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Sounds like psoriasis to me.

Post pics.

>>17258907
yes, but i would check diet, hygiene and location before jumping to that conclusion.

>>17258911
its hard for me to take a good pic because its on the back of my shoulders
my shoulders are covered in lumpy jagged freckles
I have had a lot of bad sunburn on my back

Would the person you want to date, ALSO want to date you? What can you offer to a relationship, and what sort of girl would realistically be interested in that? I really hope you're not a basement dweller who only wants to date jennifer awrence

>>17258899
Guy.

I'm a bald ugly LGBT clusterfuck who'd like to date a normal guy who isn't the ~Tumblr~ kind of stupid.

I don't really know how to answer that since I've never been in a sane, normal relationship. I could offer affection, love and support, sex within reasonable measures and for the time being probably pay for most of the dates. Not that that'd mean dinners at 5 star restaurants with a limo, but reasonable things.

And I don't have a gag reflex. I'm not a fan of sucking dick but I'm still putting that out there.

>>17258922
>I'm a bald ugly LGBT clusterfuck
And what kind of a person is into that in the first place?

>>17258811
there are load consolidation options offered by some places. Though you would need to research them yourself.

Basically they would pay everything off and you would pay them in a more manageable pace. To reiterate. Research it.

The guy good news is that now is a good time to be in debt. Look for places that offer debt conciliation and such. Maybe see if your bank offers help with debt repayment?

You need to do what you can to lessen your financial pressure. What's your living situation?

>>17258719
Everyone does to some extent, you're not unique.

I used too, especially when I was younger and just got into anime. I ended up just watching to see the main male character get the bitches and wreck shit and not seeing the actual merits of the work, so I kicked that habit.

>>17258719
This is what most producers of media are aiming for. That's why so many comics, games and movies are basically a power fantasy.

ahahaha wtf OP?

Drugging your girlfriend without her knowledge? Not only is that wrong but it is dangerous and likely wouldn't work/be to hard to keep up.

There is an issue between you two that is compromising the relationship. If you can't even communicate about this issue, then the relationship must end.

what should i do then?

talk to her about her possibly being crazy?

>>17258766
yes
phrase it more diplomatically though.

Have absolutely no motivation with anything in life

Once i start as soon as it gets too hard i stop

I know how much it fucking sucks but i just dont care enough

>>17258724
This probably hits home with most people, myself included. From an outsider looking in, it's easy and simple to say that you just need to do it and trudge through the agony/boredom/frustration/etc. of going through the thing you need to do.

The first 5 minutes of a task are usually the most agonizing, after that your brain just sort of accepts that you're going to do it and then you can carry out whatever you're going to do.

As far as motivation goes, just completely forget about motivation as a thing. Motivation is great when it happens, but by and large, you can't just sit around waiting to be motivated. You just have to go out there and do aforementioned trudging through agony until it becomes automatic or a habit and you no longer have to fight with yourself to do it.


Meh, it's all stuff you already know, but sometimes hearing it from someone else makes a difference.

>>17258712
I want to fail, I reject and refuse to talk to women, I undereat or vomit once or twice a week to fuck up my bulk, I droped out of college, and in general I drag my heels when it comes to things like showering and getting to bed because I know it will fuck up my schedule

I'm motivated to be successful but deep down I think that I don't deserve success because I am worthless. Nothing you can say or do will help me get over this, I will be a loser for the rest of my life. I fucking love attention I'm a fucking attention whore who comes on 4chan and bitches and moans, please reply to my post I'm a whiny little bitch

>>17258678
Haha what

just stop caring 2bh

Move somewhere where interracial couples aren't as stigmatised

Go see a dentist.
/adv/ doesn't want to see the inside of your mouth

>>17258618

In OP's defence, it's probably the tamest "hey /adv/ check out my medical problem" I've ever seen.

>>17258599
Recessed gums are not a big problem unless its progressing rapidly or the roots/nerves are exposed. See a dentist, but also try to find the cause and fix it. Could be diet, vitamin deficiency, or brushing habits. The only way to regain gums is when they cut tissue out of the roof your mouth and transplant it. It's expensive. Try to prevent further damage instead.

You're the plan B guy.
You won't get laid because you're there for emotional venting. In her delusional mind you're a good friend she can talk to, who isn't solely pursuing her because he wants sex with a strong 8.
Btw does she pay when you go out? I wouldn't be surprised if you're one of her 'free food' contacts.

>>17258596
Thanks for the reply!

Actually not. Often she wanted pay for both and sometimes she did (dinner, cocktail...).
Anyway the last time that we saw each other I said frankly that I didn't want and I wasn't interested the friendship.
And exactly for this I don't understand this situation.
I wasn't the beta male of the situation, I think.

^

>>17258531
>I don't want to come off as creepy.
too late

>>17258531
you can't be serious.... Lololol.

you must be a fucking weeaboo loser virgin so I'll humor your request. Just put on a move when your sitting on the couch, lay down and ask if she wants to as well. I'd imagine that would be a yes or no question... Fuck dude if you need human contact that bad you should go to a psychologist and get some help and talk to someone.

Why don't you have a seat over there OP.

Dude I've been doing the same kind of stuff, you're on a good path man. Remember to allow yourself time to relax and kick back as well. You don't want to burn yourself out. Other than that, are you saving money or actively doing anything creative or something that forces you out of the house to be social?

Also maybe be a little more lax with schedule thing. You can't plan everything in life, and you don't want to put unnecessary stress on yourself trying to stay on schedule. I'd instead reccomend forming good habits

>>17258367
Make sure to not look at electronic screens 1 hour to 2 hours before bed to improve sleep quality (e ink is ok). And about sleep, if aren't already, check out a sleep calculator.

>>17259297
This is somewhat true. But it depends on how conscientious you are. It may help to remind yourself that it is an average day schedule, not an everyday one.

>>17258347
Post a pic of her.

Assuming you're in high school, guys a year older are a status symbol. She wants social status, not sex or even you (any semi-alfa +1Y guy would do).
If you want to get laid, cut her off and if she gets desperate she'll get over her delusion of sexual purity.
Else cut her off. Make her understand what she's really worth to you.

>>17258210
Hello, attention whore. Try using a vibrator, if that doesn't work go to the doctor or give up on life. If you haven't been mutilated your clit should be able to feel things. Its most likely that you just don't know what an orgasm feels like.

>>17258210
I'm not a girl, but my gf only comes when she's really horny.

Also use a toys, like vibrators, and use anal toys too, maybe even try a breast suction pump or something.
Most important thing is to be horny I think tho.

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A lot of foreplay helps. Also if a girl has a low sex drive, is depressed, and doesn't have an awesome love interest that she's close to then she's going to need some adjustments in her life before she can cum. If you can't even have a psychical orgasm then something is wrong with you.

A magic wand is a cheap sex toy and super effective.

How are you masturbating?

Find something that'll make you happy.

Make a plan for every day. Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays I'll train. Work if you're not already doing so. Attend school or plan to attend school if you're planning to.

You're 19. You're still young.

Another option is to join the military, volunteer at home at soup kitchens, fill your time with people and things to do.

Find community projects. Reboot facebook and update your status. There's so many things to do as long as you actively search.

>>17258003
Thanks a lot, I will make a plan about my training system and I will try to hold that.

I really thinked about joining the military, but they cant take me because I injured my knee at a soccer game and they said i was a little too overweight (10kg) for joining them, sadly.

The thing about facebook status is, I dont know what to post about, it's a little hard for me sincer I never go out somewhere or do any kind of that social shit.

b-bump

Uh, Bump?

shes clearly not interested

just stop

>>17258005
Sorry.