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Are you looking for a single word that this defines? Otherwise you've already kinda said it in your first line - being aggrieved under false pretence.

>>17261706
I'm looking for something I can type into google to get more information.

Doesn't have to be a word, can be a catchphrase, a meme, some adage, some term from "psychology", any reference

Feel free to post anything that comes to mind (but seems/feels closely related, seems relevant)

OP again. Alright, you might ask "but what's the actual problem?" you might ask. As you might have guessed I'm the dumbass to has the tendency to fall for this kind of stupid shit and later feel like an ass.

>>17261636


if it really is 'just a hobby' invest in a good engine and just make simple games.

If it's a hobby, then you shouldn't need a 'fallback plan,' that would be your main plan.

If you're good at art/cg we can team up maybe?

I'm a professional C++ programmer and /jp/er living in Japan.

Less carbs, more protein. And have a cup of coffee after lunch

>>17261634
Thanks, I'll try those things.

Is there an option to work 6hrs six days a week?

On all the retarded fictional issues some people post here about this is one of the worst.

Because you have nothing to do with it. Asuming they did not try over a longer period of time, nothing special was achieved and you probably expected it to happen anyway.

>>17261596
the media you consume seem to make you think that it is normal to give giant fucks about what happens to other peoples lifes

to be honest i think most people would just say "good for you" and invest the "proper" amount of support for the couple and thats it

most people have own lifes that need to be managed
atleast thats how i see it

>>17261553
>The problem is, my project is lacking technically. I havent made use of advanced techniques because i'm not that good because i slacked off alot in the previous years.
You're kind of fucked, to be honest. If you have a solid basis for your presentation and the material is all there, then professors aren't too fussed about how you actually present it - and they realise that people get nervous too. But since you don't have anything good to talk about (plus you still haven't prepared when the presentation is tomorrow) is not a good sign.

Have you sat down and thought about whether this is actually something you want to do? Because you don't seem to be taking this course seriously

>>17261571

My procrastination has just gotten very bad, otherwise i know i can do it. And the material isn't that bad, only a point or two points are lacking and they overlooked them at my classmate's presentation because he presented well. I have really good memory and preparing the powerpoint wont require too much time. Luckily the presentation is at 4pm so i will get up in the morning to practice. I'm sure i can make it as long as i present well and show that i understand the content, i just need some tips that can help me present better and make me less nervous when it's my turn

>>17261601
Your procrastination is something you need to deal with before you're ready for school then. When I say you should think about whether this is something you actually want to do, I mean more than the material itself - do you even want to be at school? Because it doesn't sound like you do if you've continuously put in minimal effort

If the material isn't 'that bad' then you should be fine.

Preparing the presentation will take longer than you think it will, I promise you.

As for tips to help you calm your nerves, be as prepared as possible. That means getting off 4chan and working on it. Also take a shot before you go in.

>>17261491
Petty bitch probably wants you or something.

idk sounds like she wants to fuck you but from that vague description of events who the fuck knows?

>>17261491
>so i ignored my friend for a short period of time and she got angry at me
Why would you ignore your friend? That's some manipulative woman bullshit you're pulling right there. The rest is just her shitting on you for being a shit person.

>>17261489
>Was I really being "scum"

Not in the slightest. You were being INCREDIBLY reasonable and she probably just wanted someone to lean on so that she could support her habits. Did the right thing, don't let that bitch worm her way back into your life, you certainly don't need that shit weighing your future down.

>>17261489
What you said was completely reasonable. She's acting out because she can't get what she wants. Anyone that immediately believes her instead of asking for your side of the story is also garbage, so she did you a favor.

Why did you break up initially and how long were you no contact?

>>17261489
She's a negative toxic person, just block the shit she says about you...she's being petty...leave her!

Stop giving him money you idiot. He's not going to starve himself to death. You and your gma (bless her heart) are just enabling him and exacerbating the problem.

Help him get a resume together and find a goddamn job. Teach a man to fish for christ's sake

>>17261502
He doesn't want to work.. I've talked about this with grandma but she doesn't have the heart to not give him money. She did the same thing with our alcoholic mother for 30 years. And then I feel bad for grandma that she wastes her money on him so then I chime in. We tried before that the limit we give him per week is 20 euros but somehow that has been forgotten too.. I know what we should do, guess I'm just looking for some nicer option that doesn't even exist

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>>17261478
Beat the shit out of that degenerate. Don't give him money, and tell your grandmother not give him anything as well.
Kick him out of if you live together.

He needs to experience homelessness, he will either come back and get his shit together or just keep doing the same

Tell her you're not interested and stop texting afterwards.

Suggest blocking her number too so you don't feel guilty if she sends you sad texts.

Ignore her. Block her numbers and social media.

We had been together for over 2 years, we always had fun together, and we could talk about everything, but relationship wasn't working and thats why we both decide to break up, I thought that she even want it more than me. Thats why I'm now confused why is she texting me, if she sent me normal text, and said she want to see me, maybe I would said yes, but now she just sounds crazy to me.

Ill just ignore her for a while, if she continues with text I need to tell her to stop.

ive found her on the app, where she lists that shes interested in relationships and hook ups, question now is should i message her under a fake account to see if shes really cheating?

dump her faggot

>>17261417
Yes do it, what do you have to lose?

Judging by the profile you could almost immediately say "I want to fuck you" and it'd be sufficient.

Make sure you don't catch an STD.

Ey bby want sum fuk

>>17261366
>>17261488
Pretty much these. An ugly girl with daddy issues, young and dumb.

A fart would be a 10/10 line for this whore.

>the truth of determinism and no free will

Taking anything that hasn't been proven as a hard and unflinching truth without acknowledging the possibility that it may not be - this is the opposite of being mindful.

>>17261374
This
Also, you could be a biological robot; or an incarnated god; but still wouldnt make any difference

Do what you like, do what you enjoy. Try not fuck over other people just in case

>>17261356
take this up with /lit/ which loves debating metaphysics

>>17261355

She's your mom. She spent years changing your soiled nappies and wiping drool off your face. She won't give a damn about your dick or fapping, so get over it.

To break the awkwardness, next time you see her, you just have to say something like "Hey... sorry you had to see that, but can you knock next time or something?"

Everyone was a hormonal teenager once. She'll understand

>>17261360
This, or just pretend it didn't happen.

Lock your door next time, dumbass

I haven't really noticed a lot of skinny dudes with six-packs.

Very true. You can do a thousand situps a day, but the abs would still be hidden beneath your belly fat.

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>>17261335
>he fell for the 6-pack meme

Here's a thought

WHY do you need a 6-pack?

Exit bag

>>17261333

Walk into a lake somewhere in a forest and breath in deep.

>>17261333

in my opinion the best option is jumping off a building. unfortunately it doesn't really have the 'takes long for others to find you' thing, but honestly why do you want to make people suffer like that? i know it sounds better to think you disappeared but no ones gonna assume you jsut ran off and found your happy ending.

go to the tallest building and jump. it will be like a roller coaster, except you die.