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For someone who considers himself to be 'intelligent' you sure are asking a fucking dumb question.

>>17247912
well, it's for the sake of starting this thread going. Asking people if they like studying isn't even a real question, I think.
So, how hard is it for you to start studying, my criticising friend?

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(btw. I just adore the type of human that, when asked a very basic question, first points out how stupid the question is, and only after that, if ever, answers it. Just my luck 4chan is filled with that kind of obnoxious kids)

Stop crying for help

You're alone in the dark

Spring was Winter, and shall always become summer. You know this.

>>17247893
>my life is halfway over
You planning on dying at 46?
I mean, what's your alternative?

Bro, let me talk to you for a bit.
I'm 26 and just yesterday I handed in my final Fashion Design exam (inb4 gay, I am). Got approved, I graduate in a couple months. My Uni is one of the top 3 in my country and has an absurdly high dropout rate due to how complex the fashion course is.

I come from a weird family, was always a shitty student. Dropped out of highschool due to parent's divorce (it was violent and involved the police and a murder attempt, I shit you not). Spent 3 years partying, doing coke and getting in and out of awful relationships.

The day I decided I didn't want to throw my life away anymore (jk I just wanted a shitload of cash so knew I needed a career) I enrolled. I thought I was gonna be the oldest in my class, but to my surprise:
>Class started with over 40 students
>Now we have 27, the rest dropped out
>4 of those insta-failed the final exam
>2 gave up last week
>Out of the rest, I'm the second youngest, and I'm 26. The oldest is 43 and owns a company already. The second oldest is 39.
Now, remember I said I dropped out of highschool? My overall grade for the whole uni course is 9.12 out of 10. Second best is 8.3 out of 10. Class average is around a low 7.something. I'm the class representative, have 3 published scientific articles, 2 more on the way. Got a dream job offer last week.

I'm sorry if this was way too long of a post, but my point is... I, a flaming coke-addicted faggot, am making it. I'm older than you. I have a fucked up family story. None of this was an excuse to not say "fuck it" and just give it a try. The biggest blessing one can have in life is to be hopeless, because then, all matters become null and you stop caring. You already have a huge no if you don't try. If you try and fail, you remain with the no you already have, no biggie. But what if you suceed?

>>17247888
The whole thing is a red flag. Why did he invite his brother? Now it's two people you don't actually know and then you. Don't be surpassed of you go meet them and get held down, raped, then beaten or killed, or both.

>>17247888
German anon is that you again?

>>17247935
>Why did he invite his brother?
He said his brother knows more about the historical areas (he is a History major). He said his brother was interested in History since we have met. Back then, we have no plans to meet (we live in different continents). It must have been a very elaborate lie then.
Well, he can invite other people to come without my knowledge as well.

Yes, stop being so selfish.
Fuck what you like, you aren't important.
Only other people are important.

>>17247884
If they're caring and nice they might be good friends to keep, but you should get one or two that are into what you like. You should go to those friends to talk about yours interests but the other ones for a shoulder to cry on.

>>17247971
Thanks, anon! I'm trying to do this, that means i am normal.
But i want my significant other be interested in what i like as well and it seems hard to find one.
Should my partner share my passions or is this unnecessary?

What's your basis for an appeal? Was there a misprint in your SAT score or GPA? "I really really want to go to that school" is not a valid reason.

>>17247889
There isn't but they didn't say why they rejected me either. It's an arts school and I don't know what else to do at this point

>>17247901
Attend a different school (you did apply to multiple options, yes?). Maybe you can transfer in the future.

>>17247868
If you mean A.M. then no, that isn't early enough to get angry about. If you mean P.M. then no, noise complaints before 10PM or 11PM on the weekends aren't considered a disturbance, unless they're outside playing drums or something.

>>17247868
You could try talking to them & asking them to wait until later. But don't be rude. You're the one who's imposing on them, not the other way around.

Nope, that's completely appropriate.
You can legally make as much noise as you want during daylight hours. You could crank the bass until your neighbors house fell down, and they couldn't do anything about it. Insurance would label it as an act of God (depending on how good the music is) and they would be homeless.

>It's pretty sort, however I don't feel any pain!

Oh my god.
Just... Die.

It's fungal. Go get an anti-fungal.

Do you live somewhere hot? If so it looks exactly like a heat rash/prickly heat.

>>17247856
Fungal. Clean the shit out of your socks. Get some new shoes. Get an antifungal cream. Keep foot dry. Don't touch the area and then touch your mouth. Don't pick your toes. Keep socks and shoes dry as well.

That's your prostate you dummie.

LMFAO

>>17247875
Prostate is solid large protrusion?

Know that knowing things is a weakness.

Understand that understanding is closing your mind to things.

Wisdom is a safety belt for the stupid.

Wear suncreen.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI

When theres a buy one get one free sale, get the item you want, and buy the item you dont like, i.e, clothes. Then refund the unwanted item and, boom, free clothes. Or whatever u got

is she inexperienced with relationships?

sounds like she has oneitis, my friend

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/09/oneitis/all/1/

>>17247786
She had boyfriend for 1,5 years before me, but from her story she didn't like him a lot. And i think one for few months. She always said that I was her first love, she only loved me..

What should i reply to this message, I don't know what to say to her?

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cont.

So here's the thing, next year I wont be in the same university as her, at first the plan was that I was going to go study 1 year in a foreign country, that's what I told her, however that plan is fucked for several reasons that I wont explain. Except at the time I told her I wanted to see her one last time alone, except she wanted to invite friends, so I gave up again because I honestly thought she didn't want to be alone with me.

Then she came back, Again, and now she wants to go get a drink (alone), and she asked me if the night before she could stay at my place because she was going to meet with some classmates/teachers in my city and she lives a bit far (however to me it's not really a good excuse, the trains stop at, what, 1-2am ? Since it's a thing with teachers I don't actually expect them to stay that late). She also asked if another friend of her could also stay at my house for the night, but since there's only one guest room I said it wasn't possible.

I don't know what the fuck are her intentions.

tl;dr Girl I like that has a bf wants to stay at my place tonight, what do

Suicide mission that shit, get her alone and try to fuck or something. She's being stupid so just take your advantages

>>17247769
she either was busy or her bf wanted her. honestly she probably has trouble breaking it off with him if she wanted to be with you. at least she didnt get physical with you.

>>17247734
you sure she is not a gold digger?

>>17247734
Does she have diseases? If she has HIV/HPV, break up with her.

I can see where you're coming from. But you do realize that she didn't enjoy sleeping with those men at all?

>>17247741
This so much. My dad ran off with a thai girl he 'loved'. And boy did he pay...

Shameless self bump

God, I hate ambiguous shut like this

>muh seekret project

How about you post some more info?

What exactly do you need advice on?

Also if you've been working on it for 12 years you could have easy learned atleast 2 required skills needed for your project.

If he really loves that stuff then he will very likely love the surprise, or be confused, or excited, or all three.

Do you have any trustworthy friends to help you out with the bindings and stuff?

>>17247621
Not really... I didn't even know he liked this stuff. I knew he liked to be rough sometimes but not like this! I'm mostly just copying what I saw in his porn.. gonna get a blindfold going too I think

>>17247624
Tough situation. How flexible are you? It might help you out to bind yourself.

Relax and focus on breathing, but not force it.
It's a focusing exercise, the longer you hold the more mana you generate to cast fireballs.
No seriously, relaxing and focusing.

>>17247611
Google and get all the answers you want

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPpUNAFHgxM

You're welcome, famalam.