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Can mold/mildrew from wet towels kill you/make you sick?
Share room with friend, he has the air conditioning on 24/7 which is fine by me..
Recently its started leaking water, its above my friends bed so he pulled his bed a bit from the wall and jammed towels inbetween where the watee leaks from.
It only leaks sometimes, and even then it can be pouring out or just dripping a bit. I've tried to get someone to fix it but thats another story.

Anyway I come back from class and I noticed a really strong milldrew/mold smell.
I go to the side of the bed and pull 2 big towels that are drentched in water and is the source of the smell. Ive hung them over out desk chairs but the smell is everywhere. Friend wont let me turn aircon off. I dont know if im hyping myself out or if im actually starting to feel sick.

Can you get sick from this? Smell is very strong. They are my friends towels and he refuses to move them, but theres nowhere to put them tonight because the laundry is closed.

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>meet bf through tinder around june 2015
>right off the bat, he tells me about death of his last girlfriend ("lydia") and how "it's been 2 years now"
>confirmed that death of his gf is real, just so there's no confusion
>there were some hard times because of this, but he's so amazing and considerate that it was worth it
>around his birthday, mentions to me how lydia "died right before his birthday" (his birthday is on remembrance day; yeah i know, what a coincidence...) and that "would mark 2 years since she died"
>think i must've misunderstood him somehow the first time he told me it's been "2 years", and keep this anniversary date in mind
>last night he texts me crying
>apparently at 1:14 am today, "it would be 2 years since lydia's death"

i'm not sure what's going on. i thought that when we met, its already been 2 years since her death... then on his birthday, it was apparently 2 years... and now today marks 2 years?

today he posted a facebook post on his wall about her death, which i haven't seen him done since i've got with him. i'm guessing this date must be right?

this kind of disturbs me on a couple levels... first i feel like a dick. had i known it's been only a year since her death, i would've stressed to him that he's definitely not ready for a relationship, and i definitely wouldn't have been comfortable being with him then. in fact, i had already been stressing that to him when we first got together knowing it was only 2 years, but he insisted on continuing to meet me.

but i also feel like he's stuck in this perpetual feeling that it's been 2 years... what if in a few more months, it's the 2 year anniversary of her death again?

i don't know how to bring this up without risking like i'm ignorant to his feelings... he is extremely sensitive about this topic obviously.

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Can anyone translate this? I'm curious what it says but i'm not able to translate it on the image based translation apps i've tried. Thanks in advance!

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I took a bunch of adderall last night for the first time, about 11 hours ago.
I wanted to do it again tonight because I'm off work, but I feel tired, nauseous and can't sleep, and the idea of needing to take more to get the same effect sounds really shitty.

Give me some advice, /adv/. When the stars align and I get two days off in a row, I need to cram them full of fun.

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Sup anons, it is very easy to get any movie, music and show online.. throught torrents for example.
Does anyone know how to get books? Pdfs of course. Any tips from experience? I am poor.

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My prom is coming in less than a week. My boyfriend just got his suit and he got it in the same colors that were in a picture I sent him of my dress.

Yesterday he asked me for a picture of my dress because his mom realized that the top was a very creamy pink. I send him the picture and he notices the bottom of my dress is darker than it was in the original picture. (I later established that it was just the lighting and the fact that the fucking veil in my dress was folded over making it looked darker BUT he can't get it through his head)

He threw a giant fit and all of our happy fucking plans turned to shit.

He won't listen to me and keeps mixing things up in his head. He keeps asking me if I know who's taking us and confuses the both of us, but I don't understand why he needs to know who specifically is taking us. I rented a hotel for us and now he's saying it's a mistake and he didn't actually want to go anywhere after prom. He says I "make things so much harder" and he's angry that I didn't tell him the specific fucking colors on the picture and how he didn't even want to go to prom.

I'm very angry right now but I have no idea who's in the wrong. Is it me for not sending him a clearer picture? Its all honestly lighting.

Also any ideas on how I can calm him down?

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Hey /adv/
What do you class as 'hooking up'?
I feel like there's alot of definitions for it in different cultures/countries etc.

I did some stuff with a guy but I wouldn't even really class it as a hook up but my friends think differently.

I just want some input on the topic

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ive been posting a lot recently, but today has done it for me, ive always been bad at school, dad left me when i was 13, mom is always tired from work, not enough money to pay the bills, i cant get someone to love me, God doesnt answer my pathetic prayers, my crush wont talk to me as she used to, friends moved to countries at the other side of the planet... only thing i got is this computer, depression and a dog whos the only being that seems to love me .-. i have some poison and a seringe, some rope... i wish God would kill me already, im tired of pretending that everything is fine...

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i cant find your thread... i saw it 20 mins ago,asian selfie as a pic... if thats you, let me tell you i think you are one of the prettiest human beings ive ever seen, you look amazing without make up! (i wish my crush loved me)

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I wouldn't say im depressed perse. Perhaps I am, I don't know. I just feel so very tired like my moral willpower is worn thin. I am try hard to be an amazing father and husband but I have to fake it all to maintain harmony in the household. I have two children under the age of 5, I work anywhere between 14 and 16 hours a day, when I do get a break 100% of my time is devoted to my family. My wife is of no help to me at all she is a stay at home mother and her life is always a million times harder than mine

I don't want to bad mouth her I try my damndest to love and respect her. I understand how difficult raising children is but I am just so very very tired of this lifestyle. She expects me to stay up late through the night to spend time with her and I try but getting 2 hours of sleep everynight when I'm required to wake at 3am is difficult. I will admit im getting used to it and no longer fall asleep behind the wheel but it has taken me years to attain this kind of discipline.

My wife sleeps on the couch because she co-sleeps with our youngest, who absolutely refuses to sleep in her crib or in our bed. I have been sleeping on the floor by the couch for the past year because my wife accuses me of fapping in our room while she sleeps on the couch. Trust me when I say maintaining peace is much better than arguing with her (I will say no more about that but I think you understand) She really believes I would rather spend my time jerking it than spending time away from this conscious reality.

I just don't know what to do I can only hang in here a little longer before I break completely. I am trying my hardest to be strong but I only have a few threads left on this rope I am hanging from.

I need advice. If you have it I appreciate. If you just want to shitpost, whatever I am too tired to care.

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Need advice on a situation that I'm in.
My parents are fighting, I live with them because its cheaper etc.
Yesterday my father went off on me about not showing respect, which he is correct. I understand where hes coming from and have said Ill work on it. The reason why I dont show respect is because everything out of his mouth is toxic, hes in a permanent shit mood and when people talk to me like im shit I shut off. I really cant think of anything positive or nice that hes said to me in the last 5 years. Its like he uses up all his happy with people at work/others and comes home to be miserable.

He went off on me and told me that my mother is close to kicking me out among other hurtful things . She overheard and screamed at him that he cant speak for her because shes never once said that etc. That im not a problem at all and she doesnt know where this is coming from.
She said she wants to sell everything and they go their separate ways because no body is happy here.
This is my fault, she seems very sure that this is happening, shes looking at houses to move out in and whenever theyve talked today its been her saying shes selling stuff etc.

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I dont know if this is the correct board to post this but here we go. Im a 22 yr old virgin and recently got a gf.Shes is really hot like a 8/10 but the problem is i cant get hard when we try to have sex. As soon as im getting my clothes off erection disapears. Im a fucking sensitive pussy because my heart starts to beat so fast and i get really nervous.We tried like 5 times and she knows im a virgin...

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Is it normal to suffer from premature ejaculation at 16/17?
I started having sex about a month ago but my girlfriend rarely cums because i finish too fast. Any help?

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Sup bois, I'm in a bit of a pickle and need some help.

My hair is currently way to long and I want to get it cut, but my girlfriend said if I do it she'll cut my balls off in my sleep. I know what you're thinking "lol what a cuck amirite" but hear me out plez. I'll be cutting it regardless because white male privilige, but I kinda want to understand why my gf is so obsessed with my long hair and why shes so against me cutting it.

Cheers senpai

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How do I stop being nervous at interviews? I take xanax an hour before, I try to calm myself before I go in. Then it's all well at first until they start asking some questions and my mind goes blank and I find it really hard to form the sentences without long pauses. And then I get even more nervous because of that and I can feel the mild onset of a panic attack which of course makes it even harder for me to impress the interviewer.