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(she doesnt know my crush tho because she goes to a different school).

I can leave more info if needed.

But idk what to do now, should i kind of stop being so interested? Stop talking? Try hard, or not force things and just wait since she said she doesnt want a RS anytime soon? Also do you think that i may have chances?

Also, my girl friend always says im decent looking when i say im ugly. So im not the weirdest looking nor a hot guy. So does my crush say that.

Pic unrelated, the faggot is from my prev. school

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sounds like a typical high school crush. have fun with it man, if you're crushing on a girl you see almost every day: go for her. you're in high school, fuck your girlfriend if you like your crush more. straight up tell your crush how you feel about her. Tell her you "don't want to keep talking if we're going to be just friendly like this". Try to kiss her. This is high school we're talking about, these are the testing grounds. There's really little consequence here. Do whatever your little heart wants man. You got a lot ahead of you, don't stress.

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>>17088807
or do you mean "girl friend" in the platonic way?
idk man just make power move on your crush

I don't think that's how it works?

For the record I don't have a dick but I'd imagine the beginning of nofap is the hardest, as are most undertakings that require willpower and abstinence from things of this nature. So at that, at this point more than ever I'd say to keep your hands off your dingus and make them do more productive things, like playing video games or causing mortal harm to your enemies.

>>17088722
That's logical, I'll probably feel better after a night's rest...and looser fitting underwear.

I'm on day 48 of nofap.

first week is always tough. after that it becomes much easier.

if you get in as far as I have you reach a point where you don't even really have to try anymore. It's partially due to a flatline you experience doing nofap (your brain is re-adapting to the lack of constant dopamine) and it's partially because it's something you've gained willpower over.

I failed many many times within the first week, it took me almost 6 months of trying nofap before I even got to week 2. But if you're persistent you can eventually have a breakthrough.

good luck

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why did you post this in /adv/? there doesn't seem to be any advice to be given here. Unless you're trying to give advice. Which is something i've never seen here before. wow i'm blown away. you just shed new light on how to use this board. thank you anon. you're doing gods work my boy.

sounds like you're freaking out and being a bitch about it instead of confronting her head on.

So she took the male role in your relationship by cheating, and you took the female role by having a bunch of "friends" you kept around as backup?

*meet

>>17088648
>>17088649

*met

The signal I'm receiving is that she's an insecure and frightened little girl.
Next time, try a different approac.
If same result, move on.

>>17088731
What is a good approach

B-bump

If you don't care at all about someone, you shouldn't have gotten in a relationship. If you're looking to start out with feelings rather than just seeing if you're compatible/like each other, you should probably get to know people better before going out with them.

Try to start with someone you at least kind of like though. That can grow into stronger feelings. Starting with indifference, not so much.

>>17088840
I mean, I care about her in a way, but not as strong as she cares about me. I seem to be compatible to many people, but I just can't care deeply about them and isolate myself often because I'm tired. She always tells me how much she loves me, but I can't take it seriously at all. It was in all my relationships like that, I just don't know anymore. It is the same with friends, people say they care, but I can't say the same.

>>17088614
Like literally I had a short break from this shit but only because I kept busy all the time but now I'm burnt out and can't do that

It's called depression, OP. I'm on my iPod or I'd have some helpful links for you, but regardless you should try to find a psychiatrist and therapist (mental health providers/organizations will often either help you find or provide both, and Google will at least aid in finding them) for diagnosis and treatment.

I hope things go well for you and that you make the best decisions for you, whatever those are (though clearly I have opinions on this, I've been wrong before, lol.).

>>17088645
I'm seeing a therapist, it's not helping
What kinds of treatment?

>>17088581
just ask her

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>>17088581
Whether she has a boy friend or not is irrelevant.
If you ask her, you might not even learn the truth.
The only way is to see for yourself if she wants you.

> a goal usually has a keeper, that doesn't make it impossible to score.

Should Ronaldo just go home and hope for the keeper to not be there the next time?

>>17088581
poop in your hand and offer it to her
if she takes it, youre good to go

>stealing
Either you knife him or never see the guy again

I suggest you just never see the guy again

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>>17088558
you fucked up the second you decided wasted your money on a plant that makes you feel goofy for a little bit.

yes 8th only 30$ for starters he shoudl give you it for free you should stand up for yourslef sine police aint gonna help you if you not bout that life then dont be stay at home

How bad is it? I dont know much about cancer but I can talk for abit

I'm not sure what motivated me to do it but I watched some cancer victim/survivor youtube channels recently. From them I learned that remaining hopeful/optimistic despite the circumstances might be the best route to take, because it's the best way to deal with obstacles that cancer might bring your way.

>>17088532
We don't know yet. He had a colonoscopy done a few days ago, got his results back today. They found lots of little polyps along his colon, which is normal, but then found a large one near the beginning of it. It could be cancerous, it might not be.

He's getting a CAT-scan on Monday to see if there are other tumors within his body. If so, that means he more than likely has cancer.

Today when we were talking about it, he cried for the first time I've seen in years. He said he didn't want to go out like his mother (whom he watched slowly die to cancer for a whole year)

It's irrational of me, but I just feel so helpless. I think it's the waiting. Wednesday is less than a week away yet it feels like a month to me right now.

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I have been messing around with it, trying to get into slow-mode--mostly writing letters to people who will never read them, journal-tier poetry, and whatnot to detoxify my mind in the evenings. Over the past two weeks or so I have done worked with this machine, some days multiple sessions.

I had begun to notice the machine could use some cleaning. (I've also been reading a book about typewriters, in which there was a chapter on cleaning & familiarizing onesself with their new machine.) Another thing I had noticed, was that the something was squeaking as the carriage advanced, though I was unsure what--I figured maybe I could clean the slugs & nearby moving parts with PB blaster, and potentially ~lubricate whatever necessary in the process (thereby eliminating the squeals.

When I told my fiance I wanted to clean the typewriter, he started trying to convince me that wasn't necessary--that he had cleaned it thoroughly, recently. This sprouted into a mini-argument (which was annoying). Finally, I said I wanted to not only clean the machine, but also familiarize myself by doing so. At that point he 'backed-down' and agreed that was a good idea...

So, I went to gather cleaning supplies. When I came back into the typewriting room, he was sitting down and loading the machine with paper to "test" the machine and validate (?) my observations/concerns...
he proceeded to type a short-story for the next hour...without having asked* to use the typewriter.
When I brought this* to light, he said he was 'just testing the machine by writing a short story,' to which I replied, "I'd like to clean this tonight."
He finished his story, then asked me to read it.
...I said I wanted to clean the machine, and he pressed me to read the story first, then proceeded to watch me read it (while eating and chewing with his mouth full), then followed this up with questions about my interpretation of the story..

This is just the more recent instance, but this the kind of thing that happens often.

I often feel like he should have my attention whenever he asks for it...a co-worker of his had called him 'self-absorbed' (which really ate at him). I told him he kind of is.

Now I'm wondering how true this is.

Btw, that other pic was of the q-tips I've used on ~6 square cm of this Remington...using only acetone+water.

Please, someone with a 'normal' sense of healthy characteristics/relationships, point out the obvious to me. What is wrong with this? (If anything)

>>17088511
I am really confused by your expectations, ofcourse the way he acted was not very nice behaviour but to me it seems your relationship lack communication. Maybe he interpreted something in the story that applied to your situation?

In general i think you may make a big deal about it, from seeing the wall of text you wrote you either love writing or you take it too seriously.
My wife is very selfish at times, she hates to admit it but it is obvious, the only thing that really helps is talking about it in a serious way, pay attention to where an argument starts if there is one and try to learn from it.

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I think the answer to your every question can be very concisely answered with a picture of James Randi looking disappointed.

What exactly is she doing that's abandoning everybody else? What are the specific issues caused by her listening to them?

>>17088462
Try to objectively evaluate the situation. Are they charging her absurd amounts of money/is she neglecting more important things in favor of this? I don't believe in psychics in the slightest, but if they improve her situation with causing any real harm then I don't think it's a problem. What about it is upsetting to you?

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>>17088461
You don't, It's overrated and you get more pleasure from beating a difficult video game.

>>17088472

Is Dark Souls better than sex then?

>>17088461
Insert Tab A into Slot B.

>>17088458
I am an EE student and i can really recommend it, there are so many areas you can specialize in and you could even make electronics your hobby and actually try out what you learn yourself.
Be aware that you really need math all the time and i am not talking about easy math.

>>17088474
Yep calculus and physics really interest me which is why I want into engineering in the first place, but computers and simulations are also things I want to learn about which is why I was thinking computer engineering.

Not sure how much freedom is in electrical engineering in the more computer technology areas, but definitely considering going there anyway because I'm not too sure how badly I want to work with computers either. Thanks for the reply

>>17088458
Just graduated with a compE degree myself man! You might already know this, but they are very similar as compe students take we courses and vice versa.

Do you like programming? Typically compe does more programming/software engineering while ee students focus on electrical circuits and hardware, but it isn't always the case.

My opinion would be look into beginner programming and circuit analysis concepts and see which you find more interesting.

Best of luck with your education!

WTF

>>17088433
What's the issue? When you got period cells on your lungs, intestines, bladder, and rectum, you tend to throw up and shit yourself a lot. Also having them on your spine makes walking fun. :(

Well... that's fucking awful.

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Every girlfriend that I've ever had asked what my fetishes are and I always feel like a boring piece of shit because I don't have one. All I have is the internal programming by nature to want to impregnate. That's it.

Why couldn't I be into feet or something or want to jack off to blood

>>17088405
Hmm, that's an interesting perspective. Personally, I think I'd rather be a bit vanilla or "boring" as you say, than to be into, for example, loli/shota, scat, etc. It's harder to explain or accept.

>>17088396
I am into female domination, i feel like it has always been there as a fetish, something i always wanted but didn't really understand. When i finally understood how i feel i quickly engaged into it and tried to submit to my gf in any way, may sounds weird but that's what i want and a vanilla relationship would 'bore' me, as in i wouldn't really be living out my dream.

I believe a fetish can go away if you ignore it, eventually it could come back again. It really depends on how much you distance yourself from porn.

I've never really felt excluded from society through it, most woman i know are actually rather dominant, this didn't give me a reason to speak openly about it because i wanted to focus on having a strong bond with someone whom i can entrust everything, it felt shameful telling her at first but it really takes some weight off of you once you are over it.
Personally scat is too gross and cuckolding goes to far, everyone has to set their own limits though.