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It's a bit late after two years if you don't want to risk the relationship tbqh. Basically you want to go from exclusive to open, and the reason is you feel trapped with her. You need to check yourself and figure out whether you'd feel trapped in monogamy in general, or if it's just with your particular girlfriend. Oneitis is a bitch no matter how wonderful the relationship is. If it feels natural with other girls, the good that it could do could outweighs the damage if holding back. You should read up on polyamory, and really figure out if this is just due to problems in the relationship, or if you could see yourself losing your gf, and then telling all the girls you are dating than this is how you are, risking missing out on long term possibilities with a lot of potentially wonderful women. Browse blackdragon's blog for in-depth.

>>17128712
Thx for the response, i probably wouldnt lose her, but i will destroy her pshych

>[...] because she had Daddy issues
Are you saying that any normal person would accept their partner having sex with others?

Either way, you should figure out why you feel imprisoned. Is it really just that sex has gotten boring and you want to try out new things, or more like new girls? Is it just her, or will you want an open relationship with your next partner (if you end up breaking up) after a couple of years as well?

You can try to make it work but consider whether you love her enough to stay exclusive, or whether you should stay single to fuck around, or maybe start a polyamorous relationship where you both fuck around right from the beginning, etc.

Also been told I need to smile more (maybe importing I have a rbf?)

>>17128047
Be my gf rn reeeeeeeee

Do you have pink nipples or brown nipples?

>he doesn't really care if i be pregnant. what does it mean? how can he not
Because it'd be your problem, not his.

>he will be in trouble too if i become pregnant
Nah. If he's smart, he didn't give you his real name. Good luck collecting child support from a guy who doesn't exist.

>am I just a fuck for him?
Obviously

>>17128068
>Nah. If he's smart, he didn't give you his real name. Good luck collecting child support from a guy who doesn't exist.
I imagine she has a phone number or something, that could be enough to track him down.

>what does it mean?
It means you're both idiots b/c pulling out doesn't mean anything. Pre-seminal fluid.
>am I just a fuck for him?
You don't know for certain but in all likelihood, probably.

But, he might also be interested in a long term relationship. Feel it out a bit more.

Compare cocks and hope yours is bigger.

But in all seriousness you can beat the ever-living shit out of him. He'll claim victory in the battle because you will get grounded and punished for kicking his ass, but every time you flex around him he'll flinch like the bitch he is. It's like training a puppy.

>>17128019
Ignore him OP. The best way to make a narcissist feel like shit is by making him feel small, and insignificant.

>>17128019
Offs you sound like a little bitch boy too. Get over yourself, Liberace.

>>17128012
1. cut contact.
2. hit the gym.
3. focus in yourself
4. don't talk to anyone about her, she doesn't matter anymore.
5. try new things

>>17128012
It's normal OP, two weeks the wound is still fresh just DO NOT GO BACK TO THE PERSON.

I say you are allowed a brief amount of time to feel like shit since your relationship lasted 5 years and it seems to be one that greatly affected you negatively during it.

You say you have supportive friends, my advice is together and have a night out or hang out if some fashion. Go work out or run or even find a new hobby. Go anything that can get your mind off the relationship. It won't be easy but if you are persistent in doing activities it will fade and you can get back into the dating game.

My relationship wasn't as long as yours, but I feel your pain. Get out of the house. Be with friends or even random people. If you are alone, those thoughts will creep into your mind and destory you. Im sure there are people ready to help ya. If they aren't, well... we are here at least.

If only there was some kind of board for travel...

Google Maps

>>17127991
Be rich, work at an airline or on a cruise ship or become a traveling package delivery person :D

Yes you made the wrong decision.
Yes you should have. Ask her the fuck out. If she wigs out then she isn't worth your time anyway. The fact that you took the time to post this tells enough. You know what the answer is already. Just ask her the fuck out.

People need to stop putting so much thought into this sort of stuff. Just ask her out.

>>17128033
but wouldnt it have been weird?

she spent so much time saying how she didnt want a guy to tell her that he had feelings for her and how she friend zoned him and how she didnt want to deal with that stuff

I am confuse

>>17127984
She was clearly trying to tell you that she's not interested. You're the guy she's talking about, OP.

i don't care about your shitty post i just want to say gud taste in music senpai

I'll send the message anon. explaining exactly what you wrote here

Look for her email on the college website. It should have her contact information

probably. why not?

Because she was on her phone and didn't want a second date I'd say she wasn't interested. The thing about the latter is just us guys trying to overanalyze different situations to make it look like it's in our favor or not.

But because you're quitting it wouldn't hurt to ask again. So go ahead. If she says no you'll never see her again so who cares amirite

>>17128032
She's on her phone all the time, she's 19 and addicted to that shit. Even at work she sneaks in glances.

This what you do.
Take credit card info, buy 1500$ worth of 12" dildos. Ship them to his/her place of work. Buy 5 cases of 24 can monster energy
Leave a can randomly one day for 5 months. Feed anthrax to a pet

dont mess with the credit card, as that belongs to the bank and trust me, those mothefuckers will get you smoked, as for the rest of the stuff you have... think about it.. do you really wanna do this? if so: spread his info here and everywhere you can, just quote stuff like:"disgusting human" or something like that.

I guess give out his phone number to telemarketers and address to every spam mail you can think of

But beyond that, using that stuff will just get you into serious trouble

I took Wellbutrin, which is a pretty mild antidepressant, especially in the doses I was taking. It was awesome, I barely felt different from a personality standpoint, but I didn't feel as much impending doom. Plus you have less appetite so you don't get fat and it helps you get drunk faster.

>>17127931
Interesting, but I would want something stronger and I wouldn't want to have less of an appetite bc I'm already skinny as it is.

They range greatly depending on the person, what kind of meds, what dosage and if they're combined with any other meds.

I'm on prozac and effexor but it took a good 5 or so tries and a year or two before I found this combination that really worked for me. I don't feel emotionless but it stops me from getting really randomly depressed. Keeps me a baseline that ranges from content to happy. Side effects are it takes longer to cum, and it's even used as an EDF treatment, which my gf loves cause I can last basically as long as I want to. Worst side-effects I had was when I tried Zoloft. It made me super spiteful and angry.

My advice: Try it with an open mind and be patient. Communicate with your doctor and please don't think you know better and start self-prescribing. So many people stop taking them abrubtly, or cut 'em in half, etc. And it fucks you up. Also you might think "I feel great after taking these for X months, guess I don't need 'em anymore!". Don't do this. If you want off, tell your doctor.

Try being over the age of 18

I hate this type of overly violent humor.
Incredibly unfunny and just cringeworthy, on par with *teleports behind you*

>>17127878
"you are alright senpai"

>>17127860
Don't. It has a bad effect on some people.

>>17127860
how are you ingesting it?

Smoking it in a spliff

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>>17127799
>i'm an aspiring _____
>do you guys know how I can stop being so hard on myself
so you haven't done anything worthwhile and have motivation issues, got it.

you're never going to make it. Give up now.

try posting your stuff to a website anonymously. if you get good feedback, maybe start giving your own name credit, but it can be more comfortable until then to use an alias

>>17127798
It's a spook m8. Do you enjoy these things? Then keep doing them. There's also a thread about being manly in the catalog right now

>>17127801
So I can just calk it up to unfortunate encounters with girls then? I'm 6 feet and told I'm handsome on a few occasions. I'll take a look there though, thanks.

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