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Because outside of Britbongsphere it's a innocuous sign.

>>17261311

get over it, or leave him

>BUT HOW

getting over it is getting over it. this is like asking how to get motivation to do soemthing. you just deal with it.

>>17261316

It hurts because I was thinking that I'm the only one my SO likes. I was always trying to be loyal and honestly I don't find other people attractive, I thought it was the same for both of us. Turns out she wasn't telling the truth at all and now I have a really hard time getting over it. We were supposed to live together soon but I feel weird after hearing how it really is.
I feel so pathetic

Leave it'll always be in the back of your mind. Even if he did choose you, you'll never be sure of yourself. You will always wonder. Unless you really can get over it. But if you are asuper jealous type person, you won't.

>ex's best friend
>crazy
Do it op

>>17261267
Protip to all our newbies out there, you know someone's a faggot when they say 'go about' with anything.

Just saying, don't ever say those words.

>>17261282
Thanks, ignoring my faggoty use of words what would you do in this situation?

You go to a doctor and get tested. Everything else is just hogwash and broscience.

Low test seems so crippling. Seems testosterone is what makes taking risks with women possible.

>>17261213
i think boys with no facial hair are cute.
higher test? fap less.

Learn how to rotate a picture first.

Really didn't think you needed the picture rotated. How about you turn your damn head

get asepsia make up anti acne, changed my life

i was disgusted by it until I did it, now I love it

I think most guys are like that. I enjoy going down on my girlfriend, but it's more about making her feel good than enjoying the act itself. I don't sit around fantasizing about cunnilingus, but it's not unpleasant and I like the way she reacts

But if you're too "disgusted" to get down there and get the job done, you're not much of a lover. It doesn't have to be your favorite thing, but good sex is mutual

>>17261193
I think that's normal.
I felt the same way about dick.

Yes. If boss finds you're partly responsible and didn't owe he'll fire you.
As you should be you spineless fuck.

You should go to the boss first you ninny

>>17261223
Yes.
Fess up to your boss and the new guy.

Don't want my roommates know i fap, i'm a virgin female.
Should i stop doing this, the only thing that arouses me now is /d/ board or batshit crazy hentai.

>>17261155
>>17261166
>>17261180
This isn't /b/, you idiot. You don't have to bump this much. Just ask your roommates to have the room to yourself for an hour, which is common practice when you're having sex with someone. Just fap to your heart's content, wait about 10, 15 min and let them know they can come back. Or do it in the showers.

>>17261205
No boyfriend ever, it'd be obvious i'm fapping.
Showers are open and all girls see what other girls do.

How to stop feeling horny?

>>17261088
It is if you like solitary hobbies that won't lend themselves to discussion

>>17261088
Depends on the books. I recently started reading books, and tend to lean towards the philosophy section. I'm reading Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" and Malcolm Gladwell "Outliers" at the moment.

I think it's a good hobby, as it can help you become more well-spoken if you read books that contain the right content, as well as more educated.

>>17261097
I do it very scarcely though (30 mins-1 hour a day) as >>17261092
is right.

>>17261068
Only if you allow yourself to be consumed by the hivemind. If you go on the site to pass time without giving a shit about what 95% of the people say here then it can be very productive.

>>17261075
i was expecting you to say very entertaining... how do you see visiting 4chan as productive?

>>17261129
Well, you can learn a few things.

>>17260994

while im turned on by the idea of dating a stoner hippie dippie type, being the breadwinner and just coming home to feel them up while they get high on the couch and watch them play video games, but realistically i dont think the relationship would work. a little too dharma and greg if you catch my drift. looking forward to a fling with a stoner but beyond that it wouldnt work for more than a couple months.

i love the smell of weed and enjoy the stereotypes if the guy is cute, but i dont smoke it myself and am more of a productive person. i max out at one beer and surround myself iwth people who dont need to drink frequently (or ever really).

ideally my partner is the same. if they want to go out and drink i wont mind, but pot is probably where i draw the line for anything serious.

i can understand yhour boyfriends frustration with you. maybe hes okay with the pot, but xanax isnt something most people do, or even a lot of people do. you only ever hear about xanax usage (as mild as it may be) in a negative light.

consider just doing pot and alcohol only.

Not all men are the same. Some care, some dont.

Personally i wouldnt care until it stats to become an addiction.

>>17261005

what defines addiction though?

if your girlfriend is literally saying
>i wonder if i can score some xanax off ur sister

in casual conversation, isnt that addiction? at the very least it implies that she doesnt want to hang out with you sober.

You sure you didn't love her?

>>17261001
Certain. She was just like a cool buddy who was also into wicked crazy sex. I couldn't date her. I'm just so pissed ugh.

On the other hand she might end up losing the boyfriend because she's a slut?

If it bothers you so much stop hanging out with your buddy.

if buddy cont dating snek
then say bud no can do will not hang with if with snek
else stop hanging with bud until snek leaves

>>17260996
>>17261003
>>17260996
Easier said that done. I live with him in my college dorm, and we're both part of a friendship group. Plus, he's still my buddy despite the fact that he's dating a whore.

Related to testosterone levels.
Guys who get a beard earlier in life also go bald earlier in life.
If you're desperate you can eat raw onions daily and only fap every 3 weeks for 3-5x normal testosterone levels.
Issue with that is you devlove in homo hornicus

Minoxidil can help if you apply it once or twice a day, based on my experience

>>17260976
It's all genetics. Certain races are more prone to beards. Or it could just take longer. Some guys don't come in until 25.

Sometimes dad's get frustrated and sometimes they take it out on their children. He may not be specifically mad at you, but youre the only one there.

You just gotta show him you're not a doormat he can step all over when shit gets rough

>>17261095
And how do I not be a doormat. Honestly, my dad is a very pessimistic person. When he is happy, he is very loving person. We get along great.

When he is angry, all I can practically do is do what he says and duck for cover until it's over. When he is angry, reason does not exist.

Your dad is a massive cock and you should move out and live alone. Let him deal with his own shit for a while.