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tl;dr Ex boyfriend keeps making contact and I don't know what to do
>dated for 5 years
>horrific break-up where he started to love someone else and I cheated on him
>regretted it and understood I made a horrible mistake
>we both decided it would be best to break up
>I keep trying to make contact every couple of months and we talk like the old times, but then he leaves because he can't forgive me
>don't date anyone else, it's been 2 years
>we met at a party for NYE and spent the entire time talking
>he said he missed me, but could never be with me again and I told him I still loved him
>he cut all contact with me and moved on
>get a call from him today, said he didn't know why he wanted to talk but just wanted to hear my voice
>we watched some videos, talked and joked for about 7 hours
>we didn't talk about our feelings or anything, we just talked about anything
I understand that people probably won't be able to help; but what does this mean? I miss talking to him, but I think I'm finally over him and I know that he can't forgive me and won't want me back. I don't think I want to be with him, but I just miss talking with him and doing stuff with him. Was this just a one off? Was him contact me a sign that he wants to talk to me?
I know I'm going to get some /r9k/ responses about how I'm scum and how all women cheat, but I'd appreciate any help
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>>17245622
Maybe you both just have a hard time letting go? It doesn't sound like you want to be together, but more so that you want **someone** to be with. You can't find that someone elsewhere, so you turn to each other. - At least that's my take on it.
How come you haven't dated anyone else?
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>>17245622
Cut off contact with him. He committed emotional infidelity, which is as much cheating as sex with another.
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>>17245628
I sort of slumped into a mild "depression", so I didn't look for anyone. I really loved him and when he told me he loved someone else I lashed out and cheated and I never really got over that I did that.
Any time someone came close I just compared them to him
Ok so my girlfriend says she wants me to have sex with her while she's on her period. We've never had sex while she's been on her period because it doesn't really seem that appealing to me. But ive started to reconsider it ever she brought it up. So my questions to you guys are: how is it to have sex with your partner while she's on her period? Is it a total turn off or is it not that big of a deal? Also, how is it to go down on your partner while she's on her period?
And a question to the femanons: would you like to have sex while on your period? If you already have, how is it?
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Male here, I personally dont enjoy it as much as "normal" sex since its not that wet, and a bit harder to penetrate, still worth it though. If you foreplay enough it shouldnt be a trouble, if so try using lube idk.
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>>17245621
That's so weird. I guess she's in the "almost over" stage of period where the excruciating pain and cloudiness of mind dissappears and the horniness begins.
> And a question to the femanons: would you like to have sex while on your period? If you already have, how is it?
I've had sex on my period because it was my exs birthday. It hurt a lot, wasn't enjoyable physically at all. Then again all sex with him was really bad but this one was especially bad because I was still hurting from the inflammation.
Current bf couldn't hold it together and wanted to give me head so much, he did it when I was right at the end of bleeding. I was worried about him and I didn't want to disgust him, but he didn't seem to mind.
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It isn't that different from normal sex, you just need some precautions. We'll usually put a few towels down/keep some wetwipes near the side of the bed. If you don't want blood on your dick just use a condom, though it'll probably get on you anyways. Even if a girl is on her period she can still get "wet", you just have to turn her on enough, so lubrication shouldn't be an issue. You can always use lube, too. Sex can help with cramps as well. If you don't make it a big deal and just go in the shower/wipe up afterwards it's fine.
Oral is just a no-go for me personally, the ick-factor is too high even though I've thought about it
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>31
>No education, job skills, or savings.
>Crushing depression, though able to function at the menial jobs I've held.
>Kissless virgin. Would be dateless too, but sister tried to set me up with one of her friends a decade and a half ago.
>Hadn't felt driven or alive for decades.
>Find out dream girl exists.
>Feel motivated to exercise, quit soda, and look into trades.
>Feel fucking alive for the first time since I was a kid.
>E-mail back and forth with her, she's everything I'd ever hoped to find.
>She lives a third of the globe away, in a country that doesn't speak my language, but that seems like nothing after a decade of gnawing emptiness.
>She has someone. Married infact.
>Die a little more inside. Try to stay optimistic when writing her.
>Motivation slowly fades.
>Can feel the darkness laughing in the back of my skull.
>Try to keep moving forward.
>Try a couple dating sites.
>The only messages I get back are scammers, bots and cam-whores trying to fleece what little money I do have.
>Back to feeling like there's nothing in this world for me. That no one will ever need me That I'm surplus to requirement, simply waiting for the junk collector to arrive.
Why don't I feel like I can succeed for myself?
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because you have no drive. improve yourself and the rest will come naturally.
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>Find out dream girl exists.
>She lives a third of the globe away, in a country that doesn't speak my language, but that seems like nothing after a decade of gnawing emptiness.
sounds like you're stupid. just dumb as shit.
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>>17245653
yes. stupid that he thought he was going to be with a woman hapf way around the world when he doesnt have his life in order. as i said. if he improves himself the rest will come naturally.
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GF said if I got fat she would dump me. I asked if she was serious and she said yes.
Would it be a dick move for me to break up with her? She said this over text (during a convo, no point in sharing the context), and I haven't responded since she said she was serious.
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>>17245522
Obviously she is a shallow Stacy and has been letting Chad pound her whenever you fall into a trance and stare at vending machines for the entirety of your relationship.
Leave her before she takes his seed and saddles you with his sire.
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>>17245522
Have there been any other reasons to break up with her or are you simply very offended, at her comment?
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>>17245522
I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years.
I told her from the start that if she go fat I would dump her.
long story short:
was getting close with a girl. first she put lots of interest in me. Somehow it started to turn and I gave more effort than she did. Until she's gone pretty cold, but not in ignoring way. Cold in a "if he writes I'll answer, but I won't start"
Asked her out and had lunch.
in the evening a friend of mine called me and told me that she was talking to her roomfriend that she just wants to be friends with me.
She did not tell me that, but like I said, it feels like it. She does not put effort in me. I got confused, cause I was wondering why she did not refuse to eat lunch with me, although she knows that I'm sexually interested in her.
so what to do? it feels like she's playing with me and wants to keep me on fire just pro forma.
Should I ignore her fully? Should I just go cold too and let her do effort and just react to it?
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>>17245506
>I got confused, cause I was wondering why she did not refuse to eat lunch with me
Well it doesn't sound like you've actually asked her out on a date, so as far as she's concerned, it was just two friends grabbing lunch
>although she knows that I'm sexually interested in her.
How do you know this?
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>>17245506
Yes, she's using you.
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Shes probably waiting for an ex to come crawling back to her
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I don't want a kid, but I have an impregnation fetish. Just a general semen fetish, but more impregnation. I use the patch BC but my boyfriend still is iffy about it. Is there another way?
Sorry if I sound disgusting.
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Why the patch? Just due to it's relative ineffectiveness? What's stopping you from just taking birth control and botching that up?
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>>17245486
I cannot remember to take pills, and I cannot risk that. I also have a phobia of needles, but I might just use that instead.
I just know that he doesn't trust BC at all, regardless of the type.
Maybe if I change, his thinking will change too.
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>>17245496
>I cannot remember to take pills
>I cannot be trusted to maintain birth control effectively
>I have an impregnation fetish and want my boyfriend to cum inside me
>I swear I don't want a baby though, tee tee
Yeah, if I was your boyfriend, I'd be running for the hills right about now
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Got a summer job but I have a one week vacation planned about a month after I start working. Should I tell my boss right away or wait until I get settled in a bit?
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>>17245474
Immediately. Ideally before you even start.
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You should have told them this in the interview. Don't be surprised if they ditch you, btw
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>>17245481
I always do this when I start a new job, even if it's a lie. When I'm offered a position and they really want me I say something along the lines of "I wasn't expecting to start working this early I have a trip planned" and get some nice, early paid vacation.
But yeah OP, tell them before you start working.
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oi /adv! i need some advice for hiding weed when i'm outside, carrying it. could you guys please give me some sneaky ideas?
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1. Put your weed inside a backpack.
2. Put the backpack on your back.
- Female Version -
1. Put your weed in your purse.
2. Carry your purse
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You cant get any sneakier than the rectum.
Under ordinary circumstances, >>17245479 will suffice.
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>>17245471
Why would you do that?
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Hi! I'm X and I want to tell you about one thing that happened to me, so you could help me to take revenge (Nothing of physical hurt). I'm not from an english-speaker country, so don't judge my english.
At the beginning of school year I met Y, a pretty girl, and she started concentrating on me and speak to me, and some fellas told me that maybe she likes me. I didn't like her until December or January. Then we started dating but not like a romantic date, just like friends. I never had the value to say nothing about that, or try nothing.
In spite of saying to you that I'm 15 years old and still I have given not even my first kiss... In fact, I still have not even any girlfriend in my life. And I'm not ugly, fat, or anything like that. I'm normal, well, I'm intellectually gifted, not like A Beautiful Mind, or Good Will Hunting, but pretty pretty smart.
Well, so, in February, I told her that I like her and... Nothing. She sent me directly to the Friendzone. And, about two weeks ago, we met to see a film at my house and... She brought a boy naves Z with her. I opened the door and I saw them and:
Y: Hi, X! I bring Z with me, doesn't matter, Yah?
X: Ahh, no, well, no, doesn't matter.
We were seeing Children Of Men and then... They started hooking up. And I didn't say nothing but it really hurts to me. After they went away, I swear for my fist, that I gave a punch to a wall and did a hole in it.
And now I want to avenge, I only want some ideas, please. Thanks.
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>>17245460
You know what? Let it go. Seriously.
It hurts and we all know that. Most of us have been there and have likely had the wrong reaction to it. I'm telling you, from experience, don't go and do something stupid. Relax and take some time off.
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They started fucking in front of you in your house? That's what you say? Please confirm.
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>>17245498
No, men, just kissing and that shit.
But I just laught pretty hard with your comment.
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Work or continue college meme?
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I'm at a fork in the road and idk what the fuck to do.
I've been in college for 2 years working on a nursing degree and have nothing to show for it but some college credits and a ton of financial and academic stress.
I live in southeast TX and there's a TON of industrial work in this area that pays great. Anyways, one of my friends works for an industrial contractor (Martin Marietta) and told me he could get me a job operating a concrete mixer truck for about $22/hr, full benefits, "rain out" job so if it rains you just stay home and still get paid for 8 hrs, paid vacation and holidays, as much overtime as you want, etc.
And then on the other hand I have 2 and a half YEARS of school left for my nursing degree, where a fresh grad nurse can expect to make about $25/hr in this area.
I'm really torn, the concrete job is honestly so fucking tempting. The only thing holding me back is that it wouldn't exactly be the fulfilling, lifesaving, gratifying thing I wanted to do with nursing.
TLDR: $22/hr job now with great benefits, or continue college meme for 2 and a half more years for $25/hr
also note that with either path, I want to start my own business once marijuana is medically/recreationally legalized in TX, so would I be better of just taking the concrete job while I wait?
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Why can't you work the mixer job and go to school at the same time?
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>>17245512
wouldn't be able to attend clinical hours with a full time schedule
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>>17245459
Industrial jobs are disappearing. Construction work dies during recessions. There are signs that the economy never truly recovered and is heading for another bad run. Finish school. Search for a part-time construction job that fits around clinical hours.
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I'm sitting in a Burger King in a small Wisconsin town. Two women sitting across from me have described Twitter as "the sewer of the internet or at least close to it." One believes Trump "always surrounds himself with smart people."
How can I eat my onion rings in piece?
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offer them your onion rings and tell them to have a nice day
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>>17245434
Now one of them is saying George W. Bush was a much better president than he's given credit for.
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>>17245437
I will never surrender my onion rings. They are my constitutional right.
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You might have better luck, if you make the form anonymous. Having to login and reveal ones identity, is kind of a deal-breaker. There's a reason we hang out anonymously.
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>>17245430
What's this study about? Is this for a class? What are you hoping to find? Where are you from?
Also
>Requires us to sign in with our google account
Heck no. I write on an anonymous forum for a reason.
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>>17245442
I just now realized that my identity will not be revealed. (Google told me.)
My apologies!
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Hi /adv/, I need help with a dilemma.
Theres this girl (classmate), I cant stop thnking about her and I really like her. We've been at some parties together with our mutual friends, most of the party we didnt talk(chatted for just a while), but in the end we slept in the same bed. I know she likes me too, I just dont how much. Next week theres another party with her. Do I tell her here how I feel, that I love her etc. or is it better to ask her out somewhere first(walk or smth)? We're both 18.
Sorry for my english, im from yurop. Pic unrelated.
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>>17245423
Don't tell her you love her you sperg.
Just ask her out.
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>>17245423
There's a party, you'll be drinking, and you know she likes you (in one way or another). Have you considered waiting for her to get a little tipsy, find the right time, and move in for a kiss?
It's quite a common misunderstanding, that you have to **tell** her how you feel. Just show her!
If she's awkward about it, tell her that it was stupid of you to drink that much. Sure, blaming it on the alcohol isn't exactly brave, but I've found that it can get a laugh out of an otherwise tricky situation.
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>>17245431
Yeah but its fucking weird and akward just asking her for a walk. Its a small town with couple of villages nearby, not much other options to go.
>>17245436
thats actually not a bad idea. It'd be better if we were alone, right?
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life falling apart/ confused idk
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disclaimer: this is my first time on 4chan so i dont know how everything works exactly, just trying to maybe vent a little and get feedback.
im 16, white, and i feel like my life is pretty shitty. yeah i know others have it worse probably but to each their own. Here goes, ever since i was really young my parents have always had problems. they got married at a young age and i was born when they were in their early 20's and my brother around 4 years later. they never finished school and we have always lived in 2 bedroom apartments. money has always been an issue but we manage to pull through. i know my father had problems of his own when he was younger and because of it he's somewhat messed up in the head, psychological problems. he was abandoned by his parents and some other things, i dont know exactly. Parents always argue and sometimes get pretty violent, physical violence. they always get separated for a while but then they get back together, I'll never understand why but maybe money issues or something. police have showed up where i live multiple times. I'm getting tired or living like this, I can't have a normal life or go out with friends out of fear that something might happen while I'm away. I've lived like this practically all my life and my brother all his life for sure. my younger brother is practically a shut in that plays video games all day and has no respect for anyone always screaming and yelling to get what he wants. its gotten pretty bad in recent years and its really affecting me. my grades are slowly dropping and i feel depressed all the time. some of my friends notice and always ask if im okay and i always brush it off as just being tired or stayed up too late or something like that. problems have really been escalating recently and we might get kicked out from where we live from neighbors calling police over loud arguments. i really need to do something before i explode or go crazy. idk if i should drop out and find a job or kms, confused advi?
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First off: 18+ website.
Now for my advice: You have your whole life ahead of you and TRUST me these are the most pivotal years of your life, from now till you hit you early 20's. DO NOT LET ANYTHING GET IN THE WAY OF YOU GETTING A GOOD LIFE FOR YOURSELF.
Study, make good choices and work hard.
I had a similar childhood (I'm 23, btw), although in my case it seems it was not as aggressive. In your scenario I was your younger brother, and my big bro was the one handling most issues. In my case, things worked themselves out as they grew older and mellower and now even though they still have their differences they rarely get into big fights and it never passes from the verbal. It will also help that as time passes you and your brother will physically overpower your parents so you two should serve as a deterrent to actual fights pretty soon. Sooner than you may think.
Just try to hang in there four a couple more years as your body matures and your parents' deteriorate. If, in the end, they don't end up mellowing out just be an adult and deal with the situation with the police.
Again, you have your whole life ahead of you and you need to make good decisions starting now, don't let your parents' problems sabotage your life.
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>>17245419
Well your supposed to be 18 to post on this site
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>>17245457
Thank you, I'm sorry yeah I shouldn't be posting on this site but I don't know who to turn to honestly. I'll take your words to heart and be as positive as possible and try to live out my life. Thank you again, I hate to sound needy or asking for attention but really thank you
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Hey /adv/, can a 22 year old sue his/her father for unpaid child support while living independently? He divorced my mom when i was 6 and started a new family that he also could not support financially and is living with my grandma (he's 50.) He's made very little effort to raise me and has a pattern for unreliability; even confessing over the phone numerous times that I'm owed a lot of child support. I'm barely getting by in life while living on my own and aimed to be a full-time student, but my mom is unstable to live with and has abusive tendencies. Am I eligible for compensation?
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You're a disgusting person.
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>>17245403
debatable and irreverent.
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That money is for your mother, not you.
So no.