Sex related dilemma:
So here's the deal. Got a girlfriend of a few years, she's great, love her lots, blah blah.
Obviously when we first got together we fucked all the time and we fucked less as time went on. Normal for people as they get older and more used to each other; I'm not worried about that.
Lately though, as in, within the past few months, I've been underperforming in the bedroom, but not in the way you might think. See, SHE has no problems in the bedroom at all, she always cums, often multiple times, and always ends up happy. I don't have any problem getting hard, and I don't need any advice on how to please her.
My issue is that lately sex is becoming so physically exhausting that I can't continue doing it until I cum too, and I almost always just end up saying, "Gotta stop. Too tired." and she feels sorry for me.
We used to be able to fuck for hours, and now I feel like giving up after 30 minutes. Last few times we fucked she came multiple times but then I just had to roll over and hyperventilate.
The last time I remember actually fucking until cumming, I had to leave the room right after and go throw up because of the physical exertion.
What's my deal? Am I just not getting enough water? Am I out of shape? My girlfriend has put on some weight so moving her around and lifting her is harder work than it used to be, so should I tell her to work on it? Should I just fap less or something?
I got no dick problems, and whenever I give up, I'm still hard as a rock and wishing I could keep going, so I can't just pop some penis pills and call it a day, because that's clearly not the issue.
Thoughts?
cardio
>>17245349
Try positions when girl is on top.
Also it seems like you are getting weak / old / pathetic, do
>>17245392
aka run / walk / swim.
You have poor stamina
It might be your diet, a medical condition(rare but possible), sedentarism, etc
I suggest going to a doctor if you think it could be a health problem, if not, a nutritionist will solve your problem
just took a depression test and got these results. how fucked am i?
>>17245295
Where did you take it?
>>17245295
How about you go to a doctor instead of using an online test that holds little to know value?
>>17245299
http://www.depressedtest.com/
A complete weasel and a great drinking buddy owes me some money. How do I ask for it back without coming off like an annoying nag?
Depends how much money it is. If it's money you NEED, if he's fucking with your rent/bills, get up in his face as much as you need to. He knows better. He didn't forget.
If it's a small amount of money, just never lend/cover his drinks again until he pays you back. Next time you go out together, just say "drinks are on you, you still owe me," something like that.
>>17245250
Ask for him to pay for rounds of beer. Say it with a smile and a laugh
>>17245264
>>17245265
Well, it's about three beers' worth, so that'll work splendid.
Shit, y'all actually solved my problems, in 5 minutes flat.
So I broke up with my girlfriend of three years about a month ago and I can't stand the loneliness. I want to meet someone but have absolutely no idea how. I'm not old enough to go to bars, I can't just meet people on the street without looking like a desperate creep, and I refuse to look for someone online. Does anyone have any advice? i need to find someone, I can't stop thinking about her and it's killing me, especially since I'm the one who broke up with her.
Do you have any interests?
A friend of mine met a girl playing a videogame, and it is probably easy to find someone with similar interests. You won't look like a creep, just don't try too hard.
>>17245375
I have interests but they're not particularly social, writing, video games, music. Even when I'm with friends, we don't go out, we just kind of smoke and listen to stuff.
>>17245493
whats wrong with online dating?
I'd been with my boyfriend for 5 years when i broke up with him back in January. He'd been going through a rough time for about 9 months, since he told me he'd been sexually abused by his grandmother as a child.
At first I felt so relieved to be away from him, but then i started to miss him. He's finally getting help, and we are talking about getting back together. I feel like I should run away from this fast, but i still love him so much. Anyone who have similar experiences or can relate?
>>17245195
yep. had a few gfs like that. not my job to fix them. got out of there.
>>17245199
What was the biggest reason for leaving?
>>17245199
this guy seems sadly right
I had gf with rape trauma, she would behave like a bitch and the play a victim and blame everything on the rape she went through
I thought I can heal her but it became an excuse for totally unacceptable shit. I always like to believe that there is a chance for those poor people but I always learn it the hard way that shit is beyond me
On the side, what do you think anons, do such people can ever get "normal" and make a good relationship? Any stories?
How do I stop being a douche? I'm a big self-important tool with delusions of grandeur.
Marcus Aurelius - meditations
Anything in stoicism really
Well given that narcissism is often a personality trait, you'd need some serious help to stop being a dick
>>17245209
yea usually its a couple ass woopings that bring you back to earth.
Is it possible not to love another person "just because" the timing is not right? You like this person but you have problems at work, or with your family, etc, and somehow you don't feel like loving someone, even though you like him/her.
Or is it true that a person will love you no matter what bla bla? What do you think, /adv/?
Due to family issues and lif problems, I was basically forced to stop talking to the girl I really liked. Worst part was I hurt her and myself in the process, I couldn't with good conscience try bring her into my life when it was going downhill so fast.
I wanted to be with her, part of me still does, but sometimes life gets in the way.
>>17245201
Thanks for sharing your experience :)
>>17245161
Me and my ex had bad timing, although we had a good time for the most part it was just really bad timing. There is a such thing as bad timing I think but I mean that's just life. If you really want to make it work I think you can.
>At bar with the wife
>Meet a cute college girl
>A little young for us but seems into us
>Pile into a lyft together
>Making out in the backseat on the way to our place
>Have another drink
>Move to the bedroom
>Things going fine
>She asks if we have lube
>Tell her its in the top dresser drawer
>She freezes and says "what the fuck"
>Freaks out that theres a pistol in a holster in the drawer
>We all get dressed
>She leaves, won't even let us call her a cab
Am I just completely out of step, or did she overreact?
>>17245099
Overreacted indeed.
Some people just don't handle guns very well, unfortunately.
>>17245108
This. City folks only see guns when they're getting robbed, or on the news when they're heating about people being killed. A lot of people are super uncomfortable around them, never mind the fact that as a male, (assuming she is unskilled) you could have easily choked her to death with your bare hands or stabbed her with a kitchen knife.
Meet the left's form of gun-cowardice. The right's form is different (tending more toward hoarding as opposed to over-avoidance), but is no less pervasive or destructive.
I'm so in love with my boyfriend/I love him so much that it scares me???
Ive never loved someone as much as I love him. I thought I was in love before other times, I mean maybe I was even, but I never LOVED someone as much as I love him and it scares the shit out of me.. because if anything ever happened to him, or if he left me or anything, I really don't see how I would ever be okay after.
is this unhealthy? should I create a little more distance, or jjust enjoy how I feel? anyone ever feel like this about someone? like when I think of anything bad happening to him it makes me cry (I'm actually crying right now HAAA but also I'm on my period and I get like this when I'm on my period)
>>17245091
oooooh i feel worse for your bf when this ends
>>17245102
-why? and why do you think it will end? weve been official for a year and three months, were going on a vaction together next month.
-also, if someone wants to leave me/cheats on me/whatever, I'm not the type of person who begs to keep them, or creates a big drama and stuff. I just let them go, because I have a lot of dignity. they wouldn't have to deal with how I bad I would feel, only I would.
It's infatuation. It can lead to an unhealthy relationship.
Just want some advice on what is wrong with my tooth, have a fair idea that it's dead. And yes I have already made an appointment for a denstist before anyone suggests it. I was eating a burger and my tooth cracked and a piece broke off, when I got another piece broke off and the picture is what it looks like now. I just want an idea of what to expect when I go to the dentist.
>>17245073
Post more proof it's yours
>>17245073
well theyre either gonna fill it which will be painful. or they will pull it, which may or may not be painful.
>>17245077
Long Story Short, my gf want to dump me, she say Im Not mature enough for Her and shit like that, she's right actually since Im 19 and she 25 But i need something to convince Her in the Short term that i am, just to have a chance to demonstrate Her that i can act mature. Any advice ?
Stop capitalizing random words for emphasize, it makes you seem more immature. Hope this helps
>>17245096
I dont do it in purpose it's my phone keyboard
Did she explain to you what she means by being immature? I mean, it helps for yourself and for people trying to give you advise if you know what is wrong, specifically.
If she just said ''you are immature'' the best way to start to act more mature is to talk about this. Ask why she thinks so and propose solutions to the problems.
I was thinking about getting my lip pierced. I'd have to take it out after 2 years or so but until then I'd take good care of it.
My questions are about the scarring.
Does the piercing always scar? Is there any way to avoid scarring ? Could I fix the scarring after the fact without spending a lot of money ?
Please and thank you xx
>>17245048
If you want to do something as stupid as stick metal through your lip, you'll have to face the inevitable consequences. Scarring will be the least of your worries.
>>17245048
dont do it. unless you want to look trashy as fuck
>>17245063
I don't think a small stud looks too trashy. It's really how you carry it.
I've been pretty sick of 4chan lately, and have been wanting to start expanding my horizons by joining other forums. The problem is that all of the others that I'm aware of (Reddit, Neogaf, Something Awful) are insanely bad and I want little to do with them. I haven't been looking very hard as I'm sure whatever Google spits out will also be really bad
My criteria for a good forum is pretty specific, so I don't expect it to meet them all. I'm just gonna list them off:
>about or related to video games
>no radical politics running rampant (left or right)
>lots of creative types
>funny people that don't take shit too seriously (even if it's only a few of them)
>memes are generally looked down upon (inside jokes are ok)
>they do shit together (contests, stupid little events, etc.)
Some of these are pretty subjective and badly-defined, but I'm open to whatever you think fits the bill.
Make one. Otherwise you're fucked
>>17245029
gamefaqs is pretty much what you described.
Is it possible to get rid of my insane racism? I get so worked up about non white subhumans all the fucking time and I fear its destroying me mentally. Can my racism completely go away?
>>17245028
fuck off nigger
>>17245028
No embrace it bro.
When the race war breaks out you're gonna be glad you were racist
>>17245036
Sometimes in public when a monkey runs up to me and speaks it's jungle language I usually say "fuck off nigger" no matter who or what is near me
So my girlfriend his with this weird stomach and headaches and her period is a bit late. We always use protection and never anything bad happened. What is concerning me it was one day in the last weeks where we were playing around, she made me cum, I got a bit on my hand and later I fingered her with that hand, even tho my cum was already kinda dry. I didn't gave it much attention then because I read and thought this was not dangerous. What do you guys thing?
I think you're either too young to be here, or you need to go back to school.
I think you're gonna be a dad OP.
Congrats, I suppose.
>>17245010
You know, there are certain devices that will tell you this, you buy them from a drug store. You even posted a pic of one...