time. I feel alone in the marriage sometimes because of this. How the hell do I get this girl to love herself. I've showered her in compliments for 5 years now, I've giver her my genuine and honest love. She still can't even like herself. It's as if she's possessed by some demon who wants her to hate herself. What do /adv/?
By the way I don't think medication is a route, we've talked about it and the side effects are too much to try to cure panic attacks that happen once every 2 months.
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you need to tell her how much it pains you to have to endure her negativity. if you continue to put her first, you might have have the deal with this for the rest of your life. are you prepared for that?
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>>17091291
do stuff like cook together or pick up one of her hobbies. listen to her tell stories about why shes miserable.
medication is completely wrong i'm glad u guys are against it
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>>17091339
I am ready to deal with it forever if that's what it takes, but I'd rather her be happy so.
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lets say you're almost 30 years old, and you've ended up in a job that makes just above minimum wage, and you're barely getting by while the job starts to burn you out. you are left with debt from school, and no one you know can help support you financially.
please list all the constructive things one could do to get out of this situation and to make a better quality of living. bonus if you're from canada, ontario and got out of a similar situation.
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knocked up my girlfriend. her dad wanted to kill me. instead he helped get me a job in a factory where I'm making about $20/hr, in an apprenticeship program for industrial maintenance. in other words, find a better job.
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>>17091287
I'm 31 and basically in the same situation. What I'm doing is biding my time until my parents die and then killing myself. Mileage may vary, etc. Or "kilometerage," since you're Canadian.
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>>17091292
thanks; do you have any other plans beyond that? i'm doing this for my boyfriend; he's worked in a factory before and hated it for its mindlessness. he's the kind of guy who needs his brain challenged or have him moving, or he'll get incredibly depressed.
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i said something constructive, jesus christ get some help man...
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Is this bipolar disorder?
So my fwb quasi girlfriend is usually pretty level headed, we can go out to restaurants or museums and have fun. Lot's of sex often initiated by her.
Then sometimes she'll just come over to hang out and complain about work, looks likelikeh holding back tears, sleeps, and will sometimes have sex but then say she's not into it and makes me stop.
75% of the time she is a great person, fun to go out with and be with, but 25% of the time she's miserable, tired, unenthused and apathetic. I sometimes get upset with her when she's being apathetic and ask her what's the problem to which she says I'm tired.
Is this a mental health concern?
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No, it's just being a woman.
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>>17091264
Sometimes she seems really into me but other she seems like she doesn't care about me at all. I like her most times but it's like Jackal and Hyde
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the sex is great but she might not see you as husband material. her occasional apathy could be a result of the latter
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So my ex girlfriend texted me about 2 hours ago. She dumped me for no reason just btw. But anyways the truth is that I still miss her dearly but idk how she feels about me. Anyways she texts me and asks how I'm doing. I ask how how she is doing and she said not so great. But the conversation finally ended but idk if I should say something else. Or if I should just leave it alone ca use I don't want her to think I'm trying to get her back, which I am, but girls are weird and they don't like that stuff. I also don't know if she's just trying to be my friend or not. But I just really want her back, so do I text her or do I just leave it and see if she texts me again someday
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Block her and move on, nothing good is going to come of this.
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shes using you. if someone only tries contacting you and lets you know theyre not great, theyre using you for emotional comfort. They didnt give a shit about you this whole time but the second things aren't that great for them, they try to contact you again. That they didnt respond back probably means they realized what they were doing and put a stop to it or are trying to play some stupid game where you go out of your way to talk to them, when theyre the stupid ones that reached out to you in the first place. Its just attention seeking behavior.
She might want to be friends with you still, but only if you provide her with some kind of benefit from it.
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>>17091252
Okay , that makes sense. So do I just completely ignore her? I don't want to just be friends. That shit pisses me off
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> Friday afternoon
>was planning to go n out with boyfriend tonight to celebrate that he passed his certification exam
> says he won't get out of class until 7.
> he finally gets to my place at 9, but days he's dead tired and just wants to stay in
> so we just drink some wine and he says let's watch a movie
> so I put on a movie and he gets himself comfortable on my couch. He finds himself falling asleep around 10.
> I stop the movie so he doesn't miss any of it and just put on the cable because I'm not even tired.
> finally around 11 he gets up and goes to bed
I understand he was tired and all from his work day, but if that's the case why even come by? I basically just spent time with him for an hour. I told him if he felt he was going to be too tired or if he was going to fall asleep the moment he comes here to not come but he insisted.
Do I have a right to be annoyed? I wish he told me he didn't want to go out so I wouldn't have to fix myself up and if he wanted to just stay in the house, it would've been nice for him to stay awake more than an hour.
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You sound like a bitch.
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>>17091228
i know it's annoying, but he was probably trying to stick it out because he didn't want to disappoint you. the wine also might have helped to make him even sleepier.
try to appreciate his intentions, but also let him know that it's frustrating and that it would be better if he were just up front with you about how he feels.
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>>17091228
>So i had a long day today, I was really busy and I didn't even have time to be happy that I passed my certification exam
>my girlfriend texts me that she wants to go out to celebrate
>I know I have shit to do until 7
>kind of dissapointed but atleast it's something to look forward to
>so I got done with school and was exhausted as fuck, I got home at 8, took a shower and got some things ready, made it to her place by 9
>at this point I've worked my body to death and im so exhausted I just want to relax with her in her apartment
>I ended up falling asleep only an hour later
>now she's annoyed at me?
He had a hard day and your response to it is wow but I didn't even get to go out with you. Yeah you're a bitch.
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I have an exam tomorrow morning that I didn't study for... and need a way to wiesel out of it. A guy in my class previously spoke of using medical notes from clinics as a method, so how do I go about doing this? I'll probably say I had an anxiety attack. I live In Canada (Medicare), but I'm not sure what the policies are here for medical notes. I'm willing to pay 20-30$ but nothing insane.
I'm actually not a lazy person. I have so many classes and personal stressful events happening, and I'd really just like time for a rewrite. If there's any other way of getting out of the exam plz let me know.
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> send help
I need a way out guys. It's this or an hero
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So what do people do after college? Specifically, what do people do after college if they've majored in ecology and evolutionary biology? Has anyone here done field/lab research jobs where they traveled? If so, were you paid? If you weren't paid, did they at least cover travel expenses as well as room and board?
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also bumping because i'm in the same boat. i'm about to graduate with a degree in environmental science.
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>>17091209
boi if you from a certain college in louisiana i will lose my mind
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another bump
yesterday I made a thread about courting a girl because I'm not sure if we are feeling a relationship out or if I'm being friend zoned
when we last left off I asked her to lunch and she said she didn't feel like it. But then today she asked me to lunch and we went.
it was weird, it wasn't awkward or anything but we didn't talk the way we have been. She was pretty quiet like something was on her mind and I couldn't really think of anything to say,
I don't know how I'm supposed to interpret todays interaction, but it wasn't very romantic to say the least
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>>17091171
> Protip: If you use the word "courting" or any variation of it then you are already friendzoned before you even try.
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>>17091175
what would you call it?
we aren't dating but I would like to, so I'm trying to present myself in an attractive light to her
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>>17091188
> present myself
> in an attractive light to her
Jesus Christ there is so much wrong with just these two choices of words here that I don't know where to start.
Don't use words like that, you sound like a nerd first of all.
Secondly, don't present yourself. Be a better version of yourself but stay true to who you are at your core. Quality people will want to be around people that are quality. Shitty inferior people will not want to hang around you and will be repelled by you.
Just ask a lot of questions about her, if you have to feign interest then move on, she isn't good enough for you. Don't try to change your appearances or yourself to be the person you think she wants to see.
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rant
Why do women have to be the way they
are...? I just got rejected by a girl that I was really into, and it seemed clear that she was into me too. We even went to prom together... She said she isn't looking for a relationship right now because of "recent heartbreak..." Maybe you could have told me that before we went to fucking prom together you bitch. Women annoy the shit out of me.
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>>17091153
>We even went to prom together
My god, you went to PROM together! You were meant to be, this is truly a tragedy.
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>Not looking for a relationship right now
Pretty sure most people dont. It just kinda happens. If anyone feeds you this line, its probably that they don't want to be held responsible for anything because they're a child and dont want to feel like its their fault for fucking things up.
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>>17091162
or maybe they don't want to enter a relationship right after leaving a relationship (which she could still be hung up on) or before they get out of highschool,
which she should be about to do since surely our pathetic OP couldn't possibly be underage