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>>17091903
cougars.com or w/e

but sorry for your loss

probably bait. it's not like she was 80 and prone to having a heartattack

>>17091903

This post sounds very troll. If not troll, then you are super lucky. You now have a chance to experience life twice, once through the old lady who wanted a young companion, and now with other younger ladies. I understand, you're 24 and all women are idiots at 24. Don't worry, they start calming down in 3 or 4 years and stop being so entirely vapid. Then you will get even more attention, and you will prefer it then. Until then, fuck whoever you want.

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underage

mods

>>17091893
eighteen.
nineteen.

>>17091889
bath salts wit magnesium. sit back and soak, loofa the shit ouuta urself

>>17091854
Pro- you might have a pussy to fuck
Cons- you look like a fuckwit for pussy

I'll only do pros.

>friends are busy? you can hang out with her
>practice courting and sex
>practice mind games and dodging her mind games
>you become more desirable to other women.
Women always like taken men. I feel like women see the ring on my finger not as a commitment but more like a sign I've passed the 'exam'. I'm sane enough for someone to marry -- and that's desireable.

>>17091858
>you might have a pussy to fuck
Not that interested in sex, but that's a reasonable point.

>you look like a fuckwit for pussy
But she's actually rather cute. Does this point still stand?

>>17091859
I've gotten decent at the mind games after being in a relationship for several years, but I suppose it's good to get rid of the rust.

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I suppose I should just be straightforward: I work a lot, and I'm trying to save money but I miss companionship. What would make it worthwhile?

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>>17091843
lmfao, pretty big assumption about "death" there, pal. what makes you so sure you won't be instantly planted in a new womb?

>he thinks death is the end
girlslaughing.jpg

>>17092797

>be rich and depressed
>kill self
>born as a nigerian nigger in a desert with no water or food

LEL

>>17092802
Good thing reincarnation isn't real.

There's more people being born than there are dying.

It sounds a lot as though money is a big issue for you. You sound resentful of the fact that she doesn't earn as much money as you. But that doesn't necessarily need to be a problem.

I think you should ask yourself why this bother you so much. does she pay her share of the rent / utilities / groceries / whatever?

It's perfectly reasonable not to want to have kids until the both of you are debt-free. But you need to have this conversation with her.

If in the relationship you are already resentful about what "your" money is being spent on as opposed to "her" money, then you are doing it wrong. Do you expect that when you have kids down the line, you will rip shopping lists in half where she buys the formula and you the diapers?

If you believe she has made imprudent financial decision, part of learning to chart a future in the relationship is being able to bring it to her attention in a respectful way and being able to discuss solutions. Note that being a woman is a huge detractor in the open job market, and had you been her, you yourself may not have been a better way out of the situation.

Your attitude sounds more like "I made better decisions than you did so I deserve these nice things which are MINE and I resent you for using MY THINGS!" Newsflash: no matter what the redpill MRAs talk about, women earn less than men, and their career paths are hampered by societal and personal expectations of starting a family down the line. ANY woman you date within your socioeconomic stratum is going to earn approximately 85% of your wages and if you land upon a millionaire, she's not dating you for your prudent financial choices. Once said woman becomes pregnant and the mother of children, she will earn even less.

Wanting something "more even" by your definition involves a childless marriage where you are dating above your stratum. Note that these women, to focus on the career and earning a living, will not be doing the emotional work and commitment your girlfriend currently brings to the table. To be honest, since any woman would be dating below her stratum to get with you, you will need to bring more to the table once you break up with your girlfriend due to these irreconcilable differences.

>>17091825
She's a woman who is more focused on relationships clearly. Would you prefer being with someone who is 100% career focused, barely makes the time of day for you, is more irritable from high stress work so will snap at you more often, and probably won't want any children because of said career?

The stupidity on this board sometimes is incredible..

>>17091803
>talking to this girl for a few weeks
>plan to meet

ya blew it before you started pussy

>>17091803
No one here can tell you the answer to this. I would probably feel like if someone can't get their act together by the third time then they're not really worth bothering with.

>>17091806
Mate, within those few weeks, we planned to meet 3 times. And a few weeks as in 3. Sorry that i have a full time job and uni study and only have half my weekends to do anything.

Who cares?

It don't matter... None of this matters...

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>>17091787

How should we know?

>>17091769
Because I don't

It's called a smoking fetish, OP. My dad has one (my brother found all these videos of women smoking on YouTube in his web history because he doesn't know how to delete it due to being 67.).

There really isn't anything you can do about it except embrace it (by dating smokers) or not (by not dating smokers).

>>17091682
Just to be sure, when you refer to this working girl do you mean just a girl who is working when you see her, such as a waitress or something, or do you mean a 'working girl' ?

>>17091682
bumping because I'd also like to know. Certain girls would never mind attention from a guy they like, others are actually serious about their work and would get annoyed.

>>17091687
She's not a sex worker, if that's what you're asking. She works at an establishment I patronize often.

do those positions require 2 year degrees from community college? i'm not trying to be the manager, just one of the dudes who's behind the glass with the computers.

http://www.indeed.com/q-Plasma-Donation-Center-jobs.html

isn't 2 years of college also required? trade school maybe?

>>17091694
-about the medical screeners.

>>17091574
What are you planning on studying?

>>17091574
Berkeley is historically leftwing, Davis right. SB is full of brainless surfers. UCLA has a bit of everything, including the nonpolitical.

>>17091686
geography, physical+GIS emphasis. at Davis it'd be environmental science.

>>17092050
UCLA is what i'm leaning towards. UCB is attractive in the sense of its ranking, but with how political it already is, things are gonna get especially heated come November I imagine.

vape or dab.

put a fan in front of your bedroom window, smoke right behind the fan, and blow the smoke out the window through the fan.

>>17091550
Good idea... But what about the neighbors?

>>17091514
Nope, doesn't matter. As long as you have your own pad, you're good

>>17091514
JUST GET LAID

it doesn't make a differance at all unless you only want to have sex with college girls then duh doy, it makes it easier

>>17091512

>make

that was your first mistake.

>>17091515
Fucking kill yourself, holy CHRIST.

>>17091512
Death.

Go to FA and write some shit about big cock tigers yiffing dragons or something

>>17091533
YEah yeah I know about FA, cmon anything else

>>17091504
There's an app called talent. If you have it, you'll succeed as a writer. It works best in conjunction with hard work, determination and luck. They'll drain your battery life if you're not careful though.