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Well if your relationship is relatively healthy other than the few sexual quirks, then you should absolutely tell her. If you're correct then she will likely feel deeply relieved to know that you're okay with her sleeping with women if that's what she wants, and if you're wrong it should be something you can both laugh off and remember as a good funny story. Or something else that's entirely unpredictable could happen.

>>17259935
I guess I'm just sort of afraid she might leave me or call off the wedding. Our relationship is great, but if she 'comes out of the closet' that might mean not getting married.

Or am I being selfish wanting her to marry me even though she may not want to marry a guy?

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>>17259953
You better sort this out before getting tied to anything m8.

>>17259880
>From tense and anxious to relaxed and radiating "good vibes"?
With drugs and/or alcohol, you can.

>>17259880
You can be whatever you want.

I think your question is really more along the lines of "how can I become a fun guy?"

>>17259896

I've been slowly trying to give less of a fuck and to be more relaxed in public, which was my main problem.

Hopefully it turns into automatic behavior with time.

report it because it's rape, not because you might profit, you asshat.

>>17259875
Don't know if I wanna do a bunch of police stuff and not getting anything back for it.

>>17259884
Haha this is some Always Sunny in Philadelphia shit

>>17259865
Not sure if in US or not, but I know if my city we have a few hostels that will exchange work for housing.

I had a friend who would work 20 hours a week at the bar next door the hostel's owner co-owned, and in return was allowed to stay until alternative housing options arose.

>>17259865
Im so sorry OP. My hope the best for you. Can you enlist? As long as you're relatively fit (not fat), and have no major medical history you can get in.

>>17259932
I can't; I have a mental illness

>>17259908
I live in a suburb of Los Angeles I'll look for something like that

>>17259812
You should seek therapy. Immediately. All of us battle emotional hardship at some point. Many people struggle with mental illness. You are not well. Are you mental? Dunno.. But you are not okay. So you need help. Life does not stop because you need help. It keeps turning. You need to finish your commitment to school. But you need to take care of your brain first. Seek therapy immediately while working toward your degree.

bumpee

>>17259812

Just remember that most people who get degrees get careers that are only slightly related to their major. Just get it over with for now.

>>17259770
If she cheats it's her fault. If she's in a monogamous relationship, she'll respect her husband.

Fuck her all you want, because somebody else will eventually.

Anyone who helps someone else cheat, knowing that that person will be cheating, is just as shit as the cheater. Even worse if they're purposefully trying to seduce someone in a relationship

>>17259770
90/10 split. And that's being critical of you. Me personally, I wouldn't fault you at all. But moralfags out there like to split blame, so 90/10 is fair.

It's her problem, not yours. Just don't involve yourself with her beyond fucking her. Do not fall in love and do not make plans to stick around. Pump and dump.

just hang out with her the whole night

You're not going to lose your virginity by being that desperate.

>>17259764
>thrasher
>smash
>dank
>tree
are you 13 years old?

>>17259757
He legally can't tell the police unless you say that you've hurt someone or are planning on hurting someone.

>>17259757
Well, you already told him. If he's going to call the police, you've already made your bed. Know what I mean? Going back and talking more about it isn't going to change whether or not he calls/called. He either did it already (he didn't, you're still around) or he has no intention to ( he doesn't, because you're still around).

So follow his advice and keep getting help. Society wants to cure pedophiles, not waste resources on them. If you can be cured, the therapist will do everything they can to cure you, because you desperately need curing. Calling police is a last resort when they perceive you have harmed a child.

While it's legal to disclose that kind of information to law enforcement if somebody's being bodily or mentally harmed in some way, you are not doing that. That's the legal side.

On the other hand, if you disappeared after confessing your sins and never seeking any further help with it, he might be more likely to get chatty.

>>17259753
Try every other day if you want to cut down.

Occupy your time with other, real stuff.

1 year

Never masturbate. No, seriously. I used to be addicted to porn and masturbation which really fucked with my depression levels and made me an unproductive pity-party for 5 years, up until I quit.

Not only does it make you feel more confident but you become much more interested in getting a relationship and not just a quick fuck.

I don't mean to be preachy but this this seriously changed my life

>>17259664
You can either accept it and have a really akward and shaky friendship that will drift apart eventually or you can accept that you made a bad judgement call and bow out with your dignity.

>>17259664

context is key. no two situations are exactly the same.

if you think there is potnetial, pursue it, but have an exit strategy. if you know its a lost cause but think it could work as friends, try it. again exit strategy if it goes south.

if you like her but just dont see anything positive coming out of interacting, then leave.

the question is what do you think is POSSIBLE and put that up next to what you are willing to do.

Accept being friends, but don't act like that. It will make her frustrated.

>>17259651
bump

>>17259651
bump

There MUST be a better place on the Internet to find out about this product, man. You really think some random person on /adv/ is going to be able to help you? Go read some reviews or go to a skin-health forum or something, damn

Free or are you willing to pay?

>>17259632
Free

Good question, should have put that in there

>>17259652
OneNote has an online version that I believe you can get for free. I think the student version of the whole Microsoft Office suite is free, actually.

Learn to be happy with yourself.

>>17259622

mostly this. dont focus on distractions, and if you acknowledge its a distraction, you shouldnt do it.

do what actually makes you happy. learn to be happy on your own and break ups will never be more than bumps in the raod.

its okay to be sad, its okay to miss her, its okay to wish it didnt end. but it was the end of the relationship, not your life.

like 'vision' said in 'age of ultron'
>something isn't beautiful because it lasts

Don't try to keep it in, you need to grieve. Just binge eat and cry, you'll feel better in the future.

>>17259608
to clear up potential ambiguity: sam and i were friends for a while but that date was the only of its kind

>>17259608
>>she mentions how long it's been since we've seen each other and proposes we meet up or something
Just sounds like you're meeting up as old friends. We're not mind readers though

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>>17259620
i suspect the same, i think it's just my mind wandering

thanks for your input!

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Ask the pizza delivery drivers where the stoner apartments are.

>>17259565
Would they be cool if I just knocked on their doors? I've never had to do this before, as I've always had old friends who were dealers and don't really know the etiquette.

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>>17259573
Once you find Pepperland or whatever the stoners call their building, try to met folks out front in the evening. Tell 'em you heard there was a party.