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Guys I need some advice. I'm 18 and have been having this odd problem ever since I was about 16. I would go a week or so being completely happy then, out of no where, I'm overcome with dread and lonelessness. I fear for my life because when these drops occur all I think about is killing myself or hoping someone else does it for me. I do not think I am Bi-Polar because I don't go crazy when i'm happy. I am a Neet but have no problem socializing.
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sounds like type 2 bipolar
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>>17199908
I would recommend seek some professional help where they might can assign you with some medication
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go to the doctor. This doesn't sound like "just a phase".
What does it mean if you get lightheaded when you're tired or hungry? It's never happened to me before but in the past month or so I've started to always feel faint just before meals and after waking up.
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Maybe a blood sugar thing? I'd just see a doctor if I were you.
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>>17199892
Could be several things. Light-headedness is often the result of poor oxygenation to the brain.
If you haven't been exercising much then it could be poor circulation (as a child you probably ran around a lot and climbed trees so you naturally got all the exercise you needed, plus a smaller body takes less effort to pump blood to)
Could be low blood sugar
Could be hormonal imbalance (low testosterone can lead to migraines)
Could be eye strain if you are indoors too much and don't have bright light bulbs
Could be poor breathing. This is especially possible if you're overweight. Make sure you vacuum often to keep the house dust-free and practice taking long, deep breaths
Could be dehydration, especially in the summer months. Make sure you get plenty of low-calorie liquids -- water, flavored water, tea, gatorade G2 (not normal gatorade), lemonade, etc. Higher calorie drinks (sodas, beer, etc) can exacerbate the issue
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>>17199980
I'm 22, and this only started this month. My workspace is air conditioned (a giant fridge, as a matter of fact) and I do a pretty physical job. I'm not overweight at all.
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Okay adv... how should I put this... I wanna be in a threesome.
Here's some context.
> Be me
> meet up with friend, let's call him Bill
> Bill was hanging out with other friend, let's call him Phil
Phil has a girlfriend, she's pretty hot, and they seem to be quite the pair... let's call her Denise
> Turns out Denise and Phil wanted a threesome with another friends girlfriend, let's call this friend John
> Bill takes John to confront Phil about it. John and Bill rip him a new one
> He admits it was a pretty bad idea
Phil is a bit of douche, but I'm still kinda surprised about this. Kinda isn't the sharing type but whatever, we've been friends for roughly seven years, and I think I'm one of his most trusted friends.
I'm wondering if at some point I should try for a threesome with Phil and Denise. Does adv think this is a decent enough idea, and if so, how should I go about it?
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I don't understand your story. are you surprised that they wanted a threesome or are you hurt that they didn't pick you as their first choice? are you male? you can ask them but I don't think phil wanted a man in their threesome
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>>17199957
It's more of surprised about it, I knew he was a douche, but I wouldn't think he'd be so bold.
And I am male, but while Phil may not be asked for it, I think Denise would be open for it
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>>17199888
Let's get the etiquette of this clear - THEY invite you, not the other way around.
The most you can do is say "If you guys ever decide to try a threesome, give me a call."
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>make a plenty of fish account
>Talk to some girls all that shit
>Find a girls profile
>Literally the cutest girl I've ever seen
>really intelligent
>Seems like a decent person
I messaged her and I don't think she has been online, but I'm scared guys. Like when I look at her, there's some kind of feeling I get. Like my stomach drops and it's harder to breathe
Its not even just a lust thing. I look at her and her eyes and smile just fucking put me in a weird trance like nothing else matters, and I completely zone out
Has this happened to you guys, I mean im sure it has but did it lead to anything? If there is any karma or higher power, I beg with everything in me they shine upon me with this girl
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Im going to level with you, be frank, honest and understanding of your situation.
Looking for a relationship might work online; but you need to lower your standards. A lot.
Every "cutest girl you've ever seen" is the cutest girl fifty other dudes are messaging.
The reason why girls go on these sites is because they're either repulsive, fat or have huge problems with wanting attention/insecurity.
In rare cases older women want a relationship, maybe some races want one for cultural reasons- but your every day North American/European woman can go outside, say hello and literally find a relationship.
It might not sound fair, it might hurt your feelings, it might make you bitter/misogynistic - but unless you're willing to go put yourself in social situations showing confidence; you're going to get what you deserve on dating sites. You're the bottom of the pecking order being on websites like that.
Sorry pal; there are still rarities. Good luck.
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>>17199899
Nigger I live in the fucking ghetto. There's no where to fucking be here with decent people and social situations
At least when I turn to online sites I can find nice friendly white girls, because all that's here is fucking degenerate minorities
I'm not anti social in the least either, I didn't make an account because I have autism. Also she's gorgeous to me but I can see a lot of guys finding her meh at best.
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>>17199912
If you're a social person; being in the ghetto shouldn't stop you and you don't need to click through dozens of other people's sad profiles.
Sounds like you're full of excuses. No wonder why this girl seems so attractive to you.
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How do you spend your day? Please list every activity, as I was raised by wolves and thus don't know how people outside TV shows actually live.
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TV and Videogames. And then trying to work up the courage to kill myself.
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>>17199806
Work, Tv, video games, lifting, and sleeping.
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>>17199806
You're asking on 4chan, so you won't get wholly normal answers. But here's some of my general schedules:
Monday through Friday:
>Wake up at 6am, hit snooze
>Wake up at 7am, hit snooze
>Wake up at 8am in a panic, jump out of bed, strip naked, hop in the shower
>Shower for 5 minutes, brush teeth, throw on clothes, run to work
>Stare a computer monitor for 8 hours pretending to work
>Come home, cook dinner
>Clean up from dinner, sit on 4chan or play vidya
>Go to bed
Saturday and Sunday:
>Make plans through the week to see friends
>Fulfill 2 hour obligation to see them over lunch
>Return home for Netflix
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Is it possible to feel a strong sense of love for a man without any sexual attraction?
Is it still gay?
It's weird, cause I have this strong sense of kinship for my best friend, but neither of us is gay. In his case, he's slept with over 200 women, and while I haven't slept with THAT many, I don't feel myself attracted by men either, nor gay porm or any of the like. In fact, gay porn, yaoi, and the idea of gay sex are a huge sexual turnoff for me. Like, I wouldn't have a problem with coming out and saying I'm bi personally, since women and female eroticism always get me going, but like I said, I just don't find a sexual turn-on in men or any of that.
However, when it comes to my friend, I genuinely care about him a whole lot, like more than any girl I've ever met. For both of us, we go out and frequently meet women and such, but also, we've both gone out and have been with so many girls and in so many relationships, that we kinda understand the female mind a little too well, and we both know that no woman will ever fulfill or satisfy us quite as we'd like to. And yet, we're surprised to have found a kindred spirit in one another. We're traveling together, we're working on various projects together, we're two creative minds with a similar purpose and near-identical worldviews. We've pretty much shared our entire lives witg each other, and trust one another immensely.
I think he best described it when he compared our friendship to Ragnar and Athlestan in Vikings. "One slightly off key extrovert, and a daring introvert who play off each other very well. Homoerotic undertones."
And like I said, I care about the guy a whole lot, provably a lot more than any woman I'll ever meet, despite that, I'd never kiss or shag him.
What do you make of that /adv/?
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>>17199740
You've found a bro for life. Enjoy your lives together. Get wives. Have each others families over for BBQs. Watch your kids grow up together. etc. etc.
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>>17199740
<3 so beautiful, post pics so I can make yaoi
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>>17199757
...women
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pls i need help with this game
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i don't know much about computer gaming, and Insurgency looks awesome. My pc will run it?
ATI Mobility Radeon HD 5650
Intel(R) Core(TM) i5 CPU M 430 @ 2.27GHz
RAM RAM
Minimum: 4 GB
You Have: 4.0 GB
thx m8s
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It's like 2 dollars on steam sale, why does it matter
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>>17199708 cause i need to borrow the money
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>>17199722
You got bigger problems then. Work more, game less
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Verge of breaking up with my lazy girlfriend 2016-05-30 13:35:20 Post No.17199674
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Verge of breaking up with my lazy girlfriend
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Hi adv,
I am on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend, I have just had enough.
After her leaving college she made no attempt to get a job for 3 months, so I forced her to interview for a position at my work after asking her for months, she asked to move in with me and I agreed and started the job. While living with me she made NO attempt at helping to pay for anything or to do chores, after 2 months she was lay-off from work. After being lay-off she hasn't attempted to get a job again or apply anywhere, when I got home from work she would be just getting out of bed or would be watching internet videos or playing games, it made me insane how lazy she is being.
The next thing is the sex, and flirting it's just terrible. She puts no effort in. I have to tell her what to do, make all the moves all the time, even to just kiss. It's like she is a robot and there is no "spark" or spontaneousness, she gets offended if I ask to send nudes or will just ignore flirty messages rather than flirt back.
A few months later, I have now lost my job and couldn't afford to pay rent. So she went back home and asked her parents if I could stay until I could find a new job and they said "no", it infuriates me as all I have done is help them and pay for their daughter under my roof for the past year, so it would have been nice to support me for a month to get back onto my feet, rather than moving far away to my parents.
I recently found a new job, after a month of no work which will mean me moving far away. She want's to move in with me again...
I hate the thought of being alone and its the only reason I keep going, with the possibility that she might change and mature.
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Just break it off. Think about how amazing it'll be with a better girlfriend in the future.
It'll hurt for a little while, but you'll be fine in a few weeks.
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Shes either depressed or just a neet. If you don't like the thought of being in a relationship with someone like that get out NOW before shit goes any further.
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>>17199674
>I am on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend, I have just had enough.
Leave her. But I'll finish reading your post, promise.
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How do I convince my boyfriend to let me eat the booty like groseries?
He says itd make him gay but I love eating ass (clean of course)
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Tell him you like to feel like a dirty girl sometimes? Have you seriously found a guy that wont let you eat his ass? Jesus. And here I am wishing more girls were keen for it...
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>>17199681
I've done it with 2 others but neither were long term things. Been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I really want him to at least try it :/
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>>17199694
I'm Bi so I've had the pleasure of giving and receiving with both sexes. Maybe just start with blowing him while he lies on his back, move down to his balls then taint etc. Then see if you can talk him into a shower before bed so you can go the whole distance. Once he feels and sees you getting into it hell be yours.
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So about a month ago i started talking to my ex again after like a year, now she has a bf. One night I texted her and she said it's not good text her and that she's fine with us talking in person.
Is she already cheating?
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Fucking what?
So she's your ex
And she said it's not ok to text her but talking is fine?
How is she cheating
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>>17199828
it's because she texts me. it's like she's sneaking behind her bf's back
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>>17199974
She's your ex why would you give a fuck if she's cheating
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How not to be socially retarded? 2016-05-30 13:23:29 Post No.17199647
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How not to be socially retarded?
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This is probably not gonna make any sense, I just need to get this off my chest.
I'm ugly as fuck, and was bullied in elementary school. Then I went to technical high school, which meant no girls. Then I went to technical university, which meant very little amount of girls.
I'm 23 now, and I lack social skills to talk with girls and shit. When I talk to a random girl, all I can talk about is school or work (because everyone does either one of those, and I kinda enjoy and am knowledgeable about both). I'd say I'm fairly intelligent, and I can talk about tech, science, politics and economy for a long time, and even make it iteresting, but not a lot girls like that. For example, when I'm in a pub with my lawyer guy friend, we can talk about interesting shit for hours, but I don't find that skill applicable to girls.
I think being ugly is a big part of the problem, since I don't approach girls just because I know they won't be interested. I plan to get fit soon, I know a lot about lifting, and I run regularly, just had to stop lifting because of school lately, but I think getting fit will help (so I'd have at least something physical that is good).
Anyone was in comparable sitation, and got better? Any tips?
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>>17199647
There really needs to a be a megathread that deals in this kind of 23+ social retardedness.
And no OP, I've never seen anyone successfully escape this situation, it just gets worse and worse. And I'm talking about sociability as a whole and not the just "no gf" part.
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Ask about them then use your knowledge to ask more specifics about them. Have they travelled? Do they want to travel? Where? Why? Replace travel with anything you pick up from them at first glance. Did you meet them at the gym? A social event? etc. Ask a girl about her and then give opinions of your own about their ideas.
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>>17199672
Sounds good. My problem probably is the low selfesteem, seems like I could do this shit, if I decided to approach the girl first.
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Are 4chan/adv users different from ordinary people? 2016-05-30 12:30:44 Post No.17199539
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Are 4chan/adv users different from ordinary people?
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Like more weeaboo/more into anime, more introverted, etc
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Is this bait or are you retarded?
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>>17199539
Are you bait or is this retarded ?
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>>17199539
I know /cgl/ contains more sociable people due to the fact it's inherent in the subject.
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Using guys as disposable tissues 2016-05-30 11:55:54 Post No.17199484
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Using guys as disposable tissues
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1) Bitch say she wanna grow old holding my hand
2) I say yes
3) Slave away for years to get schooling, house, moving in, marry, build business, etc
4) Accident happens
5) Bitch sees potential gains dwindled
6) One day open door: "Honey, I'm home!" but no bitch anywhere
7) Get text from her saying: "Don't look for me, I already have life partner"
8) I think: "Yes, I know... I am him"
Find her with ex
See her in street... pretend doesn't know who I am
Repeat 1-8 with ex
Find high paying job guy
Repeat 1-8 with high paying job guy
Find guitar player
Repeat 1-8 with guitar player
Find hippie
Repeat 1-8 with hippie
Repeat ad nauseum
WTF? 10 years and all I get is a cellphone text.
How can people treat family as trash and be so evil and cruel to the ones they love the most in the world?
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if this is true, and not bait. what she did was pretty fucking evil. i understand sometimes the flame of a relationships dies out and feelings go but she could of at least sat down with you and said she wants to end the relationship. personally, if a girl done this to me, i would kill her and hop to jail.
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>>17199492
>sometimes the flame of a relationships dies out
It was not really the flame dying out, anon... it was an accident of losing my main business supplier and having to spend almost six months working like a slave to keep our home finances stable forcing me to spend less hours a day with her... therefore giving her leeway to fall on some other guy's hands.
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>>17199528
that probably makes it even worse because you where struggling to keep you and her stable. i dont know what it is with some people who constantly need attention off others, why cant they just get a hobby.
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/adv/, why do I feel self-conscious and embarrassed when my family tries to encourage me on anything?
For instance, I kind of want to start going running in the early mornings (5-6am, when it just starts to get light out) in the field behind the house we rent, but I just know that if anyone caught me doing anything that blatantly healthy they would say nice things or something when I'd really rather they just ignore it.
My psychiatrist and both the pdocs I see at the place I get ECT at all really want me to exercise -- my BMI is 22.6, so I'm not exactly fat or anything. (My diet is terrible, though.).
>pic unrelated, but it is very impressive
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>>17199482
I'll give you a reply, only because I know how painful it is to seek advice and find nothing but crickets. Unfortunately I can't give you advice. I lack any experience in this field.
My best guess, although it's strictly a guess, is that it's a fear of having to keep up appearances. If you're complimented for your new running habit then you fear that you'll be rejected if you ever stop running in the mornings. It makes you feel trapped by social obligations and so you lose the freedom to decide your own schedule. That's merely a hypothesis, though.
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>>17199482
For me, it's because I know I'm a quitter and I'd rather people see me start less things so that they see me give up less things. If this applies to you, my advice is to tell people regardless of how you feel, because this cycle is what is killing me. If you make quitting guilt-free, it's going to happen.
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Why would not want encouragement on healthy habits? I'd take that over being laughed at and being made to feel guilty about it any day.
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Picky boyfriends birthday gift? 2016-05-30 11:49:38 Post No.17199474
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Picky boyfriends birthday gift?
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Im looking for advice on what I can buy my boyfriend for his birthday thats coming up.
He's very difficult to shop for and refuses to help me or give me ideas on something he would like.
I have asked multiple times and he just says 'nope you find something, better be good" in a teasing way but still refuses to help.
He doesnt like novelty stuff like starwars pens etc.
I'm honestly stumped. I cant buy Cologne for him because if he doesnt like it he wont wear it, cant buy clothes because if the material isnt right he wont wear it.
Does anyone have any experience with picky people and buying gifts?
He likes harry potter, lord of the rings, starwars, firefly, dr who etc if anyone has any ideas on what I could get him
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A great blowjob with deepthroar and swallowing. That will make him happier than any gift.
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>>17199496
Probably a bit personal but hes too thick to actually fit in my mouth. Jaw wont open wide enough.
Anyone else have any idea?
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>>17199498
Anal