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licking ass (figuretively) 2016-06-04 18:19:39 Post No.17219536
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licking ass (figuretively)
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Is it necessary/wrong to ''lick ass'' in order to become popular or become part of a cool friend group?
(to lick ass is an expression that sounds better in my language, idk if it makes sense in english? But if you lick ass on someone it means you are really nice to them and do ''everything'' they say etc. often in order to get something)
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No, you can also suck dick.
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>>17219536
The English equivalent is kiss ass (he is an ass kisser, or she kisses the bosses ass, etc.)
And I don't see why friends woyld need to be slimed up to in order to like you. If they don't like the normal you, thats on them.
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>>17219541
But everybody 'kisses ass' in the start dont they? to show they like the person
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I think my wife is a bad mother 2016-06-04 18:00:07 Post No.17219479
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I think my wife is a bad mother
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So my kid is 3 years old. And like any 3 year old always whats his way and throes a lot of tantrums. She looses her temper quickly and then treats him like he is a 15 year old that should understand her rants. (i.e. She will freak out on him and then he will cry even worse). We have had discussion on this and she even went on medication to control her temper. Now she stopped the meds and just carries on with her shit. What do I do?
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You're right, she is a bad mother. And unfortunately it's not a lack of skill or something that can be fixed. It's a lack of empathy, which isn't exactly something I believe can be taught. Chances are she might always be 'that' mother. Just be the level headed, good dad to your child, maybe lead by example? Tough call
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>>17219479
She is a bad mother. She should have ignored the tantrums even if he was a 15 year old. All she does is undermine his respect towards her. If she can't control herself, the kid will never respect his mother or take her seriously because she doesn't behave more mature than he does.
The only solution to the problem is that you as the father earn your son's respect by showing self control and acting as an adult. Be an authority and only give him attention when he deserves it. That way he will have a role model he could respect and you can guide him and raise him. When he's much older, you can have an honest conversation about mommy's behavior.
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It's sad that this woman I love so much hurts my baby so bad. I think in her home as a child she was never tough how to display love/empathy. Not entirely her fault but it is as if she does not realize it. Anyway, thanks for your reply. I'll defiantly be the level headed one.
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My mum calls me every day 2016-06-04 17:52:56 Post No.17219456
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My mum calls me every day
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I'm 24, my mum is 55 and she calls me every day. We live separately since I was 18 and she has been doing this all the time besides months I have spent abroad.
This week the weather was really hot, I was sick, so I would take naps after work, so I missed her calls on 2 days. One day she had called me numerous times, wrote me on facebook and emailed me asking what has happened to me, all that under 2 hour period. Yesterday she called asking if she can come over, to which I said no because I was feeling sick and my home was a mess. She said ok, she won't come. She came anyway, and I told that since I could not leave her outside and since I had told her not to come, she is being intrusive. I also asked her to stop calling me every day since that is making me anxious(seeing all the missed calls, messages,etc) and call me when she needs something. Then she started to speak in a 'victim voice', a 180 turn from her voice at first, one of someone feeling ill and barely able to speak (not holding up tears), and told me "so your mother is ill" which in my language has connotation to mentally-ill. I said that is not what I meant but that she is being disrespectful, when she says it is out of love. Anyhow, I feel like total piece of shit. Especially since then she asked me if she can call on Sunday, I asked her to call me when she has a reason, and she said- there will be a reason on Sunday. And that was so freaky, I can't stop thinking about this.
I don't know what the fuck I should do. I have asked her to lay off the calling many times, it always picks up again over time. Logically, I do not think I am a piece of shit for asking this, but I definitely feel like one.
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Also, I do not have any issues or problems that would be a reason to check up on me daily.
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That does seem a bit extreme, but you also have to consider the fact that she loves you and misses having you around. Get her to call you less, but take some time like a weekend to go stay at her place.
I'm 28 and about once a month I go visit my parents at their house and we have a great time for a couple days, they only live 1.5 hours away though.
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>>17219467
We do meet 2-4 times a month, unless I am away, either at my, my brother's or her place.
Also, she is employed, she lives with her husband, I am not the only person she could speak to.
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I'm really fucked. I was on academic probation this year due to a previous failure, but I couldn't motivate to study enough...
I failed most of my classes which leads me to have to retake them this summer. I will have between 5 and 8 exams to study for in 11 weeks.
Am I really fucked or should I motivate myself to study 8 hours a day ?
Any tips for doing this ?
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Give up. You're not mentally prepared to do anything to help your situation, in reality you're just fucking yourself in the ass with a cactus.
Heal your mind and soul first, then consider your academic future, since you're not currently taking it seriously.
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>>17219421
Well, if I don't retake them I'll be kicked out of college for good, so it's my only hope for my academic future.
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Yeah, I too would recommend some rnr. But go see your school's psychologist. Obviously you need to work shit out.
sauce: me on academic probation for the 3rd time in almost 4 years.
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Alright /adv/ I got a doozy. First time I have ever bothered coming here but I need viewpoints non-bias resolutions.
Heres the deal. I am in love with two girls. Girl A has been in a relationship with me for almost 3 years now and I love her. We talk constantly of our potential future and have even decided upon child names if we end up with children. We are a online dating success story without the use of eharmony or other stupid match sites. We are very compatible an don't really argue too much. Its not a one way road and its been great. I honestly should be a very very happy man, yet i'm not. I'm not cause I also love Girl B. cont.
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Girl B is a girl i've known since 9th grade. We dated numerous times but she was considered the weird girl and highschool being highschool and me being a cruel little boy, I hurt Girl B numerous times via dating and breaking up due to peer rejection. She never gave up on me an stood strong an held on. We dated again back in 2012-2013 and sadly I ended it for the 6th time due to paranoia cause of my own insecurites, and seeds of doubt from my friends. (told me shes a whore, fucked alot of people in highschool, etc.) I let their words dictate me then and I apologized for it recently cause she is important to me. Shes always been there for me an I do as well, love her. So we reconnect as friends and we talk an laugh and somehow, maybe due to lack of a true relationship or true resolution we divulge slightly from friend related conversations to regret, apologies, and wishes for more. She always had a spot in my heart and it kinda reignited taking not much to do so.
The Problem is clear. I would have to hurt one of them or none an shoulder the weight. Let the crippling depression of loving two women an not being able to do anything for Girl B who very much deserves my love after everything I have done an after her resolve, Or hurt Girl B once more. Or do I hurt Girl A, a woman I can see myself being with and go back to a long distance relationship with Girl B? Im very much lost. I have no Idea how to handle this situation an it cost me my pride an dignity the other day via self harm. SO I ask of you, What do?
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>>17219399
I should probably mention I am going to be 25 this year, to reference my age and give a sense of time.
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I guess its the waiting game for me.
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A U.S. Marine punched me in the head, knocking me out, after i touched his medals, Can I file a lawsuit?
I was at the K Mart, and saw a Marine, I called him a baby killer. He ignored me. So then
I touched his medals and said, You get these for killing babies. I spit on him.
Next thing i know, i was on the ground unconscious the next minute.
I did not think he would have the guts to hit me in public, the K Mart, in a public place. The store was empty. Maybe if it was more crowded, he wouldnt have done anything.
I thought they cant freaking hit you if they are in uniform?
I awoke 10 minutes later in an ambulance. They told me at the hospital, he hit me like 5 and 6 times, after i was out cold. I have 2 missing teeth, and a swollen nose, and swollen eyes and 2 bruises on my head. My hospital bill is over $10,000, including ambulance ride. Can I file a lawsuit against the military, to get them to pay my hospital bills?
Plus I missed 3 weeks of work, I lost over $1200 in work pay.
Also, they dropped the charges against this guy? How can I re-press them against him?
I think he should have charged civily and criminally, I had no clue a uniform man would attack somebody in public place.
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If this isn't bait, my only advice is that you're a faggot.
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>>17219415
It is. They wouldn't just drop the charges that quickly without OP's consent. Even though he's a faggot who lies on the interweb, and this story isn't even real, he still has as many rights as all of us unfortunately.
I'd like to take a minute to thank all those have have served and are serving for protecting us and giving us the freedoms we are allowed in this country. Even if it means some faggots like OP exist that's okay I guess.
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>>17219415
I think it might be a social commentary about police violence in US
How profound
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How do I get over being cheated on?
Years ago my girlfriend cheated on me. She did it in a fairly callous way. Text me for about an hour back and forth, said she was getting ready for bed, in bed, watching some TV, going to sleep. Text me goodnight and that she loved me so much and couldn't wait to see me the next day.
Next day we met up as planned, went for dinner, stayed out drinking, she stayed over at my place, we had sex. Talked and cuddled all night. We'd been dating about 8 months at this point.
Months later I found out that she'd actually been at a house party while she was texting me saying she was getting ready for bed. She didn't tell me she was going to it, that she was invited, she kept the whole thing from me. She sucked a guy's dick and slept with him at said house party, then got up and came to meet me the next day.
Years later, I have a new girlfriend and whenever she goes out without me there I just get the worst feeling in the pit of my stomach, I cant sleep all night.
I don't want to be a controlling cunt. I never check her phone or ask her where she's been, but after what happened last time I honestly don't trust anyone, I think anyone is capable of anything.
How do I go about my life and not give a shit? I genuinely don't want to.
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Do NOT project insecurities from the past over the present.
Yeah, I know, easier said than done.
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I've been in a similar boat, while trying not to be the stereotypical controlling bf. It's hard, because a lot of times the people we end up don't hold a sign that says 'cheater', and we try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
There's really nothing to be done about it though. Only through time and actions will you be put at ease, one way or another. Anyone is capable of anything, but we want to be with those who would choose not to, who have a moral and sound judgement through their decisions in life. It's something that takes a lot of time to really be able to gauge
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Look at it this way:
You do care, because you genuinely want to.. this makes you a good person because you take into consideration her feelings (if you do) and wouldn't hurt her like that. Because you have a bad memory from the past you are afraid of caring, because it might end in betrayal again, but you should still care and feel good about caring because it means you haven't changed for the worse due to the poor relationship experience you had before.
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What chew will give me a pure tobacco taste without it being sweetened by liquorice or any other additive. I just want to chew pure tobacco and experience pure tobacco taste.
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I believe it's called mouth cancer
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who cares
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DIP DIP DIP
Anyone know what this is? Just noticed this on my elbow, not sure what it could be
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Could be topical exposure to chemical or iritant . Could be odd manifestation of herpes. Could be tissue abrasion . Anything odd go on lately? Investigate the rest of your body for odd spots?
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HIV, Early signs of AIDS.
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looks a little like keratosis pilaris
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Why do I feel very depressed and have no energy when the weather is shit?
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Ask seasonal depressive whatever
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>>17219233
You have SAD
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Because you're a pussy who makes any excuse they can for their problems. Quit being a bitch and literally man the fuck up and do whatever you need to do. Don't be a lazy faggot. Sounds harsh? Maybe but it's what you need a swift kick in the ass to get you moving along. Not some soft handed limp wrist nudge to get you going.
inb4 but it's a real disorder. Please shut the fuck up.
How do I enjoy living life, being an undocumented immigrant?
I'm not really fully "undocumented". Thanks to Obama's 2012 Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program, I've been able to get a work permit, drivers license, and a SSN. I can legally reside in the country for 2 years, until I renew again (renewed twice already). I was brought to the U.S. as a baby and this is the country I call home. I don't know anything about my actual home country, and I can barely even speak Spanish.
It just really makes me sad that despite living here all my life, I still can't even take out a loan from the bank. I can't go on vacation out of the country with my girlfriend. I won't be able to retire someday. Just a feeling of not belonging. Like people hate that I'm here when I had no choice. But I feel like this is home.
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>>17219220
What about becoming nationalized and passing the citizenship test? Would that supercede the quasi citizen status you have now?
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>>17219220
You have to go back.
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>>17219241
Only way for me to able to completely legalize myself would be to marry a citizen, and provide proof to USCIS that my wife would suffer a great amount without my presence. It's hard to prove. Besides, I haven't even thought about marriage with my current gf.
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i have recently got into a relationship with a girl. she is pretty nice and good looking. here is my problem. she constantly moans to me about her work and doesent really talk about anything else unless i bring it up. its starting to piss me off. what should i do? my ex used to talk shit to me all the time, and i had a word with her about it and she got extremely offended.
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>mixture of gamma positive and beta negative
I disregard social norms and mass culture but I'm too lazy to do shit or have dreams and too socially inept to believe i could accomplish them if i had any, so I just go to college to learn what I want and get by working and doing what I want until eventually I go into dent and move back in with my parents what do :)
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>>17219283
Debt oh
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>>17219283
what? lol. this thread isnt about that. read the thread. the picture is unrelated.
I'm so angry /adv/
I'm angry that I still feel for a certain girl
I'm angry that I can't stop thinking about her
I'm angry that one of my friends is the reason why it hurts so much
I'm angry that I feel inferior to him because of it.
I don't want to feel this anger. I want to let go of the past, but my feelings keep coming back to me.
I'm a 21 y/o virgin and I don't see much hope for getting it squared away in the foreseeable future.
What the fuck do I do?
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bump
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Replace it with something else, and stop remembering the past so pseudo-fondly.
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>>17219212
Could we have some background please?
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>Wana meet internt frind for the first tiem
>He said he wants to brng brother along
>Stil hasnt asked broher even though this wsa a month ago
Is this a red flag? Shuld I not meet him? (Am femanon btw)
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Yes you shouldn't meet him because he wants to bring his brother
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>>17219194
>because he wants to bring his brother
Hos is this strnge? He said he wants to brng his brother as his brothr studies history and knows mor about the historical toursi attractions
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Depends
Hey everyone, I need your help. I have enough money to buy a NN3DS (pokemon edition) but BBuy ran out of them a couple of weeks ago. Still I have enough money to buy a WiiU but since they officially revealed the NX, I'm not sure if that would be a good idea. I wanted the 3DS first so I could sell the one I have, but I also wanted a WiiU. Right now I'm not sure which one should I buy. If I buy a WiiU I won't have as many games to play it with at the beginning(just the Mario series game they usually have pre-instaled) but I finally could have one. If I buy a NN3DS I can sell the other one. What should I do? Thanks for your time, have a nice weekend.
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>>17219188
Save your money.
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>>17219188
Hey dubs, if you want underage advice I'd recommend >>>/v/
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You're not being helpfull I'm afraid