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>>17257253
Just keep talking to her (if you enjoy it) but don't make any moves. She'll get the idea.

>>17257253
Texting is the cowards way out.

>>17257253
Has she asked you out? Unless she's asked you out, just don't say anything. You might even be wrong about her being into you.

>>17257249
you suffer the consequences of your actions.

gg no reeeeeee

Did you use a condom? Never trust if a girl says she's on birth control. Use that condom!

>>17257249
How can you tell?
They all look the same?

>>17257238
>She tells me it was great but just too short

Is that in reference to:
The amount of time you spend together?
How long you last in bed?
Your hight?
Your dick length?

>>17257244

The amount of time we spend together .. cause we didnt sleep that much

my dick is big enough .. she came twice!!

im also 6'1 king of manlets almost lanklet tier

It was an ons ya dingus. She might want to give you a bootycall from time to time so she keeps you warm. Stay tuned for more pussy but don't get the feels

Basically, i have sex only for the validation and attention. It doesn't "get me off" and i hate that it is that way. I think i do that because i my selfesteem is extremely low. I feel desireable, wanted and needed when i do that. How do i get sane again?

I'd suggest in you try a bit of sensory/motor deprivation play in the realms of bondage and s&m with specific regard to blindfolds and handcuffs.

Not a sex doctor though, just a pervert. Anyways, good luck.

>>17257319
You mean, so i have to rely on physical sensations to get off? I can give it a try, sure

Thanks for the input, anon!

I don't make friends with people like that in the first place. I make friends with people who are friendly and accepting and tolerant.

>>17257207
This.

Unfriendly people end up friendless.

>>17257207
>>17257210
It's not like i never want to be friends with my friends' friends,
however i am very introverted and vary of people. I am honest and gullible i need self-defense.
Communicating is already a chore to me i want my friends to be people i feel psychologically comfortable with.
Literally can't endure long periods of time with people who are compulsive liars or hypocrites.
I have few friends but i really like spending time with them.

So people have the right to be mad at me for this reason?

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>>17257189
gay porn is the best porn, senpai. Start with men.com

>>17257193
Agreed.

You are familiar with the anatomy, perfect entry level.

This is fucking adorable in a way. I remember I did sorta the same thing when I was 19 or so. I signed up for xtube (it's a porn site) stupidly using my real email and for years I'd get spam from them. I'm 24 now and think I still get spam from xtube. Girl here if it matters

>>17257161
stale pasta is stale

Nick is a fag

>>17257168
What? I don't understand.
>>17257170
I'm wondering if I should kick him out or not.

Easy. Tag me in and we can switch off

>>17257157
Why do you want to deny your organism?

It's bit of a Catch 22. There are ways of slowing down if you enter a zen like state and kegel your dickhole shut. But then you're not really enjoying sex or being in the moment -- you're trying to not cum.

Regular masturbation and sex do seem to help me last a bit longer than if don't.

All that has really worked for me in the end has been lots of foreplay, avoiding pleasuring myself during sex acts too much, and varying things up with positions and speed. That way when I want to cum I can really enjoy it, rather than worrying about cumming too early otherwise. She loses the chance to be rhythmically fucked in the same position for 20 minutes, but I doubt most women care that much as long as they get to cum once or twice.

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>>17257152
>Should I cheat / learn the algorithms?

Learning algorithms isn't "cheating." Peeling off and reapplying the stickers is. Learning the algorithms is how you learn how to solve a cube.

>So far ive figured out how to solve the white face perfectly, but im struggling with the rest of the side.

Lol you only know how to solve the white side?

Anyway, think of it as solving layers at a time, not sides.

>>17257152
there are so many other usefull skills you could learn

a girls gunna be much more turned on if you can fix her cars engine, not twisting a cube 50 times

>>17257221
what i mean is solving it properly, and i mean i figured that algorithm out (how to get it correct to set up for the second layer).

>>17257225
fast hands imply other things though

>>17257126
You don't. You let them stay ignorant and hope they die painful deaths.

>>17257126
Why do you feel the need to argue with these people? Unless you're doing it for shits and giggles there's no reason to engage mongs.

>>17257126
Fucking hell, whites cant know racism since you're not the minority, and will never, or have ever been. Hybrids don't count as well.

Op again. Image is just a random image I screenshot a couple weeks ago. Plus the only few non Porno pic I have

You completely fucked up by not wearing protection dude, just gonna say that now. There's not much you can do about this. Your life is ruined, that's the end of it. This is what having a kid does to you. Your child is growing up in a dysfunctional family as well. You, your ex, and your child's lives are all fucked. Your years ahead will be filled with court cases and you likely will never be truly happy again in this situation. You are completely fucked, as much as I hate to say it. I feel bad for you dude, I guess just keep trying to get a job.

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It's posts like this that make me happy to be gay. Maybe a god does exist and maybe he cares about me.


also

Sorry about your entire life being destroyed OP.

>>17257120
Think about small and easy goals you have. Try to do your best with those goals. What are some of your life goals? Don't spend all your time on that life goal. Instead spend a little time on it and focus more on your small goals until you feel more comfortable.

>>17257120
Are you attractive?

>>17257124
Thank you. Okay, I'm literally starting a list now. Realizing how little I've thought about "big picture"...

>>17257103
Bump, I would be interested in this as well

>>17257103
If you are able to proceed with making out make sure she's really into it. Then start kissing her neck and massaging her around her shoulders, moving down to her hips. Kiss on the mouth again continuing massage and continue this until she's hot and bothered. Then ask if you can touch her/take off her pants. Boom.

If you're making out you've already won. Play with her tits, play with the area between her tits and pussy. Rub a bit. Make sure she's wet. Insert finger.

If she's not interested she'll stop you somewhere.

>>17257098
>What should I expect?
For the first appointment? A lot of questions, but not a lot of answers,

>They don't make you report a crime if something happened to you, right?
No; they may urge you to do so. but can't actually MAKE you do it.

Also, depending on your age and the nature of what was done to you, they MIGHT be required by law to report it themselves. That typically only happens if you're under 18 and are currently being abused.

>They can only have you put in a loony bin if you're going to kill yourself or someone else, right?
It's not limited to killing, but you're right that you do have to pose a serious, immediate threat to yourself or someone else before they can have you committed.

>>17257098
Believe it or not, the therapist wants to help you make it in the real world. Putting you in jail or a loony bin would go against all their goals.

They'll start by asking you why you're there and what you want from them. They'll ask questions just to help you express (and maybe even see) your problems more clearly. They might give you a homework assignment, along the lines of making a list of the 5 things that bug you most about yourself and the 5 that you consider your best traits.

That's enough for a first session. Others will pick up on something you said or listed and guide you to think more about them until you begin to see a way out of the problem. (The general rule is that helping you figure something out for yourself is better than telling you what they havefigured out about you.)

>>17257098
Unless you get a nutter or someone just in it for the money, you should actually end up with someone who gives a shit, and other than asking some mandated questions, will do what they are able to help you relax and open up.

Just be honest. There shouldn't be anything you could tell them that would land you in a loony bin unless you are (or have been) violent.

Sounds like she got raped. Just keep trying your best to be there for her. Not much you can do in regards to contact though.

>>17257543

I really hope that's not the case, but it's started to sound like she was either attacked or violated. Still no response from her. I will keep trying then.

You are being ghosted. Stop attempting to contact her. Don't even apologize, and don't even say goodbye: ANY attempts to interact with her again will only make things worse.

By the way, this post seems awfully familiar. Did you come here about a month or two ago?