So anons I'm a girl and I'm into my male friend. I never did anything with a boy, never even flirted, was/am pretty sheltered, so the big question is: how do I show my interest? Any clues how I should act around him? What kind of verbal or non-verbal clues can I give him? Help a girl out, please
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Depends on the guy
Dont play those games for long its annoying as hell
Flirting and such
Just spend time with him and say something or just make a move
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grab his genitals playfully out of nowhere
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>>17093627
>make a move
Meaning what, should I climb on his lap or try to kiss him or...?
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I am feeling sad and lonely, to save you all the trouble of crying and bitching, just recommend me a movie I should watch
I've watched all the superhero movies, top 3 movies for me I'd say is probably; Whiplash, Fight Club and Matrix (first part). The only comedy I ever found really funny was 21 and 22 Jump Street, John Wick is one of the rare action movies that I actually enjoyed (aside from superhero stuff) that's about it... Fire away multiple suggestions if you have any, I may have seen the thing that you posted so anything is welcome here.
As to why I'm feeling like shit, I don't know and I don't care, I just do, it will pass.
Thanks
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Bade Runner is on Netflix for another seven hours if you haven't seen it.
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>>17093634
Netflix not available in my conutry, luckily, I am a swashbuckler and will find it on the open seas...
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http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1125849/
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I'm socially isolated from people. I Literally have no friends and no life, no social life either. I have no idea what it is, but I'm always pushed away by people. I've had these problems since childhood, I'm not a 25 year old man and it's really getting to me. I'm always a target for people, I can do nothing and out of nowhere and I'm getting fucked with or someone wants to fight. It's taken a mental and social toll on me. I want to have a social life, and a life in general, but when I'm pushed aside all the time I don't really feel like I deserve it or that I've done something. Even though it's not the case the majority of the time.
Advice?
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>>17093565
I am not a 25 year old man either. What else do we have in common?
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I'm in the same boat OP. I've tried many times to make friends and yet I get so close only to realize nobody really likes me. I think it has to do with my personality, like there's something there that makes people afraid or they just hate it.
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>>17093573
Meant to say I am a 25 year old man.
>>17093574
I don't know what it is, I do have social anxiety due to being bullied in my teens into my early twenties. People really fucked me up, I try to forget those things and try to get around new people but it's almost impossible due to the things In my other post.
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/adv/ am I fucked?
I'm nearly 21 and I feel like there must be something wrong with me. I don't have many friends, but the friends I do have are all in relationships, or are single intentionally so they can have casual sex. I had one girlfriend two years ago and I think she must have felt sorry for me or something. People always talk about how they've had girls hit on them or come on to them. No one has ever approached me before, and I've never even noticed anyone flirting with me, even though I'm quite engaging to talk to and act a little that way myself if I'm interested in someone. I used Tinder for a while out of desperation and never matched with even a single person. I think I must just be hideously ugly in some way that I'm oblivious to.
I also get furiously jealous of my friends who have partners, but I'm careful to keep my feelings hidden so no-one thinks I'm like Chris chan. I think I'm quite picky, but I don't think that would affect who is interested in me, and I think that after having moved to the big city for two years, if no-one has ever shown even slight interest in me, that I'm just fucked and should check out now.
wat do?
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>>17093564
>I am young and I don't do the same stuff my friends are telling me they are doing.
>Am I bad?
Yea man, you are seeking self-worth through your friend's deeds. That is a sign of your lack of confidence or missing life goal.
Have you ever considered what do YOU want? Because comparing yourself with your friends will get you only so far, but not into your life goal.
>bla bla bla missing girlfriend bla bla my friends all girlfriends
First stop dragging others into your problems.
Secondly, if you are male and want gf, YOU are supposed to chase them. This is how it works.
>never matched with even a single person
Wow man, I have a tip for you: https://www.quora.com/What-can-you-do-if-you-dont-get-any-Tinder-matches
maybe you live in bad area for tinder
maybe you look ugly :-D
maybe another millions of reasons
>wat do?
I would start with deciding what do you expect from your life. And I guess having as many gf as your friends aren't one.
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But I know what I want out of life. I go to the best university in my country, I study computer science and I want to be a software engineer so that I can afford to buy my own house one day. And I want to have a family, and hopefully be able to raise my kids outside the city because it's not very nice for that.
I have pursued women. They tend not to be interested in me, and I'm very shy and take rejection personally even though I know I shouldn't. I'm just saying that it seems that so many people have stories about how some cute girl approached them, or how people approached them, etc. and that has never happened to me, so I feel like I must be ugly or something.
Holy shit, all those men in that quora article have such good jawlines. I can't compete with that, haha. I actually don't care about Tinder, I just hoped someone there might like me instead.
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>>17093661
>so many people have stories
Yea, the word story is important, because it can be a fairytale, not accurate documentary.
>cute girl approached them
Either your friends are magnets for girls by being 9+/10, they lie or they live on different planet.
There is no telling if you are ugly unless you post some picture.
Just take the girl hunt in your own hands and start the hunt. If your friends are such magnets, go to the actions with them and you can catch some too with a bit of luck.
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We are due to renew our contract with the landlord in 10 days. 7 days ago we had a random flat inspection and the flat was messy, not damaged at all, just a lot of used plates and trash sitting around, still fairly clean. The landlord sent us a letter saying it was unacceptable. We rang and said that it was due to medical reasons that we were struggling with staying on top of the tidying and its not usually like that, and asked if we will be allowed to renew still. They said its 50/50.
If they do not allow us to renew the contract in 10 days, will be evicted immediately? We will be legally homeless as we cannot get anywhere else due to them not actually telling us in time that we can't renew. Can they legally kick us out in 10 days with no warning?
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>>17093561
what country?
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>>17093561
they will tell you a date dumb ass. and if youre dirty and have a expensive apartment then you dont deserve one.
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Break up thread/second chance
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my first serious long term relationship ever.
>a month ago the girl i've known and been dating for a year confessed to me she had slept with my best friend 4 times in the past three weeks leading up to that.
>she claims i was emotionally distant, in-affectionate towards her, we were fighting, and figured feared I was going to break up with her.
>she acknowledges and stresses that this is no excuse. claims she was weak, vulnerable and caught up.
>childhood friend claimed he too was vulnerable. he was coming out of crippling break up and found solace in me and her who supported him
>fought him. he's out of the picture. tell her to cut ties with him for now that i'm figuring shit out. i'm an erratic wreck.
>at first claims it's controlling but agrees
>her mom finds out. sides with me
>the past month has been a roller coaster of tension and emotions but have leveled out.
>she begs for me to stay. saying she wants to start over and is willing to deal with any shit from my end.
>i've been cold and distant from her, showing little signs of intimacy
>i tried cutting her off completely the first 3 days after she confessed but realized that it didn't feel right and was too hurtful for me as well. realize despite this shit, it wasn't easy to just cut her out
>i've been seeing her every now and then since and have even let her sleep at my place a couple nights when she's been in a bad place.
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fast forward to today
>i officially broke up with her two weeks ago and had sex with a girl from class three days later. it wasn't right but i was trying to move on the only way i knew how. wasn't done out of spite..
>she finds out, goes beserk, but accepts it and says she'll live with it. she still is shitty and indignant about it from time to time ironically though. she judges me and the girl's art/character/physicality and is threatening to message her but i don't think she will.
>sleeping/seeing other people feels too rushed so i take it easy
>she keeps popping around. we both go to the same school/live in the same area
>she says she has realized in this time i am her true love, is willing to marry me, etc....
>she is suicidal -walked other night and tried killing herself by eating klonopin but stopped her
i still love her. to say i don't at all is a straight up lie. I've never loved anybody as much as i love this person. we were domestic
however, i resent the shit out of her. i'll have mood swings around her when we hang out and be distant/cold towards her. she claims she is willing to put up with this as long as it takes as she feels we'll eventually get better... i don't know what i want.
i feel hurt, cheap, humiliated, angry, depressed, hopeful, etc . a mixture/cycle of emotions every time shes in the picture.
for now i'm choosing to be gray area friends-monogamous with her while i figure/ground my shit out
i don't know what to do in the long term
her for advice because i just don't know
any one give their cheating partner a second chance?
she is remorseful and torn and not good. i can tell she is sincere but it's bullshit.
don't know.
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>>17093546
get out now OP. You stay and it will only prolong your misery
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why the fuck would you stay??? i swear "love" blinds people much more than anger
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Hello /adv/, my 15 year old son is never with his friends anymore, he never goes outside and is just in his room all day. He goes too ranger meetings and to school, but other than that he doesnt do anything outside of the family house and ive asked him several times to go too his friends but he just rejects it and goes back to his room or insists to do something else instead.
How do i make him become social again?
>picture unrelated
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How old are you OP?
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>>17093518
Has something happened between your son and his friends? A fallout maybe?
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Ugh, hello you guys.
I am just sad all the time, my boyfriend of 2 years left me because in his view, I gained too much weight and I would be too fat in general.
Idk this made me so sad, as I really love food :/
And it seems that only the thin and pretty girls get all the attention, while the fat girls are left behind :/
This is so unfair!
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Fit people love food too!
Just find healthier food that is very enjoyable, and pickup a fun exercise routine.
There's this illusion that people suffer to not be fat and that's just untrue.
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So he likes skinny girls and you stopped being one. That's kinda just a thing some guys are or aren't into, and it can easily become a dealbreaker. It's not unfair at all really. everyone has standards. Plenty of guys don't give a shit about how thick you are.
Loosing weight is also not very tough or hard once you learn how to do so, so if you have a beef with yourself for being on the thick side, do something about it. /fit/ is an absolute shithole, don't ask for advice there, but the /fit/ wiki in the sticky is an absolutely fantastic resource. I suggest reading that and going to bodybuilding.com, as it's the most active fitness forum i know about.
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How much weight is the question
But just leaving is a dick move, he could have said something to you before it came to this
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Hey /adv/ I have a question. How do I get more knowledge of computers. I'm currently a junior in highschool and I never really knew what I wanted to do after graduating until recently since I realized I'm always on my laptop. Hopefully after i have enough experience I'll know what I to do later on.
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>>17093512
Learn hardware or coding
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>>17093519
Umm how do I do that?
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>>17093512
>high school
You're good. I didnt know what to do until the last year of college. And it was programming.
>how do I do that?
Simple. Tutorials, tutorials. Try codecademy, make some basic applications. See if you like it. Build something fun, some simple game or so.
All this assuming you want to be a developer and not an IT guy who deals with cables and networks, because I cant help there.
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I accidentally reverse image searched a hentai's front cover with the little girl sitting in her brother's lap with my own Google account. Is the police going to come after me now?
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>>17093474
lol just clean your history/cache newfag:
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=pthc+download
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>>17093478
I mean, like is google going to send this info to the authorities?
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>>17093481
follow the instructions in the link.
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How do I dance at bars and clubs without looking like an idiot? Whats the etiquette of dancing with strangers?
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I just don't
Walk up to a girl, offer her a drink, take it elsewhere as soon as possible. If she has to dance, make it obvious you dont treat it seriously and do some stupid shit, make her laugh, say I tried to tell you in terrible haha I know roll your eyes and proceed to take it elsewhere as soon as possible
If you really must, just walk up and try to take a turn. Rejections are not common, even if she doesnr really want you, you would at least be some time killer before another guy takes a turn. The actual dancing doesnt matter, go youtube something if youre scared, but in all these years, I dont think anyone even remembers or cares who was the best dancer of the room, you just have to be open to the idea of dancing and flirting
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most people can't dance for shit. Just accept that, get drunk enough that you don't care and have fun with it
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Drugs. Dancing is all about confidence, and you dont have it. Once youve danced a few times it wont be hard cuz firmiliar territory, buy to start drugs. Either extasy (perfect for dance like no other) or shrooms (might dance, might talk to nature, either way a gr8 night.)
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I'm 18 years old, lean and physically active. About 2 hours ago I thought I was having a heart attack with palpitations, chest pain, trembling, dizziness, sweating, feeling like I couldn't breathe, a nasty lump in my throat and severe stomach butterflys. After the initial attack my body was trembling for minutes. I thought I was having a heart attack and going to die.
2 hours later I'm writing this. I still feel bad but a lot better. My heart is still beating faster than normal and I still have that butterflies in stomach feeling. wtf happened?
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Go to urgent care or the ER
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Ive also never had this happen to me before
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>>17093442
Call 911 or call the hospital for an ambulance if you think it will happen again. If you think you're safe enough to drive, go to the ER immediately
Hey /adv/, I left my gf(call her E) and best friend of 4 years 13 months ago. I rushed into another relationship for 11 months. New relationship was toxic and destroyed any semblance of who i was. After leaving this relationship, I had no friends(other girl made me stop talking to people and I thought it was okay at the time). Now I have zero friends, interests, hobbies(besides just playing LoL). But i never stopped thinking about e, even while being involved for the last 11 months. But I'm 100% sure e will not get back with me ever again. I just want my best friend back. I've tried getting over her for almost a year, sleeping with people, drugs/alchohol, sports, travel. None of it works. What am I supposed to do? Yesterday e called me and wanted to talk, I told her how I felt but she said we can never go back. As I drove her home I passed by all the places we used to go and I relived 4 years of the best time of my life. sorry if I sound retarded im really hungover. Also, a friend who i was supposed to go to prom with ditched me day of. What do you do to get over someone? Or is there sometimes no escape?
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>Also, a friend who i was supposed to go to prom
Underageb8. Reported
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>>17093435
You can be 18 and a senior in high school
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>>17093440
you also don't have to be 18 to post on a worksafe board
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My mom's got a boyfriend, they are about 9 years togther.
We are living at his house, that he bought for us.
It was for me, my brother, and them. Brother left, so it's now the three of us. I'm currectly in the army, so I see the house every weekend.
Now the thing is, he's the devil.
He fights all the time with my mom, kicked us many times out of the house(empty threats), even hits her on several occasions.
He's a nightmare and he makes our lives hell.
But the house we live in is fantastic, all my friends are here, my girlfriend lives next to me, the area is considerd among the best in the country. Mom is miserable but loves living here.
I need advice what to do with him..
He fights about everything, nothing satisfaied him.
Is there a way to get rid of him AND get the house?
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you're in the army, son
ask ur army; if anything you could have your buddies have a 'talk' with this guy about his physical abuse. ;D
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>>17093397
This. How big is this guy? I figured an army dude could stand up to some wife beater no problem.
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>>17093408
Yeah, I could take him, as he's 60 somthing years old.
But violence won't get me a thing.. I still want to live in the house, and fighting him will only make it so I'll have to leave. It can also make me wind up in jail, because I'm a soldier.
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It's caturday
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Hell yea time to game, fap, and put some new parts in my pc rig.
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