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I think I'm going crazy, I believe everyone conspires against me. I hear people faintly talking and I hear my name and it feels like they're mocking me and I'm being manipulated. Every time I try to ease drop the subjects change.
I sometimes notice random coincidences and feel like it's all connected. Am I in the early stages of psychosis?
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>>17220934
Doesn't sound like it just yet. Maybe you should sleep and go for a run and have a full breakfast and see if you feel better.
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>>17220939
Hopefully it's just ridiculous paranoia, I sometimes feel like I'm in a less exciting Truman show.
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>>17220943
Go get a massage. Slow your brain down.
Also are you female?
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There's a small lump in my mouth on my lower right jawline. It's right at the connecting point between my inside-cheek and the gumline. There's no noticeable discoloration, but this location is my prime point for chewing tobacco. I've been chewing for the past half year.
Is this a reason for concern?
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>>17220923
Yes. Chewing tobacco causes cancer. Run to get a biopsy.
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>>17220931
I might just be looking for false hope but this lump doesn't have any coloration to it. I won't be able to get it looked at until Monday. I guess there's nothing I can do right?
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Bump?
> Be away at uni finishing up my degree
> My Dad died end of 2014 (raised me single handedly)
> He had a girlfriend, but frankly it was only for company (said she would only marry him if he signed over the house to her - he told her to fuck off; still stayed together)
> she had access to the house whist i was away (said she'd keep it looked after etc)
> She loots the place
> Sold family heirlooms, his clothes, shoes, computer parts, ornaments and even some of my stuff on ebay (she said she "donated it" but i knew her ebay username and have a log of it all)
> She took all the medication he had, a whole suitcase full of tablets (tramadol etc) - all with his name on the prescription too
> When confronted her that i knew she sold stuff, she dropped back some of it (she's still listing stuff on ebay to this day of his) - asked her to donate the money she made off of it to charity - she didn't
> She even took my dog and wont return her ( i couldn't have her with me in my uni house during finishing my degree)
But tonight what's really set me off is that she had also taken his Dictaphone with all messages on there (I'm cant recall voices) - there's nothing of importance on there just that its him. I want to kill the cunt.
What do I do?
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>>17220905
Go to the police?
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Police...you should have already done this. After that sue her ass for all she's worth civilly.
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There are some issues regarding contacting the police due to something my dad had left me
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I feel like I can't talk to anyone close to me about this, so here we go.
I'm a very reserved girl, I've never been great about expressing my emotions. I definitely HAVE emotions. I love my family, have a few good friends. For some reason, though, it never shows. This isn't to say that I neglect the people close to me. I remember birthdays, give the occasional gift, call them etc. But for some reason, people think I don't care. I am not quick to smile or cry or be angry, and for that reason people think I'm a robot or something. It hurts my feelings a little bit when people say things that are sort of mean just because they think I can take it, because I'm outwardly unemotional and don't speak about my emotions often. Well, I'm not about to get all bent out of shape about it, but it does hurt my feelings sometimes.
5 months ago, I had a baby. naturally, it was one of the happiest days of my life and I love my baby more than anything. But everyone keeps asking me if I'm okay because I'm not happy smiling at the baby all the time, and now I'm worried I won't be a good mom. I don't want my current and future children to think that I don't love them like the rest of my family seems to. I definitely want to be the best mom that I can so I need to fix this somehow.
Can anyone relate? How do I become more open with my emotions? How do I change what seems to be a hardcoded aspect of my personality? I just don't know what to do.
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Placid looks are fine, you should just say you're ok, just don't show emotions non-verbally. And end it off with a smile to deflect them.
you seem like a fine mom, BUT please smile a bit for baby. There was a study done with newborns, where the mother showed no emotions. This in turn caused saddness in the baby and in some cases the babies died. Babies and children don't understand complex emotions and learn a lot from socialcues and nonverbal language.
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>>17220904
Thanks. I didn't know that about babies. She definitely doesn't seem sad, she smiles when I talk to her, which is super contagious and also causes me to smile/laugh. But I will definitely try to initiate the smiling more often.
Thank you again for the advice.
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I will bump one time, then let the thread die.
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Girlfriend takes things way out of proportion, and now I feel like the bad guy. 2016-06-05 01:02:23 Post No.17220870
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o preface everything, She's an Indian and atheist, doesn't want anything to do with her parents' religion. They expect her to get an arranged marriage, and she outright refuses to. We've been together behind their back for this whole time making our time together sporadic at times. We don't get a lot of alone time, so sex is even more sporadic. She just graduated college and is in the process of interviewing for jobs. We've planned on moving in together once she lands a good one.
Now to get into some of the issues. Without diving into all of the little circumstances, she will take very small quibbles and make them into something much bigger that they are not. One circumstance she had a bowl of chips for a snack. After finishing them she said she was still hungry. I made a small comment saying she should get something that's not chips for her next snack. The way I was meaning it was that chips are not filling so something else to fill her up would be better. The way she took it, I apparently insulted her and called her fat and was attacking what she eats. She went on about how she doesn't need to hear this from me and she get's enough about her weight from her Dad, and it kind of went on from there.
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I didn't mean anything by my comment, but I don't think it warranted the kind of response I got. I love her to death and her weight isn't a concern to me. I just figured a different snack would have been better.
I will preface the next event again. Last weekend I had a friend come in from out of town. She spent the weekend with us except for one day. We all had a lot of fun and I got to see her much more than I usually do in a short span of time.
Now on to this weekend. I work at home on Fridays and she wanted to come see me at home, but she would need to leave later in the day for other plans. I told her she could but I couldn't guarantee how much work I would be doing. In the end she didn't end up coming over but we skyped for most of the day. Something we do very often. We basically skype every day since we live about an hour away from each other.
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Now onto today. She usually takes her sister to dance lessons in a town that's midway between both of us. I'll go with so we can hang out in the area for a few hours together. Today, her parents would also be going, and they would be going to some stores together. She still wanted me to go but I felt a little uncomfortable and told her I'd see her tomorrow since we already made plans to. She get's really upset with me. She's saying I must have not wanted to see her and that I should want to since I haven't seen her in a while. But like I said 4 days in a row last weekend. We maybe get 4 days in 2 weeks usually. She goes on about how I must have thought she was stupid because she knows how to deal with her parents and that it wouldn't have been an issue.
She went on further to say I clearly just wanted to stay at home and play video games and that because the sex we had last weekend (It was kind of weird situation where we only had a little while to do it, in the end it wasn't too great for both of us and was short. We don't have sex super often and is obviously something we want more of, but it can lead to some quickies sometimes). She basically went on how because it wasn't great that now she's feel bad about herself, and that now she feels like she spends more time angry at me.
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I am trying to understand her as much as possible. But I really feel like the response I got was unwarranted. I know a relationship will always have it's arguments, but to me there events weren't really something that should have caused this much of an issue. I feel like the bad guy here and that it's all my fault, but my logical side says there's nothing blatantly horrible that i've done. So now I'm in this weird conflicted place and I don't know what to do.
As a brief note: There's some more background stuff I can go into about or relationship if anyone thinks more information is necessary. I'll add it in an edit.
tl;dr: Girlfriend has taken small quibbles/arguments into much more than they should be. I feel bad about everything but don't know what to do since I don't feel like the responses are warranted.
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What do you do to beat depression?
I've had it worse than I do right now, but this is the first time my depression has pushed me to be so inactive. I just sit on my couch and surf the internet all day. I can't be bothered to do anything. I don't feel sad or lonely anymore. Just... unmotivated. Everything bores me. I have zero passion anymore.
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Push yourself to do literally anything, stay active. It's going to kill you inside, but you have to push through it. Other options include therapy and medication. They don't work for everyone, but they might work for you. In my experience, you have to learn to live with it and try to fight it.
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Just getting into some kind of routine has helped me more than anything
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You have to force yourself to do things. At the very least you should shower and change your clothes and get chores done. You'll feel a little better when you're not just sitting in dirty clothes and a messy room with chores hanging over your head.
The best non-medicinal way to treat depression is to make sure you have enough of the following:
>sleep
>healthy food and enough water
>social activity
>exercise
>sunlight
>money to sustain yourself comfortably
>activities you find fulfilling
>emotional support
>safety and trust and being in a good life situation
The more of these you can tick off, the better. The absence of any of these contributes to depression, and the more you lack the worse off you tend to be.
If you have all of these checked and are still depressed, you probably have clinical depression caused by a chemical imbalance and will need medication to really treat it. Medication can also be used to be the kick in the butt you need to improve your life, but it's up to you whether you want to use it that way.
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Help me break up with my bf
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My bf and I are in our early 20s, dating for 3 years. For the past 10 months, hes been a huge dick. Flirting with other girls, telling people he had sex with them, talking shit about me to his friends, dismissing my depression and making me feel worse for it, mental/emotional abuse, etc.
I'm starting to really hate him and every time I try to break up with him, I either chicken out or he does/says something to make me come back to him. There's nothing enjoyable about the relationship anymore. Even the sex is really bad. I need help breaking up with him so I can enjoy life again.
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>>17220785
You a dude right?
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>>17220794
No I'm a girl
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>>17220785
>I need help breaking up with him so I can enjoy life again.
We can't solve your problems for you. Either you're going to grow some balls and stick up for yourself or you're going to get drawn back into his narcissistic shit. People like him choose weak people like you because you're easy to manipulate. And when you do go back to him, at some point, he's going to do something that will truly hurt you to the core. Stop being weak and block him on everything. He doesn't even deserve to know why he's blocked, although given his behavior, he should have a pretty good idea. Ghost him.
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How to deal with the fact that I missed the most amazing girl of the world for an absolutely ordinary guy ?
She's so amazing. And I will never date her . oh noo :/
I'm an apathetic life without issues and without a hectic life .. cool enough to impress and entertain her.. help me guys..
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turn a man
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anyone??
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>>17220774
Abduct her. Relationships are overrated
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Ive come to realize that older women love me. Im 23 and work at a coffee shop that involves a lot of interaction with women of all age groups.
I can strike a conversation with girls easily, but for some reason, older woman just eat my words up... i don't know what it is. They just love to openly flirt with me, and its got me thinking, should I look into being a male escort?
say I wanted to look into this, where should I start? I'm not opposed to the idea of sex work either. ideally, i would love to be a male companion, but if money was thrown on the table I think I would step it up a notch.
Im really intrigued by this and am open to hearing any tips or advice on how to do this
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These women get a little thrill out of harmless flirting with a younger man. This doesn't mean they want to hire one for it
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>>17220765
As a male escort all i have to say OP don't just take women you can make even more with men i mean if you are whoring ur self out why not rit? M80
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>>17220780
definitely, if men are willing to dish out, I'm down. I've had some gay men at my coffee shop come onto me as well. its my job to just talk it through, but Im no stranger to being hit on by men as well
>>17220772
well i wouldn't try to make any of the women at my place of work my clients. where can i go to find wealthier women in need? I live in the Bay Area in California
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People call me a paedophile but I'm not. It's not a solvable problem apart from for them if I'm arrested. Maybe I'm going to be?
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>>17220763
Why do people call you a pedo?
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>>17220777
It started 20 years ago, people have always called me names.
I suppose it's so they can be horrible to me.
It doesn't make any difference though. I get molested anyway, so they get to do what they want whether I am or not, so... that's ok then.
I do watch pornography and try to be as safe as I can which isn't always that easy.
google "really really older women that are definitely ok to see nude"?
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Like intrusive thoughts?
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Pros and Cons of moving in with your SO?
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You will know if he/she is a marriage prospect. (or at least long term relationship prospect)
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>>17220721
PRO: Do not have to leave the house for sex
CON: You cannot leave after sex
PRO: Sex with your SO.
CON: Cannot bring random hookups home.
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>>17220743
This.
When going over to your SO's place, you most likely pickup after yourself. When you live together you might do it as much and it might irritate your SO. Obviously this could go either way but when you live with anyone you see how they live and keep themselves. If you can't handle it or they can't then it's not gonna work in the end.
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I've had two dreams of my ex. The first one went like this, i was at a party and we ran into each other we got back together after talking about how much i missed her. The second dream we met in a park and just held eachother. I was so happy but then i woke up. We broke up because i was graduating and she thought she was moving. It's been about 11 months and i honestly think i love her. I need advice desperately.
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I'm beta, but all these threads are cringe. Move on, you're like 18?
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>>17220686
Tried moving on dated other girls but it's not the same. It's not the same feeling.
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>>17220682
Was it your first gf OP?
I got a group message on my phone that had a really retarded picture from facebook. The area code matched my area, so I thought It could be some family I haven't added to my contacts. I ask "who is this"
I got a reply in a separate text that said their name. I said my name, and that they had the wrong number.
Then they said "lg" I didn't know what this meant at first. After urban dictionarying that shit
I believe it stands for "little girl" or a promiscuous teenage girl. When I saw that I immediately replied "K" in order to hopefully end the conversation.
That's where the anxiety sat in, I'm scared I'm gonna get pinned for doing something with a minor. Being an idiot I immediately started cyber sleuthing that name and reversing some numbers to find if they even lived nearby. They live on the same side of town as me, and from multiple sources/profiles I found them to be as urban dictionary described, a promiscuous teen. They look to be about 13-14 and definitely wear shirts not fit for a young girl.
I'm scared shitless that someone is trying to engineer my arrest, or if its a real teen her parents will think I'm a molestor or something. If the police looked at my records theyd see I even searched the location of this person.
I'm even scared at this point of the worst case. The girl randomly sends nudes or something serious like that. How do I defend myself legally if this is a prank or a retarded teenager?
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let the cops know about her?
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>>17220620
What would I even say to the cops? I'm a 21 year old male, so it would be really hard not to look fucking suspicious as fuck.
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>>17220624
Also let me add, if I talked to ANYONE about this who can identify me easily - its most certainly going to be a lawyer if someone is trying to frame me. That's most likely an irrational fear at this point, and hopefully I wont hear any more form this person.
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Hello /adv/, lawfag here. Ask a lawyer. Canada law and family law are my primary fields. If you ask a legal question, please tell me what country you're from.
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Is it illegal to discuss the topic of holocaust denial in the UK, and raise awareness for it?
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>>17220526
From the US
Need an inhaler and can't afford the brands here.
What's the law for ordering online without a Rx and do you recommend anything in particular.
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>>17220546
I believe it is against the law, but it happens all the time anyway. Maybe some of it gets stopped during shipping, but they can't search anything.
I don't know if this helps, but here are some links I found on the subject:
http://motherboard.vice.com/read/why-i-had-to-buy-my-wifes-inhaler-on-the-dark-web
https://www.reddit.com/r/Asthma/comments/3u6399/any_advice_where_i_can_buy_inhalers_online/
There are plenty of online pharmacies, you can find them easily enough with a quick search.
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How?
Let me give you guys a quick summary of my past and present: currently, I'm 20 years old (NEET, but starting a training course soon to go into work), male and single (not a virgin).
I was in a relationship for 2 years, and I feel like during those 2 years I forgot how to talk to women. The relationship I was in was comfy as fuck, and I didn't have to try hard to be someone I'm not to impress my girlfriend at the time. My social status changed drastically, I cut off contact with at least a thousand people (I used to go out a lot), and now I'm stuck because I find it hard to meet women.
I've attempted dating women off Tinder for the past year - 1 meetup was successful, we fucked for a few months but stopped talking, the other one was a complete shambles (we went on a first date, things seemed okay then after we parted ways she completely ghosted me).
I don't know how to confront women or what to say to them. I'm not witty at all, and I suck at breaking the ice. The only things I'm passionate about are politics, outdoor leisure and nature (in other words, boring shit that no woman cares about).
Can you guys tell me how to speak to women? People tell me to be myself, but if I be myself then that means being an unfunny, boring twat
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hump
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shameless bump pls help
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bump for interest