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How do I know when a friendship is over?
>my friend's buddies are back in town for summer
>spends all his time with them and doesn't even talk to me
>posts on snapchat all about the fun he's having with them
>doesn't invite me to hang out even though I know them too
>this happens whenever they come to town
>even when they're away he just texts them while we're hanging
Am I being too sensitive or is this a sign our friendship isn't as solid as I thought?

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How should I kill myself? I'm a 21 year old manchild NEET who has ruined every opportunity that life's dealt me. I'm already so far behind me peers in every aspect that it's impossible for me to catch up. I may as well end it soon so that I can save myself from having to experience what it's like to become an even bigger trainwreck.

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Does putting in just the tip (like one inch in) count as losing your virginity?

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First of all let me say at the very least I am bi sexual. I love girls. But at the same time for almost my whole life as a 20 year old I have had gay urges. I stick things in my butt. I masturbate to gay shit. I hate it though. I hate being gay and I think it is a greasy and indecent thing. I hate myself for the things I think and do. I hate the urges that I act on. How do I stop having gay urges? It is hard to accept myself as gay and just live with it because I don't like being gay.

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I'm from Canada and I'm currently studying German. I love German culture and I am doing this as a hobby. How to improve my German without uprooting myself and moving to Germany?

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Get fit, work out, eat right. Go to social introvert group. Get rejected. Why? Life?

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(I posted this in /b/ but it didn't get much attention)

I'm assembling/thinking about assembling a badass backpack and I need your suggestions for useful stuff

For context I'm doing some urban exploration and bokken sparring w/ some buddies for exercise. And also general day stuff

I don't want to have everything for every time I go out, just need some ideas for some stuff on the side that I can have ready to go.

But no prepper survival things pretty pls

So far I have:
-A small first aid kit
-A small bluetooth boombox, no more than $40
-Soju (or a few of those little $5 plastic vodka bottles you can buy)
-Some extra cash in a secret pocket
-A pocket version of stimulating reading material (I'm thinking Hagakure or Marcus Aurelius' Meditations)
-A waterproof notebook and a two pens
-A small knife/Leatherman/Swiss army knife
-Chewing gum in a little plastic box that fits in your pocket
-Deodorant
-A couple of loyalty cards for some cafes etc. nearby
-A waterproof flashlight
-A small amount of weed
-A few glowsticks
-Permanent marker
-Coffee-tasting chewy things
-A lockpicking kit
-A pair of headphones with wires threaded through shoelaces

And /b/ added:
- a powerbank compartment at the bottom of the bag with a hole for the usb chord (like those holes made for earphones)
-a flashlight on the strap to light up the way ahead of you at night
-a solar charger


Anything else? Welcome to unique suggestions

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So I've been dating a girl for about a year now and I love her and want to marry her, however there is one thing giving me pause. She's cute - really cute, but tells me time and time again that women in her family don't age well. Also her parents aren't terribly attractive and her brother is an absolute troll - hideous looking guy. I'm fairly attractive and the rest of my family is as well. Is it shallow of me to consider not pursuing a life with her because I'm worried our kids would be ugly? I don't care about her getting ugly as she gets old, as long as she doesn't get fat. I feel really bad, but also can't help recognizing that this is a worry I have. I don't want ugly kids.

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>make plans with someone
>they always cancel a few hours before the scheduled event

why does this always happen to me?
what is wrong with me?
I'd rather them just not agree to it so I don't have to move my schedule around.

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I can't keep my cool when it comes to women.
The issue is, a woman taking interest in me isn't something that happens often, so when it does happen desu it's a pretty big deal to me. I tend to get attached way too quickly and it always ends up fucking with me.
Another big issue that happens is whenever I first start talking to them and I don't hear from them for a while I get insanely paranoid. I start to panic, wondering if for some reason they're suddenly ignoring me, I did something wrong, etc.
Both of these issues together kinda lead to me coming off as super clingy right away. What can I do about this? How can I stop all this bullshit and approach these things like a rational person?

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>girlfriend study on an engineering school, she's on her 3rd year
>she is friend with a few guys which is normal.
>one of them started to send her a lot of messages, being jealous that she spent time with other guys (and he's not even her boyfriend, I don't get why he was acting like that)
>end of the year come
>the guy fails his last exams
>says it's because of my gf that sometimes wants to be alone and not talk with him or anyone else.
>he piss her off by always complaining about stupid things

>School ask students to work on a project by group of 2
>The guy immediately asks my gf to works with him
>if she refused he would be spaming her with messages, and will be ranting about that every time they met at school
>she accept because she doesn't want him to piss her off
>they work on the project
>one day he asks her if she is avoiding him and if they are still friends
>she already explained him various time that it's not the case that sometimes she just doesn't wants to talk with people and wants to be alone, she have nothing against him and they are still friends.
>instead she laugh, and say with a sarcastic expression "haha, yes you're right..."
>he hits my gf. All that happened Thursday, she still feels the pain on her face.
>he start yelling and saying shit
>says 'sorry'
>my gf laugh and say "what ? you're sorry ?"
>"not you, I'm talking to that guy" (there was another guy in the room)
>he leaves
>he never felt sorry for what he did


what do ?
Some friends tell me that I should give him a lesson (I've been practicing martial arts for a few years now), others tell me I should talk with him (I got no clue about what and they never told me).
I don't want him to get along fine.

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Why Are We Alive?

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Shave it or leave it?

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How do I stop acting crazy in a relationship?
Before reading anything else, know that I'm not like this for no good reason. Every boyfriend I have had has broken my trust, And then i become like this. The current one has lied to me about porn, nudes of exes, talking to his ex.
Whenever I start seriously dating someone, I get so worried about what they're doing when I'm not around.
What if he's flirting with other girls? Watching porn? Doing drugs or drinking to the point of not controlling himself? I think about the endless number of horrible, deceitful things he could lie to me about when I'm not home.
Just thinking of all the things my boyfriend could do when I'm not around makes me anxious. I don't normally bring up how I feel about any of this to him, so it's just building up inside of me.
TL;dr
> Bf betrayed my trust
> Obsessive thoughts about bad things he could lie to me about
> How do I stop these thoughts? They consume my thoughts and make me have nightmares about him cheating on me.

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My girlfriends Dad keeps flirting with me and his affection is making me feel loved.
Ever since we were introduced, he always seemed to give me a lot of attention. However, last night there was a family gathering all I was doing was rolling up the sleeves on my shirt in the dining room and he comes over to talk to me, I presume because I'd isolated myself from the group.
Then as we're talking, he's demonstrating different ways to roll your sleeves on me, touching my arms up and down, getting close to me. I didn't even feel uncomfortable about it, I'm pretty sure if he kissed me I wouldn't care, nobody has ever given me this much attention before, it was really cute.
When we're eating dinner, I can feel him glancing over at me occasionally, and he's being oddly quiet. After the meal, all evening he seemed to want to get my attention, I kept bumping into him in the kitchen when I got up to make a drink.
Then later as we're leaving, he gives us both a hug, but my hug felt so.. loving. He's a big guy, but his grasp on me completely overwhelmed me.
I think something might happen in the future, the question is do I let it? Ive been acting sheepish/ignorant about it, but I'm pretty sure if the opportunity came I would fuck him. Im risking a lot though (relationship, friends, possibly family).