I'm at college, I hate all these stuck up stereotypical millennial cunts who spam pound symbols and make duck faces and listen to ghetto inner city black music.
I know there are cool girls somewhere on campus, there has just gotta be there are like 20k total people.
Any ideas about the best places to look for them?
What do you have to offer these girls?
Also
>be me at a party
>some girl and her friend are on their phones on tinder
>they are laughing about all the matches they are getting
>I walk up and talk to them and they are nice to me and totally cool towards me, don't seem to have a single problem with me
>ask them what they are laughing about
>they tell me they use tinder just to see how many guys want to hook up with them
>tell me they have 0 intention of actually going anywhere with any of them
>they flat out tell me they do it for their ego and they tell me with a genuine non-anything negative smile
>I just walk away
Fuck this shit
Where are the girls that I can listen to classic rock with and laugh at the normies?
>>17201720
Not being the guy version of what I just described that the non-shitty version girl must want to
How do I stop hating a person?
I don't want to hate him, but I literally don't know how to stop.
Can you give some context?
>>17201708
When you hate someone, it's because you can't be indifferent to him. You have to convince yourself this guy is just a piece of shit and he doesn't even deserve any kind of your attention
>>17201708
I have a lot of experience with this, but no good advice unfortunately. I only hated someone until someone else took the spot in my mind formerly reserved for them. Now I don't think about the original person at all but on the downside this new person is a fucker.
19 yo fag here. I haven't had friends since high school. I moved and am no longer in touch with my old friends. How do I make friends now without being weird?
if you live in new york I'll be your friend
What do you do for a living at the moment?
>>17201565
I'm not American
>>17201568
I still live with my parents and I'm a cashier in my family's restaurant
Is it normal to not feel pain touching fire? What could cause someone to touch fire with their finger, roll it around in it and not feel any pain or suffer any burns? I know someone who did this, how is that possible?
its not, idk what you think you saw but it wasn't that
it is possible to have non-functioning pain receptors but there is no such thing as immunity to fire, even if he couldn't feel the pain the tissue would still be damaged. Infact after you've suffered burns to a specific area it is MORE sensitive to being burned in the future rather than more resistant. A friend of mine in the fire department was telling me about that.
>>17201453
It was my next door neighbor who's a little kid using his moms lighter. He flicked it on rolled his finger in it for a while like it was nothing. I was curious so I watched
It's easy to do if you move your hand while over the flame. Skin doesn't conduct heat too fast for that. Done this soo many times. Can even make my hand black from the flame without pain. (think it's called sut in english). Looks like my hand is burning, doesn't hurt a bit if done corectly.
Together for exactly 1 year, both 20 y/o. I was abroad for the 2 semesters though. When I came home for Winter we decided to make Spring non-exclusive. Back now for Summer and a few weeks ago she clarified she'd rather us be fwb because she doesn't see a long-term 'us' and isn't 'in love' with me. I accepted; while I do see 'us' improving this summer, I'm not currently in love either so would get over her eventually breaking up with me fairly easily.
Saturday she let me know she finally hooked up with a 27 y/o (she had a crush on him during the semester) on a uni closing meet-up; she would go out with him if he asked. She changed the 'fwb' feeling to explain she's actually confused, has feelings for me, fun when we go out, etc. but is simply not sure if she wants this to get serious and thus thinks she should explore options to have 'new/casual' relationships so she can decide.
So she felt extremely guilty and said that if she was leading me on or I was lying about my feelings then I should cut her loose because she's just confused and doesn't want to hurt me over this. I explained *ending of 1st paragraph* and that it was fair because if I wanted to, I could also date other girls.
However we clearly are in different pages with this 'fwb' thing - I don't feel compelled to explore relationships. Hookups, if they come. I'm just certain I want to stay and let it play out, at least with this first dude and only if she goes on a date soon (ie I'm not going to wait around until mid July). But I feel strange; do these things ever work out, or does the partner looking for options usually just break up eventually? Is giving her 2-3 dates until I break up a good idea?
el bump-o
>>17201422
>2 semesters = 1 year
>only together for 1 year
So you were never really together lol
>>17201422
You are such a cuck it hurts. Shes sleeping with other guys. Its over. You two will never amount to anything.
What's a relatively painless way to off myself and make sure no one finds me afterwards?
I'm looking for ideas
>>17201300
Drowning far away from land. That's my plan, at least.
>>17201300
Do it in the middle of a forest. Bugs and scavengers will eat your body, but someone may still find you. Honestly, I don't believe you should kill yourself but I understand not everyone is as strong as others. I hope you change your mind OP.
Go to deep into the woods and shoot yourself. The bears/wolves/etc will clean up the remains.
Can the owner of the picture being screenshoted be alerted somehow if one tries to screen shot?
>>17201159
Nope, show us what you're going to screenshot
Lol no
>>17201203
Jew
My fiance had a pregnant sister with a husband and a child already. His sister and himself grew up in a broken home, divorced parents, sexually abusive father and stepfather. I get that they messed both of them up to an extent, but here's the thing that upsets me: my fiance and his sister had a one-time drunken oral sex night when he was 12 and she was 15.
She's a nice person from what I see, a good wife and a good mother.
Everytime I think of her, I think of that situation he told me about and it makes me jealous and nervous. I would never leave them alone together due to this.
Is it wrong of me to be upset that he wants us to spend time with her?
TL;dr
> Fiance and his sister had oral sex once when drunk and young.
> She's nice, but don't really like her due to that.
> Worried if I leave them alone, Something would happen.
> Am I in the wrong to be upset and worried about this?
>>17201088
It's shit that was very long ago. They were practically little kids, esp. your fiance. It fucks him up deeply already, so get over it and don't stress unnecessarily.
>>17201088
Nah it happened at a time when both him and his sister were still exploring their bodies. It's not that uncommon. He probably didnt even have feelings for his sister, and was driven by curiosity.
You should be happy that he trusts you enough to share something as taboo and private as that with you.
im sorry but your actually insane
your fiance should leave you asap if he knows whats good for him
I'm pretty unfit and have never done any exercise. I'm not morbidly obese, but I'm lacking in every physical aspect. 21 years old male.
I've always liked Tennis and I want to play but always felt insecure. Have never touched a racket but I've read books and enjoy watching pro tournaments.
Should I go straight to a tennis club and ask about classes, or should I do exercise in my own for a while before going there?
bump
I think it's harder to start on your own, so better just start classes and there you'll be told how to exercise properly, what to do etc. Go for it anon.
I recommend the classes. You won't be the only one out of shape, and you'll get to meet and play with people who have similar interests and are at a comperable level.
I don't believe in the concept of beauty anymore, because what we learned to be beautiful is often not best for living healthy and carrying a child anymore. What would the most functional woman look like, what'd be her body-proportions (waist, breasts, legs, etc.)?
>>17200918
Gooniest OP on 4chan.
is this secretly a Crumb thread?
Ever seen the Olympics?
Can you really get pregnant even if you use condoms? The thought of that is seriously scary.
>>17200776
The only thing that is 100% is abstinence.
If you can't handle the consequences of your actions, perhaps you should rethink what you're doing.
>>17200783
>The only thing that is 100% is abstinence.
might be overstating things a bit
>>17200776
condoms are what, 99% effective? generally if you keep good care of your condoms in a not too hot room, they shouldnt go bad.
girls should be using birth control as well even with condoms. you should also have a talk with any girl you've been banging regularly about what would happen in case of pregnancy. if the answer isn't abortion you shouldnt be fucking them regularly, that simple.
consider being gay and just using PrEP.
the chances of catching hiv while on PrEP and topping are virtually none. it is safer than a condom. And if ur partner is also on PrEP you have nothing to worry about
had sex for the first time in around 9 months yesterday, only managed a semi. When i'm alone at home with porn, I can manage a rock solid erection, but when i'm around a woman I tend to either lose it, or only manage a semi.
I'm not overweight, I work out and I don't smoke.
Any help?
>>17200315
bruh, i've been suffering through this since my first sexual encounter.
Sometimes it's fine, and I'm hard and it's great (i still don't think I get fully hard with any woman) majority of the time though, I get a semi or nothing at all.
I'm starting to think I'm gay. Or at least bi sexual.
I jerk off to tranny porn, and fantasize about sucking dick once in awhile, hbu?
>>17200315
did you do foreplay?
>>17200334
No I can't say i'm sexually attracted to dudes, never fapped to gay porn/traps etc.
I only fap to straight stuff, and when I do, i'm rock hard. So I don't know. I might try noporn and see what happens. I think it's nerves, but I can't seem to control them.
Just found out male internet friend I've been talking for for many years uses 4chan(coz he told me he likes fit). Should I reconsider meeting him? (am girl)
Do you fantasize about being raped?
>>17200020
No
I take it as I shouldn't meet him then
>>17200020
>/fit/izen being sexually attracted to a girl
you kidder, you...
I've had this crush on a teacher for quite a while now, though it has never been a problem up until now. My problem being, I can't focus on any given task and I have projects due that I can't bring myself up to doing because I can only think about him. I know nothing about him, yet I can't stop thinking about him. It's a huge question for myself as to why I am attracted to him in the first place. There's this guy who's my age that I actually have a chance with. I don't even feel any attraction towards him when I think about this teacher, but I want to be with him. I once stumbled upon this story about a teacher-student relationship between Lani Weissenbach and Brad Petrey a little while ago, and I recently found it again. Every time I read about this, I become so fucking envious of her, which only ends up making me want this teacher more, but why?
Since I'm stuck in this mindset right now, I question why people even have a problem with relationships between teachers and students. If the student is of legal age, and if anything the couple does is consented for, then why would people be so bitchy about it?
I'm obsessed with this man who is 24 years older than I am, he's been happily married for 20 years, and he has 3 children. He has no idea who I am, so why should I care about him? Why do I think I deserve him more than his wife does?
I can't talk about this with anyone else. The only person I can trust is the guy I want to be with, but I don't think I should tell him about this.
>slut-shame me
>>17198652
>If the student is of legal age, and if anything the couple does is consented for, then why would people be so bitchy about it?
Is this an actual question? Academic honesty is a serious issue.
>The only person I can trust is the guy I want to be with,
That's some serious fallacy. You can't have trust in someone you've barely even met. Do you honestly think his lectures have revealed everything about him that matters?
>>17198670
>That's some serious fallacy. You can't have trust in someone you've barely even met. Do you honestly think his lectures have revealed everything about him that matters?
If I wasn't clear enough, the guy I want to be with is my age and I've actually gotten to know him quite a bit.
the fuck is this picture
LOL FUCKIN LOL
There is this 1 girl im in love with. I have her phone number and i texted with her a little. I recently asked her if she has time so we could meet up somewhere and this was 4 days ago. She still didnt text me back I dont want to overflow her with texting. I dont know if i ever should write with her again. Im a little frustrated and im asking myself what is she doing all time. I hate to think like that but it seems, that i cant really forget her. Im not a stalker, neither i would do anything like that.
Also i never see her in public, so i cant talk with her personally
What should I do?
you love the idea of her
>>17196508
Please what?
>>17196493
is there any particular reason as to why you are in love with her?