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I mean, fucking anything's possible. But why would you?

Lots of people have the mind of a killer but, a minority of them actually kill.

Its not impossible if you have the will power.

>>17218252
Most normal people are capable of cheating.

Those that aren't: compulsives, dependents, some schizoids (the ones who have it as a negative in their moral code, such as myself), and maybe a couple others that i'm forgetting. Probably the paranoids and maybe the rest of cluster A too, since they have extreme trust issues and will not trust anyone enough to cheat with them until an extreme amount of familiarization (more than with the primary partner).

Basically, most sane people can cheat, just like they can assault or kill someone. They just choose not to do so.

I'm this (barring some details) but 25.

>>17218215
>>Never had a real gf, just fucked around

You did more than me anon.


>>All I do is watch movies and play video games

At least I managed to get over video games.

>>17218276
So you live with your parents or what?

>>17218199
>I tell my guy friends this. I ask them how they handle it. I ask married people. I ask my father. They all just say "All women are like this."
Uh, no. These people are just putting up with this bullshit for one reason or another. Many of them probably settled or got stuck.

>Is that really true? How am I supposed to have a healthy relationshit when women act this fucking crazy?
If you're consistently going after crazies, and putting your dick there, then the issue is probably with you. There may be something about them that you find attractive.

>>17218199
My girlfriend used to be like that. She's the youngest of 7. I think some girls go through life finding that if they get upset and irrational and intimidate people, the people will eventually apologize to them, validating the outburst.

What I learned to do is remain calm through her bitching and never lose sight of my own point of view.

Some girls are very good at making their version of events seem like the truth or changing the subject.

It is important that you remain firm on your point without stoping to her level. You must listen to what she is saying and acknowledge it without mirroring her energy or backing down.

In order for any of this to work, though, you must always keep a clear and humble head. You must be able to look at your own actions through the lens of another, so that you can truly discern if she is justified in her anger.

>>17218208
You might be right. I'm going to be alone because I'm fucking crazy. God damn it.

just be urself :^)

So long as you're managing your finances correctly, you shouldn't ever get stuck in anything.

As far as dream careers go, who the fuck really knows what they want to do?

Just get out there and do things you haven't done before, learn, and have fun.

Live, man.

Good news: your 20s are vastly overrated. More good news: 30 only seems old to the teenagers that make up the bulk of 4chan's userbase. Play your cards right and you should have a lot of life ahead of you.

As for finding your dream career, sorry bud, but very few people ever get one of those. My advice would be not to waste your life chasing it. At the same time, you shouldn't *hate* your job either. Try to find work you can tolerate that pays a livable wage and accept that no career will ever truly leave you feeling fulfilled. Look for something else to fill that void, be it friends, a partner, a hobby, or whatever. The thing that enriches a life is different for everyone -- just get out there and find your thing, whatever it is.

Don't feel like you have to rush anything. That countdown timer weighing on your mind is a creation of your own fear and anxiety. Chill out. You've got plenty of time.

Remeber. When you love two women, choose the second.

If you really loved the first you wouldn't have fallen for the second.

>>17218172
either recognize that the grass is always greener on the other side or leave your fiancee. it really is that simple. If you're starting to resent her then lean toward the latter option because that's kinda messed up.

>>17218182
Didn't Johnny Depp say that? He left a hot french woman to be with a piece of ass that is now trying to frame him for domestic abuse and take half his estate+a huge alimony.

>>17218082
I dunno man, if she actually said she's looking forward to seeing this guy and called him boo, it doesn't sound like she's really looking to settle down with you

Probably going to end poorly, but if you are too much of a pussy to end it now wait until she cheats on you (and she will eventually).

She's a whore, you knew she was a whore, now she is acting like a whore, and you're pretending like you don't know what to do. This behavior isn't acceptable man. We have all the PSA's about how guys abuse women, but women do shit like this all the time, and it is probably just as damaging. She is playing you like a damn fiddle, and if you go back to her I hope you enjoy kidding your wife's son on the forehead every night when you tuck him into bed.

can you tell us what these requirements are. I know it seems cliche, but breaking big things into smaller steps always makes things possible

what's your job famalagam?

>>17218086
Okay. I am a medical coder. We have to code x amount of medical charts per hour depending on what type of chart it is. We are evaluated in quality as well as quantity. My quality is top notch but my quantity is shit. I can only do about half of what they want in a given time. I've only been in this profession for two years, and only one year doing the specific work I do now. My first year was doing much easier work.

Oh, so I should ask to be moved to do something easier? I was bored as hell doing easier work. And, hahahahaha, the company is outsourcing those positions to India.

You're probably banging a teenager and they're never regular.

>>17218069
I mean, there's always a chance that a lucky dribble of precum shot the moon and somehow finangled its way through a hole in the condom

but you're probably fine

>>17218069
No, if you used a condom AND YOU DIDNT CUM
either she isn't regular, she fucked someone else, or you're having the Christ child.
But even when I was on the pill I would be three days into the placebo and start stressing.

See a pdoc?

>>17218079
just saw my therapist yesterday, we meet every two weeks, so that won't be any help anymore
was feeling fine when we met

>>17218047
i'd like to know myself because the exact same thing happens to me
therapist is of absolutely no fucking help but i'm an ex-pat
the only thing that i could think of that helped me keep going through longer up cycles was 300 mg of bupropion but that stuff stops working for me about 9 months in and then i get depressed, lazy, and suicidal again

>>17218044
4chan is shit
It has always been shit
It is shittier now, I have been here for six years, 2013 was nice still shit tho, but Traps were not such a big thing on /b/ nor were furries

>>17218067
Yeah, but being amongst the shit and finding the humor in it with the other shitty people has always been a nice point in 4chan.

We all know we're shit so we can just be ourselves and laugh with each other.

>>17218067
4chan is alright, it's gone through it's phases for sure, and it's definitely not what it was in the mid 2000s

hi i don't know what to tell you about the problem you asked about

i just came here to tell you that ellipses are three full stops, not two

>>17218042
ok guy i really dont care

>>17218005
I know how you feel, my girl is leaving from South Korea, I could have been with her but I ruined it all

Jesus

>>17217958
just break up with him you fucking faggot. if you wanted to kill yourself you'd be dead already

>>17217958
I'm confused what is going myself. Why do you wish to die? It's going to happen eventually anyway. What's so pressing?

>>17217927
bump

>>17217927

seems like you probably have more of an issue with a casual sexual encounter than you do sexuality.

>>17217927
Try it. Don't fret. You might enjoy it and you might still be straight for it. If there are no strings and it is just for fun the worst that can happen is HIV. Dudes are more chill about casual sex. Don't be such a faggot.

You can't

>>17217920
^This.

But trust me, as soon as you start a relationship with someone prettier than her, she'll change her mind. Happens every time!

>>17217920
/thread

Unless you become a millionare and get a Ferrari

You prefer androgynous women. That ain't illegal, nigga.

>>17217899
>I get turned on exclusively by girls, does that mean I'm gay?

Fucking 4chan i swear to god.

>>17217899

you grill?