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>>17214581
>"He's the pure embodiment of indifference" - Friend describing me to roommate (Roommate was asking if some of her behaviors would bother me)
there it is.

control your space and make it what you want. fuck anything or anyone that enters it and doesn't respect it. if you truly have no preferences for how people treat your space I could interpret that as a lack of solid personality, or an acceptance of whatever people do to you. that make sense. it's pretty late and I'm pretty tired so idk.

>>17214581
I wouldn't worry about it too much. You yourself said you get unfazed when you're insulted. I would say they're just being nosy ass people looking for a meaning in something that isn't there.

As i said before, You know yourself the best, don't let peoples half-baked opinion tell you otherwise. Life can't be summed in banter. You seem like the analytical type too, do you notice any weakness?

nah, you're ok as you are. you are already doing good with everyday social interactions, so there's nothing to worry there

just use your time to pursue things and people that are interesting to you. then you'll be tangle in events that are relevant to you and you'll stop worrying about this

>>17214546

once you go bi
you regret it till u die

think about that

>>17214546
If you have any sliver of doubt, don't do it. I don't think you should push yourself to do something new, especially if it's as personal as sex and you're nervous about it.

At least wait until the desire outweighs the fear/uncertainty. You homosexual

>>17214568
Why is that?

Dude you sound just like me. I avoid people who are interested in me, and I freak out when someone asks me out for a date, even when it's just something super casual like having a coffee etc. I don't have a problem with hanging out with guys as bros (I'm a femanon), and when I become friends with a guy I usually try to make clear from the beginning that I'm not interested in any romantic or sexual form of relationship, because I know how I start to act when I realize someone's into me and I don’t want to hurt people.

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>>17214544

See a therapist. You have some sort of issue with intimacy that's obviously scaring you. Reacting so viscerally to the idea that someone is interested in you romantically is extremely unhealthy.

>>17214773
>have good male friend
>we plan on doing some road trip to france with other mutual friend this summer after university exams(we're eurofags)
>anonina drops a few hints that he is into me
>ohfuck.jpg
>"hey…uhmmm… I can't go to france with you, I have to stay at my parents place in anontown babysitting the cat while they're at vacation, and to be honest I prefer sitting on the sofa eating pizza playing vidya and cuddling the cat over traveling after my exams"
>he hasn't replied to my text in 4 days
I'm an asshole I guess

I get it sometimes too. If its bright red, I wouldn't worry about it. Rectal skin is probably irritated and you might indeed be wiping hard, but I understand the desire of complete cleanliness.

If it's "dark" red, or if the bright blood persists for 2 weeks going on 3, go to a doctor and tell him you get blood from your stools

>>17214557
Drink more water or have a change in diet/nutrition to fix the irritation of your inner skin membrane

>>17214557
Alright anon, thanks.
I will buy softer toilet paper maybe that helps.

>>17214501
>What are the genders of you two and where do you guys lives?
I'm a girl, I met 3 guys and a girl. Three of them lived 500/700 km away but still in my country, one of them lives in another country, 2000 km away from me. All in Europe.
> What are some tips regarding staying safe?
Before meeting - Know them long enough. Videocall on skype. Check their identity.
At the meeting - Meet in a public place. Tell someone where you're going and who you're going with.
>Did you eventually trust your online friend? How did you learn to do so?
Yes. I am not an untrusting person to begin with.
What they said made sense, they never lied to me. I had ways to check their identity (facebook, they gave me their address, etc). We had known each other for years. We talked on the phone/skype for long.
>How many times do you have to meet irl to trust the other person?
I trusted them even before meeting them. Two of them had my home address before we even met.
The 2nd time I met them I was sleeping at their place.

>>17214624
>they gave me their address
How do you know it was really them? Can be a creep's home
>The 2nd time I met them I was sleeping at their place
You slept at the guys' home while you havr only met them once before? Do you havr feelings for your male onlije friends?

>>17214639
>How do you know it was really them? Can be a creep's home.
A creep wouldn't really give me his home address. If they tried to hurt me, they could find them in literally 20 seconds with name, surname, home address and phone number. It'd be a silly move.
Also looking up the addresses online it was registered to someone with their family name (their parents). It was the address of a house. It was connected to the phone number they gave me.
Everything made sense.

>You slept at the guys' home while you have only met them once before?
Yes.I knew them for years online, and we spent some time together in person, so I trusted them.

>Do you have feelings for your male online friends?
One became my boyfriend, we have been together for 7 years and half now, so I definitely have feelings for him.
Other two are just friends, I met one of them 3 years ago and the other 1 year ago.

>>17214411
Are you really that broke? Can't use a credit card? Ask for alternate payment options like monthly installments? This will only get worse and consequently more expensive

Cranberry pills not juice can fix it if it is a bladder infection and you need to drink a lot of water too.

>>17214429
yes im that broke don't have a credit card not everyone is well off

just be cute and it'll make up for it

>>17214332
Don't girls like guys that can 'handle things' and make her feel safe?

>>17214338
yeah, but that's why you go gay

yes, you're pretty much fucked

>>17214320
Wait, how so?

>>17214313
>Is it ok to ind
no, you'll get into loads of trouble with it eventually

think of something more healthy

How do you know if you do or do not want to marry them without getting to know them?

No, you're not being too picky. You're being a man, welcome to adulthood my friend.

>>17214303
I do get to know them but like I said, it's been a while since I met a girl that was up to my standards.

The reason I don't date girls I don't want to marry is because I see marriage as the end goal of dating. Dunno if other people see it that way.

All of you are shitty people. That's my only thought on it 2bh

I've never been in a fight before. but I'm in the best shape of my life and I actually have enough rage to fuck this guy up. he's 3 yrs younger than me shorter skinnier etc but I didn't tell him any insults like he expected. should I tell him I'm still fucking"his girl"

oh and also she's been staying with him and she mentioned that he grabbed her and threw her on the couch and now her arm keeps hurting her to move it. do you think that is suspicious??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhKGtgcZghc

>>17214181
You have empathy, you are human. There's no need to stop it. Life is cruel but we need more people who have a heart, who can shed tears for others.

Nihilism.

pornhub

Do alot of drugs, and drink alot of alcohol.

>>17214095
Hookers, drugs, having interesting hobbies.

Something you don't have.

>>17214074
At least tell me what it is

Having unanimous respect and authority in a social group. Basically, confidence and assertiveness.

it's not 'unfair' just creepy as fuck and autistic to the max

>>17213892
It's not creepy, it's cute.

>>17213917

How is it autistic? We live in a world where women are nearly unapproachable in settings that AREN'T bars or clubs. Its fucking shit. So I have to use the one advantage I do have which is information.

how do i find out if my dad was covered by WSIB? the Workers Compensation Board

>>17213662
That's an odd question. I'd need to know why you need to know. And how old you are.

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