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Instead of becoming a feminist specifically, consider becoming a progressive more generally. That is a movement which is much more worthy of support.

>>17093497
Here's a video guide for you.
>https://youtu.be/hg4RXxtFqKw

Her behavior is inappropriate. Everything is always 'innocent' until it isn't. If it really were no big deal to her, she'd not get defensive and wouldn't have a problem cutting him out.

Welcome to the failed marriage club. It hurts at first, but you'll be glad to be free later. I'll buy you your first drink when you show up to the meeting.

>>17092609
I appreciate the input, I really do. I love this girl but its like she lacks any empathy for my point of view. I am just dumbfounded as to how she thinks that this ISN'T a problem

>>17092597
To be brutally honest. Your wife is fucking him for years. They probably even fucked when you were engaged. Save money for a good lawyer because you will need a fucking divorce. Never ever let your girl be 'friends' with someone she already had sexual relations with.

Deal with your issues like an adult and don't expect to constantly lean on him.

If anything ask him for advice on how to deal with your shit as he should ideally be supportive but to be expected to be comforted all the time is tough for anyone to provide that level of care.

>>17092535
He doesn't wanna deal with your shit. Smart kid.

>>17092535
When his time comes to be all sad and depressed and stressed out due to life - pull this exact same shit on him. Everyone goes through bouts of bullshit - that is life. You're supposed to be supportive with eachother damn

He's definitely a sucker, hold onto him tight and never let go.

>>17092142
>hold onto him tight and never let go
that's what i plan to do. but then again i feel like he could do so much better and feel guilty...

>>17092134

maybe he just sees more in you than you see in yourself?

Maybe he feels like if you don't have a kid with him you'll leave?

Just my thoughts (I'm male btw)

It's your body that's going to go through the process and needs to understand that both of you have to feel the time is right. Maybe sit him down and you appreciate his enthusiasm but you really want to give baby the best possible comfort in life, and that is when both of you are comfortable with it.

It could be possible that he has developed a fertilisation fetish, so he might just be thinking with his dick.
Perhaps try to role play and pretend that the IUD is out and see if that satisfies him for the time being.

All the best.

>>17091957
Sorry for the misssing words. Hope you understood that.

Get reliable work, part-time. Enough for rent and food. Work on your free-lancing in the meantime. Select an apartment that will be easy to pay for with your part-time job.

>>17091037
Depending on where you live, you may not be able to afford a place to live "distraction-free".

I freelance and rent my own place, but I'm in a city where all my clients are. So I have to deal with crazy high rent, and neighbors all around with yippy dogs, drug addicts, crazy old ladies and homeless people. Invest in a good set of earmuffs if you need peace and quiet.

Or rent cheaply living with a bunch of roommates (although you'll hate having your privacy get taken away) and work out of a library or coffeeshop type of place if you don't need to be on the phone, talking to clients and stuff.

>>17091037
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Continuing.. there is this guild and there isn't much else. And when I will have been and left all guilds what will I do? I doubt they will take me back.

I want a guild with no woman and not a sexist guild obviously that hates women, a normal guild where men would kiss my ass.

You all hate me I bet for writing this but I needed to confess. I'm sensitive at the moment, I just wanted attention and love.

And I also have a question : how do I get in a guild with these requirements? It's not like I can ask the guild leader if the guild has other women and that I'll only join if I'm the only woman in it. They would think horrible things of me. What do I do? Help..

>>17090867
>So I was abandoned by my boyfriend and have been playing an MMORPG to entertain myself.

That's cool, what's the problem.

>I obviously wouldn't mind finding a boyfriend there or anywhere.

Wouldn't suggest finding guys in online games. They are there for the games, not the girls.

>What I also wouldn't mind would be male attention and validation.

The issue here really, is that male attention and validation is creepy as fuck, so we don't give it out as much as we used to.

>The men that talked to me didn't care that much about me.

Again, it's because they were there for the game, not your T&A.

>2 of the bitches spent their life laughing around in discord and speaking to everyone. The territory was clearly claimed. I even lost a friend who stopped talking to me and only wanted to talk to one of them.

You joking? Please tell me this is a troll?
I'm actually glad I don't play MMOs anymore. Are girls really that hard-up they are coming to socially reclusive betas for attention?
And fighting over them?

>In real life, there are more women than men and no one gives a shit about me. So gaming is one of the few environments where having a vagina matters.

Actually, it matters in real life too. Again, male attention is has been labelled creepy, and doing things for women has been labelled sexist.
That's the reason that shit don't happen in real life.

FFS, don't ruin online gaming by attention whoring. Basically creates a rift between white knights and people who actually want to play.

>But not even in gaming I'm lucky.

Again, most guys play games for games. NOT GIRLS.

>And even when I'm the only one no one seems to care much but with the other bitches it's different. They have all those white knights and I don't.

I... You know what, fuck this.

Do what you want, I'm a single-player guy anyway. Fuck other people, fuck online games and fuck attention whores.

10/10 good troll.

>>17090892
I'm not trolling though. And why isn't gaming a good place to find guys? It has many guys after all. I'm so sad these days, I just wanted to shower in male attention.

Do you have at least any suggestion for the guild seeking? There aren't many more guilds, I can't keep joining and leaving.

>>17090412
I don't think so. How are we supposed to know though? And why do you care enough to take a picture and make a thread?

>>17090415
Because look at the pattern

ingrown hair infection.

From using hair removal chemicals.

In last stages, if it's not red.

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>>17089889
Youre not the one

>>17089911
What does that even mean?

>>17089889

people are dismissive, and it sucks. i just got diagnosed with mdds, and the weeks leading up to it has been a lot of 'oh you'll be fine'. even now that i got it, my friend just responded with a
:/
emoticon. best ive gotten is a 'damn that sucks dude'.

sucks when people dont listen. as for you, i have some good news
>went on the drugs
>didn't really do it for me

congratulations. you are not clinically depressed. you are just sad. therapy gets mixed results cuz every single therapist and interaction with you is a bit unique

bootstrapping is a step. but its only the first.

what a good therapist should do is help you explore what is making you sad, and hten find ways to fix them. but many simply expect you to 'come to terms' with what made you sad, and thats bullshit

>>17089197
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bonus hat

>>17089199

I do like the richness of left's colour and how it gradiates to the top, although I prefer the thickness of right's bottom

PUA term for something all women do to see if you've got the confidence that they desire in a man. Basically they say things that "betas" would find difficult to respond unaffectedly.

In the real world people just call it playful flirting that people use to gauge whether your qualities are aligned with their preferences. There is no universal code of conduct.

Protip: some women like easygoing "betas", some like flippant jocks. Most everyone likes a guy who doesn't take things personally and can quickly establish flow in conversation.

>>17088748

I'll give you one life example.

I went to house party with my then gf. She wanted to drink vodka (eastern europe bro) and I just wanted weed and beer. She said that she wants some weed and I said no - you cant mix vodka with weed or you will be helplessly drunk and puking all night. She insisted and I yelled at her that she will get no weed and the conversation is over.

Later at night after a good fuck I gave her she addmited that she only wanted to test how will I respond. She didnt want to smoke weed.

>>17089415
Sounds like an insufferable person to spend time around.

>>17088141
>Sigma male
It's a race to the bottom isn't it?

>>17088146
uwot

Spread the virus as far and wide as you can, and whatever you do, don't trust the blue guy.

>>17087795
Let him kill himself, he's not fit for society, and I don't feel like paying for his suite in the psych ward

>>17087804

This. I realize you put Cont. in your first post, but I've read enough. The guy is off his fucking rocker, and it actually seems like a potentially dangerous situation. I'd definitely alert someone in the faculty that can deal with this, maybe kicking him out.

This guy's gonna end up in the news, anon. Talk to the authorities and quit the passive resistance.

give us a scenario

you do it by

growing up

>>17087753

well this chick at work is playing games, I'm over it. I'm not her boss, so I can't fire her, but we work in close quarters and don't want to see her face.

>>17086912

If it's a date, you should. If it's just some random person, fuuuuuuck no.

yes you fucking stingy autist
its just 45 ffs, youre not buying diamonds
if youre broke, dont go on dates, cook her shit

>>17086912
Women should pay for half but saying "give me $20" is just autistic.