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Hi I'm French
Currently on a suicidal mood
Took an entire Propanolol box (used to slow down the heart) thinking it would just cause my heart to stop but it didn't work.
Thinking about getting drunk as much as I can and throwing myself on railroad waiting for the train to kill me.

This seems a bit harsh to me. Any better ideas?
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go to a concert at the Bataclan
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>>17200835
I wish I was here
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>>17200835
Because i'm not scared with that Charlie and Bataclan shit

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I had this thing on my foot last week and it's blackish now. Anyone know what it is?
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veruca
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>>17200777
You sure? All the images on those warts I found seem to be white and dry as opposed to this red one.
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>>17200769
Blood blister? Had one pop up under my toe nail randomly.

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what should i be doing during my 20s? other than going to college. how did you spend yours? what kinda fun stuff should i be looking to do?
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>>17200753

everything
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put a dent in the universe
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>>17200753
>what kinda fun stuff should i be looking to do?
Get a job.

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so my gf came back from vacation, she told me that her aunt and uncle are visiting for a few weeks and will be busy with them often but not all the time. she told me not to worry and that we can hang here and there. The next day she literally did not reply or text at all. Now normally when something like that happens she apologizes the next day , replies and explains herself. this time however she didnt, she just said goodmorning and that shes going out to some event in her city with senpai. Today she hasnt answered at all so far. I asked her something important too on saturday so i dont know what to do. I cant visit today. Whats happening? I mean why tell me not to worry when youre going to do everything that you could possibly do to worry me
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you got cucked bruv
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>>17200719
ask to smell her vagina as soon as she steps in the door and tell her you need to test for other mens cum with your tongue.
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>she literally explains that she will be busy and not to worry
>you worry because she literally explained that she will be busy

i dont understand your logic here senpai. she told you that not to say 'OH EVERYTHING WILL BE THE SAME' but to prepare you for the fact that she'd be too busy to baby sit you all day.

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Should I shave the excuse for facial hair I have?

Because i just got a new haircut.
And I'm afraid I don't look good cleanshaven.

Does the haircut suit me btw?
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Sorry for image being tilted
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Shave it. Haircut is fine.
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>>17200625
This

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I just moved to a new town and really need a fucking job. I applied to a call center, and they were the only ones who want to interview me so far. what is a call center? is it really just "pick up the phone and talk to garbage people about why their vagina image isn't 1080p?" or is there actually some work?
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>is it really just "pick up the phone and talk to garbage people about why their vagina image isn't 1080p?
Either that or you have to call people to convince them to buy some shit.
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>>17200600
The work is phoning strangers and trying to sell a product.

Chances are you'll be heavily regulated by KPIs (targets) to ensure you don't fuck about.

If you find it easy to chat to strangers it will be an easy job. If social interactions stress you out - especially if getting chewed out or hung up on will bother you - then it is not the job for you.
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>>17200600
Depends if it's an outgoing or ingoing call center.

It's basically dealing with customer complaints, question, emailing, etc. Or you could be calling people at their homes as to why they haven't signed up for your great once in a lifetime offer.

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I've been in a long term relationship with this guy. He is extremely intelligent and talented, very handsome, but he has a drinking problem.

By problem I mean he has blackout episodes when he gets too intoxicated where he will call me all sorts of horrifying things, becomes aggressive, then remembers none of it when he wakes up in the morning.

He had a rough childhood and I believe he continues to relive aspects of it.

He refuses to go see any kind of counselor and get help.

I'm worried about bringing children into a home some day with a father who behaves like this... or God forbid, no father because he has either drank himself into the grave or killed himself.

Is it worth it to stay with someone like this? I am a very caring person but I am not a psychologist. I am fully aware I can't change him, but I don't rule out the possibility that some day he may want to better himself for his health, well-being and the happiness of our relationship... Am I a fool for staying this long?
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...and would it be better for him if I leave?
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Ask/tell him to stop drinking? If he doesn't then you have to decide if you can put up with it or not and either leave or stay.
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>>17200598
He has "stopped drinking" several times and how he does it is he just hides the bottles. I realize there are compromises that need to be made in any relationship, but should one of those compromises be getting put down and berated just so you can be with your high school sweet heart?

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So my girlfriend broke up with me with no hint of getting back together, and we were gone from each other's lives for like two weeks. I had a one night stand with another girl in that period of time. Then she comes back and wants us to try again. I want to give her another chance, but should I tell her about this or not, if I do? I don't really want to hurt her feelings, I suspect it might. Our relationship has been a bit rocky lately. In my defense, it was over and I had no idea she wanted to reconcile after reflecting over the relationship. Anyone with a fresh set of eyes on this?
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Don't bother, she probably fucked a few guys too
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>>17200551
Who's idea was it for the 2 week break?
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I don't think she has actually. >>17200586
It wasn't intended to be a break. She broke up with me >>17200594

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On Friday I had to do a presentation for finals in front of my whole class . My laptop was just connected to the projector through HDMI and I didn't look to see what was on the screen . I had a folder open full of toddlercon. I just pretended no one saw it but everyone did. It was the most akward presentation ever . Afterwards I left immediately . I obviously can't deny it.
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What is toddlercon?
Is this some pedoshit?
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>>17200587
yes.
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>>17200537
Do the world a favor and kill yourself my mang.

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on a scale of Chad to neet where do I stand? i used to weigh 244 now I'm 206 and still look ugly. im 6'1.. what is your opinion ladies
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>>17200524
side , for my embarrassment
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>>17200524
>>17200527

ur still a work in progress. thats okay. your budy look funny but its not so bad that its unforgivable depending on your face and of course the level of woman you are hitting on.

plenty of guys like you do just well. as long as you are improving i wouldnt worry too much. you lost nearly 40 pounds.
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>>17200527

Pretty normal actually. Obviously you're quite chubby, but I wouldn't use fat as the first word to describe you at this point. Just work on losing some more and you'll be good.

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I love alcohol. You could probably say that it's my hobby. I'm an extremely functional alcoholic.

However, I'm aware that it's going to start impacting my health, and I have very distinctly noticed that my party lifestyle is having a negative impact on the people around me - who try to keep up and then get themselves into trouble.

I don't think I can really completely abstain from drinking, but are there resources out there for me to learn to mitigate the amount I drink?

Alternatively, is there anyone on here like me that have found enriching hobbies that replace the desire to drink/party?
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>>17200518
You could start brewing your own alcohol. Assembling a functional distillery isn't quite as difficult as it sounds, and although you'll be producing paint stripper at first, growing your own ingredients and experimenting with recipes could be a lot of fun.

If you get to the point where you could limit your drinking only to things you make yourself, you'd end up drinking a lot less and feel a lot more satisfied.

I did the same thing with smoking a few years ago. Ended up 100% self-sufficient for tobacco and quit smoking, kept on gardening.
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>>17200518

we dondt know any thing about you other than the alcohol so its hard to suggest a hobby.

generally i suggest taking what you do in your 'down time' and reverse engineering it.

you read comics? draw one.
you watch movies? write / film one.
you read books? write one.
play video games? design one.
like sitting in chairs? build one.

consider going to local events like dodgeball, or sword fighting classes, or martial arts or casual people playing sports for fun. try new things and if you dont like em try something else.

AA is pretty judgemental about how alcohol consumes your life so i dont recommend it until you know you have a problem (Which you might). do your best and drink in casual situations only, not parties.
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>I don't think I can really completely abstain from drinking
O ye of little faith

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People, is being attracted to sense of humour, speech defects, gestures shallow and a result of infatuation?
How do you draw a line between love and infatuation?

>ask boys girls has too many questions
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People get too hung up on classification and compartmentalizing this shit.

If you are ONLY attracted to their sense of humor, speech defects, and gestures then yes it's PROBABLY infatuation - but these attractions can obviously also exist if you really do love someone.

IMO the line between love and infatuation comes when you can come to really understand and accept someone's flaws yet still care deeply for them and when you can honestly think "This is my partner (in life)." Marriage and all of that other stuff is when you formalize it, reinforce all the bonds and ties, and make it official.
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>>17200534
Okay, next question then
Am I still not gotten over if my heart instantly warms, when I see a different person acting similar?
Is it simply because of good memories?
>The person I talk about was the first to be truly nice to me
Or is it some duckling syndrome?
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what is infatuation

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My mom says I need to pay her $500 by tomorrow and I told her I have the money but I simply do not I can't tell her I don't and I don't have the money to pay her I use Wells Fargo and I don't know if they will let me pull out cash I don't have what do I do please help
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>>17200435
What the fuck

Explain more, using actual words and sentences please
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>>17200447
I owe my mother $500 for the bumper of their car to get replaced. She told me she wants the money by tomorrow, and I simply cannot pay her. I was wondering what I should do, will my bank let me pull out cash that I do not have?
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>>17200453
yes, but with interests,

i don't know your mother but i would talk to her and give her a part of 500 in advance

maybe your bank lets you have your 500 but with interests and conditions, so better avoid that

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Just had an abortion and I feel like it was nothing, no big deal

Am I a monster? According to my friend I am
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You aren't a monster. Just watch out for physical complications. It's not a foolproof process.

What did it feel like? How long did it take? How much money was it? How did you get it arranged? How old was the fetus/clump of cells?
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>>17200399
I just took pills, today I took the last pill. It was free on the NHS, arranged through my GP. 4-5 weeks
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>>17200410
It must've been really early in the pregnancy

Don't sweat it then. It's not like you were expelling a 6 month fetus or anything. You did the right thing. Kids only complicate things and you probably couldn't care for it

so my ex i dated for three yrs dumped me and is dating someone else for like three weeks and now she post this shit on her facebook

shes gone right? no chance? i still love her...
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She posted this on her Facebook after 3 weeks? Loooooooool.

Sounds like a classic rebound, desu. relationship with her new boy is doomed, can read it from a mile away.

Move on, man. Work on yourself, get involved in your hobbies, and block her on social media. Go and meet some bitches and have consensual sex with them, hang with your friends, there can be many loves in a person's life. Keep the good memories of her, see what you learned from the relationship, and cry if you need to.

Peace, bruh.
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>>17200385
she still tells me she loves me and contacts me daily too i dont fucking understand this.

she spends every day with her new faggot boyfriend so i am hoping they get tired of each other or he dumps her/cheats on her

thats what Im trying to do. it sucks starting back from the bottom as she was my only friend and only source of social interaction. Whats the best place to meet some bitches? im done with relationshits. i just want pussy
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>>17200394
She's stringing you along, no contact for a little bit. You're going to close to the fire. Don't think too negatively of her boyfriend, either. He's just a dude at the end of the day. She sounds like a mess at the moment.

You're not asking the best guy, but Tinder has been easy as fuck for me. You have the obvious clubs, bars, house parties, etc., too. What stuff are you into, man? In terms of hobbies? If you're into something take a class in it or find a community for it.

Break-ups seem to add gasoline to my passion for other things, I just become more immersed in them and it helps me grow a bit.

I'd just focus on having fun right now, man. This girl is - for no at least - making you miserable. I wouldn't talk to her for a while, but I wouldn't harbour bad feelings for too long either. Wish her the best and move on.

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