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>>17128874
You should ask to speak to the head of your program and explain exactly what happened in great detail. Especially everything surrounding the reason she would have said such things.

>>17128874
She's going to get you incarcerated OP, you have to incarcerate her before she incarcerates you.
She's acting preemptively so you don't ruin her reputation.

>>17128874
Also, it'd probably be best to suggest if he can't believe your word against hers for your education, that you'd be willing to get a full psychological evaluation before returning.

1) Your Mum is a stalking fucking idiot. She should have started a new life not move to near where your Dad and his new wife live.

2) What your dad does financially is his own business.

3) Take a look at yourself your Dad's wife is seriously ill. Show some empathy.

How does that mean your life is fucked. Sucks for your dad, though.

>>17128783
You can't. Divorces happen, get over it. Step mothers are always a pain in the ass, for biological reason. A step mother will always favor her own children over any other, as she is 100% sure their offspring are theirs. A father does not have this guarantee, hence their are, by nature, more accepting of foreign children.
Yes, she did steal your inheritance to favor her own breed. This is what step mothers do. Just accept it for what it is, go about your business and move on with your life.
Let this be a lesson to you and don't marry a single mother. They will always be most loyal to their offspring and expect you to spend your resources on them whilst depriving your own offspring.
This is not a /pol/ memay, I have experienced it first hand.

Things will be ok. Why don't you go to her and talk through these things? With her past, she might understand where you're coming from. Who knows? Maybe you guys can work through this and be a happier couple. God knows more fucked up shit than that has happened in relationships and they still can work some how.

Well you had something she didn't for a long time, a qt3.14 partner.

It's best you brake it off, sell her a story that you need to focus on school and don't have time to commit, maybe propose fwb. Looks like you regret being in a relationship for so long, not her past ( to be honest, I wouldn't really be in a relationship with her).

>>17128772

I felt so insecure about my past, I told her I don't know how many girls I have been with.

Now going back will only show how pathetic I am/was.
On the other side I really want to be alone for some time.
Need to fix myself from scratch.

>>17128741
Bump

Yes it is. It just takes hard work and dedication. Look up some language learning forums, it's a pretty widely discussed topic.

>>17128741

Your brain needs to be taught a language at an early age. All the slight nuances and tongue positions will never be perfected. That said, I believe an accent can be made to sound better.

I learned French a little later in life so I have trouble saying certain things and I also have trouble getting the genders right every time. A lot of the genders have to do with "feeling". And that feeling can more easily be taught early on.

I was drawing with a 3 year old this weekend and she said "la rose" (the pink) right after I said "le rose" (which is incorrect). So a fucking 3 year old gets the masculine/feminine part of French better than I do. This has a lot to do with their environment. I bet that if I were the one teaching this kid French from the beginning, her french would be all sorts of fucked up. But her mother is a French teacher so she will grow up knowing perfect French. I have friends who's first language is French and I find myself correcting their grammar. (In my head of course, I don't want to be a dick)


Sometimes words feel better with other words replaced. So a trick I use is to try different words in front of the word I'm having trouble with. For example: If I can't figure out if it's "un poubelle" (masculine) or "une poubelle" (feminine) I'll try using "la/le" in front instead. In this case "la poubelle" feels more right to me, and because I know "la" is feminine, I know that "une poubelle" is correct. Of course this leads to slower speech since you're searching for your words.

Every country has a different procedure. We can't help you with the information (or lack thereof) you've given us

>>17128726
I was thinking of disappearing and changing identity and I don't mean by the common, public way

>>17128730
If you want info you have to give info.

You want to run away from home?
You murdered a guy and need to make a new life?

Give us your goal and we will help.
Or call you a faggot.

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Also this is with my loose skin pulled down. I have 7.4 percent body fat currently.

>>17128672
your skin will tighten itself up over time, 100lbs in a year is significant, far too quick for your skin to keep up pace with. I'd hit the gym aggressively; some muscle under that will go a long way.

you are fine. no need to worry.

Yet another "I'm craving pussy" thread on /adv/, sheesh.

you both need each other. I think you should find a place to take him with you and maybe get another cat just to give him a friend. Also it's not very good from you to skip things you should be living just to be with him. It's unfair to both of you. You both are codependent and that isn't a very healthy relationship. Also, don't waste your time and your emotions thinking about something that hasn't happened yet. Enjoy your love, don't transform it into sadness.

You sir, are pussy whipped.

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>>17128648

>I asked her to leave the room to see if I can fap. I came buckets within 2 minutes of watching porn. (I quickly called her in so I can cum on her face lol)

That's the saddest thing I've ever read on /adv/. Jesus Christ, anon.

>>17128648
Jesus Christ I hope this is shitposting for your sake. I can't handle the second hand embarrassment

>>17128652

Yeah.... that... that kind of hurt a little bit...


But basically you psyched yourself out OP.

This is easier said than done, but the solution is simple, quit freaking yourself out. The bigger deal you make out of all this the harder (or softer kek) this is going to get for you

Baby steps that work up to being more comfortable with it. It's not just like someone can tell you a few sentences and it'll undo everything. It's a slow process that's going to take a while. Do something slightly out of your comfort zone more and more and keep expanding what you're comfortable with. Eventually, you'll work up to sexy stuff.

bumping this, I feel the exact same way op. My therapist says it has to do with an inferiority complex, at least in my case

>>17128624
>Baby steps that work up to being more comfortable with it.

Can I get some examples of this? I am able to approach and start convos but I dont have a clue of telling a girl that I like her in any romantic way. I feel that its wrong. Its hard to say.

remove the hobbies. everything else looks great op

>>17128618
Okay. No need to describe myself a bit? Also, is no picture a problem?

>>17128627
>is no picture a problem?
yes you need to attach an 8x10 glossy

Do you not trust her to deal with him?

She likes making you jealous without dealing with the consequences. It's an easy way to make you protective and defensive over her without her actually cheating or you beating the shit out of someone.

You don't give her the attention she wants or she'll make a habit out of this.

>>17128563
I guess i don't fully trust her
>>17128574
She has complained that I don't give her enough attention/affection in the past. I've tried to do a better job of this but she also knows that I wasn't raised to be that kind of touchy feely guy. I hug and kiss her all the time now though, I try yknow?

>>17128492
You haven't even finished, but various parts of this story sound fishy.

>she said, before "she" shows up
So she has no qualms with lying to your face.

>Before I could even get half way through the sandwich her study partner had already shown up, it was Luis, her guy friend, the same guy who was at her house all of a sudden the day she told me to go running and working out on my own
That's weird.

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Mind you when I sat down to eat there was a table next to the couch she was sitting on and a lonely chair on the other side of the table. She was sitting on one side and had her papers on the other side. Before when I tried to gather her things up to give to her or not sit on, she told me not to, she also wouldn't move the papers over to let me sit this time, she made me sit by myself in a chair on the other side of the table from her.
When Luis entered the house she made room for him and went out of her way to get everything for him, when I ask where anything is, I get a demeaning lecture about how helpless I am.
There we are studying all three of us together with me by myself and Luis on the couch with the girl that I love and she is cuddling up to him and moving things out of their way to she can get closer to him. All the while I am by myself. He starts blaring music and she won't even let me choose music in the car without a fight. And they keep chit chatting about random crap with each other never once even acknowledging that I am in the room.
Then it becomes 11:30PM and all of a sudden I am being told to leave by her and I was curious again, "Is he leaving too or is he spending the night here? Why do I need to leave right now if he is only here to study and his shoes are now off because he isn't ready to leave at all?" I was told I was then making things awkward. Fuck right I am making it awkward, it feels like I am making it awkward for this guy to fuck the woman that I love and says that she cares about me that I am being selfish when I feel neglected by her when other men are around. When she refuses to let me call her my girlfriend, when she calls me her friend, when she calls Luis her friend, when I have to fuck her with a condom on and I am her friend.
I have already been packed up to go, understanding from her that she wanted to wind things down, but he is still there, she expects me to be okay with her winding down with another man?

>>17128517
>When she refuses to let me call her my girlfriend, when she calls me her friend, when she calls Luis her friend, when I have to fuck her with a condom on and I am her friend.
Uh... It sounds to me like you're not in a relationship. Doesn't matter if you love her or not, but she clearly doesn't feel for you in that way. Sounds like you're being used, friendo.

I take back >>17128504
You are not together. This sounds completely normal between a girl and an overly-clingy friends-with-benefits. Not that what she's doing isn't shitty, but you're expecting way too much. She clearly likes the Luis guy more.

>>17128486
>i'm 35 but look 25
Probably not.

>>17128486
I'm 19. Where are you from anon?

Why bother?

I'm 30 and the only women who give me the time of day are way younger than me. I want none of it, 18 year olds are impossible to relate to. They were literally in kindergarten when I bought my first car.

>>17128483
>Should I be able to pay one of the $500 amounts and reduce the sentence?
Why would you? If they broke the law, let them learn. You're not going to get anything in return.

>>17128493
It's honestly my girlfriend.
Can someone please answer my question

That's not how bail works, you retard. Your girlfriend is still going to have to go to trial if they decide to go through with the charged.

>>17128474
ALSO the reason I don't want to contact him and ask him to delete the video is because he is a scheming motherfucker and will probably just download it before he deletes it so he will always have the video on hand. I want it gone.

>>17128474
Bump

>>17128474
prove it op otherwise your just slandering noobs on the internet