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Anyone know how, in iTunes, to change the primary artwork for one track while preserving the general album artwork for the others? For example, when you're playing the song in question on a synced mobile device, the displayed artwork would be different from the designated album artwork. I've done it before, so I know it's possible, but I've forgotten how.

Thanks in advance!
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>>17262373
Why would you want too?
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The time I did previously was because the track in question was a mix. I'd made a pic related that showed where each song was, for if I wanted to listen to something specific.

Right now I'm doing so because the album is a compilation, and I want each track to have its native album artwork.
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Figured it out. You have to load each track into iTunes separately, making sure they aren't assigned to the same album right off the bat, then select them all, set their album to something uniform, and select "album is a compilation by various artists".

Happy camping, dudes.

Fucking disgraceful and disgusting practice.

Shame FOREVER on anyone who does that.

COWARDS
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Wat is gaslighting?
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>>17262369

you know i'm actually grateful for it all, a process of elimination to show me what i'm glad for, no one is to blame for anything, they tried to torture and kill me and they set me free. they are fucking saints.

also GOOGLE
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>>17262364
Now you're realizing that the feminist agenda is a huge sham.

Good for you!

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>meet girl at festival
>hit it off and fuck
>said her ex was useless
>she just finished uni and broke up with ex 10 days ago
>stay in touch and plan to meet
... see screenshot I'm guessing she either has PMS, weird feelings or whatever, can someone explain what the lead me on bit even means

So I understand she ma
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>>17262320
She's a hoe
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>>17262331
Though that, can yoy explain how?
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>>17262320
Pic related is basically

"Anon, I like u but I have a couple other dicks to ride before I settle first, give me a minute? kthxbye"

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Anyone else been in a long term relationship (years), but it's also your only relationship and sexual partner?

Met my gf 3 years ago when I was 22 and she was my first everything. I'm starting to get wandering eyes and I know it's heavily influenced by the fact that I'm so inexperienced, not knowing what else is out there, secretly wanting to be a single ladies man (ya right) etc... Need some wise old man advice to level my playboy bachelor fantasies... grass is greener syndrome... how do you deal with it?
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being a kissless virgin NEET id say dump her and play the field
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Watch porn
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Just crossed the 20-year mark. In two weeks, 13 of those will be married.

Nothing beats intimacy built up over that length of time, bonded in all the ways society says is "right" (sayings which survived for a reason, and those reasons have nothing to do with petty power and control). Give it up now, and you will never get it back. The grass on the other side looks greener, but truth be told it's not even grass. Nothing compares.

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my bf and i were going to have sex and it was going fine until about 2 minutes in when i realized he wasnt hard anymore. got him hard again, same thing happened. he says hes not nervous sooo what other reason could this be besides him thinking im gross and ugly
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forgot to include he's a virgin
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>>17262317
He might be lying. Or he thinks you're gross. The only way to know for sure is to talk to him and post nudes to verify your ugliness.
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more background: ive had sex with a lot of guys but i dont think im that intimidating in bed. i was his first everything, hes really awkward. i can really see this lack of sex ruining our relationship in the future

/Adv/, what's up with women in their 20s and egotistical behavior? For the past few months, so many girls I met and had interest in at that specific age range had a huge ass ego about things and kept showing subtle signs of interest, and when I started texting them they back away and then expect me to do things for them on the side to boost their popularity and reputation on Facebook and crap. How do you get them to reveal their true intentions and stop asking you to like their photos and stuff?
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Not all girls are like that. A lot of them are, true, but not all of them. Just look for the ones that aren't, it's almost impossible to make someone realize they're not the center of the universe when they already believe they are.
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>>17262334

True, true. How can I assert my dominance over text (without coming off as a dick) then to let her know that she doesn't always have to be the center of everything?
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>>17262316
Its bait, they just want to use you, ignore them

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How can I be less embarrassed at summer day camp? I am a first-year counselor almost done with my first week and I still can't bring myself to be silly and goofy and all that stuff unless one of my other staff members starts it off. I'm also fairly socially awkward around the kids.

My supervisor has tried to encourage me, but it still isn't happening and I worry I'll be branded a lost cause sometime soon. At this point I'd say I'm clearly in the wrong line of work, but it's late enough into the season I want to at least make through this summer without being fired.

What can I do? Even the other first year counselors are "counselor-ing" circles around me.
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just be all the counselor you can be.
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in the Army
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>>17262329
I appreciate the effort, but I'm looking for some specifics.

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How do I deal with the fact that while I don't really enjoy other people's company I still want to cared for? Does anybody else feel this way? For example, I'm feeling lonely so I make an account with a dating site and start looking through profiles. Literally nobody interests me, I cannot see myself enjoying an evening with any of them. The only ones that I find somewhat interesting are those that I share hobbies with but everything else about them I find uninteresting, I might as well just enjoy the hobby by myself. Wtf is wrong with me?
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So basically you are me.
I have 2 people I can tolerate and one will be moving soon so I will have to meet new friends. It's so difficult for me to make any new meaningful relationships.
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>>17262284
So how do I fix this? It's making me miserable.
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I have three very close friends. One's a bro who I talk about guy stuff with, another is a female-to-male trans who i discuss deep emotional shit with, and the last is a heterosexual female who i disturb the peace with because we're both introverts until we feed off of eachother's presence.

Honestly, thats all I need. This triumvirate even makes romantic relationships pale in comparison.

tl;dr keep a close circle of friends who you're joined at the hip with.

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Hello /adv/,

My boyfriend gets extremely upset at me when I tell him that he doesn't love me and that I don't really trust him when he says that. Since I have autism, I don't really understand why it hurts him so much. Can anyone explain why?
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>>17262201
>Can anyone explain why?

because telling people what they do or don't feel is condescending and belittling.
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>>17262201
>when I tell him that he doesn't love me and that I don't really trust him when he says that
so when your boyfriend does say he loves you you're pissed
>I coerce bf into saying he loves me
>I'm mad when he does
It's like he must be crazy to be mad about emotional blackmail.
>I have autism
yes, yes you do
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>>17262209
This. Don't presume to know what someone else is feeling.
That's insulting under any circumstances, but this is even more painful, because you're telling him that whatever he is doing or saying to convey his love for you isn't reaching you. This second part isn't your fault, but it should explain why it hurts him so.

Why do people think it's okay to ghost their bf/gf/friend?

Like, why are people such pussies that they can't just say to the person "I don't want to be with you/be friends with you any more.

I've seen this happen a few times in my recent months on this board and it just happened to me.

>Why would someone see it as okay to do this, and how does the person on the receiving end appropriately react to this bullshit?
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>>17262192
>Why do people think it's okay to ghost their bf/gf/friend?

because they're immature, and they don't want to deal with it, so they don't.

>how does the person on the receiving end appropriately react to this bullshit?

react? just let it go.
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>>17262192
There usually isn't an acceptable reason for it. The only hypothetical situation I could think of that could justify it would be me finding out my boyfriend cheated, so I cut contact, but even then it's a bit shitty to just drop the person like that

The person who reacts should be more mature and just move on from the cunt. If the person doing the ghosting is that immature and cowardly, they're not good enough for the receiver anyway.
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>>17262220
>Just let it go.
Not OP, but wouldn't that make them feel more compelled to do it again because it verifies that it works? Idk what you could do to react that wouldn't make you just as childish as the ghoster tho

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Why do psycho couples always manipulate people and how to spot one before your xbox is ripped off?
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So, how old are you?
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>>17262189
39
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>>17262173
What happened OP??

Recently it seems as if my gf is trying to encourage me to hook up with other women.

She often jokes about me having other girl friends and that other women want me. She's even said to me she wouldn't care about one time flings. She would only hate it if it's some I see regularly.

Based on the above you might think she just wants me to stray so she has an excuse to do the same, or even leave, but she's super into me. Always wants to fool around and is generally glued to me 24/7.

I don't understand. Please shed some light on this.

Picture unrelated
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Crazy chicks are crazy? You got 2 choices... Wait and see or fuck her sister.
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Maybe its a fetish of sorts.
"Jokingly" ask her "Do you want me to cheat on you?" or something like that next time she does it.
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OP, i'm in the same predicament. Not sure what to do, especially when she mentions she wants a friend of hers to suck me off. I get the feeling we're fringing on open relationship territory, but i'm not sure i want to go there.

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What is the most effective way to talk to your room mate about cleaning up after themselves and to not be a fucking slob.

My other room mate and I have decided this guy has either gotta clean up or fuck off. He's leaving pots+pans in the sink for days and the bathroom sink is full of his damn hair. Not to mention other issues like leaving a broken down car of his in the car port taking up a parking space "cuz he's fixing it".

Obviously I can't get angry, and I don't want to go down to his level and become childish and threaten to tell on him to the land lord.

How do I talk to this guy so he actually cleans up his shit now and in the future?
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Hey anon. Is the guy prone to bouts of anger? Any mental illness? Autism?


Its very relevant.
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>>17262202
No, he's a chubby little fellow. Haven't seen him get worked up about anything. Regardless, i've got about a foot in height on him anyway.
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>>17262137
It only takes one person to ruin a share house.

Kick him out or move out.

He won't change, slobs never learn.

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>inb4 gaslighting
>inb4 argument from stone or other fallacies

PART 1

I'm 33 years old and I spend most of my time trying to figure out why I was violently attacked, falsely accused, called inferior, victim blamed, taunted and labeled with a brain disease.
My family violently attacked me, telling me it proved their superiority.
They kept telling me I didn't have common sense because I questioned their presumptions, which were always ideas they picked up from tv and other fictional media, always trying to portray themselves as superior social climbers by bullying others.
I was publicly humiliated and treated with double standards, telling me humility meant I was retarded, a late bloomer, or that I was trying to undermine them and their authority.
At school the teachers attacked me because I was the first foster kid they had come across (from a poor area to an affluent area), and the kids just followed their lead.
After being held back, segregated, drugged and labeled, they made me into a target for scapegoating and violence.
Once I was labeled, teachers engaged in direct targeted attacks, often verbal, but also violently psychical when we were alone.
Higher staff just kept sending me to the counselor, which stated I must have provoked the attacks by not falling into my appropriate role as someone that was to appease others.
Even at boarding school I was violently attacked everyday my students and staff, victim blamed, and told that being humble proved inferiority and that their violent arrogant nature proved superiority.
I was told that not caring about sports, religion or pop culture meant I was "psychotic", weird and a danger to myself and others.
It was like being accused of being a communist in the 1950s.
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PART 2

My therapists laughed at me, waved their hands with their eyes closed, called me a liar, stating they KNEW I was just a clueless stereotype. They would accuse me, write down their accusations, and then point to them stating that proved I said something, completely confabulating the entire time.
The nurses and other staff would burst out laughing at me while cycling in fallacies and accusations, laughing at me when I disagreed with their allegations and their claims that their ideas were the only possible answers. They made notes on my medical files that lead to health staff telling me I was paranoid, poorly educated and crazy... before I even opened my mouth to say a single solitary sound.
My social workers kept telling me how important they were and how superior they were for helping people inferior to themselves. They would even openly verbally mock and bully their clients in groups, often claiming they were just trying to point out other people's [invented] deficits... where they, the social workers could "help".
I was told the only reason why I could be homeless was because I had numerous illnesses and that I was clueless as to the truth about my inferiority.
The police and psychiatric staff refused to listen to me as well, and kept stereotyping me, ignoring my complaints, and they as well wrote down their accusations and then proclaimed they were empirical proof of inferiority and a brain disease.
Government oversight programs just told to keep it to myself because anyone that would call them had to be clueless and ill.
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PART 3

Foster care -> Bullied -> Labeled A.D.D. -> Held Back/Segregated/Drugged -> Labeled with Anxiety/Depression -> Labeled with Bipolar I and II -> Labeled Paranoid -> Labeled PTSD -> Institutionalized where they lied all over my paperwork
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What's your question?

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My girlfriend of a year and a half acts up whenever she thinks I might be talking to one of my good friends who happens to be a girl.
My friend and I both are in committed relationships, and both live in with our SO's.

I don't even try to hide anything, my message notification has a lengthy preview.
What happened today was after work (I work 7a-5p) I was exhausted, so I went to the bed and passed out. She comes home soon after from work, and then begins telling me about her day and everything. My phone buzzes with a notification, and I ask her to look at it for me. She doesn't say anything, but then gets all pissy and begins shutting me out, giving me all sorts of "cryptic" statements about how she should never trust anyone, without even being upfront with me about what it is she's upset about. Tries to blame work, but I know work was great because she was happy until I got the message, which, by the way, was:

>It's pretty hot out here, should've picked a different day to go hiking!

Now she's just telling to me to go away and leave her alone.

What do? I'm annoyed and frustrated because she's one of my only good friends/confidants, and my girlfriend isn't happy about that, but will explain away her giving her coworker that she "doesn't like" a hug when we ran into him at a bar.
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>>17262078
girlfriend, yet living with her.
Get engaged you muppet or stop leading the poor girl on.
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>moving in with a girl like that
>dating a girl like that at all
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Talk to her and be up front. Lay down the rules and expectations. If she can't handle you having your way, bugger off.

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