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>>17201988
It's really up to you to motivate yourself.

Keep going.

Somethin new will pop up

REMEMBER THE TEXT BOOKS YOU BUY MUST BE UP TO DATE OR LESS THAN A EDITION

>>17201988
take a break from school
go find a job, see how little you make
go back to school, make friends/support group
just get by, you don't need great grades
graduate, hopefully you'll be doing something requiring your degree, otherwise you just wasted years of your life and money

Well, what are your interests? Girls are interested in people who are interesting. And where you go, you'll meet different types of chicks. For a wide variety, I'd say college. Bookish girls, bookstores (duh). Tomboys? Fairs, 4H, Rodeos etc. The best way to meet chicks is to make friends and meet more people that way. Start with people platonically and meet more people through them, and see who you romantically click with. Or maybe like an actual 'dating' site like Okcupid or POF. Instead of 'meet and fuck: tinder"

>i am too young for bars and im not much of a club person.

Plenty of time on your side, this is a good thing.

Do you go to school? They have shitload of clubs.

Otherwise, hit the gym/pick up some active-social hobby. You can start building up your social circle and you'll just be constantly meeting women ,it will be no effort involved outside of maintaining the circle.

>>17201991
>>17201992
so youre telling me i pick up any hobby and begin automatically meeting women who also take part in said hobby

Let her do what she wants. Who are you to tell her what she should do with her life?

To be honest, it's very unlikely that she will escape anyway

>>17201975
Tell someone important about her escape attempt. If she ends it now there is no chance of recovery - if she tries recovery and still wants to die, she has all the time in the world.

Do what it takes to give her a second chance. She doesn't have to take it, but she deserves the option.

Trust me, I went through some fucking rough times, but I got my second chance and here I am.

>>17201995
>To be honest, it's very unlikely that she will escape anyway

This. If you've ever been to one of these places you would know security is pretty tight to prevent lawsuits.

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>buy gun
>go to ghetto
>park your car in the street with your windows down
>have your gun ready
>wait for thug to come up and try to rob you
>blow his brains all over the pavement
>repeat a few more times until the cops catch you
>put the gun to your temple and end it when they catch you
>die a hero
>start a trend of vigilante suicides

Glock 17s are pretty good, they're light and fairly affordable if you get a used one

>>17201966
just found out even if i kill myself my family will get sued by my school if no one pays the debt
sick bros

>>17201981


What's the fucking point? I get this whole idea of the romanticized vigilante suicide, but the example you gave is absolute shit. Why kill somebody you know nothing about, who may be in just as much as a shitty and desperate situation as you are. That isn't fucking heroic.

Better example: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thích_Quảng_Đức


Anyways, OP, I strongly urge you not to fucking kill yourself in the first place. Right now, you're looking at everything in a temporary perspective. All issues are escapable. When you do find happiness, you will glad that you persevered in these times. I beg you, man, don't fucking ruin it for yourself. Living is too precious. Move to a little island in fucking Polynesia if you have too, just don't end it all.
Look at the big picture, your fucking degree and being a loser is nothing compared the immense joy living can have. Personally, for me, Buddhism helped my overcome a lot of depression.

>a month later apologize
>Posted about her

It sounds like you like her still and probably vice versa, but neither of you are mature enough to communicate properly.

>>17201948
Exes are exes for a reason. She might miss you but that doesn't mean things will ever be the way they were.

>>17201960
She was never good at communication, but I suppose I'm not very good either. I don't know what telling her would accomplish though, because >>17201962 is right.

>>17201947

>how would we know if your brother knows you use this website?

>>17202301
Like will he suspect that I use this site?

Yes.

>>17201937
Performance anxiety. Relax.

>>17201971
got any advice or something? how do I relax? I have zero experience with these things

>>17202012
My only advice is, what would you rather have at this point in your life? Obligations, potential fun, potential connection with a live human, sex or your safe, comfortable, predictable life?

Keep this low-effort shitposting on /int/, Bruce

>>17201943
It's not shit posting I am seriously concerned about this.

If you don't go after whores it won't matter as long as you aren't a pussy.

>>17201929
Shes gonna remember. Then when she is old enough to understand what you did is wrong you are going to be fucked beyond your dreams. Your family is basically going to disown you.

>>17201929
idk what your intentions are like why would you want to look at your 5 year old sisters vagina?

Swapsies is a pretty common thing as kids, but when it comes to family i'd definitely say no.

If your 16 you will be at party's in a few years anyway, so just be patient and before you know it you will be seeing more than you would realize.

>>17201915
>jealous that your friend isnt spending time with you
Hmmm I wonder why they are bothered by this.

>>17201921
I'm not saying we're not spending time together. This is an online friend. We talk almost every day. And she mainly gets upset when I mention things about us getting serious. She asks first though and I just try to answer neutrally but truthfully.

>>17201915
If they get over it in the end, then yes. But it is understandable to feel neglected after you become the second fiddle to someone you barely even know.

A friend of mine actually fell deeper into depression after I moved to be with my girlfriend, and while I feel shit about it, his happiness shouldn't ride on the availability of a single person. I even told him as much, encouraged him to get treatment, and he is now recovering, even damn near thriving.

He always was a bit odd though, so I would could his reaction as "extreme".

>>17201906
Turned out to be 2 questions

Anyway, here's hoping you all reply

>>17201914
Last bump

>>17201955
Bump for good luck

I have so many questions.
>why are you buying condoms online
>why is buying them such an ordeal for you
>how do you know you need 24
>why would your girlfriend being a virgin make a difference

>>17201909
1. I am going on vacation soon and ordering everything on Amazon helps me get free shipping.

2. I have never done this before and I need advice.

3. It's an estimate based on the length of my trip.

4. I don't know.

>>17201905
Don't get 24, because what if you do not like the ones you bought, and now you're stuck with them?

I'm a girl, I prefer it when my bf uses trojan enz. They fit him perfectly, they don't feel as rubbery and they don't smell as bad as others. I also don't feel them as much, they don't slip.

Also, lifestyles suck.

>>17201880
Dont do it. Its literally sedating your child. You are going to have to put in extra hours at home teaching him but it can be done.
Can you imagine what its like going life sedated?

>>17201880
Just do it OP. Its not like he's going to grow out of it. Its ADHD. It will handicap his potential for the rest of his life.
>>17201889
He would be much more worse off without it. ADHD is a mental illness and it can't be treated with talking about your feelings and hippie bs.

>>17201903
I have 4 friends with adhd.
This is my experience with it. Only 1 of them actually takes the stuff, 1 never did, and the other two both quick it.
They all say its shit and literally makes things worse. There are many many things you can do about adhd that dont require medicine. Just time and patience.
This is a very common thing I see in families on whether or not to put their child on meds in my job and 9/10 times they feel like they basically killed the child because his joy is stripped from him when they do.

All good things come in time. There could be 1000 reasons for her lack of texts. Don't let it bug you. If she cares about she'll get in touch, if she doesn't then there is no reason to care about her then is there?

soooo, did you guys meet up and fuck or what? The primary purpose of texts is logistics in order to meet up in person.

Text, no response, move on.

Pushing more (sending more texts) only makes it worse. If she wants to talk to you, she will. Never stop everything for a girl, keep moving on.

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>>17201798
You need to be on drugs to work there I believe.

Why would you want to work at Chuck E Cheese?

>>17202537
Because I'm 19 and need some quick cash to pay for next semesters books