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>>17262642
Be happy for them.

>>17262654
that's the kind of level headed behavior i'm just not capable of right now. am i a bad person?

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>>17262642
You selfish piece of shit, just be happy for them and find another girl.

>>17262614
Work or school.

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>>17262614
Have money. You will make a lot of new friends.

Join a sport, club

>>17262612
What do you call 10,000 lawyers at the bottom of the sea?

How hard is it to get a new title for a vehicle you paid for if the title holder has not answered the phone for in over a year?

Insurance for the vehicle is in my name.

>>17262623
adding to this, usa

>>17262591
He probably just want sum fuk

>>17262591
>Don't know how to do this professionally
You don't, because it's unprofessional.

Keep your work, academic, and personal life separate.

>>17262591
"Sorry I've been uncommunicative, I've been dealing with some health issues. Thank you for checking in."

>>17262583
Post pic, don't show face and delete EXIF.

>>17262594
Why would I ever do that? Are you insane?

I'm a guy with pretty bad agoraphobia, and I've pretty much given up on dating until I get over it. I would imagine not wanting to go out and do things can be a real downer for people.

Personally, I wouldn't come right out an mention it. Maybe talk about how much you prefer being at home instead. Just don't come off as mentally ill and don't desperately try to hide it.

>>17262565
Lesbian

>>17262565
This is why I stay abstinent: girls' brains are just wired wrong.

>>17262569
nah I am not into girls I think :) It even happens with too close friendships with girls, like it feels disgusting then too

>>17262563
You're gaining weight too quickly.

Go outside and walk around for 45-60 mins a day.

>>17262568
Really? When I said I'm eating terribly I mean I'm too busy sleeping and I am missing meals. I've always had a fast metabolism and have never even gotten the slightest bit chunky

>>17262563
They look like stretch marks from growing taller quickly (like a teenage growth spurt). Stretch marks from weight gain would be vertical.

Because they're lazy. Learning about new things requires mental effort. Familiar stuff is comfortable and doesn't require shit.

>>17262560
Lack of confidence.

They are too insecure to go out try new stuff. Someone might think the wrong thing about them---that's insecurity.

Drop those losers and only consort with confident people.

Those people sound fucking weird.

I get being too lazy to check out something new, which is something I'm guilty of - my friends can pester me for months and months "watch this show, you'll love it" and I don't get around to it for forever only for them to be completely right. But if I actually experience it for myself, eg I'm hanging out and a friend actually puts on an episode rather than just telling me about it, and I sit there and watch the whole thing and enjoy it, of fucking course I'm going to get on that shit.

Just... "I don't know who that is"? Did she not fucking realise that when she was listening to it?
Maybe she wasn't really that into it and was just idly popping over. Or it sounded like someone she knew, but turned out that wasn't the case.

>>17262553
Don't tell her

>>17262553
tell her. Communication and honesty are cornerstones of a good relationship.

>>17262621
This

>>17262548
He unplugged your music in your car?

He's a fag and you're a cuck.

>>17262557
wow, thanks.

>>17262548
What's stopping you from getting a new one or moving out?

Fast forwarding to now. My day pretty much looks like this: Sleeping for 8-12 hours a day, being up for 12-16 hours, watching youtube (mostly just rewatching old videos) and browsing the internet
meanwhile. I used to play videogames like TF2 and CS:GO until a few months ago. but I stopped playing altogether. I also used to play emulators until like 2 weeks ago, but I have also lost interest in that. I mostly sleep during the day and stay up all night. I have basically no feel for thirst anymore, sometimes I don't drink anything in 12-15 hours and also not go to the toilet for that long. I usually force myself to drink half a water/soda bottle twice a day. Even after sleeping, it doesn't matter how long I sleep, I'm always sleepy, tired and exhausted. My body and limbs just feel weak. I don't do any sports, I literally spend 99% of the time in my room, either in my bed or at my PC. I feel like I'm just burned out. But, isn't that something only people that work a lot get? Or have actual stress? I feel like, I can't tell anyone/talk to anyone about it. I kinda try to talk about it to my few online friends, but I don't wanna bother them/feel like it's not appropriate.
I really don't wanna tell my dad to make an appointment for the doctor, because I fear the conversations with him and also the doc/psychologist. I don't even know if any medication could
help me. I still don't know what job I want to do, I doubt I have any real choices besides labor worker. I'm missing 6 years of worklife experience, since people start working at 15/16 years old in my country. I don't wanna learn a job/apprenticeship, because you have to go to business/work school and for certain jobs you have to go to schools that can be halfway across the province.
And then there would be other young people again. I have to interact with/be around. I'm not dumb, nor am I that smart. I was always interested in technical jobs and also in computers.

But I doubt I can get any job at all. There is no big demand for that in my country and even if, there are people with more experience and talent than me. My grades from my high school graduation aren't that bad at all. I got A's in every subject besides the 3 main subjects and the coupled other subjects to them, which I only got C's, but in advanced, which are normal A's.
The final exams I did weren't layed out for advanced so you could only get adv. C as best grade. The exams were pretty simply and easy to be honest, so that's why I got all dem A's.
But I doubt that a normal high school certif. will get me anywhere, even if I went to college (or our version of that) for 2 years, that doesn't help really either, since a lot of people do that and the job market is overflowing with them. I live on the country side and pretty much all public transp. vehicle connectivity is really bad, like really really bad. I do not own a car or anything.
And there isn't that much going on here anyways. Also not in "near" towns" or cities. In 2 or 3 weeks I'll have an appointment and I possibly can work at a job program for young people to help them get into job life. I don't know how I'll deal with that.

I just don't know anymore. I don't know if I actually have any type of depression or burnout or if I'm just imaging it, because I can't deal with my situation.
I can't talk to people without breaking into stuttering at times and my stomach gets upset and I have the fear of getting diarrhea while in public.
I don't know what to look at, what do do with my hands etc. while talking to people, not like that happens that often at all, since I never go out anyways.


tl;dr, I know I should go to my dad and tell him about this all and get help, but I fear that I'll make myself just look stupid. I fear talking to the doc/psychologist about it.
I feel like it's getting too bad now and it's threatening my life.


I'm sorry about the bad formatting of all the subjects, I'm tired and English isn't my first language.

>>17262465
Take her to the vet, she may just be sick.

>>17262465
>Is my dog dying? She's a fourteen year old Miniature Schnauzer.
She could be. 14 is pretty old for that breed. But she could also just be ill.

Either way, you should take her to the vet.

take to vet ASAP

Even if she isn't dying this sickness (if that's what it is) could kill her since she is so old.

>I feel dumb, young, blind and used
You already know what to do: learn to say no.
It doesn't sound like she is into you, and she clearly isn't respecting you, so just get the fuck out

>>17262444
KEK
many red flags, run while you can

>>17262493
Too many, and there's a shit ton of stuff that I didn't mention. For example she gave me a letter saying that she wanted me to marry a week after we broke up. I think I fucked up in being with her again. Now I "like" her more but I know that a lot of shit happened, even after the breakup. Went to a psychologist, she told me that she's a mythomaniac and a manipulator. Found that hard to believe.

It's my first time falling deeply in love, I feel bad with myself because i'm letting feelings blind me, and i'm ignoring important stuff, or minimizing events because I "trust in her".

I think that maybe I deserve something better. Maybe she loves me, but I don't think that's enough. She's going for a complete year as a volunteer to serve a rural community, so i'm in the "volunteer-zone" according to her. I feel so shitty with myself.

>>17262402
Hahaha was in that same situation awhile back BUT I have a great perception of whether a girl is a huge sclut or not so I passed.

Interesting fact: she's a prostitute now.

So I guess my advice is: GIT GUD

I thought I had warts I had a few really small wart like things on my dick. I picked one off. the rest went away on their own. dunno.

>>17262433

But the pain?

>>17262397
What were you doing when she called?

Whatever that was is what you love more than her.

>>17262405
i was taking a nap. her phonecall woke me up.

she says i only consider myself, which could be partially true given my cicumstances, which she acknowledges.

i am taking care of sick mother and dog and full time college student.

>>17262397
nah if u feel bad afterwards u love her, ur just stressed or tired to remeber.