I am unhappy in my relationship. I find my boyfriend to be argumentative and immature. In the past two months I have given him a car, bought all his food, and given him over a thousand dollrs becausr he cant pay his rent or for school books. He is still broke and now he attacks me all the time and says he wants to break up because I dont make him happy. He said I dont do enough for him. I just hate him and find him disgusted but I also feel very depressed and broken from this experience.
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Are you unhappy in a relationship? Do you think you would be happier outside of this relationship? Then leave it.
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>>17102998
So break up with him and move on. He sounds like a little bitch
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I just feel like shit.
I provide EVERYTHING for this person and let them live like a king and still it isn't enough? Still I'm not good enough and I'm not doing enough?
What is so wrong with me
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Girls with mostly guy friends 2016-05-02 15:37:09 Post No.17100678
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Is it a red flag?
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Yes.
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As a female who historically has had more guy friends than female friends, yes.
I stopped hanging out with all dudes when I was about 18 and realized they were all trying to have sex with me.
I just want a friend who won't try to fuck me. ):
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No.
I've been happily married for well over a decade, and I still have more male friends than female. I just don't like hanging around other women, they're too catty and judgemental. My husband has known this about me since we were dating and has no worries. He actually agrees with me. I have one good female friend, and she provides more than enough female drama for me.
It really depends on the woman's personality, though. There's women who like hanging out with men for attention, and then there's women like me, who just prefer the company of men because it's more fun and waaay less drama.
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Is learning a language just for fun (i.e. almost never spoken in your region) a bad thing?
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Of course not. Why would it be?
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>>17099966
But you will never use it anyway (eg. an Aussie learning French or a Taiwanese person learning Spanish).
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>>17099999
Nice quints.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Ladies: Why do women become afraid or run away when they meet a guy who is everything they want? Is there crazy long term realizations going on that are hard to handle? It's such a bummer as a guy to find a girl and it go between night and day on how she feels once you get close..
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>>17099282
It goes both ways and is 100% subjective. It could be because they thought this before, but something went horribly wrong and now they have to be more cautious. Or they think there's something wrong with them personally and don't want to mess things up. Or a million other reasons.
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>>17099282
Maybe you're not what they want after all and it takes getting close to see the real you. If this is a repeating pattern for you take a look at yourself first before blaming women
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My boyfriend says you can tell if a girls a virgin by the way she poses and refuses to let me prove him wrong.
I am a virgin and he said if I try the pose it will look too forced and apparently when you have sex your legs naturally are more far apart.
Can someone please help me prove him wrong? You can't tell if a girls a virgin by the way she stands...
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You could have sex with me and see if he notices.
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No. I was a virgin till 18 and everyone thought i wasnt just because of how i acted.
Would be a simple problem solver for you if you and him went to the gyno. Gyno could look at your vag and tell your bf if you are or not. Thats the only definite way to tell if someone has or not. Not by how they look or how they stand.
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>>17097129
He's partially right and wrong
There are some social body cues but acting that it's the end all be all of things to indicate it isn't. There are church girls and covert whores that pose awkwardly and are really sluts
Don't prove him wrong. Jus stroke his ego and pretend he's right.
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So it happened.
My childhood best friend just came out of the closet on me. Like fuck I left for uni and sure enough he turns into a fag.
How exactly am I supposed to handle this. Ive basically been ignoring him ever since he told me a few weeks ago last time I came home.
We normally hang out 2 or 3 weekends a month and chat often since Im only a hour out and we normally do stuff inbetween when something comes up, but not ever since hes told me he was a fag.
Main problem is that the semester is almost over and Im coming home soon and I dont know what to do. All of my other friends back home basically hate him now and Im pretty much in agreement with them in not wanting to hang out, but the guy was like a brother to me.
How exactly do I cut ties with someone this close to me.
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He didn't JUST turn into a homosexual. You've been friends with a gay person for a real long time. Don't be a piece of shit.
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Why do you care about his sexuality? Unless he's one of those fags that make his entire homosexuality his identity, you should give the guy a break. My uncle is gay, but you'd never know it by being around him, really great guy. I don't see any reason to freak out over it unless he's acting like I first mentioned.
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>Unless he's one of those fags that make his entire homosexuality his identity
Even in that case, it's completely irrelevant.
Pieces of shit like you who demand total conformity to particular standards of individual behavior, even though a person being themselves brings no harm to anyone else, are the absolute worst. Even if he was flamboyantly gay, so fucking what? OP should accept him anyways.
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but...
I am sick and fucking tired of my wife not putting out.
I got over her not sucking dick any more
I got over not fucking every day
I got over not fucking every other day
I started getting pissed a couple of years ag when we were down to 2x a week
Then that went down to like 6x a month
I tiold her I need more than that
"dont pressure me"
then it was once a week - period week
now its like every other week, if we both happen to actually be around on a saturday afternoon.
Yesterday she was out
tried last night "I'm too dirty and too tired to bathe"
This morning, let her sleep - she promises we will fuck today - but I have a shit load of errands and had to go in to work for a while today. So I say "OK, tonight"
She says sure, we go to bed early, she starts reading, I let her relax, put hand on her leg, she moves...just fucking ignores me.
I am PISSED at this shit.
I am an older guy - 44, but in great shape and have a fairly high libido. I don't want to cheat, but FUCK THIS.
wut do?
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How long have you been married
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did you get a pre-nupt
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shes just not that into you
honestly though, she isnt interested in you physically or emotionally so i say you both need to have a talk about it and where to go with yor relationship
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Anons, as an asian female how do I talk to white people? Going off to uni next year and I realized my entire social circle(s) consist of asians. I'm also kind of intimidated by white people... (both male and female) ;;;
thank you kindly!
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b-bump ;-;
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Why do you want to talk to white people?
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See them as people first, then white second if you honestly care about the distinction. That is how most white people see you.
>be me
>make a fake Facebook profile with a Chad thinking it would be funny to message girls
>start making fun of some girl in school who I used to talk to (not anymore) who has a Manlet boy friend
>keep at it talking about my big dick
>sometime later get a message by one of her beta orbiters to stop it on MY Facebook not the fake Chad one
>somehow they knew it was me
>play it off by saying it was my brother
>they all knew and he stopped talking to me
>have to go to school with these guys
What do? I didn't say anything illegal (threaten her, sexually harass her) but the social torture is too much for me to take.
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reap what you sow
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Prob the most you ever spoken to a girl, right?
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You're actually a giant fucking retard, No legal action will be take obviously but accept the social repercussions for being the autist you are.
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My boyfriend likes to annoy me. When I tell him to stop, he gets butthurt. He thinks he's being playful, but he's usually just hurting me or being really annoying. He only does this when we're alone and chilling.
For some examples,
-He'll force my arm up and tickle me, or do weird shit like shove his face in my armpit. This hurts even more because I have a bad shoulder and he never acknowledges it.
-If I'm laying on my back, he'll shove his finger in my belly button (annoying)
-If I lay on my side or stomach he runs his finger through my buttcrack
-If we're cuddling he will lick my hair (which grosses me out to the point where I want to throw up for some reason)
-he play fights me hard to the point where I have been injured
Like for fuck's sake, my boyfriend is the most annoying person when we're just chilling together at home. When we're out on dates, it's great. There are some times at home when he's normal but that's when he is tired or in a good mood.
I've told him to stop so many fucking times that I want to cry over it. He thinks he's so fucking funny but he's not, I can't stand it. Like I kinda want to leave him over it just so I don't have to deal with this almost every time we hang out, but I love him and we've been together several years, but he gets really fucking annoying.
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Grow your balls up kid!
it works.
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He's doing it to see your reaction. Stop being a baby over minor bullshit and he'll stop.
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I don't know why I have this, but I get really grossed out easily. Like, I know he does the hair licking thing and the belly button thing because for some reason, these things trigger me to gag. I don't know why. It's literally a reflex within me. It's usually with things regarding moisture, and belly buttons just gross me out in general. Also if there is water near my ears I gag. He tries to wet willy me a lot.
But this is like a reflex. I couldn't stop it if I tried. And he thinks it's hilarious. And he's been doing this for like years. And he kept doing it to me last night. We were chilling and drinking and relaxes. The moment I get close to him, he shoves his finger in my belly button. I gag, feel like shit because I'm already drinking. It just feels terrible. It's not minor anymore because he will literally "pick on me" for over an hour. Just repetitively bugging me.
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How do I get this guy to fall in love with me? 2016-05-01 09:07:14 Post No.17095893
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I haven't had sex in 6 years and want to fuck this guy who I could see myself marrying. He's an ethical vegan like me, is a physicist (unlike me but I love science and am considering becoming a researcher), He has thin lips, a big nose, fair skin, blue eyes, and dark brown hair which happen to all be my favorite combination of features. He's really cool and amusing and everything. I haven't met him IRL yet but I want to fuck him and probably marry him. I'm kind of nervous though because what if the chemistry isn't there for him or for me. Should I wear low cut tops and tight fitting clothes so we can hurry up and make babies or be myself and risk him seeing me as just a friend?
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You sound a bit nutty. Leave the poor guy alone
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> or be myself and risk him seeing me as just a friend
I hope this is bait. Are you considering faking a personality for your whole life as a mother? Besides, men do not reject women because they are their friends but because they are not attracted. Being a friend is an advantage, not a drawback.
> How to make a man fall in love with you?
Usually shared interests is what makes us more attracted to women than anything else. If you figure out some of his hobbies (music, sports, whatever) and take a genuine interest in some of them, half of the battle is won.
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Well, start by just daying hi. The find some excuse to talk to him. Just small chat first. Do that everytime you see the fucker and you will probably make a connection. After that you can escalate.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><Random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. This is something that cannot be explained. You either have learned to intuit this or you have not. If you have not, the only way to learn is experience--there are no shortcuts. So it comes back to: Just ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>Brandon, that one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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I asked this in the other thread, but didn't really get an answer.
Where do older people go to meet women? I'm 31, not in school, and my workplace is almost exclusively men. My friends don't like going to bars, and I don't like clubs.
Online dating is not an option. I tried it once, it was a spectacular failure, and I'm not going through that again. The only bit of advice I got was to do online dating, which I had shady mentioned not being an option. Oh, and "literally anywhere outside," which is about as close to a non-answer as you can get without just going "i dunno lol."
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>>17094470
every girl I have met has been on facebook.
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>>17094482
I never got a Facebook. At first it was because I didn't see a point, then to be a contrarian, and now almost twelve years later, if I've gotten this far without one, might as well not bother.
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Let it out.
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I overthink everything. I just want class to be over so I have less contact with her.
Every time I speak to her, I analyze the conversation. Every Goddamn Time.
Once they end, I'll still message her and be friendly. But I just want less contact in class. 4 Days left of Class, 4 Days that I see her.
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I really wonder why I'm depressed. Like,I don't have it hard core but I know I'm not happy like I always have been. Probably because I don't know what exactly what I want to do after highschool and the fact that the girl that I love are trying to have a thing with each other even though we're in different states (I'm a migrant). Really sucks ass
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I wish you'd be honest with me. I know exactly what you're doing with the free time you claim to not have. And the thing is–I'm okay with it. In fact, if anyone would understand it'd be me. But you keep making half-honest excuses.
Why won't you just end the relationship if it's too difficult to communicate more than once a week? I won't do it because I'm dumb and insecure, and despite the lack of communication this is the best relationship I've had. You're incredible. I want more of you, and that's selfish of me.
Expecting a relationship to be 50/50 is unrealistic, but I can't keep giving 90/10. That's why I've been slowly distancing myself. I don't want to lose you, but this relationship won't last if it continues in this direction.
I've tried talking to you about this, and you promised change. I don't expect anyone to change, and certainly not for someone else. If you don't want to put effort into this relationship, maybe you're better off without it. And maybe you already know this.
I hope you find happiness.
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I don't trust in men anymore, I don't even think they have feelings, they're all trash. What can I do?
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In my opinion women don't have actual emotions and leech the life force and money from men before continuing on their way to a fresh supply.
Which one of us is wrong?
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Both of you.
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OP is wrong.
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Why can't I find a boyfriend? I've been alone since I broke up with my boyfriend of five years about two years ago. Okay I'm clinically depressed and I have a personality disorder and basically I'm insecure and anxious as fuck but I conceal it really well.
I'm actually considered very pretty and cute and I'm slim and I EVEN FUCKING SHAVE MY LEGS.
I'm clever and interested in science and shit although I also have Aspergers but no one knows that.
So basically I appear as a quality individual (obviously I'm not but it's not like I reveal my true fucked up self when I meet someone) but boys just aren't into me. Or if a miracle happens and someone is, I never feel anything for them, even if I try to make myself. I'm just so sick and tired of being alone.
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Could be that you just haven't found another person you connect with, could also be that you're not as good as you think you are, or you're just unlucky. We really can't get into other people's minds and can't give you a better answer about you without more info
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Do you approach guys or just wait for them to approach you?
Not a criticism, just trying to get a handle on your current strategy
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>>17097060
Because your a nut job. Stop trying to ruin peoples lives and stay single.