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Dude...you raped her. You're literally a rapist...

>>17100482
RAPE
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seriously though man, she is probably going to have trouble trusting you after this

Don't end your relationship on bad terms with her...EVER. She will go back to this moment and try to legally ruin your life as revenge

Dear J -

I hate you. I fucking hate you. You targeted me, fucked me, and then dumped me. You used me like a piece of trash. I've never had that happen before and everyone tells me it's because you're 25. I was so stupid I hate myself. I hate myself more than I hate you, and I hate you a lot. I want to hurt and humiliate you like you did me. I know some things about you and none of them are nice. I hate seeing you because I feel that shame all over again. I want you to stay away forever, then maybe I'll be able to heal. What you did was fucked up. You are a malignant narcissist. Google it. That's YOU, isnt' it? You did all those things to me. You "love-bombed" me and I was so lonely I fell for it like a fucking idiot.

L,
I miss you so much.
Next life, right?
M.

>>17093919

I've gone through a similar experience myself, I'm sorry anon, the next few months are going to be a torrent of uncontrolled emotions that can do more damage than this guy did to you. While revenge seems necessary, it's best to walk away and try to put them out of your mind. These people feel no shame, guilt or remorse, and no matter what you do to them they will just continue predating on vulnerable people because it's just their nature.

You should seek counseling, it will help. Don't use family or friends, it will just make you feel worse now that they know about your private life and traumas.

It's hard to believe people like this exist but now you know and you'll be more guarded if you encounter one again.

>>17107426
More details about that incident please

>>17107432
so i've been working six day weeks for the past month or so, and haven't been taking much time off (we have the option to go home early if it's a slow period) because ive been saving up for our upcoming vacation.

today, happened to be one of those magical days where the manager asked to either send me home early or keep me an extra hour over my original end time. i opted for the early leave because i knew she had the night off and figured we could spend some quality time together.

texted her at 8pm "im off early, sup?" her reply was 'deciding what to do' . i replied with "okay just driving coworkers home"

I dropped everyone off and texted her around 8:40pm saying "did you decide what to do"
'i think im going out." (now like all women when she's mad she'll use periods)
i reply with 'okay, why does that warrant you being mad at me?"
'because its like you dont exist'
"how? i took off work early for you, changed my day off to match yours"
'you didnt try to make plans or communicate them with me."

this is where it gets all fuzzy, cause im still trying to figure out how the hell i was suppose to do any of this cause i was suppose to be working until 10pm and i was driving my friends home. so in all this time that elapsed i couldnt talk to her anyway.

i can keep going but the rest of this gets pretty petty, repetitive, and makes no sense

>>17107450
If you wanted to spend time with her, why the fuck didn't you just say so? Instead of saying "okay just driving coworkers home," why didn't you say something like "how about we___?"

You're trying to paint her as the irrational one, but you're just as bad as she is.

Watch out for his Kaioken.

I don't know, kick him in the balls? Fighting someone is gay, stop doing that

Don't get into fights, it's a degenerate thing to do. People can get charged with assault. I recommend not wasting time fighting and tell them to gtfo or you'll btfo them with police.

No wonder he ended up a heroin addicted queer boy. Youre shitty parents. I want you to know that, because I doubt people tell you that in your life

b8

>>17105213
You fucking told him to get him back to being a straight man. You are blaming the friend for taking the actions that you wanted him to? Vengeance won't bring your son back and at the end of the day it really won't make you feel any better. You are full of hatred because you don't know how to deal with what you are feeling. Sounds like you are as much to blame for your son's death as anyone.

It seems a bit harsh to withhold that kind of information from you, so perhaps he's just a bit annoyed about something and wants to talk to you about it. Can you give us a bit more background? Are you in a relationship with him? How long have you been together? Have you had any issues recently?

It's probably not going to be good news.

>>17100277
It could be anything really, doesn´t really mean that he is about to tell you something that will change things in a permanent way

Who is arvo?

Were you one upping me
I didn't even choose my place there
I only wanted you
That was all I need
anyway while you may be busy fucking your way around the town, while we get it on
I'll be gone
Bye then, love
Thanks for being everything
When you're gone
my world and happiness is destroyed

Where ya at?

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Intake appointment for anxiety/mood disorder outpatient today. Mum has surgery around the same time.

Worried and cautiously optimistic at the same time. Hoping the surgery goes well and am happy that someone noticed I needed a little more of an in-depth treatment option than what I had to deal with for the last year.

I want to feel like a person again.

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I dont understand why do you want tall skinny legs? The only benefit is giving offspring taller genes but sexually it's unattractive.

>>17105482
You have insecurities that need sorting out. No one cares about your height. You're only inferior because you believe you are.

>>17105482

My wife is 4'11.

She's sexy as fuck.

Small girls are better in all ways that matter.

Unless they're fat, you're right about that. Three pounds will make you look like a dough girl.

do you actually like jewelry like that? Its so overdesigned, looks like a cobweb, and those stones are ugly.

What the actual wut

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>>17103551
yes i shop on etsy.

>>17103552
dating advice thread? or advice on how to make dates happen.

>>17102136
Male here.
I accidentally a whole popsicle is that bad?

Sorry for grammar posting on phone

>I work with a lady who has a really hot daughter
>this coworker has almost straight up said that she wants me to date her daughter
>daughter is out of my league (in my opinion)
>I have picked up on some flirty vibes from her before, other times she'll come visit her mom at work and not even look at me
>the other day my coworker told me that her daughter saw me on tinder
>she says that her daughter didn't swipe right or left, she just left it there

What do you guys think? Is the daughter interested in me, or does the mom just think I'm a good guy?

>>17102233
Yes. You're going to want to some of the ice, but Bactine everywhere.

6 months without porn ... man, you're a king.

Had you waited another few days, you would have been crowned king of no fap and would have become an advisor for Bernie Sanders campaign.

Now you will neve feel the bern

>>17105475
Don't worry bro, I masturbate whenever i want ^^ !

Try a self help book. We like the idea of psychiatrists and such because it's like putting our faith in a higher power for $$$ a session. I remember seeking therapy and I had this lovely woman, very warm and kind. But she was also fat. If you think about it, fat people have their own mental issues in my opinion. She said a couple sentences of good advice you might hear from a good friend, thousands of dollars later. Luckily a company was paying for it, but I'll never forget how altogether expensive and mostly worthless the sessions were

>>17105397
Thanks- you articulated very well some of my concerns. Any suggestions on books?

>>17105423
I don't personally. I'm a lot like you I think, definitely avoidant behaviour. I was kicked out of my company for depression though, later told I had social anxiety which made sense. I guess I never got better or really tried after that. Maybe I should get a book too

Tongue. Hands. Toys.

>>17105177
Do you have hand and a mouth? Use them. Once you get her off then you can stick it in and get off yourself. Honestly, I doubt your penis is so small that it can't pleasure a woman at all. Unless you have a literal microdick.

Just let me be the bull

In your situation, I would suggest never posting on 4chan. That being said.....email me qt3.14

It's going to be hard to even have sex if your self esteem is that low and you don't trust any guys enough. Falling in love isn't something that just happens suddenly, it takes effort to build up. Sometimes sex is a good way to build it up, but in your case I'm not sure if you're giving these guys a fair chance really. What do you expect a guy to do to give you these "butterflies"?

Awww. Don't worry about sex tips just remain your cute self forever pls

>>17104778
Do you have antisocial?
A psychologist wouldn't just diagnose you as "a sociopath" lol

>>17104778
What is the difference between the average psychopath and the average sociopath? What traits do you have that define you as a sociopath? And finally do you feel dark and edgy being a diagnosed sociopath?

>>17104778
Psychology student here, Sociopath isn't a clinical diagnosis