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You'll be hazed pretty fucking hard. That's just a reality OP. If you can handle that, well, follow your dreams

>>17094572
>2016
>implying being trans is a bad thing

OP will be the next big thing regardless of talent for being trans alone.

>>17094584
I didn't imply that. I implied they would receive a lot of bad reactions, and to be prepared for that. Not to say they won't get the opposite as well

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Nothing because arby's is sexy af

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>>17094552
Fuck, that meat is so wet...

>>17094552
You love roasties

ever thought about working in EMS?

>>17094538
I did but I heard the pay is terrible.

>>17094544
well what are you making now?

sure, why not

>>17094535
Don't tell her out of context- that seems a bit excessive and weird. She'll figure it out when you weep at sentimental stuff. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it.

>>17094545

Does that really seem weird? I don't really cry at ANY sad movie or scene, but I get very immersed in movies and really "feel" the emotions. Also when I'm talking to my closest friends about things that are sad, and I feel they want to cry but are holding back, I also have to hold back crying as well.

If they cheated on you? I think you have the social upper hand. Go wild, he lost the mourning process the moment he betrayed your trust

>>17094525
I dunno, the next day? Thanks to college tumblrinas you're pretty much in the clear to do whatever you want.

>>17094540
See, I dont know.
It feels like I need to wait a certain amount of time before I can get even to something that is not very serious.

I get along with this guy very well, and maybe we could actually become a relationship, just the question is, is it socially acceptable for me to just jump from one guys arms to the others...

Tumblr? Is anyone actually using that? O.o

I look for inspiration in external things. Books, movies, going out in nature.

>>17094495
I notice sometimes being outside helps me think about drawings sometimes.

>>17094510
Mhmn, and I reflect on it, and it usually gets me out of a slump. For writing though, I'm a horrible drawer

There's a trick I use to prevent jet lag whenever I travel, and that is not eating for 8-12 hours before you want your new breakfast time to be. You go to sleep and get up at the time the best you can and eat as soon as the time you want, which resets your internal clock. Hunger makes it hard to sleep but it is possible.

Does pulling an all nighter and then sleeping early as fuck the next night fix it?

>>17094796
It has for me.
I work part-time doing night shifts in weekends when there are a demand for it. Since i am attending Uni i am therefore forced to get my shit in order after said work weekends.
Not going to bed after my shift and staying up until sunday night usually works.

But then again, my sleep cycle is fucked from as far back as i can remember.

Not worth it m8, although I can appreciate on how you've taken it. It's disrespectful, but not necessarily worth a talking to, they might just have a generally crude sense of humour

>>17094471
Thanks man i needed that

>>17094471
This was my first time actually posting instead of just lurking so i appreciate the response, 4chan gets a bad rap, but this actually helped me from making a huge mistake, thanks again anon

stop eating shit. eat clean

>>17094472
literally has nothing to do with it but ok.

I eat terrible things all the time and never once had a problem with acne or any skin blemishes. I'm a god damn porcelain doll. and I'm a guy.

>>17094454
Get 8 hours of sleep every night,
Drink lots of water.
Seems to work for me.

>>17094441
I genuinely want you to find someone that loves you, so it's not like no one gives a shit about you.

>>17094441
It can be hard, but I find the best route is self improvenent, whatever that may be for you. Maybe physical or mental or spiritual. I know it can be hard though, I'm visiting some family this weekend and they mention us kids having families and stuff, I'm one if the few currently single without kids at 27 years old. I try to push it out of my mind, I've been really hurt in the past and know what I want and won't settle for less at this point

>>17094465

Not him but

>do self improvement
>immediately feel good

>realize it's still just a distraction from >no gf

>>17094431

import math

math.pi

>>>/g/

>>17094445
I already know about math.pi, but our teacher wants us to find it using rng and a circle in a square.

>>17094408
Also I'm decent at sex. Am about 6 inches and can last decently long, sort of as long as I want to, but if she doesn't seem into it I start going soft which is an issue.

Halp

>>17094408
Tinder with the age range set to your preferences or find a bar or venue frequented by older people and socialize.

>>17094423
Will I get any bites whatsoever? What if you add in the fact that I'm severely spergy

This "gf" of mine got my hopes up and set my standards real high I just don't think I'll be able to match it anymore.

>>17094403
It sucks then you die or you get over it

>>17094403

i imagine for everyone its different.

for me it was this sensation of absolute hopelessness. life was more or less the same it has always been when i was happy, but all i could think about is how it'd be better to just slit my wrist and be done with it.

mine was chemically induced though so didnt last long. had similar feelings in teen years but nothing that dramatic.

>>17094403
I feel like there's nothing inside. Completely alone, with only your own self loathing as company. I can't stand being alive, and I can't bring myself to commit suicide. Maybe a few months down the line I'll have the guts.

I'm really thinking about just explaing the situation to her and being upfont and frank instead of just being awkward and never showing my face again. Any advice?

Well you dropped your spaghetti and then dropped the fucking kitchen with the song thing. But who cares, just keep eating there if you enjoy it. There's literally no way to salvage that relationship though, sorry

>>17094446
Thank for telling me the truth. I honestly don't know why I'm taking it this hard. We don't know each other that well, but i really didn't want to fuck it up with this girl I guess. Damn, this sucks.

Watch funny movies/TV shows with her to cheer her up and suggest going painting together at a pottery place or maybe just at home to get her feelings/thoughts out on a canvas.

>>17094374
the best thing you can give your parents is your time.

play games with her? Like board games maybe? I don't know...
I haven't talked to my mom in years...