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>>17242486
Everyone is selfish, learn to embrace it. I'd deal drugs from my parent's house if they allowed it, just to make money. Money lets you have everything you need, so you can focus on what you want.

That is why everyone wants it. I want to buy my own house. I want a car. I want to take a holiday every 3 months to a different country.
All of this needs money.

I don't have any problem with it because I understand everyone else is thinking how I am, some are just more determined to reach the goal faster - criminals and corrupt bankers and the likes

That's how I cope.

>>17242486

You grew up in a wealthy family, didn't you?

>>17242701
I can't bring myself to want to embrace it, or want to do things that takes advantage of others. I've lived in fantasy so much and for so long it's made me very numb to these things and bad at them.

>>17242703
Not at all. More like I never really wanted much in my life.

>>17237378
I know that if she would just give me a chance I would show her that everything is okay and that we haven't changed as much as she thinks we have, but she won't even try.

It's hard really loving someone and not being able to show them.

We were doing fine just two weeks ago. Why break up all of a sudden? If long distance was too hard I understand, but we made a promise. Was I just a crutch to lean on until I wasn't within arm's reach?

>>17236925
>this is a major character flaw,but i compare myself to other girls
Don't worry so much about it.
I'm not exactly great with people, but from all I've seen, every girl struggles with this sometimes.
Even the most beautiful, intelligent, and interesting, who have no "better option" to be afraid of!

>>17237028
That's great, man. Don't fuck it up, try to be the man she deserves.

>>17246233
If you really like her, ask her out and risk rejection.
If you just want her because you're lonely, find someone you actually like.

>>17246264
>OP
Right now I really just want to get to know her better, then decide whether or not I'll ask her out.
Also, I said I was comfortable with being single, but I'm not really lonely

>>17246287
I wasn't sure if you were "comfortable being single" or legitimately comfortable being single.
And isn't dating how you get to know someone? Personalities always seem a bit different online so you should really just ask her out before you build up a specific image of her.

Is it best to be just like everyone else? Should I get a tattoo to show how unique and special I am, but maybe some Chinese symbol so I fit in with everybody?

For real?
Meditation helped me a ton. I finally understand the concept of "forgiveness", which before I thought was a cuck response, but now I see is about accepting what's happened and moving forward by letting go of your attachment to the past. It doesn't mean you forget what happened, only that it cannot be changed and the only option is to deal with the situation as it is now.

>>17246086
I never understood meditation. You just sit cross-legged and chant "ohm" repeatedly?

>>17246016
You sound like a 5 year old that never grew up

It's called envy, dude.
I feel worse when i look on happy couples too, a fate of a kissless virgin

>I'm bitter that I'll be alone forever and I'm not afraid to show it

>10
>high

desu in this day and age that's normal

ive only had sex with one person, my bf, but I feel like that's extremely rate

>>17245973
It is high.
Also this thread is guaranteed 200 replies

These are Seinfeld problems man

>>17245972
Stop being so negative--you're already imagining the worst. Live in the present, and just focus on being calm, doing the job correctly, and take it one day at a time! GL with the new job!

>>17246050

Nah he's not imagining the worst yet.

OP, what if one of your patients died under anesthesia, and your girlfriend's father is convinced it's your fault because you administered it wrong? What if the patient has children and they all grow up blaming you?

Careful, you could impregnate her again and end up paying child support for both babies

probably

>>17245784
Or he could end up getting both pregnant. Don't do it OP.

Some things in life you cannot change no matter how hard you try, just accept it for what it is and try to find happiness with it being part of your life.

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You're not giving us much to work with here if you want advice. Do you at least have some idea of why people treat you like that?

>>17245806
A side question attempting not to disturb. I really like your GIF. Do you use it often?

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>>17245744
2/2 cont.

I don't have proof of her and another guy other than last Saturday night her and her old friends hung out at her place while their parents were out. She called me during this time but it was very on-off (called and talked for 15 mins, then had to hang up for a bit then called back). During the start of this there was supposedly 5 people at her house, I think 2 of them were guys. She called one time and said she was in bed and about to go sleep in 10 mins, I can hear a girls voice in the background. 5 minutes into the convo she says she'll call be back and then goes "oh shit" and then the phone drops. We text 1 hour later and then she calls me, she said her parents were back and asleep and most of her friends had left and I could hear 1 guy and 1 girl in the back ground and she said she was watching a movie downstairs (she was narrating what was happening in the movie so I believe this part and she had snapchats of her and her girl friend watching the movie but the dude wasn't in it).

Also on Thursday when we were talking on snapchat and towards the end I asked what she was up to. She replies an hour later with a picture of her and her cleavage saying "I dunno why I'm up so late at night". I couldn't double check but I swear her snapchat number (total number of snaps you have received/sent) went up by two. Meaning she sent that cleavage photo to me and someone else (or I was just seeing things, it was 3am at the time).

What should I do then lads? I was thinking maybe sending her snapchat today and say I'm planning to call her later tonight and then call, but there's a high chance she won't pick up.

I could just wait until I see her at school on Monday (next week is our last week of school).

Any of you guys know what the hell is going on between me and her? (either one of the 3 things I said before or something entirely different?).

If any of you anons actually read this whole text, thanks! and big thanks if you reply.

fucking hell op, TLDR lad, wow

I'm not fucking reading that

Depends what was the accident?

Also be yourself, not everyone has to be a superstar.

>>17245716
My best bud living with me ended up killing himself. I got depressed and stopped being a people person. Got shy and low self esteem.

I used to be super bubbly, confident and outgoing

>I used to be super bubbly
gee, I wonder why someone who lived with you would want to kill themselves

Learn a language, read books, play video games, hang out with friend (though I'm guessing you don't have any)

Simple as this
>don't let days go to waste
>split time between your friends and girlfriend
Few tips
>shower every morning
>eat healthy
>get a cup of coffee every morning and make friends with the bartender at the closest bar
>get a beer in the early afternoon with your buddy and make plans for the night
>get buzzed every night but get wasted every few
>don't spend too much money
>don't trust anyone or take anything seriously

>>17245702
> hang out with friend (though I'm guessing you don't have any)
I do have friends but they're all gonna be busy as fuck with work. We only hang out in the weekends so most days I'm gonna be trapped inside. Will be probably try to learn a computer language (Python maybe)
>>17245712
Good tips, thanks mane.
>tfw drinking age is 21 in america

I don't think children are capable of love in the sense of adult romantic relationships, and I think it's abnormal for an adult to hang on to these feelings.

>>17245690
Did you actually compare the two?
Some adult romantic relationships are shallow, superficial and immature so i don't see a problem.

Childhood romance may be immature but at least you are liked for who you are.

>>17245710
You're barely even a person when you're a kid

>>17245667
Some property management companies require tenants to earn three times rent.

I don't get it, why do you need a loan if you just want to rent?

>>17245667
myself I would start saving up and wait 2 or 3 years before going for a loan/mortgage

to be honest with ya i'm 33 iv worked in some real shity paying jobs and not have enough to save up for a place of my own its hard saving up

try /an/

>>17245636
Get off the internet and take him now. If it's closed go to the police station.

Alternatively, masturbate into his mouth and let him suckle on your semen of sustenance.

>>17245649
this desu except for the second part