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>>17195814
Not hopeless at all, some people start new relationships in their 80s, twice your age. There's no reason you can't find someone. It may be harder for some people due to age, appearance or other circumstances, but keep in mind that there's always someone of the opposite gender who are in a similar situation.

One piece of advice I can give is to drop your standards. You're not fresh 20 year old pussy anymore, so don't expect chads to be jumping at you. In particular, consider looking at older men (45-50+) as well as men in your own age group.

>>17195814
Yes and how in the fuck are you a 39 year old virgin? You know there are young guys who are into that if you wanted to lose it.

>>17195837
Well I never expected chads to jump at me. Even back when I was younger, it wasn't like I looked like a Victoria's Secret angel.
I don't mind older men (had some teacher crushes when I was very young) but I don't want some creepy neet.

Ask out girls that look like elementary schoolers, then you aren't doing it accidentally anymore

>>17201807
Find qt young looking girls in places where young girls cannot be

>bars
>18+ clubs
>rated R movies

>>17201896
underage girls can still get into clubs because make up can make them look older, at least thats how it is in my country.

I think the best names for kids are ones that can be shortened or changed in a lot of different ways, so if they hate their name they can make it their own

>>17201782
>>>/f/acebook

>>17201782
Girls names are all good but the boys names could use some work. Alexander is a nice name. What this anon said >>17201797 is good. You dont want them to have a name that makes them feel alienated

be extremely good looking and extremely good at sex so you can build a strong reputation of girl boytoy.

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>>17201766
Shit...

>>17201766
So basically no one who browses /adv/ qualifies....
>btfo

>>17201690
It's possible that the tinder sex was unsatisfactory for her and wanted you to finish her. She was just still horny.

You could have fucked and told her to go away.

Just something to keep in mind

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>>17201690

>Should I consider letting this transgression go.

Its not a transgression because she isn't your girlfriend. She doesn't require your forgiveness and there's nothing for you to let go because she didn't do anything to you.

>We've cuddled before but fuck if Im going to be her post sex cuddle buddy.

Then don't. You're obviously just upset that she didn't have sex with you instead.

>I kicked her out and I dont really consider her a friend anymore and she says Im being unreasonable.

You are. She is your friend. She can have sex with anyone she wants and you have no right to get jealous with her about it because she's just your friend.

Its so obvious you want to be more than friends and its absolutely your fault for not being clearer about that because you're putting unrealistic expectations on this girl.

You're basically trying to fire someone that doesn't work for you and its bullshit.

If you like her just say so but stop calling her your friend and then getting pissed at her for doing things that only a boyfriend has the right to get pissed about.

>>17201690
I wish I had a girl to cuddle me, even if we didn't fuck. They're soft and usually smell nice. Stop being a little bitch.

Those who pull pretty girls do not lie about themselves on the Internet for starters.

find some eastern europe girl

>>17201646
Buy a Porsche, Ferrari, or Corvette.

>>17201634
Talk to your boss about it

>>17201642
OK. How do I go about it?

>>17201642
Wouldn't OP just get fired if three employees are telling his boss that he did something bad?

>>17201629
Are you sure he's allowed to talk about it? Is it possible that his work was classified?

some people don't like talking about what they did in the military, war vets especially

if you want to know more then ask him directly about it, but if he doesn't want to talk about it then you should respect that

>>17201640
I don't know, it might be. I don't know much about the war he was in.

>>17201643
It's not like he was ever directly in combat, I know from his first wife he was just in the Air Force doing combat support. Could that be traumatizing?

why?

>>17201614
square nfag

>>17201609
>Attacking a junkie is never an option when need to stay HIV free.
so ignorant, fuck off.

>>17201602
Hold off on meeting up with him. You seem to care about him and you seem to be attractive enough for him to want to see you in person. If you looked good a few years ago you can look good again. Take a few months to lose weight and work out. Cut your calorie intake, that's really how you lose weight, not by eating a bunch of food and working out a lot.

Change your diet, stop eating shit food, it will help your acne and teeth. I'm guessing you eat a lot of sugary sweet things and such right?

The personality traits are harder to fix but something tells me a lot of those can switch if you regain your self esteem and find someone who loves you.

I hope it works out for you anon.

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>>17201602
have you told him all these things, why don't you link him to this thread?

You know, I was once in a similar position to you, but I liked the attention and instead of telling people no I did some very shitty things that I'm not proud of. You might want to read this. Be a stronger person than I was and take a hard line.

>>17201602

>What should I do?

You're near suicide, you're depressed, you're terrified of intimacy, you think he's a faggot, you love him, you hate yourself.

Maybe you should push the brakes on this until your head is less fucked.

Cuddle and then start testing the waters. Don't just go all in. She needs persuaded

>>17201497
Oh also mention what you told us, how the relationship with her sister was never good, she's all the positives, your feelings, etc.
And then have a threeway with her and her sis

a bit unrelated, but have you been tested for STIs since you broke up with your ex? She may have exposed you to something.

those weights are without clothes, if you weigh yourself with clothes you can subtract aprox 3 pounds

Honestly, I am asking because I have been living in a foreign country for almost a year now, and food is so expensive here I lost like 15 pounds.

The food is expensive, like I said, but so tasty. Does this mean I can splurge and eat a shit ton before I go back to the U.S. of A. in about a month? It's a sacrifice (ya fucking right) I'm willing to take, for health ya know

>>17201478
Just what I want to hear, this means I can eat a shit ton! But I'm a little worried about my health now.

Lol 6 months is enough time. Give them an ultimatum. Either you help out or you're on your own

>>17201451
I mean don't get me wrong the kawaii level is out of this world and the booty is great, but fuck. I can't pay it all man.

>>17201457
She'll cheat on you eventually if she just stays at home all day long. She needs to start working or she needs to gtfo.

>>17201431

>Does anyone have any advice for someone struggling with borderline personality disorder in a committed relationship?

Go to a psychiatrist. We are not licensed mental health professionals and taking any advice from us concerning BPD could be potentially very harmful.

Psychiatrist. End of story.

Psychiatrist here. I'd advise you to ask for advice on here.

>>17201459
At this time I can't afford to see a psychiatrist, referrals are hard to come by, free health care is unavailable due to circumstances I can't control. Those are the only reasons I'm on here.

Just tell her you're not ready. It's going to be a bitch to deal with later if you dont. Also sauce on this image, looks familiar but cant put my finger on it.

>>17201442

Lolirock. Courtesy of /co/.

I'm not really going to be able to say "no," unless it's accompanied with "I'm leaving too." The work has to get done somehow.

>>17201481

Sorry, I realized maybe I didn't make it clear in the OP... My boss's counterpart is leaving, AND my boss is leaving. There is an absolute void.