How do you break up with someone youve lived with for 4 years?

Be honest. What's worse than dragging an emotionally dead relationship along after 4 years? 5 years. It has to end, so just get it over with. Yes, it will suck, but isn't it better for everyone involved?

>>17087831
Thats my thinking.
We have a vacation planned this month. I think after that. Maybe things will magically turn around.

>>17087823
Your coworker must be so hot. She ruined your relationship.

>>17087840
eh. This feeling has been growing for a while. The spark that lights the powder keg cant get all the blame for the explosion.

>>17087856
How is your relationship dead?

>>17087859
We dont talk. We eat sleep and work.
We no longer have any similar interests.
The fun we used to have hanging out with eachothers friends is over, they no longer have many friends.
I want kids, they dont, but I wouldnt want kid with them

We have sex about once a month, MAX. It used to be every day.
Weve talked about it several times in that past, about both of us being unhappy and we make a list of things to change.
We follow the list but the end result is the same.