I have had sex with seven women, and have had two relationships that I think had appeared serious. Yet, I've never experienced love for a woman. I've been thinking about this all morning, and I feel like a fucking waste. I want to meet the love of my life, have kids, and grow old with her.
What do I do? Is there anybody else that has an issue with this? I feel so empty
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>>17215798
Believe in memes they will guide us.
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I have had sex with zero women, and have had zero relationships that I think had appeared serious. Yet, I've never experienced love for a woman. I've been thinking about this all morning, and I feel like a fucking waste. I want to meet the love of my life, have kids, and grow old with her.
What do I do? Is there anybody else that has an issue with this? I feel so empty
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Nevermind what you want, are you the kind of guy that women want to marry and have kids with?
If not, you now have a goal of working towards being that kind of guy.
It's not difficult m8, you've just got to want it and be prepared to give other things up for it, as with all things in life.
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My job is crushing my soul.
I've decided to quit.
I've got money for more or less 18 months.
I haven't got another job içlined up, but I feel If I don't quit I'll kill myself.
What do?
IT job. If I don't I feel spineless. If I do I feel like a slacker.
What do?
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>>17215783
Quit. People don't live to work, you work to live. If you hate your job, then don't do it. Other things in life are more important and the chances are that you'll find a new job eventually.
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>>17215783
Try to send out your resume and get another job lined up first, but definitely quit. You'll regret it and hate yourself if you don't.
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>>17215783
>My job is crushing my soul.
Why? Is it the people? The environment? The project? The actual tasks?
>I've decided to quit.
Depending on what exactly you find so soul-crushing, you might be not need to actually quit. If you could achieve the same effect by transferring to another project or location, this would be easier to pul off.
Of course, if it's the company or the nature of the work, then you have no choice but to quit. Same goes if there's only one project or office. You do what you've gotta do. But I don't have all the information, so I need to cover other possibilities.
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So its not something extremely intense at this moment but I always had this sort of problem, I didn't care too much but I'm starting to worry for the following: It might be troublesome in the future when I work in what I'm studying, which is electronics so that involves circuit repairing and other tasks of precision, I'm scared of wasting 5 years of my life getting the engineering degree and then find out it was a mistake.
Any suggestions? Is this something treatable? Or that can be controlled with some sort of medicament or exercise? Should I study something else? (I really don't wanna, but I gotta think about my future).
Thanks for any advice.
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Does it run in the family?
Does alcohol decrease the shakiness?
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I was diagnosed with something similar, and when i whined to my neurogist that i would become a terrible surgeon, he was unimpressed.
Does your hands shake constantly or when you put force into them?
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>>17215781
Completely anecdotal, but my friend has an overactive thyroid and that causes her hands to shake. It's genetic, and she needs to take medication for it when it gets especially bad. See a doctor to make sure it's not something serious.
Gonna keep it short.
>meet chick on dating app (she liked me back)
>try to talk to her
>she only gives short, closed answers
>after a whole afternoon talking, lose it and ask her if I'm boring her and why she even liked me in the first place
>suddenly she perks up, gives contacts
>starts calling me shit like "cutie", and "sugar" out of the blue (english not my first language)
>urges me to meet her
This was very sudden, but I still went with it. She's treating me almost as if we're dating. Sorry if I sound autistic, but what the fuck is going on here?
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You come off as insecure. Don't ask a woman if she thinks you're boring. You should know if you're boring or not. And if there's a chance you might be boring, make yourself not boring
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>>17215772
I just got fed up with her lack of effort. I guess I should've just stopped talking instead of saying that. But still, why did she respond like that? I though she'd just tell me to fuck off
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>>17215760
women often do this at the start, and even when they start talking more, its mostly shit what they say anyway.
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Okay, /adv/, help me, please.
>very secretive, socially anxious and narcissistic throughout primary and middle school
>made some kinda friends
>never hang out with them outside school, overprotective parents
>went to different highschool
>didn't accept party invitation from old school friends
>become less of a jerk, one close friend obtained
>in college on the other side of the state now
The problem: I miss a tiny number of people from primary school, and feel bad that some other people tried to befriend me and i never answered.
It would have been easy if i had close friends at school, i'd try to contact them, that's it.
But I had kinda only one and she was an obliviously selfish type, who never asked me anything about myself and almost never knew me. Also I repeat, I had a cool facade and was very secretive.
I miss her, but when we talked last summer about our mutual acquaintances, i felt completely like a stranger to her. And it wasn't the same for me, she didn't change much, same attitude and habits.
She invited me to hang out with other classmates, but i don't want to see them. When I told her that, she was shocked, because she has the "friends are family thing". I replied some retarded stuff, now she ignores me. It looks like I am still a jerk.
Is there a point to try to cultivate a friendship with people who live on the other side of the state, and don't really know anything about you? (It's my fault, I never told them what i feel, never drank with them and now i also changed).
Actually, is wanting people to know and accept you a bitchy thing? I hate when people discuss broad topics together, never being vulnerable and give you death glares if your opinion differs from their.
Tl;dr miss my school friends, to whom i was a secretive asshole. in college now, is there a point in trying to contact them, i don't have anything in common with most
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Bump.
My loneliness and reminiscing childhood may be the source of my addiction to anime, vidya and pokemon. I need the answer.
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Bump, I regret choosing to alienate from them and the whole thing upsets me.
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>Is there a point to try to cultivate a friendship with people who live on the other side of the state, and don't really know anything about you?
you're asking a worldwide anonymous board of strangers. What do you think?
>My loneliness and reminiscing childhood may be the source of my addiction to anime, vidya and pokemon. I need the answer.
almost everything people do, if they're stable or unstable, tends to be formed around habits.
what habits are you currently engaging in that reinforce the traits about yourself that you've bitched about in OP?
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>ex dates me for three years
>dumps me for some little insecure faggot
>shes been dating him for 4 weeks now
>i slept at her house last night
>fucked her 3 times
>we did all the sex we used to do
>lay together and falls asleep with me
>read her texts
>sounds like shes arguing w the guy a lot more
>this morning her friend facetimes her
>she asks about the boyfriend
>she turns phone to me
>she is stunned
>she hangs up and tells the boyfriend like a cunt
>hes bothering her now about me and saying he feels threatened by me blah blah blah
>he still doesnt know the whole truth
>ex tells me to leave basically..
>tells me shes dating him
> I say im not going to be threatened by some little guy whos being cucked
>she tells me things will fall into place with time
>tells me she loves me and i go home
idk what to think now.. should I tell the bf shes fucking me still? i think it would end me and hers friendship but it might be worth it.
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>>17215666
Is this >>17214288 part 2?
Your ex is a shitty person and you're an asshole and a loser.
If you were smart you'd get her out of your life. Since you're not, you're going to do whatever stupid shit you're going to do. Why bother asking for advice?
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>>17215666
Is this an everyday meme for you or is it real?
I find it difficult to believe someone can be this stubborn and desperate.
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>>17215666
Are you really this retarded to want to be with some slut who can't keep her legs closed for someone she is dating? If she cheated with you so easily I bet she cheated on you.
Why are some women so obsessed with the idea of having it all?
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>>17215659
FOMO, mostly.
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>>17215659
Their tiny heads restrict a wide range of thought patterns.
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>>17215659
Ambition. Nothing wrong with it, is there?
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I'm 24 and my hair is getting worse and worse. People in my family have had historically God tier hair, but for some reason mine is thinning already.
Do any of you have good hair care tips?
Should I see a dermatologist?
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>>17215646
Best tip is just doing what you can with your hair. Make sure it's a flattering cut, etc. Be confident with it
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>>17215646
>OP's milkman is bald
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>>17215646
Shampoo no more than once a week. Make sure there are no sulfates in the shampoo, same with conditioner. I use rosemary rinse. I'll cut a few twigs of rosemary, boil it in distilled water for about 20 minutes, let it cool, put it in a bottle in the shower. Use it as a rinse about 2-3 times a week.
Other than that, good diet and proper blood flow to the scalp.
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I am an avid sleeptalker, and overall I sleep pretty poorly.
After a few particularly violent dreams I decided it would be best to record myself while sleeping, using one of those auto-mic apps.
I have been recording my sleep for the last week now, and I have a recording of my (homosexual) roommate trying to talk to me in my sleep (time code around 4AM).
To my absolute horror, I responded to the homosexual innuendos he was making, even actively participating in the conversation (I have no memory of this, only the recording).
I said some very embarrassing, very homosexual things. This is shocking to me especially because I identify as straight.
I am afraid to go to sleep while he is here. I have been awake for the last 50 hours. I do not know if he was also recording the encounter.
I am running out of options.
Please help.
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Here is my plan, lmk what you think;
1. Ask roommate directly about it (he will lie, confirmed sociopath)
2. Demand he unlock and hand over his phone (at gunpoint if necessary)
3. Check texts to find who he has told about the situation.
4. Check recordings/video recordings to see if he has a record of the incident.
5. Return phone, tell him that I will out him to his friend groups if anyone hears of this.
6. Send him sound bytes of himself from our "conversation"
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>>17215632
sh8 b8 m8 I r8 .8 out of 888
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>>17215674
>5. Return phone, tell him that I will out him to his friend groups if anyone hears of this.
this never ends well as not only will he do the same to you but you'll be treated like shit because that's an asshole move.
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Hey /adv/, I've been thinking a lot about it and I think I'm going to start smoking. What are some things I should know before starting? I'd like to keep it discreet from family and friends. Recommendations and tips would be appreciated.
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>>17215621
>start smoking
Congratulations in another poor decision.
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>>17215637
I just want something to distract me. I don't need a "oh please don't do this, you'll hate yourself, oh woe is me".
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Guys please. I need help with this...
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I need help /adv/,
Idk what to do, my fiance of 5 years broke up with me 6 months ago admittedly because I was already a mess mentally/emotionally and I think it's gotten only worse. Being single has made me "fragile" like any little thing will send me into the most crippling of depressive downs. I'm a semi-controlled Bipolar with anxiety issues. Additionally I make money on the stock market and I've been on a severe losing streak because of my emotions which leads to worse emotions. Last week I lost 7k. Today i lost 1k and I feel suicidal. It just hit me that I'm so alone. I honestly see no reason to live and know that while I won't kill myself today, unless something changes I'll kill myself within a year.
Basically I'm trying my hardest to control my state of mind, working out etc, but it's an uphill battle. When I crash I crash harder and harder now. I'm literally shaking and on the verge of tears over nothing in particular at times.
How can I get some stability?
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>>17215596
bump
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>>17215692
sigh...I guess even 4chan has abandoned me. :/
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I'm in almost the exact same postion. I had a bipolar episode my girl left and I never even got the chance to explain the guilt eats me alive.
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Yesterday I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend. She's not on the pill, I didn't wear a condom, but I pulled out and didn't cum inside of her. I came close a few times, so I'm not sure about precum or anything on that front, but I definitely didn't full on orgasm inside of her.
This was a dumb and very impulsive decision, and was also the first time I've ever had sex with no condom.
I guess I'm just sort of worried. We're both 19, I have no idea what I would do if she ended up pregnant, especially because she's catholic.
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You'll probably be a father
You dumb shit
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>>17215581
Uh, those precums are as good as money, sir
Right here? Baby, $250K, might wanna hold onto that one.
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>>17215581
1/5th chance of her being pregnant, step right up, spin the wheel, and try again!
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Hi /adv/ers,
I'm desperately trying to fuck a guy. OK, he's my ex and he broke up with me for... no reason, so it's pretty obvious he doesn't want me back. But I just wanna fuck, no romantic involvement. He still makes my pussy boil everytime he does something a beta male would do (I may have weird tastes in guys). We're really good friends now. We see each other nearly every day and he's constantly mocking me in a flirty way. I tried to flirt back, even tried to send him lewd pics but he didn't want to see them. He clearly likes my appearance, his boner spoke for himself. What should I do?
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Him or another guy isn't gonna make a difference, if you're horny, you're horny... Just touch yourself.
It's just you have feelings for him so, it's easier to go back to him instead of fucking someone else.
Assuming, that, since when are you single and how long have you been together ?
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>>17215500
Why did he broke up with you. There is always a reason ... How was your relashionship ?
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>>17215561
I guess you're right. We've been together for a year and I've been single for about a year and a half now.
>can't get grill
>plays world of warcraft 8+ hours a day
>only leaves house to go to cinema
>goes to cinema alone
I just want a relationship with a girl.... All I can't is the inocent things. Holding hands, kisses and being together.
What do?
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go outside and meet people
wow
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MJAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0
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>>17215455
Tried that... Met a grill... Spoke all the time got dumped. That's happened 3 times now
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I fear my girlfriend might love me too much, is this possible?
She says "I love you" like three times an hour, sometimes in very rapid succession. She's said I'm the best thing to ever happen to her, that she sees us having children and getting married some day. She cries often, just tears of joy or something because she's "so in love with [me]". We've been seeing each other for four months.
On one hand it feels good to be desired and having feelings of affection for me, but on the other hand it's putting a lot of weight on my shoulders.
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how old is she
she sounds underage
kinda nutty otherwise
tread carefully
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>>17215433
I'm 3 years in with a girl like that. I can only give you my experiences.
She never really calmed down on the I love yous. I eventually told her that it's too much for me and she was upset for a bit but she got over it and it's tolerable now
She's super clingy. She wants to cuddle all the time. To the point where I got bored of it. I had to limit it to bed time, or when I'm playing video games on the couch.
Shes super eager to please. It gets annoying sometimes but I just have to remind myself that a lot of guys aren't that lucky. She's sucks my dick whenever, cooks dinner all th time, ect.
Overall it's not to bad, you can get her to tone it down eventually if that's what you decide.
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>>17215433
seems manageable as long as you don't go full retard and marry her