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Why does gooey emotional shit make me so uncomfortable?
it all seems unreasonable
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Because you're just not that kind of person who wants any relationship like that apparently
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Because nobody broke your heart.
[spoiler]You broke your own cause you can't finish what you start[/spoiler]
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>>17201378
Probably because you were never subjected to any "healthy" degree of emotional pain/trauma.

If that is the case, you're uncomfortable because it's unfamiliar and new to you. And just as it's more difficult to develop social skills the older you are, it becomes harder to relate and feel empathy for that kind of stuff the longer you go without having ever experienced it.

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Got drunk, cheated on my girlfriend with my ex. I feel ambivalent about it (or could still be in shock at myself, unsure), am I an awful person?

The situation is a lot more complicated but I don't know what's wholely relevant. I can go more into detail if needed.
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There's never an excuse to cheat on anyone. It doesn't matter what's going on, it's just not right. It's a pretty cold thing to do if you guys aren't on the same page about it.
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Your gf isn't that important to you, should ditch her.
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no detail is needed, you're a shithead that fucked up. accept it and move on man, because I don't think you're salvaging your relationship.

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Hey guys, parents are talking some really serious shit in their room. Any advice on how to cope with this? Heard some of the conversation and it's not good
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Talking shit about what? How the fuck can we help with that little information?

My advice as of now is to suck it up and deal.
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>>17201271
escape out the window.
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Put on your headset and listen to some music

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This isnt anything too serious. I dont have STD's or anything but the head of my penis looks really dry and cracked.
Is there any cremes or something i can do to help heal it?
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>>17201268
See a doctor or start bating with lotion.
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oh and im circumcised, is that the reason?
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you're going to die op I'm sorry

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I don't know what's going on with me lately. Since I lost my job some time ago, I've been spending a lot of time home. If I'm not job hunting, I'm in bed with a feeling I can only describe as a despair that manifests in an almost physical pain that feels like a knot in my chest leading to uneasiness. This feeling makes me feel lonely, so I go out to hang with friends on the weekend but for some reason, once I do hang out with them, all I wanna do is go back home and lie in bed. I don't understand. Why do I wanna go back home and be alone if that's when I feel my most shitty, unfulfilled, and alone?
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You're temporarily depressed, you maybe need to vent to someone who cares about you
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You're not getting enough pizza. You should eat it at least 3 times a week
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>>17201257
This

Going through a similar thing right now. Honestly, the best thing to do is to just try to get out of the house, hang out with friends, and try your best to not think about it. If it comes into your mind, force it out and focus on what's happening in reality around you. When you're alone and can't hang o with anyone, try to do something, anything, that you enjoy. I've noticed any interest in games has waned and playing them only seems to make me more depressed if I do so for long periods of time, especially without friends. Pick up a hobby like drawing, playing an instrument, etc. just something.

It may take awhile, but bit by bit it will help you gain motivation to do shit like job hunting. But if you are only doing that all day everyday, it will start to stress you out.

And don't sleep in really late halfway through the afternoon and shit. Not sure if it's the same for everyone,mount at least for me, if I do that over a period of time, it starts to add to at lonely and depressed feeling.

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I'm a 26 year old male.

My only experience is with OKCupid which has been a disaster. Some problems I've encountered:

>Very few replies, girls never message first, hard to get even one date.
>A lot of fat girls who use older pictures before they were fat.
>Girls who are just failures in general. Dropped out of school and just sit around doing drugs, etc.

I'm thinking of Match.com or Zoosk. Does anybody know anything about them and how they compare to OKCupid? I think one of my problems is height, I'm 5'7... is height going to be an automatic dealbreaker for most women on other sites like it seems to be on OKC?

Any other info would be helpful too, thanks!
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>>17201131
Why would height be a dealbreaker? I'm 5'4 and I get laid.
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What's wrong with your height?
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You're 26 years old and looking for love on a dating site. That's your problem, dude.

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So I just got 10 letters from comcast telling me that they've received notifications from a copyright holder alleging infringement, it looks like just a warning and doesn't metion any legal actions being taken nor my name being given to the copyright holder, should I be worried?
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what. the fuck. did you do?
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>>17201104
Download an album, they sent a notice for each song
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>>17201092
Nope, nothing to worry about. I have hundreds of those emails, nothing ever happens. Back in 2012 they called me personally and asked me to stop, I said I would but I didn't.

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How long before you guys became good or proficient at a coding language?

I did decent in my intro CSCI class(B) but found that it really only had us copying what the teacher was doing on the board. Messing with Python during the summer and certain concepts are still vague/i don't understand(Boolean mainly but I'm still a beginner)

Should I stress over not getting it right away or just keep putting time into it?
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>>17201038
Keep putting time into it. It may also be that python just isn't the language for you right now; what language did you learn in your intro classes?
It's important to constantly write code, though, really. Find projects you want to make.
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>>17201078
Also Boolean is easy; it's just a yes or no conditional statement. If something is TRUE, then do something, if it is FALSE, do something else.
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>>17201078
We did appinventor for android apps which everyone else in the CSCI department despised completely. Python is supposed to be good for beginners I heard, but I'm struggling with understanding basic concepts.

I want to make games and useful apps for everyday things. I'm sure I'll figure it out as I go a long.
>>17201082
See, that makes sense at first but if I'm given
my_int = 7
my_float = 1.23
my_bool = True

my_bool is the only boolean in there right? or is it setting everything to true?

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Is there an error in our recent society thats comparable to the thought that the earth is flat?
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Yes, you.
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Men and women are equal.
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>>17201014
are asking is there is an error in our society because of conspiracy theories? i hope so, would be an interesting discussion

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Roughly what price are we talking on something like this, maybe with a little more trees like an actual forest?

I also want behind it grey mountains up to my bicep or so, and the moon and sky behind that, but I plan on starting with this.
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at least 1k for good lineart that won't blow out in a few months desu

it's a sleeve, so you seem to understand that it's broken in sections. tell me about yourself op, is this your first, where are you located for recommendations to shops, that sort of thing
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It really depends on where you are and the local economy, but yeah, youre gonna be dropping a decent amount of cash, I'd say at least $750 for high quality
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>>17201008
Complete tattoo virgin, and I live near Memphis, TN. I haven't shopped at all.

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Hello /adv/.

I'm a 26 year loser who has wasted 10 years of his life doing nothing, I have basically nothing. It's at the point where I either try to fix this or take a bullet.

I'm going to the doctor to tell them about my mental state hopefully this week so I only really need help with this. Is there anything I can learn online that will actually help me get a job or do I have to go to college? I don't know what I want to do with my life but I don't want to do courses online if people don't take it seriously.
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>>17200982
Nope, this is it.

I'm personally going to kill myself when I reach 30. Only 3 and bit years to go.

God is a dickhead.
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>>17200982
>I don't know what I want to do with my life

Figure out a little bit of that first. At least what type of job you want.

Then lie about your experience/life to get it.
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>>17201267
Pretty much this.

I think find that things will turn around little by little once you start getting out there and doing something. A job will stimulate you socially at the very least.

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Is getting an accounting degree a good idea in this day and age?
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Not if you don't want to be an accountant
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>>17200936

Amen to this.
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>>17200947

thatwas hot

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so my girlfriend who has dumped me for someone else after dating for 6 months is coming over tonight to smoke weed w me. swim in my pool. does this sound like she wants to fuck?
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>>17200899
It sounds like she's a dirty tramp.
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>>17200899
what did she say she comes for?
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No, it sounds like she wants some free weed and to use your pool.

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>broke up with ex a week and a half ago
>Realize I fucked up and let her go too impulsively
>Get back together with her
>Learn that she almost instantly rebounded with some guy, started going out with and fucking him casually
>don't really care, wasn't expecting her to stay celibate after a breakup
>She's going to hang out with him now because she wants to tell him its over and still be friends
>This I care about

It doesn't seem normal to be this attached to someone she's reportedly been dating for a week--I'm a bit worried. What do anons?
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Tell her to give you a call once she's moved on from him. Or stick around and you two can be her cucks, which will be fun for her to get you back for breaking up with her
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>>17200860
You broke up with her. Her rebound is fucking her now. She makes that cute little noise when she cums with the new man. Not you.

Your only choice now is to let her go and take up more celibate pursuits. Like carpentry. Yeah, carpentry would be good for you.
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>>17200889
Did I get cucked before the relationship was over?

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Hey /adv/,
am I a shitty person for hating my gf's severely autistic nephew? I've been living with her and her family for a little bit since I'm in between places after my last apartment burned down. Her entire family is bat shit insane and the worst one is the nephew. He's loud, spoiled, smells, fat, violent, and has some of the most hateable tantrums I've ever seen. Throws shit constantly. Got into the bad habit of throwing his soiled diapers too. He grabs you if he wants something and takes whatever you got if he wants it for himself.

He's 12 years old, acts 4, and is still considered a person?

A few times on my days off, people leave and I got to watch him. I'm surprised this little faggot never destroys the house. He gets into everything. Plays with knives, outlets, stoves, you name it. I tried small discipline by saying no and he just starts fucking screaming like a bitch and throwing himself on the ground, stomping his feet and making shit on the shelves quake.

I had enough and yanked on his ear to cut his nonsense out and forced him to his room. He squirmed and swung his arms around, knocking my glasses off. I reacted badly and punched him. He finally shut up.

It felt fucking great. Yet I felt like shit for it after the adrenaline went away. Society has forcefully ingrained in me a sense of wrong for hitting this dumb little animal. When his mother came back, said he tripped and slammed his head against a door. She bought it.

I tried coming clean to my friends about it, but anytime I bring up his name they act like he's such a good kid. Just garbage do gooder crap because he's on the spectrum.

Maybe I already know the answer to my question and I'm just venting.

>tl;dr "I feel like a bad person for hitting my gf's nephew, an autistic little faggot"
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No, in fact it's hard wired into humans to have disdain for these people because they're ultimately a giant burden on whatever society they're in. That's why they were killed back in the day: so they couldn't fuck up society and produce more little fucked up babies.

It sounds like he's spoiled as shit too, which is just a result of bad parenting on their part. In all reality, punching him probably did the fucker some good.
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>>17200836

> am I a terrible person for hating someone who's obnoxious and destructive?

No.
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You are, if I learned that a guy hit a kid and lied that he fell, I'll label him as scum and shun. Why did you lie, are you living in Finland where children can sue parents for abuse or something. Also, if you enjoyed it, I suggest you may have done it too strongly for a child.

Shit, hitting kids once, totally not in full power and in certain places is acceptable discipline. It must have no health consequences and you shouldn't enjoy beating a child.
The scum, who literally beat children up and tell parents "they fell" should die.
Don't give people an excuse to act in such manner.

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