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I was thinking: "hey, I'm alive, so I'm going to do whatever I want" and I pan to message a guy in my class that I don't like that much, but also don't hate (we're just polite acquaintances) and don't talk that much to smoke some weed tomorrow just to see what happens. What do you guys think? Is it too weird?
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>>17198824
I think you're far from the first person in the world to trade drugs for pussy/ass.
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>>17198831
Wtf I didn't mean it that way! We're both guys and straight, I meant to do something we have in common (weed) as an excuse to hang out
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>>17198836
I think people who use recreational drugs really like using drugs with other people because it makes them feel like less of a loser.
What is it you want to hear here? You're like some sort of man-baby that can't do things without checking to make sure other people approve? Ok, here's my opinion: there is nothing unusual about trying to make friends. You're a loser for looking to base a friendship around mutual drug use.
Is running a good fix for anxiety/depression? I can't talk my way into the safe sweet spot with medical professionals so I'm going to have to fend for myself.
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>>17198819
Running will make you feel like shit. Your body will be in good condition though! Maybe your confidence will go up if you have a better body
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>>17198929
So it will make me worse?
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Google "runner's high"
Through studies with athletes it has been found that endorphine
levels increase with exercise. Special interest arose in the possibility
that elevated endorphin levels might explain the mood changes that
occur during running, in particular the euphoria of the runner's high,
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I just kind of need some emotional support right now guys.
So yesterday I came back from college (which has finished) for my sisters graduation from high school, and my mom wouldn't let me go home. She's holding me for four days down here, against my wishes but she has threatened to not pay for some expenses this last month so I have to put up with it. Anyways today we went to a restaurant and on the way home my stepfather started yelling at me about how I'm lazy and taking advantage of everyone and not contributing. Most of the stuff he said really wasn't true I think, like the main points were I need to find a job this summer, and find housing for next year now. This summer I've applied for a volunteer position (which I should get soon) and I'm sitting in on two classes at the unviersity, and housing doesn't need to be for 2 months so I've put it on the back burner since its not fucking important. And I am already going to pay for utilities, rent and food for the summer out of my own pocket. And he even brought up my dad who died a few years ago and talked about how I am just lazy and should get a job.
I mean it really hurt, and I don't think I've even done anything actually wrong. I don't think I've ever been talked to like that, and it was by this guy who has only been in my life for three years. And my mom was backing him up. And I have to stay with these people for two more days. This shit hurts. I'm not used to being treated like this, I mean I'm a junior in college so I guess I'm pretty sheltered from real life at this point.
Not really looking for advice but of course it'll be welcome. Just wanted to let it out.
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please guys :(
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>>17199004
I'm here for you, dude
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It's going to be okay, op
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Should I shave treasure trail or leave it?
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19 and due to my genes I have light body hair, except the treasure trail. So in terms of my torso, I only have the dark treasure trail. If that's all there is should I just keep it shaved?
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>>17198781
shave shave shave etc.
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>>17198781
Keep it. It's hot.
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>>17198781
Keep it. My bf shaved it once and I was so upset lol
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My girlfriend never posts any pictures of us on instagram. Although, people do know she has a boyfriend and she puts it as such in her profile detail. Today, she went to a concert with my friends. One of them being a good friend of mine. They met someone famous and both took a picture with him at the same time and she posted the picture with the famous dude, her, and my friend on Instagram..
I'm upset right now because as I said, she never posts pictures of us and I feel like she's literally doing this on purpose. Every time we take a picture together, she says she doesn't look good and takes one of just her and posts it but she never does with me. I'm furious right now... I just feel like she's embarrassed of me or something. I feel a weird mix of frustration and anger. Why doesn't she ever posts pictures with me? Why am I so angry right now? Do I have the right to be angry right now or should I calm down?
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>>17198720
Perhaps you're just not photogenic, OP. Sorry.
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>>17198720
You absolutely have the right to be angry. If she's embarrassed of being seen with you, she's not serious about you. Confront her, but DON'T say it's on purpose, and don't try to make her "recognize what she did wrong", but emphasize how it's making you feel that she's fine with people seeing her as long as you're not in the picture.
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>>17198726
Lol that made my night anon. I don't think it's that.
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Guys I'm in the weirdest relationship, basically 'friends' with this chick who has told me we'll never be more than friends and freaks out if I even touch her when she's sober but then when shes drunk she acts like we're a couple and will grab my hand and put it between her legs and try hookup with me and shit but at the same time will talk about other guys exclusively. Like we've been through a LOT of shit but like she's made a point that it'll never happen but then we talk every day and act like a couple. What do?
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>>17198704
been there lol
Don't let yourself get fooled. She'll break your heart if you have serious feelings for her. Move on. If you can keep it casual, stay friends and hookup when u guys are drunk. Hope that helps
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>>17198738
Yeah that's what I'm kinda trying to do but she's always like half asleep and wasted while I'm pretty sober because I'm a big drinker, so it always feels kinda rapey even though she's doing half the stuff herself
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>>17198704
Stay away from the slutty drunk type. Those people should seriously learn either to NEVER drink, or only drink in private with their SO.
t. years of cheating phonesex that was promptly forgotten, least i never fucked her but the guilt destroyed me. positive she did it on purpose to get off guilt-free.
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>"get a shitty McJob so you have experience to put on your resume!"
How long do I have to keep that job in order for it to "count"?
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>>17198674
who told you that nonsense?
you get a shitty mcjob so you have some money in your pocket while you look for something better
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>>17198674
I applied while entering. Mc.Donalds is the most suicide inducing job I've ever worked. Between the pay, the stigma, and the actual WORK itself combined with the fact that at mines you either ate their shit for lunch or dinner or you didn't eat during your 8 hour shift, it's a purgatory, unless you lack ambition or are a high school kid.
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>>17198674
approx 2 months is enough to put on a resume
although >>17198683
is right of course
Can someone falsely accuse you of rape after a year since you last had sex with them?
A girl messaged me angrily about how bad of a person I am and just used her for sex.
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>>17198673
>Can someone falsely accuse you of rape after a year since you last had sex with them?
yes
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>>17198673
look up what the statute of limitations is, I think it's more than a year but she'll have a hell of a time proving you did it after this long, even if you did do it.
basically she's feeling shitty about her decision to have casual sex and wants to put the blame on you now. do not say anything at all to her.
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sure, you can accuse anyone of anything
kinda hard to prove though
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how can I initiate sex verbally, or atleast lead into kissing touching without the mood killing "can I kiss you"
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>>17198654
Just rape her,
Most women like to be raped, its a fact.
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>>17198662
dont tempt me
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>>17198654
By not being a child. Lean in and allow her to close the gap. Social cues are not complicated.
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Life went from horrible, to amazing, to "I want to die" in less than a month
>22 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl because of sheltered lifestyle growing up
>Meet cute girl at college who shares many similar interests
>Month or so goes by and we become really good friends
>Honestly the only real friend I've ever had
>Share each others most personal secrets
>I fall in love with her
At this point I thought I had a chance to be happy for the first time in my life
>Hanging out yesterday
>Tell her I love her because if I didn't I would have imploded
>She tells me shes not looking for a relationship because she is scared of heartbreak due to past relationship troubles
>Told her I understand and let her know I just want her to be happy and I'm always going to be here for her
>Find out today she went on a date with a guy today she literally met for 5 minutes while we were hanging out the day before
>Find this out minutes ago
So here I am shaking with rage and drowning in sadness while my head feels like a war zone, the first person I've ever loved or felt a connection with and then all that happens.
The one time in my life that I was happy, and it was devastated.
What do I do now?
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>>17198646
Ask her why she lied.
It's fine she doesn't have feelings for you, but if she was a real friend she would have been honest.
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>>17198646
Take the red pill and go down the rabbithole of depression and social anxiety like the rest of us.
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>>17198712
this. don't overcomplicate things and drop the histrionics.
and if she's a flake, better to find out now.
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My girlfriend caught me masturbating to someone really weird. I'm terrified she's gonna break up with me and tell everyone. What can I do?
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>>17198638
Rape and kill her,
Its the only way, you know this to be true.
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>>17198638
Fucking hilarious..sorry um tell her it iis normal..? Everyone masturbates to weird things or people
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>>17198643
No, it normal, at least what I was masturbating to.
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>Lol you can't die from benzos
https://drugs-forum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73293
REEEEEEEEEE Google stop sending me shit replies and give me a doctor already!! so what the hell am I suppose to do if pills can't kill you? Hang myself or jump off a building like a desperate rookie who didn't bother preparing a better method?
4 years and I haven't discovered a good way of suicide which doesn't involve: accidents, guessing blindly, pure inert gas like nitrogen, being shot in the back of the head with a decent sized bullet.
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Buy some booze you fucking idiot.
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>>17198612
And Google exit bag. Are you too stupid to live and too stupid kill yourself? Do you just want attention? The fuck is wrong with you. Please actually kill yourself.
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>>17198605
1. don't kill yourself
2. pills can certainly kill you, you just need to take a massive dose of some pretty fucked shit. drink a lot of alcohol too when you're taking the pills
3. helium tank+gas mask, but they have started to put oxygen in the mix so you can't do it a lot anymore
4. don't kill yourself
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I have no way of making friends or getting a bf/husband
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BTW 22, lost touch with highschool friends after highschool
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>>17198593
Become a hooker,
Start sucking dick and before you know it everyone will want to be your bf. Bitches that don't put out become old maids.
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>>17198598
job? school? hobbies? there are infinite ways of doing this you just actually have to look and try.
also from what I have learned, highschool is highschool. don't expect to stay friends with those people; many will move on and find their own paths. look for new people girl, and maybe stop worrying about a relationship so much?
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Long story guys, please bear with me I need some advice for this situation.
About a month ago, I hung out with my lifetime friends and two of my friend's brothers who occasionally hang out with us. I usually get a long with them even though one of them (let's call him John) is kinda weird and usually goes too far with his jokes. We were all hanging out when suddenly a friend of mine mentioned that my girlfriend looked hindu, Which John suddenly exclaimed "No wonder she smells like shit!!". Some of my friends chuckled a bit others were somewhat shocked by his comment. I was shocked by his comment as well, and got very visibly angry for his stupid remark, but I stopped myself from calling him out because his brother's girlfriend was there and I didn't want to make a scene so I let it slide and swallowed my anger.
Long story short, after a two weeks I was still upset at the guy so I spoke with my girlfriend about it, and she was also taken aback (obviously) by his dumb comment. Later, we went to John's brother's graduation party. I took my girlfriend to the party and we all had a good time, at the end of it though when it was just my girlfriend and I outside chilling, we spotted John, at this time my girlfriend took this opportunity to ask him why he said that stupid comment which he denied ever saying and he started visibly sweating and kept denying these claims.
After a minute or two of denying it he finally said "OH! I remember, sorry..." by this time, the friend that had previously mentioned that my girlfriend was a hindu was there standing with her girlfriend and they just kept quiet. So we all left at the same time.
After that experience, my girlfriend decided to apologize to him online for putting him in a uncomfortable spot which he replied by saying that it was okay and he promises to never do it again. (.cont)
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Yesterday however, in our friend group chat I had joked that a certain game was shit,and whoever liked it had shit taste, which he replied by saying that dating my girlfriend proves that I have shit taste. and he later kicked me out of the group chat (we usually kick each other out for fun).
I didn't like his comment so I PMed him telling him that I do not appreciate him saying those disrespectful comments about my girlfriend and I would appreciate it that he stops saying those things because I find them in poor taste and I also said that I did not call him out before when he said that my girlfriend smelled like shit because I did not want to make a scene which he then replied that we needed to talk in person.
I agreed to his suggestion, but instead he started chimping out in the chat telling me that I should apologize because putting him on the spot in the party was worst, and that he had spoke with all my friends in my group and they all agreed that what I did was pretty shitty.
I mocked him by saying that its kind of funny that he made himself look like a victim of some sorts, when all I wanted from him was just a simple apology or him to just say "It's okay man, I won't do it again". Instead he kept complaining and calling me a sniveling bitch for telling my girlfriend everything and that I should own up for my mistakes and that I cannot hang out with them anymore if I don't learn to let go of my grudges, because holding something in makes me the bad guy. After a while of trying to reason with him and telling him that I would rather talk in person he just decided to not reply.
I decided to tell my version of the story to my other friends, I don't usually like talking about my problems with people but I felt like I wanted to confirm if John's claims were true that they all think that I am the bad guy in the situation.
They told me to specify what they have spoken about me because they claim they always talk shit about everyone (cont.)
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I tried to refresh their memory about it, and they said that they remembered and that I should've handled the situation better and I should have never had called him out and they also said that getting mad over this and PMing him over something so minor is stupid. It seemed to me like my friends were siding more with him.
Regardless, sorry for the long post, I just wanted to know, if I should talk to all of them in person, specially with that guy to clarify things, right now I believe that they have a separate chat where I am not in it and they talk about this. Our original group chat (I was brought back) is dead now.
So what do you all think? Am I wrong? Or is he?
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Jesus man, there's more? You consider maybe typing all this out ahead of time and posting it in chunks when you're done?
Dude is a douchebag, plain and simple and if he respected you as a friend, he wouldn't have kept talking shit after the first time.
Don't hang with him anymore 1w1 and only speak to him in a group as necessary (yes and no answers). If he talks shit on your girl again, bust his fucking nose in.
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Hi /adv/, I'm 23 and for the past 12 years or so I've been glued to a computer screen, getting not much social interaction outside school/university. As you'd expect I'm somewhat introverted, better at listening than talking myself, but in the past few months I've been trying to open up and went out to the pub with work people for the first time a few months ago. They usually make a night of it and go places afterwards, but I've only done that once (but enjoyed it).
Despite those recent nights out, I keep feeling like I've missed out on any real chance to get used to it and enjoy things. I have some anxiety problems, not to the point of panic attacks, but enough to keep me a bit tense and quiet until I've had a few drinks. I relax after that, but once people leave the pub and start going into clubs I just feel like a foreigner. I have no idea what to do when I'm there: everyone splits up because they know people locally (either having gone to school with them...
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... or knowing them from somewhere else) but I'm not originally from around here so I only know work people.
Is this atmosphere difference something I can get over, or is it just too far a mental bridge to cross at this point? I'm by no means a random hookup sort of person and I can't usually strike up conversations with strangers, so it seems a different world to walk into. I just want to be able to enjoy the time I'm out with friends, most of whom are the going-out type rather than come-over-and-play-vidya or film night friends (at least, not with me).
>tl;dr is it possible to learn to like late nights out after being socially awkward for years?
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>>17198491
Do you drink enough to feel drunk OP? I find I'm not particularly social when I'm sober, but after a few beers it all gets pissed away. But I will agree I don't like late nights or at least not 5am late but if you get drunk you could care less about the time
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OP, sounds like you're trying to socialize in the wrong place.
John Rockefeller said "A friendship founded on business is better than a business founded on friendship."
It sounds like you want a relationship that's quite personal. Start socializing at work, I think, so that there's an organic reason for people to talk to you. Once they're comfortable with you, then they'll welcome you to their bigger circles.