Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 5533. page

>>17095532
Based on your English you may live somewhere that has taxes and other fees that make motorcycle ownership unfeasible.

Get a bicycle.

>>17095544
Thanks for the advice, i was also considering that. Non-related, but what could i improve in my english?

>>17095575
It's a bunch of minutia that makes English excessively complicated to master.
>capitalization of proper nouns
>word endings
>syntax

If you aren't speaking to native English speakers in a professional setting I wouldn't worry about it.

>>17095512
Plenty of escorts and strippers are paying their way through college.

>>17095537
I'm a homely guy, though, Anon.

Unless the gay escort business is both more lucrative and indiscriminate as I think it is.

>>17095565
>the gay escort business is both more lucrative and indiscriminate as I think it is.
Not much $200/hr+ work out there, but it can help make ends meet.

Doesn't seem very dangerous or harassing, just avoid them. Why do you hang out with shitty people? Are you a shitty person too?

Everyone in this story sounds pretty shitty honestly.

>>17095503
>27
>teenage girls
You're in a zone of pain.Too old to be feasibly dateable in a non-creepy way, but too young to satisfy daddy fetishes.

Drugs are fun, but if you start fucking the kind of teenage girls who do hard drugs, things will probably get really messy really quick. Honestly I wouldn't recommend giving them anything harder than weed.

>>17095507
theres gotta be a way to tap the market.


>>17095522
i was thinking girls that wanna do coke could be a good way in

Probably just nerves because you really like her. It'll pass evebtually. Also less porn

Been through a similar situation myself, I understand how incredibly embarrassing it feels. It's likely a combination of nerves and satisfying your drive through masturbation. Cutting out the jacking off is the best first step, it worked for me.

>>17095478
I don't watch porn, I jack off most days but I actively didn't in the days leading up to seeing her.
I think it might be nerves too, but I want to know if there's any strategies for mitigating it.

Why do you feel that way?

>>17095440
Parents rarely are, especially at first.

>>17095442
I'm older than him.
We are only dating since 6 months but will move in together in a few months. He's been living at home till now so i will be "stealing their little boy". He's the youngest of the family and the last one to move out.
And i also have a child.

They do have a point, externaly seen. But after all, it's his choice

>i've noticed signs
>that definitely means i have a chance at destroying her relationship
>this moral dilemma i've created for myself burdens me so

>>17095431
Who's destroying anything? I'm just saying she might rather be with me. It's not like I'm cheating with her.

>>17095443

has she told you she might want to be with you? cuz outside of her actually saying it you're probably reading too much into it

If you want to? I'm mixed myself but identify mostly with my country I live in, as does the rest of my family. I guess there's no harm in exploring that stuff if you're curious

>>17095413
It's part of your heritage, so what's there to lose?
It might give you some sense of belonging or it might just be a fun project for yourself.

>>17095413
Who gives a shit. I pray to god in the future my son isn't worried about petty things like this when he is an adult.

I'm not trying to be rude OP, but you are man, a human being. Who cares about the rest. From one black man to another just don't make a big deal about it.

Your race all that encompasses your person or who you are.

Because of the unforeseen joy

>>17095387
How do I know I will experience joy in the future?

because death is not the end, it's merely a transition to another life where you will have to go through all the same crap again only to reach this "level" that you failed at in the past (this) life.

look into buddhism; suicide is not the easy way out that you think it is. it's much harder to end suffering.

why would you care what a woman thinks?

doubly so for someone who doesn't even have to fuck them

>>17095349
How women view men, ignoring status and wealth, is an indicator of their inherent worth

>>17095344
Come out.

You don't. You just get more logical

>>17095308
Stop feeling.

how about less logical?

>>17095297
the stain of another man's semen unfurling out of her womb during sex

>>17095297
Your gf is a drug mule

looks like dried powder? she from columbia?

>>17095296
Well, you're in the exact same boat i was in 2 years ago, except i was 21.
Don't do what i did which was to hold on to the past and drink heavily.
Instead, do what i did after that.
I went that summer on a spontaneous trip to a music festival with friends, really gave me some perspective.
So, go do something you've never done, preferably somewhere you can explore and meet a lot of new people.

You need to let go of the past and look towards tomorrow as a clean slate where you can take your first step on a new chapter in your life.

It worked out awesome for me in hindsight, im sure you'll share my point of view in time.

>>17095296

>how do i handle this
>how do i cope
>wahhh

ur not looking for real advice when you ask this question. and even if you were the answer would always be the same. only you really know how you'd cope with it in the little ways, but the legitimate answer is you just keep living oyur fucking life cuz your life is exactly the same as it was 2 and a half years ago

you're going to have all sorts of thoughts and doubts and anxities

you're going to think it was all your fault, that if you had done something different it wouldn't have happened, that if you change something you'll get her back

the thing about breakups is that sometimes there's no set reason as to why it happened. sometimes feelings change, sometimes compability wanes, and a lot of the times it's just some arbitrary thing that doesn't reflect on the people involved. people change and it might seem like too simple of an answer but it's really not. it's not personal or planned, it just happens. it's progression, it's something everyone goes through. you will be in her position someday

you're going to be okay, eventually. it'll take awhile and it will hurt. there's nothing really you can do about that. what you can do is use this as an opportunity for yourself. find something to do, try new shit, fall back into hobbies you've let go, do something. it'll be distracting and transformative and a good center for when you feel lost

do yourself the favor of not losing all self control. don't turn to drinking or drugs or promiscuity thinking it will change anything. you might feel good temporarily but you need to actually deal with these feelings and be proactive, otherwise it's just a downward spiral

>>17095283
Try shaking them

How did you cause this 5 year old child to cry, pray tell?

>>17095283
Ugh. Mine is almost 4 and I have not figured out how to deescalate. Bubble work sometimes, or ice cream or sweets, but I don't like to negotiate with terrorists, so I normally just throw her in the bath tub, but that might not be so smart if OP is a guy.

The only cure is suicide

degloving

I vape everyday and I'm still heavily embarrassed for your friend. Why didn't you stop him OP?